{"id":8236,"date":"2016-04-19T22:44:09","date_gmt":"2016-04-19T15:44:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/xuanbichvietnam.net\/trangchu\/?p=8236"},"modified":"2016-04-19T22:44:09","modified_gmt":"2016-04-19T15:44:09","slug":"bay-loi-khuyen-cua-duc-phanxico-cho-mot-nen-giao-duc-tinh-duc-tot","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/xuanbichvietnam.net\/trangchu\/bay-loi-khuyen-cua-duc-phanxico-cho-mot-nen-giao-duc-tinh-duc-tot\/","title":{"rendered":"B\u1ea2Y L\u1edcI KHUY\u00caN C\u1ee6A \u0110\u1ee8C PHANXIC\u00d4 CHO M\u1ed8T N\u1ec0N GI\u00c1O D\u1ee4C T\u00cdNH D\u1ee4C \u00ab T\u1ed0T \u00bb"},"content":{"rendered":"

Trong T\u00f4ng hu\u1ea5n Amoris Laetitia, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng ki\u00eang k\u1ef5 \u0110\u1ee9c Th\u00e1nh Cha n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 \u00ab\u00a0s\u1ef1 e th\u1eb9n\u00a0\u00bb v\u00e0 \u00ab\u00a0t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c an to\u00e0n\u00a0\u00bb.<\/em><\/p>\n

Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c. M\u1ed9t ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 ki\u00eang k\u1ef5\u00a0? Tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i th\u00ec c\u00f3\u00a0! \u0110\u1ee9c Phanxic\u00f4, trong T\u00f4ng hu\u1ea5n m\u1edbi v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn n\u00f3\u00a0 c\u00e1ch th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn v\u00e0 mang l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean cho<\/em> m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c \u00ab\u00a0t\u1ed1t\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 trao ban h\u1ed7 t\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/em><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ee9c Th\u00e1nh Cha \u00fd th\u1ee9c r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 m\u00e0 \u00ab\u00a0t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ecb t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u00f3a v\u00e0 ngh\u00e8o n\u00e0n \u0111i\u00a0\u00bb, n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. Ng\u00e0i n\u00f3i\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0N\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u trong khu\u00f4n kh\u1ed5 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 trao ban h\u1ed7 t\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb ngh\u00e8o n\u00e0n \u0111i, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c soi s\u00e1ng\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin th\u00edch h\u1ee3p<\/em><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ee9c Phanxic\u00f4 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u1eefng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n r\u1ea1ch r\u00f2i\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0Th\u00f4ng tin ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ebfn v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u00edch h\u1ee3p v\u00e0 theo c\u00e1ch th\u00edch \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi giai \u0111o\u1ea1n\u00a0\u00bb m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb em \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u00e0i, ch\u1eb3ng \u00edch g\u00ec \u00ab\u00a0l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ea7y \u1ee9 nh\u1eefng d\u1eef ki\u1ec7n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ed9t \u00fd th\u1ee9c ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ef1 x\u00e2m nh\u1eadp nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi m\u1eddi m\u1ecdc, tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ef1 khi\u00eau d\u00e2m kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ef1 qu\u00e1 t\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng k\u00edch th\u00edch v\u1ed1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ee7y ho\u1ea1i t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n

\u00dd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 e th\u1eb9n (pudeur)<\/em><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi \u0110\u1ee9c Th\u00e1nh Cha, c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t n\u1ec1n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c \u00ab\u00a0g\u00ecn gi\u1eef m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 e th\u1eb9n l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh\u00a0\u00bb. Cho d\u1ea7u ng\u00e0y nay m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i kh\u00e1c, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 e th\u1eb9n c\u00f3 \u00ab\u00a0m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb to l\u1edbn\u00a0\u00bb v\u00ec \u00ab\u00a0\u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ph\u00f2ng v\u1ec7 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u1ed1n b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 t\u00ednh n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 tr\u00e1nh vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt thu\u1ea7n t\u00fay. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 e th\u1eb9n, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 nguy c\u01a1 gi\u1ea3m thi\u1ec3u t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng \u00e1m \u1ea3nh m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 t\u1eadp trung ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0o kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng sinh d\u1ee5c m\u00e0 th\u00f4i\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n

\u00c1m \u1ea3nh v\u1ec1 \u00ab\u00a0t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c an to\u00e0n\u00a0\u00bb (<\/em>sexe s\u00fbr<\/em>)<\/em><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ee9c Th\u00e1nh Cha kh\u00f4ng n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0o, ngay c\u1ea3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u00ab\u00a0t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c an to\u00e0n\u00a0\u00bb m\u00e0 th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1eafng th\u1ebf so v\u1edbi ph\u1ea7n c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i. \u0110\u1ee9c Th\u00e1nh Cha l\u1ea5y l\u00e0m ti\u1ebfc vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c \u00ab\u00a0th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c k\u00eau g\u1ecdi \u2018b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 m\u00ecnh\u2019\u00a0\u00bb. Theo ng\u00e0i, nh\u1eefng l\u1ed1i di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 n\u00e0y th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u00ab\u00a0m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u1ee9u c\u00e1nh sinh s\u1ea3n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c, nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a con l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb th\u00f9 m\u00e0 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 m\u00ecnh kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u00f3, m\u00e0 theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y \u0111ang khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch \u00ab\u00a0s\u1ef1 hung h\u0103ng y\u00eau m\u00ecnh thay v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3n ti\u1ebfp\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n

Ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh<\/em><\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 quan tr\u1ecdng trong m\u1ed9t n\u1ec1n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c \u00ab\u00a0t\u1ed1t\u00a0\u00bb\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0V\u01b0\u1ee3t l\u00ean nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft\u00a0\u00bb, c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb \u00ab\u00a0ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh\u00a0\u00bb, v\u00ec \u00ab\u00a0m\u1ed9t l\u00f4-g\u00edc th\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecb th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t l\u00f4-g\u00edc, \u0111\u00f4i khi tinh t\u1ebf, th\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecb thi\u00ean nhi\u00ean [\u2026]\u00a0\u00bb. C\u0169ng quan tr\u1ecdng vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m t\u0103ng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u00ab\u00a0trong n\u1eef t\u00ednh hay trong nam t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh\u00a0\u00bb \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00ab\u00a0nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn m\u00ecnh trong cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh<\/em><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t n\u1ec1n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c \u00ab\u00a0t\u1ed1t\u00a0\u00bb do \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i gi\u00fap c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd c\u00f3 tham v\u1ecdng \u00ab\u00a0x\u00f3a \u0111i s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh\u00a0\u00bb b\u1eddi v\u00ec h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n \u1edf \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

V\u01b0\u1ee3t l\u00ean m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u00ab\u00a0t\u00ednh c\u1ee9ng nh\u1eafc\u00a0\u00bb<\/em><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ee9c Th\u00e1nh Cha c\u0169ng khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch m\u1ec1m d\u1ebbo h\u01a1n. Ng\u00e0i gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch r\u1eb1ng \u00ab\u00a0nam v\u00e0 n\u1eef kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee9ng nh\u1eafc\u00a0\u00bb. C\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng \u00ab\u00a0ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00edch \u1ee9ng c\u00e1ch m\u1ec1m d\u1ebbo v\u1edbi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n trong lao \u0111\u1ed9ng, trong m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u1ed9i tr\u1ee3 hay khi ch\u0103m s\u00f3c con c\u00e1i\u00a0\u00bb, v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u00ab\u00a0kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng \u00edt \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng h\u01a1n, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ea7u h\u00e0ng hay m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 s\u1ec9 nh\u1ee5c\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ee9c Phanxic\u00f4 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0C\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 con c\u00e1i xem nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c trao \u0111\u1ed5i l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh n\u00e0y v\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea5t \u0111i kh\u1ecfi h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 n\u00e0o. [\u2026] S\u1ef1 c\u1ee9ng nh\u1eafc tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ph\u00f3ng \u0111\u1ea1i nam t\u00ednh hay n\u1eef t\u00ednh, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i v\u00e0 gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 t\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 trinh khi\u1ebft, m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00e1c<\/em><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ee9c Th\u00e1nh Cha c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 trinh khi\u1ebft m\u00e0 ng\u00e0i \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 \u00ab\u00a0m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00e1c\u00a0\u00bb v\u1ed1n nh\u1eafc nh\u1edb \u00ab\u00a0t\u00ednh c\u1ea5p b\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a N\u01b0\u1edbc Tr\u1eddi, t\u00ednh c\u1ea5p b\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 c\u00f4ng cu\u1ed9c Ph\u00fac \u00c2m h\u00f3a\u00a0\u00bb, m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 vi\u00ean m\u00e3n c\u1ee7a N\u01b0\u1edbc Tr\u01a1i n\u01a1i m\u00e0 \u00ab\u00a0kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n chuy\u1ec7n d\u1ef1ng v\u1ee3 g\u1ea3 ch\u1ed3ng n\u1eefa\u00a0\u00bb (Mt 22,30). \u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng trinh khi\u1ebft hay h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0, v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0, nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00e1c nhau, b\u1edfi v\u00ec \u00ab\u00a0con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n

T\u00fd Linh chuy\u1ec3n ng\u1eef<\/p>\n

theo Gelsomino Del Guercio, aleteia.org<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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