{"id":19495,"date":"2022-05-05T22:19:31","date_gmt":"2022-05-05T15:19:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/xuanbichvietnam.net\/trangchu\/?p=19495"},"modified":"2022-05-05T22:20:36","modified_gmt":"2022-05-05T15:20:36","slug":"dai-chung-vien-hue-nu-tu-anna-nguyen-bao-uyen-chia-se-de-tai-tuong-tac-tam-ly-trong-tham-van-muc-vu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/xuanbichvietnam.net\/trangchu\/dai-chung-vien-hue-nu-tu-anna-nguyen-bao-uyen-chia-se-de-tai-tuong-tac-tam-ly-trong-tham-van-muc-vu\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0110\u1ea0I CH\u1ee6NG VI\u1ec6N HU\u1ebe: N\u1eee TU ANNA NGUY\u1ec4N B\u1ea2O UY\u00caN CHIA S\u1eba \u0110\u1ec0 T\u00c0I \u201cT\u01af\u01a0NG T\u00c1C T\u00c2M L\u00dd TRONG THAM V\u1ea4N M\u1ee4C V\u1ee4\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t l\u1eabn tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00e0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00e2ng cao. B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, v\u1edbi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u00e0ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u00f3, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00e0ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ed1n khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m, r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n h\u00e0nh vi, r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac…Do \u0111\u00f3, tham v\u1ea5n t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t \u1ed5n v\u1ec1 s\u1ee9c kho\u1ebb tinh th\u1ea7n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nhu c\u1ea7u trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

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V\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c \u00fd th\u1ee9c t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a tham v\u1ea5n t\u00e2m l\u00fd trong vi\u1ec5n \u1ea3nh m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c mai ng\u00e0y, \u0110\u1ea1i Ch\u1ee7ng Vi\u1ec7n Hu\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 gi\u1edd ngo\u1ea1i kho\u00e1 v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd do n\u1eef tu Anna Nguy\u1ec5n B\u1ea3o Uy\u00ean – thu\u1ed9c h\u1ed9i d\u00f2ng M\u1ebfn Th\u00e1nh Gi\u00e1 Hu\u1ebf – tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y. Ch\u1ecb \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 ng\u00e0nh tham v\u1ea5n t\u00e2m l\u00fd t\u1ea1i \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc De La Salle, Manila, Philippine, v\u00ec th\u1ebf ch\u1ecb \u0111\u1ebfn  chia s\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i \u201cT\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e1c T\u00e2m L\u00fd Trong Tham V\u1ea5n M\u1ee5c V\u1ee5<\/em>\u201d cho to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 anh em ch\u1ee7ng sinh.<\/p>\n

V\u1edbi th\u1eddi l\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 d\u00e0i c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebft h\u1ecdc, trong khi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y l\u1ea1i kh\u00e1 r\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 bao tr\u00f9m nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh t\u00e2m l\u00fd, v\u00ec th\u1ebf, ch\u1ecb Anna ch\u1ec9 chia s\u1ebb cho c\u00e1c th\u1ea7y nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00e1i qu\u00e1t v\u00e0 c\u1ed1t y\u1ebfu nh\u1ea5t trong khi t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5. \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y, t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n hi\u1ec3u nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i, m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 chia s\u1ebb gi\u1eefa hai con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, Soeur Anna gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef \u201ct\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c t\u00e2m l\u00fd\u201d \u2013 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c (ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac, t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan) t\u00e2m l\u00fd (c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, h\u00e0nh vi, nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c) v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c trong hi\u1ec7n tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

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Th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ebfn, Ch\u1ecb c\u0169ng gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u \u201cng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c t\u00e2m l\u00fd\u201d. Ch\u1ecb xem m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i mang t\u00ednh h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t tinh th\u1ea7n, hay m\u1ed9t t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c t\u00e2m l\u00fd nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0. Ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 n\u00e0y c\u00f3 n\u1ec1n m\u00f3ng l\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap; c\u00f3 t\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap; c\u00f3 m\u00e1i l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn. Soeur cho r\u1eb1ng n\u1ec1n m\u00f3ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3. Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap t\u1ea1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan tin t\u01b0\u1edfng, an to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap th\u00ec ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c t\u00e2m l\u00fd m\u1edbi kh\u1ea3 d\u0129 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n

Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, Soeur Anna n\u00eau ba k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng ch\u00ednh c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n: l\u1eafng nghe (listening), th\u1ea5u c\u1ea3m (empathy) v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i (feedback). L\u1eafng nghe l\u00e0 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c gi\u00e1c quan, l\u00fd tr\u00ed v\u00e0 con tim. Th\u1ea5u c\u1ea3m l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 v\u1eeba n\u00f3i b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao h\u00e0m s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t, \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1\u2026Nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng n\u00e0y gi\u00fap thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u (The establishment of the therapeutic relationship) v\u00e0 gi\u00fap cho m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 n\u00e0y di\u1ec5n ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch xu\u00f4i ch\u1ea3y, h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 g\u00e3y v\u1ee1.<\/p>\n

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Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, trong th\u1eddi l\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebft h\u1ecdc, ch\u1ecb Anna B\u1ea3o Uy\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o gi\u00fap cho c\u00e1c th\u1ea7y hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng n\u00e9t c\u0103n b\u1ea3n nh\u1ea5t trong m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i mang t\u00ednh h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00e2m l\u00fd trong vi\u1ec5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5. \u01af\u1edbc mong nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u1ecb chia s\u1ebb tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh trang h\u1eefu \u00edch cho c\u00e1c th\u1ea7y trong vai tr\u00f2 linh m\u1ee5c m\u00e0 c\u00e1c th\u1ea7y \u0111ang h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn.<\/p>\n

Sau bu\u1ed5i chia s\u1ebb, cha gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c Giuse g\u1eedi l\u1eddi tri \u00e2n \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ecb Anna v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c b\u1ed5 \u00edch v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf m\u00e0 ch\u1ecb v\u1eeba tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi thay m\u1eb7t c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n \u0110\u1ea1i Ch\u1ee7ng Vi\u1ec7n, cha Giuse c\u0169ng m\u1eddi ch\u1ecb \u1edf l\u1ea1i d\u00f9ng c\u01a1m t\u1ed1i trong t\u00ecnh gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

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