\u00a0Trong 2 tu\u1ea7n qua, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 v\u00e0 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi 8 linh m\u1ee5c, m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 t\u1edbi 6 linh m\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ea1i kh\u00e1i cho bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng: “T\u00f4i ch\u00e1n \u0111\u1eddi linh m\u1ee5c l\u1eafm r\u1ed3i!” ho\u1eb7c “t\u00f4i m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi qu\u00e1!” M\u1ed9t trong 6 v\u1ecb n\u00e0y, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1 th\u00e2n v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, hi\u1ec7n \u0111ang gi\u00fap m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9 kh\u00e1 l\u1edbn t\u1ea1i Munich, n\u01b0\u1edbc \u0110\u1ee9c, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 v\u1edbi t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng, “b\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u1edb mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecf ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a t\u1edb \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f4 danh cho nh\u1eb9 l\u00f2ng. T\u1edb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1ee9c \u0111i ti\u1ebfp n\u1eefa!” T\u1eeb khi g\u1eb7p b\u1ea1n t\u00f4i cho \u0111\u1ebfn nay, t\u00f4i c\u1ee9 \u0111\u1eafm ch\u00ecm trong suy ngh\u0129 mi\u00ean man, v\u00e0 l\u00e0 d\u1ecbp cho t\u00f4i g\u1eabm l\u1ea1i \u01a1n g\u1ecdi linh m\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00e1ch s\u00e2u sa h\u01a1n. Th\u01b0\u01a1ng cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n linh m\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 linh m\u1ee5c tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gian n\u00e0y bi\u1ebft bao!<\/p>\n
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\u0110\u00fang v\u1eady. Linh m\u1ee5c ng\u00e0y nay kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0 x\u01b0a n\u1eefa. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 l\u1ebd ai c\u0169ng nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y, t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng v\u1ee5 tai ti\u1ebfng (scandal) v\u1ec1 l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c tr\u1ebb em trong th\u1eadp ni\u00ean g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi linh m\u1ee5c ch\u00fang t\u00f4i. M\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u00e0 cay nghi\u1ec7t t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u00e0i C\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o. Gi\u1eadn d\u1eef kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u1edf n\u01a1i gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f2n \u1edf nhi\u1ec1u nh\u00f3m ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eefa. N\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u1edbi linh m\u1ee5c, linh m\u1ee5c gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u1edbi gi\u00e1m m\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i gi\u00e1m m\u1ee5c, linh m\u1ee5c gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u1edbi gi\u1edbi truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1i ch\u00fang, gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n h\u00f9ng h\u1ed5 ch\u00ec chi\u1ebft gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9 v\u00e0 cha x\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, c\u00e1c t\u00edn \u0111\u1ed3 thu\u1ed9c c\u00e1c t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o kh\u00e1c b\u00e2y gi\u1edd khinh mi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh C\u00f4ng Gi\u00e1o\u2026 Linh m\u1ee5c c\u00f3 c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi mang Tin M\u1eebng cho th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u1eefa kh\u00f4ng? c\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi mang Ch\u00faa \u0111\u1ebfn cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eefa kh\u00f4ng? T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft, c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0 “kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u1eefa,” c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng “ch\u1ec9 mang s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh,” c\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00ec\u00a0 thinh l\u1eb7ng, v\u00e0 r\u1eddi b\u1ecf H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh!<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 n\u1ed7i \u0111au c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i, c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, c\u1ee7a H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh C\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o ho\u00e0n v\u0169. T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n b\u00e0y t\u1ecf l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i l\u00e0 g\u00ec, l\u00e0 ai \u00a0m\u00e0 d\u00e1m “xin l\u1ed7i”? \u0110\u1ee9c gi\u00e1o ho\u00e0ng n\u00f3i l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i kia m\u00e0 c\u00f2n b\u1ecb t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng n\u1eefa l\u00e0\u2026! D\u0129 nhi\u00ean ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 x\u00f3a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u1eb1n s\u00e2u trong l\u00f2ng t\u00edn h\u1eefu, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 c\u00e1c n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n b\u1ecb l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng.<\/p>\n
Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u0169ng c\u00f3 v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ecf<\/em> so v\u1edbi v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 l\u00fd v\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd n\u01a1i c\u00e1c n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n. V\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 nh\u1ee9c nh\u1ed1i s\u00e2u th\u1eb3m, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f2n tr\u00ean b\u00ecnh di\u1ec7n r\u1ed9ng n\u1eefa, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111ang \u00e2m \u1ec9 n\u01a1i nh\u1eefng H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c qu\u1ed1c gia ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u01b0 Ch\u00e2u \u00c2u, Ch\u00e2u M\u1ef9, Ch\u00e2u \u0110\u1ea1i D\u01b0\u01a1ng. V\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t, l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ee9c tin n\u01a1i c\u00e1c t\u00edn h\u1eefu, nh\u01b0ng m\u00e0 l\u00e0 kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng s\u1ef1 t\u00edn nhi\u1ec7m \u0111ang lan tr\u00e0n v\u00e0o h\u00e0ng gi\u00e1o ph\u1ea9m.<\/p>\n Gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f9ng nhau \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c tr\u1ebb em. N\u00f3i theo t\u1eeb chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh \u1ea5u d\u00e2m (paedophilia). Th\u1ef1c v\u1eady, khi nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u1ec1 b\u1ec7nh l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c (sexual abuse) n\u00f3i chung n\u01a1i c\u00e1c n\u01b0\u1edbc T\u00e2y ph\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 Ch\u00e2u M\u1ef9, m\u00e0 b\u1ec7nh \u1ea5u d\u00e2m ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh \u1ea5y, th\u00ec t\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 l\u00e0 1\/5 (c\u1ee9 5 gia \u0111\u00ecnh th\u00ec c\u00f3 1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i vi\u1ec7c l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c). V\u00e0 c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 n\u01a1i m\u1ecdi qu\u1ed1c gia theo b\u00ecnh di\u1ec7n r\u1ed9ng, t\u1eeb khi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n tr\u00ean m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ea5t n\u00e0y. L\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 qu\u1ea5y nhi\u1ec5u (molestation) hay \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c kh\u01a1i d\u1eady ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c n\u01a1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c (kh\u00f4ng k\u1ec3 nam hay n\u1eef \u0111\u00e3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, hay tr\u1ebb em). S\u1ef1 qu\u1ea5y nhi\u1ec5u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 bao l\u00e2u ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ea5t, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i ch\u00fang ta, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ed5 tung n\u01a1i gi\u1edbi gi\u00e1m m\u1ee5c v\u00e0 linh m\u1ee5c. Theo nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 0.01 % \u1ea5u d\u00e2m n\u01a1i c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c v\u00e0 tu s\u0129 trong t\u1ed5ng s\u1ed1 n\u1ea1n \u1ea5u d\u00e2m. Nh\u01b0 gi\u1ecdt n\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00e0m tr\u00e0n mi\u1ec7ng ly, b\u00e2y gi\u1edd gi\u1edbi linh m\u1ee5c l\u00e0 t\u1ea5m bia cho m\u1ecdi gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u00e0 d\u1ed3n n\u00e9n t\u1eeb bao \u0111\u1eddi \u0111ang nh\u1eafm v\u00e0o. Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111ang nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t gi\u1ecdt n\u01b0\u1edbc \u1ea5y trong to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 s\u1ed1 n\u01b0\u1edbc trong c\u00e1i ly \u1ea5y! Th\u1eadt th\u1ebf, n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f4ng minh, b\u1ec7nh \u1ea5u d\u00e2m kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a gi\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a gi\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i, c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam, hay c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh. C\u0103n b\u1ec7nh n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 (it is as it is), n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1eb7c th\u00f9, nh\u01b0ng khi c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng hay do b\u1ea5t tr\u1eafc t\u00e2m l\u00fd th\u1eddi \u1ea5u th\u01a1, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 ra b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i trong suy ngh\u0129 hay qua h\u00e0nh vi. C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghi\u1ec7n thu\u1ed1c l\u00e1, nghi\u1ec7n r\u01b0\u1ee3u, n\u00f3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t m\u1ecdi bi\u00ean gi\u1edbi, kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh, \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n hay c\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh nam hay \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh n\u1eef, gi\u00e0u hay ngh\u00e8o, tr\u00ed th\u1ee9c hay kh\u00f4ng tr\u00ed th\u1ee9c\u2026 Gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 Dan B. Allender v\u00e0 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u t\u00e2m l\u00fd Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o, l\u00e0 chuy\u00ean gia v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, cho bi\u1ebft: “Ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c tr\u1ebb em ch\u1ec9 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t b\u1ee9c tranh m\u1edd \u1ea3o m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y b\u1ee9c tranh \u0111\u00f3 trong v\u00f2ng 30 n\u0103m, cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ng\u1ed3i \u0103n u\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y c\u1ea3 m\u1ea5y ch\u1ee5c n\u0103m qua, hay m\u1edbi h\u00f4m qua, hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 \u00fd ngh\u0129a trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, hay ngay c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn trong m\u1ed7i \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.” Nh\u00e0 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u n\u00e0y cho bi\u1ebft, trong nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t ng\u00e0y nay v\u1ec1 \u1ea5u d\u00e2m, nh\u1eefng n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7, hay ph\u1edbt l\u1edd k\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e2y ra cho m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u00e2y ra \u1ea5y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, hay nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n c\u1eadn. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u1edbi n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang d\u01b0\u1ee1ng nu\u00f4i hay trao ban h\u1ecd s\u1ef1 an to\u00e0n (cha m\u1eb9, anh ch\u1ecb em ru\u1ed9t\u2026) m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 an to\u00e0n \u1ea5y. Cu\u1ed9c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u00f2n cho bi\u1ebft, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n n\u00f3i ra ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi k\u1ebb l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng (v\u00ec th\u1ebf n\u1ebfu k\u1ebb l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u00e3 n\u1eafm r\u00f5 c\u1ed1t t\u1ee7y trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n th\u00ec n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 ti\u1ebft l\u1ed9). Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng nghe bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n, ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi “d\u01b0ng n\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00e3” m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. Nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n b\u1ecb l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fa, ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1eadu m\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: “\u1ed2, \u00edt ra ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 anh t\u00f4i, hay t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 b\u1ed1 t\u00f4i.” (The Wounded Heart: Hope for Adult Victims of Childhood Sexual Abuse<\/em><\/a>, by Dr. Dan B. Allender, NavPress, 1990. Trang 52).<\/p>\n V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u1ea5u d\u00e2m, ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 tr\u1ee5c tr\u1eb7c c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m l\u00fd m\u00e0 ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc (psychanalyse) g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c (Sigmund Freud g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 Libido, l\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y d\u1ee5c t\u00ednh b\u00ean trong, \u00e9nergie de la pulsion sexuelle). N\u0103ng l\u1ef1c n\u00e0y c\u00f3 \u1edf trong m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y con ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 n\u00f3 b\u1ecb l\u00e0m cho m\u1ea5t c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng hay b\u1ecb g\u00e2y c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh xung \u0111\u1ed9ng r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n trong \u0111\u00e1y n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m, nh\u01b0 kh\u1ed1i l\u1eeda \u00e2m \u1ef7 trong l\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ea5t ch\u1edd th\u1eddi c\u01a1 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1 tung t\u1ea7ng \u0111\u1ecba ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 phun ra. Xung \u0111\u1ed9ng r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n n\u00e0y khi ch\u01b0a b\u1ed9c ph\u00e1t ra s\u1ebd \u1edf d\u1ea1ng d\u1ed3n b\u00ed (g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 refoulement), nh\u01b0 qu\u1ea3 b\u00f3ng h\u01a1i n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng l\u1ed1i tho\u00e1t, ch\u00fang ta \u1ea5n d\u1eb9p ph\u00eda n\u00e0y n\u00f3 s\u1ebd t\u00ecm ch\u1ed7 y\u1ebfu m\u1ec1m kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00ecnh ra.<\/p>\n Tuy v\u1eady, n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c libido n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ng\u1ed3i y\u00ean, n\u00f3 lu\u00f4n t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m cho n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u1ed1i tho\u00e1t. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn v\u0103n h\u00f3a, quy lu\u1eadt x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, nh\u01b0 c\u00e2y c\u1ecf ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch l\u1edbn l\u00ean h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u00e1t ra theo hai d\u1ea1ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0, tho\u00e1t ra theo d\u1ea1ng th\u0103ng hoa (lu\u00e2n l\u00fd, \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, v\u0103n h\u00f3a, quy lu\u1eadt x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn) v\u00e0 tho\u00e1t ra theo d\u1ea1ng m\u00e9o m\u00f3 (ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi lu\u00e2n l\u00fd, \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, quy lu\u1eadt\u2026). Vi\u1ec7c cho n\u00f3 tho\u00e1t ra \u0111\u00f3, ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o \u00fd ch\u00ed con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, mu\u1ed1n cho n\u00f3 tho\u00e1t ra theo d\u1ea1ng n\u00e0o. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft th\u0103ng hoa libido c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, n\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n cho th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1i t\u00e0i nh\u01b0 Albert Einstein, Newton, Marie Curie\u2026 hay g\u1ea7n nh\u1ea5t, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0\u00a0 thi\u00ean t\u00e0i t\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ebb nh\u1ea5t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi Andrew Almazan Anaya, thi\u00ean t\u00e0i h\u1ea1t nh\u00e2n M\u1ef9 Taylor Wilson, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng x\u1ea3 th\u00e2n cho gi\u1edbi ngh\u00e8o kh\u1ed5, b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt, cho Tin M\u1eebng,\u2026 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y d\u1ea1ng tho\u00e1t ra theo ki\u1ec3u m\u00e9o m\u00f3 (theo c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi) nh\u01b0 hi\u1ebfp d\u00e2m, \u1ea5u d\u00e2m, gi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi, n\u1ed5i lo\u1ea1n, \u0111i\u00ean lo\u1ea1n\u2026 Theo ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc, nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong b\u1ec7nh vi\u1ec7n t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00f9ng Libido theo d\u1ea1ng m\u00e9o m\u00f3.<\/p>\n M\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn nghi\u1ec7n r\u01b0\u1ee3u l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh v\u00e0 t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng h\u1ed9i nh\u00f3m c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghi\u1ec7n r\u01b0\u1ee3u \u0111\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn cai r\u01b0\u1ee3u. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u0169ng kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghi\u1ec7n r\u01b0\u1ee3u c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m b\u1ec7nh ho\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. \u00dd ch\u00ed c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 cai r\u01b0\u1ee3u, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t khi h\u1ecd b\u1ecb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh khinh mi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch (nh\u01b0 \u00e9p qu\u1ea3 b\u00f3ng h\u01a1i trong h\u1ecd). Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p t\u1ef1 t\u1eed ng\u00e0y nay, m\u1ed7i l\u00fac m\u1ed9t ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft l\u00e0 do libido b\u1ecb d\u1ed3n b\u00ed. H\u1ecd ch\u1eb3ng th\u0103ng hoa \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c (th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u0103ng hoa) c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ch\u1eb3ng tho\u00e1t ra ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c (d\u1ed3n \u00e9p v\u00e0 b\u1ebf t\u1eafc, v\u00ec v\u0103n h\u00f3a, lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7, lu\u00e2n l\u00fd, \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u0103n c\u1ea5m). T\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t anh ch\u00e0ng 55 tu\u1ed5i, \u0111\u00e3 nghi\u1ec7n r\u01b0\u1ee3u t\u1eeb l\u00fac 17 tu\u1ed5i. Anh ta ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u00fd th\u1ee9c l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u n\u1eefa. Nh\u01b0ng anh ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf r\u01b0\u1ee3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 3 ng\u00e0y, v\u00e0 c\u1ee9 th\u1ebf l\u1ea1i u\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n, anh ta n\u00f4n ra m\u00e1u v\u00ec xu\u1ea5t huy\u1ebft bao t\u1eed. Nh\u01b0ng sau khi \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb kh\u1ecfi, anh ta l\u1ea1i l\u00e9n l\u00fat t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi r\u01b0\u1ee3u.<\/p>\n C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 k\u1ebb nghi\u1ec7n r\u01b0\u1ee3u, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 linh m\u1ee5c \u1ea5u d\u00e2m ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ea5t ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: “V\u00e2ng, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng t\u00e1i ph\u1ea1m n\u1eefa.” Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh \u1ea5u d\u00e2m kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft \u1ea5t gi\u00e1p g\u00ec t\u1ea5t, n\u00f3 v\u1eabn th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y n\u01a1i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n n\u00f3. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecfi anh ch\u00e0ng nghi\u1ec7n r\u01b0\u1ee3u tr\u00ean, “t\u1ea1i sao anh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf r\u01b0\u1ee3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u01a1 ch\u1ee9?” “Anh bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u0111ang l\u00e0m h\u1ea1i anh kh\u00f4ng?” V\u00e2ng! Anh ta bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 t\u00f4i. R\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ebfn khi anh ta g\u1ee5c ng\u00e3 v\u00e0 ch\u1ebft tr\u00ean l\u1ec1 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, tay l\u00e0m r\u1edbt chai r\u01b0\u1ee3u \u0111\u1ebf r\u1ebb ti\u1ec1n, kh\u00f4ng ai \u0111o\u00e1i ho\u00e0i \u0111\u1ebfn anh, v\u00ec h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft qu\u00e1 r\u00f5 anh ta l\u00e0 anh ch\u00e0ng nghi\u1ec7n r\u01b0\u1ee3u. H\u1ecd ng\u1ea1i anh. H\u1ecd tr\u00e1nh anh. H\u1ecd khinh mi\u1ec7t anh. Anh \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng l\u1ea7m l\u0169i… v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, \u0111\u00e3 g\u1ee5c ng\u00e3. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi anh \u1ea5y ch\u1ebft v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 l\u00fd, th\u00ec anh \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n r\u1ed3i.<\/p>\n T\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3… r\u1ea5t h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn!<\/p>\n V\u00e2ng! trong m\u1ed7i c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft c\u1ee7a anh ch\u1ecb em, cho d\u00f9 h\u1ecd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi “d\u01b0ng n\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00e3,” ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n l\u1ed7i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, v\u00ec t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ec3 th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t trong H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh. Ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 chi th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a nhau m\u00e0 Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7u. V\u1eady, n\u1ebfu l\u00e0 H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh duy nh\u1ea5t, th\u00ec sao anh ch\u1ecb em n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3… l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u01b0ng n\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c?<\/p>\n Tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh \u1ea5u d\u00e2m, ai c\u0169ng nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh g\u00e2y h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn cho tr\u1ebb th\u01a1, v\u00ec c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh n\u00e0y k\u00e9o theo m\u1ecdi phi\u1ec1n l\u1ee5y sau n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u1ea5y. Ch\u00e2m ng\u00f4n x\u01b0a n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng, m\u1ecdi k\u1ebb l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n tr\u01b0\u1edbc kia \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng b\u1ecb l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng. Cu\u1ed9c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y cho bi\u1ebft, s\u1ef1 l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng tr\u1ebb em l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i mu\u1ed1n th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c n\u01a1i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n, nh\u01b0ng m\u00e0 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 xoay s\u1edf v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft ch\u1ea5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1eddi \u1ea5u th\u01a1 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng b\u1ecb l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng. C\u0103n b\u1ec7nh \u1ea5u d\u00e2m t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea5y \u0111i tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1 trong h\u1ecd. Cu\u1ed9c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc ng\u00e0y nay cho th\u1ea5y, 80% nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1ef1 t\u1eed n\u01a1i thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean \u1edf c\u00e1c n\u01b0\u1edbc Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2y l\u00e0 do b\u1ecb l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c khi h\u1ecd c\u00f2n l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb th\u01a1. Ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean h\u01a1n, nh\u1eefng v\u1ee5 t\u1eed t\u1eed n\u01a1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u0111ang di\u1ec5n ra t\u1eeb x\u01b0a t\u1edbi gi\u1edd c\u0169ng li\u00ean h\u1ec7 m\u1eadt thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 \u1ea5u d\u00e2m m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng l\u00e0 n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n. Vi\u1ec7c l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c (trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 n\u1ea1n \u1ea5u d\u00e2m) g\u00e2y ra m\u1ed9t v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng r\u1ea5t s\u00e2u v\u00e0 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i n\u01a1i n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n. V\u00e0 c\u1ee9 th\u1ebf, n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n n\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfp n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n. T\u1eeb khi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n tr\u00ean m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ea5t n\u00e0y cho \u0111\u1ebfn nay, n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c (libido) \u0111\u00e3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n, t\u1eeb khi tr\u1ee9ng v\u00e0 tinh tr\u00f9ng “g\u1eb7p nhau,” v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi libido c\u0169ng c\u00f3 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a em b\u00e9 l\u1edbn d\u1ea7n l\u00ean trong d\u1ea1 m\u1eb9 – con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00e9 b\u1ecfng \u1ea5y c\u0169ng t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 mang theo t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ea7u nhi\u1ec7m trong c\u00e1i to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 \u1ea5y.<\/p>\n \u0110\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2y, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f9ng suy ngh\u0129 th\u00eam, v\u1eady li\u1ec7u ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t chuy\u1ec7n \u1ea5u d\u00e2m? hay, li\u1ec7u ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c theo ngh\u0129a r\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 hi\u1ebfp d\u00e2m, b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1o d\u00e2m, kh\u1ed5 d\u00e2m, \u1ea5u d\u00e2m, \u00e1i l\u00e3o (h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0), \u00e1i v\u1eadt (h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt), \u00e1i t\u1eed thi (h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn x\u00e1c ch\u1ebft)\u2026? Theo t\u00f4i, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n. V\u00e2ng, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ch\u00fat n\u00e0o!<\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n Trong suy t\u01b0 v\u1ec1 thi\u00ean ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c ng\u00e0y nay, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u00e2m linh Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng bi\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec3n nhanh ch\u00f3ng v\u1ec1 nhi\u1ec1u m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f9ng nhau h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn Th\u00e1nh T\u00e2m Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu, ngu\u1ed3n m\u1ea1ch t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec tr\u00ean cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed5i ho\u1eb7c ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh m\u00e0 th\u1eddi nay ch\u1ec9 b\u00f3 tay. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft s\u1eb9o m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o t\u1ea9y x\u00f3a. C\u0169ng v\u1eady, tai ti\u1ebfng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u1ea5u d\u00e2m l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng, v\u1ebft s\u1eb9o cho nh\u1eefng n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0nh ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n. V\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u01b0u l\u1ea1i n\u01a1i h\u00e0ng gi\u00e1o ph\u1ea9m nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng nghe ho\u1eb7c bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng l\u01b0u l\u1ea1i n\u01a1i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n (ngo\u00e0i gi\u1edbi linh m\u1ee5c) m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c (v\u00ec ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9), kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u00c2u Ch\u00e2u, M\u1ef9 Ch\u00e2u, nh\u01b0ng kh\u1eafp n\u01a1i tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, t\u1eeb trong nh\u1eefng ng\u00f5 h\u1ebbm hoang v\u1eafng cho \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh th\u1ecb nh\u1ed9n nh\u1ecbp to l\u1edbn. V\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e0y, hay kh\u00e1 h\u01a1n n\u1eefa l\u00e0 v\u1ebft s\u1eb9o n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t m\u00e0u da, qu\u1ed1c t\u1ecbch, giai c\u1ea5p, ph\u00e1i t\u00ednh, t\u00ednh t\u00ecnh, h\u1ecdc v\u1ea5n\u2026 N\u00f3 c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i, m\u1ecdi th\u1eddi! \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 “nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u ch\u1ec9 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i” m\u00e0 Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu lu\u00f4n m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi con c\u00e1i Ng\u00e0i ng\u00e0y nay \u0111\u1ecdc ra. Ng\u00e0i mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i g\u00ec v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta qua nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u ch\u1ec9 \u1ea5y? Qua d\u1ea5u ch\u1ec9, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec? hay ch\u1ec9 cho r\u1eb1ng linh m\u1ee5c ng\u00e0y nay, th\u1eadt l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 h\u1ed5 nh\u1ee5c, \u0111\u00e1ng ph\u1ec9 b\u00e1ng?<\/p>\n Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta. Tr\u1ecdn c\u1ea3 s\u00e1ch Tin M\u1eebng, Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu ra \u0111i \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ui m\u00f9, qu\u00e8 qu\u1eb7t, c\u00e2m \u0111i\u1ebfc, c\u00f9i h\u1ee7i, \u0111i\u00ean d\u1ea1i, m\u1ea5t tr\u00ed, m\u1ea5t ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1, b\u1ecb t\u1ea9y chay\u2026 Ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh khi ch\u00fang ta CAN \u0110\u1ea2M h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu<\/strong>, h\u01a1n l\u00e0 quay tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 l\u1ea1i trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu, c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi ph\u1ea3n chi\u1ebfu<\/strong> l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu. Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 nghe \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i tr\u1edf n\u00ean quen thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0 nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n. V\u00e2ng! t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd x\u01b0a c\u0169, l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng m\u1edbi m\u1ebb. C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi t\u1ed9i nh\u00e2n tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i c\u00f9ng Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi con nh\u01b0 m\u1edbi sinh ra m\u00e0 lu\u00f4n l\u00e0m Ng\u00e0i vui s\u01b0\u1edbng. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, ch\u00fang ta, l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng linh m\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa, h\u00e3y nh\u1eabn n\u1ea1i, kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng ph\u1ea3n chi\u1ebfu l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t \u1ea5y, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n g\u00e2y ra v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n H\u00e3y can \u0111\u1ea3m mang v\u00e0o trong th\u1ecbt v\u00e0 m\u00e1u ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 v\u1ebft s\u1eb9o c\u1ee7a tha nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u1ee7a tha nh\u00e2n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi linh m\u1ee5c h\u00e3y c\u1ee9 trao hi\u1ec1n h\u00f2a; tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ef1 cay nghi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a tha nh\u00e2n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi linh m\u1ee5c h\u00e3y c\u1ee9 bao dung; tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a tha nh\u00e2n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi linh m\u1ee5c h\u00e3y c\u1ee9 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u; tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng n\u00f3ng n\u1ea3y c\u1ee7a tha nh\u00e2n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi linh m\u1ee5c h\u00e3y v\u1eabn ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn; tr\u01b0\u1edbc ph\u1ec9 b\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a tha nh\u00e2n, linh m\u1ee5c h\u00e3y c\u1ee9 x\u00f3t th\u01b0\u01a1ng. L\u00f2ng x\u00f3t th\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng \u1ea5u d\u00e2m ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u ch\u1ec9<\/strong> m\u00e0 Ch\u00faa \u0111ang mu\u1ed1n linh m\u1ee5c ch\u00fang ta ng\u00e0y nay th\u1ef1c thi. M\u1ed7i th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea5u ch\u1ec9 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 Ch\u00faa mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eafn g\u1eedi cho th\u1ebf gian v\u00e0 cho c\u00e1c m\u1ee5c t\u1eed. V\u00e0 c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh \u1ea5u d\u00e2m ng\u00e0y nay, c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nhi\u1ec1u d\u1ea5u ch\u1ec9 kh\u00e1c \u1edf qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 hay c\u1ea3 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai sau n\u00e0y, \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i cho ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft th\u00eam n\u1eefa v\u1ec1 l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa, l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i r\u1ea5t l\u00e2u \u0111\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t m\u1edbi m\u1ebb (th\u00e1nh Augustine), m\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft tr\u1ecdn ngh\u0129a “th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t” c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i n\u1ed5i! V\u00ec “th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t” c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n, c\u00f2n c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i th\u00ec m\u00e3i m\u00e3i v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n. C\u00f5i h\u1eefu h\u1ea1n th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f5i v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n V\u1eady, li\u1ec7u linh m\u1ee5c ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c v\u1eabn trao t\u1eb7ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, trao ban l\u00f2ng th\u1ea5u c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111o\u00e0n chi\u00ean m\u00ecnh n\u1eefa kh\u00f4ng, m\u1ed9t khi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi linh m\u1ee5c ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb xem l\u00e0 hoen \u00faa v\u00e0 nh\u01a1 b\u1ea9n?<\/p>\n Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u00f4n v\u00f9i ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang ta, hay ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ni\u1ec1m hy v\u1ecdng n\u00e0o n\u1eefa khi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n th\u1eed th\u00e1ch trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 n\u1ea1n \u1ea5u d\u00e2m ng\u00e0y nay, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn ch\u00fang ta, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nhau, n\u00ean t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 g\u00e2y ra s\u1ef1 t\u00e0n b\u1ea1o v\u00e0 nh\u1eabn t\u00e2m v\u1edbi nhau… trong vi\u1ec7c x\u1eed “t\u1ed9i”! Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f9ng chung v\u1edbi nhau \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap nhau \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00e1t l\u00ean b\u00e0i ca m\u1edbi “Alleluia<\/em>” hay “T\u1ea1 \u01a1n Ch\u00faa<\/em>“. Ch\u00fang ta, thay v\u00ec h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn Th\u00e1nh T\u00e2m Ch\u00faa – Th\u00e1nh T\u00e2m v\u00f4 t\u1ed9i m\u00e0 t\u1eebng b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e2m th\u1ee7ng, m\u00e1u v\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u1ea3y ra – th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, ch\u00fang ta quay v\u1ec1 l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ec3 chui v\u00e0o th\u00e1p ng\u00e0 ph\u00f2ng v\u1ec7, chui v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng \u0111\u00f3ng k\u00edn c\u1eeda t\u00ecm ch\u00fat an to\u00e0n cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 tha nh\u00e2n (trong s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n) v\u1eabn nh\u00ecn nhau trong m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f9ng nhau l\u00ean \u00e1n c\u00e1ch cu\u1ed3ng lo\u1ea1n. R\u1ed3i cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i, th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, ch\u1eb3ng bi\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang l\u00ean \u00e1n ai, v\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng bi\u1ebft ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c r\u1eb1ng ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec n\u1eefa! Ch\u00fang ta hoang mang, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1eefa!<\/p>\n Linh m\u1ee5c ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y \u00f4m l\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i, mang v\u00e0o trong th\u1ecbt v\u00e0 m\u00e1u m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng t\u1eeb n\u1ea1n \u1ea5u d\u00e2m th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i, nh\u01b0 linh m\u1ee5c Henri Nouwen, m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i l\u00ean r\u1eb1ng: “\u0110\u00e3 bao n\u0103m tr\u1eddi qua, t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u00e0m t\u00f4i chia tr\u00ed kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00e2y chia tr\u00ed \u1ea5y, g\u00e2y phi\u1ec1n to\u00e1i \u1ea5y m\u1edbi ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i.” V\u00ec th\u1ebf, ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 l\u00e0m linh m\u1ee5c ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea5y l\u00e0m kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, hay l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1eadp trung \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0o c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang l\u00ean k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch, \u0111ang th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n, l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh s\u1ee9 v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 n\u1ea1n \u1ea5u d\u00e2m qua s\u1ef1 ph\u1ec9 b\u00e1ng, gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, k\u1ebft \u00e1n, ki\u1ec7n t\u1ee5ng\u2026 H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 cho th\u1ebf gian (th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a x\u00e1c ph\u00e0m t\u1ee5c l\u1ee5y), ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i th\u1ebf gian t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i l\u00e0 cho H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh. Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i: “Th\u1ecbt<\/em><\/strong> t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e2y, \u0111\u1ec3 cho th\u1ebf gian<\/strong> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng<\/em>” (Ga 6,51), ch\u1ee9 Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i: “\u2026\u0111\u1ec3 cho H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng.” Th\u1ef1c th\u1ebf, Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 theo ngh\u0129a cao si\u00eau l\u00e0 r\u01b0\u1edbc l\u1ea5y Ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u01b0\u1edbi h\u00ecnh b\u00e1nh v\u00e0 r\u01b0\u1ee3u, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 cho th\u1ebf gian \u0103n th\u1ecbt v\u00e0 m\u00e1u Ng\u01b0\u1eddi theo ngh\u0129a \u0111en n\u1eefa, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u1ebf gian \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft Ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111ay nghi\u1ebfn Ng\u01b0\u1eddi, d\u00e0y v\u00f2 Ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft Ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ng\u00f4i L\u1eddi l\u00e0 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, \u0111\u00e3 kh\u1edfi s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c trao hi\u1ebfn cho th\u1ebf gian b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch xu\u1ed1ng Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu sinh ra trong m\u00e1ng b\u00f2 l\u1eeba, n\u01a1i m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ee9c \u0103n cho s\u00fac v\u1eadt \u0103n khi \u0111\u00f3i v\u00e0 k\u1ebft th\u00fac cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh tr\u00ean b\u00e0n ti\u1ec7c (l\u00e0 b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c ly: “N\u00e0y l\u00e0 M\u00ecnh Th\u1ea7y, c\u00e1c con h\u00e3y c\u1ea7m l\u1ea5y m\u00e0 \u0103n \u0111i, n\u00e0y l\u00e0 M\u00e1u Th\u1ea7y, c\u00e1c con h\u00e3y c\u1ea7m l\u1ea5y m\u00e0 u\u1ed1ng \u0111i<\/em>“) v\u00e0 tr\u00ean th\u1eadp gi\u00e1 cho th\u1ebf gian.<\/p>\n Linh m\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu c\u0169ng th\u1ebf, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 kh\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. L\u1eddi tha thi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y trong Th\u00e1nh L\u1ec5 m\u00e0 linh m\u1ee5c d\u00e2ng, v\u1eabn nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf ch\u00ednh \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng linh m\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta: “C\u00e1c con h\u00e3y l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y m\u00e0 t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1edb \u0111\u1ebfn Th\u1ea7y<\/em>.” L\u1eddi tr\u0103n tr\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu, Linh M\u1ee5c Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng Ph\u1ea9m, cho m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi linh m\u1ee5c ch\u00fang ta, s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ch\u00e2m ng\u00f4n s\u1ed1ng cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta, khi ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng trao t\u1eb7ng M\u00ecnh v\u00e0 M\u00e1u Th\u00e1nh c\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 cho th\u1ebf gian \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng tr\u00ean b\u00e0n ti\u1ec7c Th\u00e1nh, m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta, \u0111ang mang c\u0103n t\u00ednh linh m\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd phai nh\u00f2a, c\u00f2n ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c d\u00e2ng hi\u1ebfn ch\u00ednh th\u1ecbt v\u00e0 m\u00e1u huy\u1ebft c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh cho b\u00e0n ti\u1ec7c th\u1ebf gian, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu Linh M\u1ee5c Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng Ph\u1ea9m: “ Th\u1ecbt<\/em><\/strong> t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e2y, \u0111\u1ec3 cho th\u1ebf gian<\/strong> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng<\/em>,” v\u00e0 Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu c\u00f2n nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh: ” v\u00ec th\u1ecbt t\u00f4i th\u1eadt l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a \u0103n, v\u00e0 m\u00e1u t\u00f4i th\u1eadt l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a u\u1ed1ng<\/em>” (Ga 6,55).<\/p>\n N\u1ebfu qua l\u0103ng k\u00ednh x\u00e1c th\u1ecbt c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u1ea5n n\u1ea1n \u1ea5u d\u00e2m n\u01a1i c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c, d\u00f9 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 con s\u1ed1 d\u01b0\u1edbi 1%\u00a0 trong to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng n\u1ea1n l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gian n\u00e0y, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u1ed7i \u00f4 nh\u1ee5c v\u00e0 cay \u0111\u1eafng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, khi linh m\u1ee5c ch\u00fang ta nh\u00ecn s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n n\u00e0y qua c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu, th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea5y l\u00e0m l\u1ea1 khi ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang b\u1ecb th\u1ebf gian ch\u1ec9a m\u0169i d\u00f9i v\u00e0o ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ecba ph\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u01b0 \u0110\u1ee9c, Ai Len, Ph\u00e1p, \u00dd, M\u1ef9, Canada, \u00dac\u2026 hay H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh ho\u00e0n v\u0169 \u0111i n\u1eefa. D\u00f9 ch\u1ec9 d\u01b0\u1edbi 1% n\u01a1i linh m\u1ee5c ch\u00fang ta so v\u1edbi to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, ban \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh trong gi\u1edbi truy\u1ec1n thanh truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh, nh\u00e0 b\u00e1o, m\u1ea1ng network \u0111\u00e3 “chi\u1ebfu c\u1ed1” tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n n\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 linh m\u1ee5c ch\u00fang ta, v\u00e0 linh m\u1ee5c ch\u00fang ta “\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c” in n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt v\u1edbi highlight tr\u00ean trang nh\u1ea5t t\u1edd b\u00e1o, hay tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng k\u00eanh truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh ph\u1ed5 th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e0i CNN, BBC, CBC,… c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi c\u00e1c k\u00eanh c\u1ee7a Tin L\u00e0nh, H\u1ed3i gi\u00e1o… r\u1ea3i r\u00e1c kh\u1eafp n\u01a1i tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi.<\/p>\n \u00a0Nh\u1eefng anh em linh m\u1ee5c ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y can \u0111\u1ea3m, ra kh\u1ecfi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, kh\u1ecfi th\u00e1p ng\u00e0 ph\u00f2ng v\u1ec7, cho th\u1ebf gian \u0103n th\u1ecbt v\u00e0 m\u00e1u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y tr\u1edf n\u00ean “th\u1ecbt cho th\u1ebf gian \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng<\/em>.” N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 cha Henri Nouwen n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng, “ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u00e0m t\u00f4i kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn, ngo\u00e0i \u00fd mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i,\u00a0 l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00edch th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i.<\/em>” V\u00e2ng! Ch\u1ec9 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu v\u00e0 \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn trong \u0111\u1eddi linh m\u1ee5c, m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1ecdt d\u0169a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang ta th\u00eam khi\u00eam cung v\u00e0 nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 xinh x\u1eafn. Kh\u00f4ng g\u00ec \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn h\u01a1n khi ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecb th\u1ebf gian k\u00e9o xu\u1ed1ng t\u1eadn v\u1ef1c th\u1eb3m v\u00e0 r\u1ed3i, th\u1ecbt v\u00e0 m\u00e1u c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, c\u0169ng b\u1ecb chia c\u1eaft v\u00e0 b\u1ecb \u0103n l\u1ea5y. Linh M\u1ee5c Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng Ph\u1ea9m c\u00f2n l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eefa kh\u00f4ng, khi Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb l\u1ed9t s\u1ea1ch m\u1ea3nh v\u1ea3i che th\u00e2n v\u00e0 tr\u1ea7n tr\u1ee5i gi\u1eefa th\u1ebf gian? Linh M\u1ee5c Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng Ph\u1ea9m c\u00f2n c\u00f3 ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 n\u00e0o n\u1eefa kh\u00f4ng, khi b\u1ecb \u0111eo nhi\u1ec1u gai nh\u1ecdn c\u1eafm v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea7u, v\u1ed1n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng tr\u01b0ng cho Tr\u00ed Tu\u1ec7 v\u00e0 Kh\u00f4n Ngoan, v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 l\u00ea l\u1ebft k\u00e9o th\u00e2n x\u00e1c \u0111ang tan n\u00e1t g\u1ed3m Th\u1ecbt v\u00e0 M\u00e1u, qua h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0n con m\u1eaft khinh khi v\u00e0 nh\u1ea1o b\u00e1ng? Linh M\u1ee5c Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng Ph\u1ea9m \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t t\u00ean t\u1eed t\u1ed9i h\u1ea1 ph\u1ea9m cho th\u1ebf gian \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng! Ch\u1ec9 khi linh m\u1ee5c ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecb ph\u1ec9 b\u00e1ng v\u00e0 treo l\u00ean nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ban t\u1eb7ng l\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ef1c cho th\u1ebf gian \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng, v\u00ec qua th\u1ecbt m\u00e1u c\u1ee7a linh m\u1ee5c ch\u00fang ta, th\u1ebf gian m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Th\u1ecbt M\u00e1u c\u1ee7a Linh M\u1ee5c Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng Ph\u1ea9m. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng, t\u1ef1 v\u1ec7, tranh \u0111\u1ea5u, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u1ee9u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ebf gian. Linh M\u1ee5c Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng Ph\u1ea9m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m th\u1ebf! Th\u1ea7y c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 ra kh\u1ecfi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 “u\u1ed1ng c\u1ea1n ch\u00e9n \u0111\u1eafng.” V\u1eady, ch\u00ednh khi ch\u00fang ta s\u1ea1t nghi\u1ec7p tr\u1eafng tay, tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4n ngoan sau h\u00e0ng ch\u1ee5c n\u0103m v\u00f9i \u0111\u1ea7u trong tri\u1ebft h\u1ecdc th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc b\u1ecb ph\u1ec9 b\u00e1ng v\u00e0 th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c, nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng tr\u00ecnh s\u1ee9 v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecb s\u1ee5p \u0111\u1ed5 h\u00f2an to\u00e0n, c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u00fac ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 hi\u1ebfn d\u00e2ng “th\u1ecbt v\u00e0 m\u00e1u cho th\u1ebf gian \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng<\/em>.” C\u00f2n khi ch\u00fang ta gi\u00e0u c\u00f3, cho \u0111\u1ebfn xa hoa, c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 khen t\u1eb7ng th\u1ebf gian tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ec1 d\u00e0y h\u1ecdc th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a linh m\u1ee5c ch\u00fang ta, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn nguy c\u01a1 b\u1ecf \u0111\u00f3i th\u1ebf gian, kh\u00f4ng cho h\u1ecd l\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ef1c th\u1eadt s\u1ef1. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang k\u00e9o h\u1ecd xa d\u1ea7n v\u1edbi Linh M\u1ee5c t\u00ean l\u00e0 Gi\u00easu n\u1eefa!<\/p>\n V\u00e2ng. Linh m\u1ee5c ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u01b0u \u0111\u00e3i qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u, trong th\u1eddi gian qu\u00e1 l\u00e2u. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cung k\u00ednh, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a r\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00ean ngai, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tung h\u00f4 h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 Linh M\u1ee5c Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng Ph\u1ea9m tr\u01b0\u1edbc kia. Linh m\u1ee5c ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t, y\u00eau nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau ch\u00fang ta, v\u1eady n\u00e0o \u00edch g\u00ec? Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 d\u00e1m \u0111i xa h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat kh\u00f4ng? \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00f3 d\u00e1m tha th\u1ee9 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n tha th\u1ee9 cho ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng? \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00f3 d\u00e1m th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gh\u00e9t b\u1ecf v\u00e0 xa l\u00e1nh ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n H\u00ecnh nh\u01b0, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111i qu\u00e1 xa v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f9ng tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a Linh M\u1ee5c Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng Ph\u1ea9m. \u0110\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thanh t\u1ea9y, g\u1ecdt gi\u0169a \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean khi\u00eam h\u1ea1. Linh M\u1ee5c Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng Ph\u1ea9m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng khi\u00eam h\u1ea1, nh\u01b0ng m\u00e0 c\u00f2n ch\u1ecbu b\u1ecb h\u1ea1 nh\u1ee5c n\u1eefa. M\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i qu\u00e1 xa, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n b\u1ecb m\u1ed9t c\u00fa \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea1nh, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1nh v\u1eeba, th\u00ec m\u1ecdi h\u00e0nh trang c\u1ed3ng k\u1ec1nh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bu\u00f4ng ra v\u00e0 r\u01a1i xu\u1ed1ng, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng ti\u1ebfn nhanh k\u1ecbp v\u1edbi Linh M\u1ee5c Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng Ph\u1ea9m.<\/p>\n Ch\u1ec9 khi Th\u00e2n Th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Kit\u00f4 b\u1ecb h\u1ea1 nh\u1ee5c (Th\u00e2n Th\u1ec3 Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh), Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee9u th\u1ebf gian. Khi Ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eaft th\u1edf tr\u00ean th\u1eadp gi\u00e1, H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra. Linh m\u1ee5c ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, khi ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecb k\u00e9o gh\u00ec xu\u1ed1ng th\u1ea5p, theo ngh\u0129a \u0111en l\u1eabn ngh\u0129a b\u00f3ng, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 n\u01a1i m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 sinh ra, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ee5i \u0111\u1ea5t. Ch\u1ec9 khi tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 b\u1ee5i \u0111\u1ea5t, ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng g\u1ea7n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec l\u00e0 th\u1ea5p b\u00e9, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o kh\u1ed5, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i t\u1ea9y chay khinh mi\u1ec7t, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 c\u1ea3, b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt… V\u1ee5 tai ti\u1ebfng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 khinh mi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gian s\u1ebd l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. G\u1ea7n b\u1ee5i \u0111\u1ea5t, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1ee5i \u0111\u1ea5t, l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta g\u1ea7n v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb b\u1ecb lo\u1ea1i ra ngo\u00e0i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, Linh M\u1ee5c Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng Ph\u1ea9m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecb treo tr\u1ea7n tr\u1ee5i gi\u1eefa hai t\u00ean tr\u1ed9m c\u01b0\u1edbp. D\u01b0\u1edbi con m\u1eaft th\u1ebf gian, Linh M\u1ee5c \u1ea5y b\u1ecb x\u1ebfp v\u00e0o nh\u00f3m tr\u1ed9m c\u01b0\u1edbp, m\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ch\u1ed1i t\u1eeb v\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o l\u00e0, d\u00f9 Linh M\u1ee5c Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng Ph\u1ea9m v\u00f4 t\u1ef3 t\u00edch, nh\u01b0ng Ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i hay l\u00fd l\u1ebd. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn b\u1ea3n t\u1eed h\u00ecnh theo s\u1ef1 x\u00e9t x\u1eed v\u00e0 ph\u1ec9 b\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gian. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi thinh l\u1eb7ng, Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn.<\/p>\n Khi linh m\u1ee5c ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecb ph\u1ec9 b\u00e1ng v\u00e0 khinh mi\u1ec7t, vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadp th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4 \u0111ang ti\u1ebfp di\u1ec5n. Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 cho vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadp th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u01a1i ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng th\u1ebf gian qua th\u1ecbt v\u00e0 m\u00e1u ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang ta. \u0110\u1ec3 cho vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadp th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c di\u1ec5n ra, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 h\u00e1t b\u00e0i ca c\u0169 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, b\u00e0i ca m\u00e0 x\u01b0a kia kinh s\u01b0, Pharis\u00eau \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng ca h\u00e1t: M\u1eaft \u0111\u1ec1n m\u1eaft, r\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec1n r\u0103ng, \u00e1c gi\u1ea3 \u00e1c b\u00e1o<\/em>, v\u00e0 Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 cho bi\u1ebft: N\u1ebfu s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0o N\u01b0\u1edbc Tr\u1eddi<\/em> (Mt 5,20-26). Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ch\u00fang ta s\u1ed1ng theo ki\u1ec3u c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng to\u00e1n h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. V\u00ec n\u1ebfu Ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n ch\u00fang ta s\u1ed1ng c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng ki\u1ec3u \u0111\u00f3, th\u00ec Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ebft nh\u1ee5c nh\u00e3 v\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch xem ra th\u1eadt ngh\u1ecbch l\u00fd. V\u1eady, theo nh\u01b0 Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 d\u00e1m “b\u1ecf c\u1ee7a l\u1ec5 tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u00e0n th\u1edd” \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi anh ch\u1ecb em ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng? Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 d\u00e1m b\u00e1n h\u1ebft gia t\u00e0i \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng anh ch\u1ecb em ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng? Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 d\u00e1m v\u01b0\u01a1n r\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00f4i tay \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 c\u0169ng s\u1ebd l\u00e0m ch\u00fang ta th\u00eam kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu kh\u00f4ng? anh ch\u1ecb em l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n, nh\u1eefng linh m\u1ee5c g\u00e2y th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00edch cho h\u1ecd, b\u1ec1 d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, b\u1ec1 tr\u00ean c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, th\u1ea7y c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta…, h\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang c\u1ea7n \u0103n th\u1ecbt v\u00e0 u\u1ed1ng m\u00e1u c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. H\u01a1n l\u00fac n\u00e0o h\u1ebft, ch\u00ednh v\u1ee5 \u1ea5u d\u00e2m n\u00e0y, hay nh\u1eefng v\u1ee5 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i to\u00e1n kh\u00e1 h\u00f3c b\u00faa v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ngh\u1ecbch l\u00fd trong Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o m\u00e0 Linh M\u1ee5c Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng Ph\u1ea9m \u0111ang g\u1eedi \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c ch\u00fang ta. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 d\u00e1m li\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn b\u00e0i to\u00e1n \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i cho \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng? V\u00e0, c\u0169ng d\u00e1m n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng, sau n\u00e0y Linh M\u1ee5c Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng Ph\u1ea9m c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f2n tung ra th\u00eam nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e0i to\u00e1n h\u00f3c b\u00faa kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa cho c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c ch\u00fang ta ch\u0103ng??? N\u1ebfu b\u00e0i to\u00e1n n\u00e0y ch\u01b0a g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m ta ng\u00e3 qu\u1ef5, th\u00ec sao ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i b\u00e0i to\u00e1n sau n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn \u0111ang tr\u00e1nh s\u1ed1ng c\u00e1i ngh\u1ecbch l\u00fd Tin M\u1eebng!<\/p>\n R\u1ea5t mong sao, linh m\u1ee5c ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn \u0111\u1ee9ng th\u1eb3ng (stand upright), cho d\u00f9 ng\u00e0y mai s\u1ebd nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Hai h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh m\u00e0 c\u00f3 l\u1ebd H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o qu\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi c\u1eed h\u00e0nh ng\u00e0y Th\u1ee9 S\u00e1u Tu\u1ea7n Th\u00e1nh (Holy Friday), \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 M\u1eb9 Maria, v\u00e0 \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu, l\u00e0 Linh M\u1ee5c Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng Ph\u1ea9m. Th\u1ee9 S\u00e1u Th\u00e1nh l\u00e0 Th\u1ee9 S\u00e1u Linh M\u1ee5c Gi\u00easu ch\u1ecbu \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn v\u00e0 ch\u1ebft. Ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u1ebft \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 th\u00e1nh (Friday is Holy). Th\u00e1nh, l\u00e0 v\u00ec hai v\u1ecb \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 theo th\u1ebf gian, nh\u01b0ng theo ngh\u1ecbch l\u00fd c\u1ee7a Tin M\u1eebng: Thinh L\u1eb7ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc n\u1ed7i \u0111au<\/strong>.<\/p>\n M\u1eb9 Maria d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u00e2y th\u00e1nh gi\u00e1. R\u1ea5t \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn. Nh\u01b0ng M\u1eb9 thinh l\u1eb7ng. M\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i r\u1eb1ng Con c\u1ee7a M\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u1ed9i t\u00ecnh g\u00ec m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i…, M\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi t\u1ea1i sao. M\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng \u0111ay nghi\u1ebfn hay m\u1eaft \u0111\u1ec1n m\u1eaft, r\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec1n r\u0103ng. M\u1eb9 ch\u1eb3ng n\u00f3i g\u00ec, ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec. Ch\u1ec9 thinh l\u1eb7ng<\/strong>, \u0111\u1ee9ng <\/strong>nh\u00ecn. Theo truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng Do Th\u00e1i, \u0111\u1ee9ng<\/strong> l\u00e0 t\u01b0 th\u1ebf m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd. V\u00e2ng! M\u1eb9 Maria \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd d\u01b0\u1edbi ch\u00e2n th\u00e1nh gi\u00e1, thinh l\u1eb7ng v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn ngu\u1ed3n l\u1ef1c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 trong t\u1eebng th\u1edb th\u1ecbt M\u1eb9. Linh m\u1ee5c ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, trong thinh l\u1eb7ng, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc n\u1ed7i \u0111au t\u1ed9t c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a “s\u1ef1 ch\u1ebft”.<\/p>\n N\u1ebfu M\u1eb9 Maria \u0111\u1ee9ng thinh l\u1eb7ng<\/strong> d\u01b0\u1edbi ch\u00e2n th\u00e1nh gi\u00e1, th\u00ec Con c\u1ee7a M\u1eb9 l\u00e0 to\u00e1t m\u1ed3 h\u00f4i m\u00e1u<\/strong>. C\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u thinh l\u1eb7ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ef1 \u1ee9ng x\u1eed c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gian. Linh m\u1ee5c ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng x\u00e9t x\u1eed c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gian, c\u1ee9 h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec1m kh\u00edch, khinh mi\u1ec7t, ch\u1ed1i b\u1ecf c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gian. Trong n\u1ed7i \u0111au c\u00f9ng c\u1ef1c, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ed1t l\u00ean nh\u01b0 Linh M\u1ee5c Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng Ph\u1ea9m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta: “Sao Cha b\u1ecf con?” Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea3m nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c “sao Cha b\u1ecf con?” ch\u01b0a? N\u1ebfu ch\u01b0a, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f2n gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 l\u1eafm, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong s\u1ef1 an to\u00e0n nhi\u1ec1u l\u1eafm. V\u00e0, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f2n xa Linh M\u1ee5c kia c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u1eafm!<\/p>\n Ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn r\u1eb1ng, Cha kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf ch\u00fang ta, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng linh m\u1ee5c m\u1ecfng gi\u00f2n c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i. Nh\u01b0ng trong s\u1ef1 c\u00f9ng c\u1ef1c, ch\u00fang ta th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y Cha \u0111\u00e2u n\u1eefa. Ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u00e0 thinh l\u1eb7ng. Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngu\u1ed3n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, b\u00ecnh an v\u00e0 ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh. Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn ngu\u1ed3n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u1ea5y, n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee9ng trong thinh l\u1eb7ng. Ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111i qua b\u00f3ng \u0111\u00eam, th\u00ec m\u1edbi th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng ban mai. Sau vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3ng \u0111inh, l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n Ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng linh m\u1ee5c, theo t\u00f4i, cho d\u00f9 c\u00f3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, t\u00f4i v\u1eabn y\u00eau qu\u00fd m\u00e3i \u01a1n g\u1ecdi linh m\u1ee5c, v\u00e0 k\u00ednh ph\u1ee5c linh m\u1ee5c. Linh m\u1ee5c ch\u00fang ta r\u1ea5t tr\u1ea7n gian, n\u00ean sao m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau th\u1ebf! Linh m\u1ee5c ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec7m m\u1ea7u, m\u00e3i m\u00e3i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u th\u1ea5u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 ph\u00e1n m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi, Th\u1ecbt v\u00e0 M\u00e1u c\u1ee7a Linh M\u1ee5c Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng Ph\u1ea9m c\u00f3 ngay tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 s\u1ebb chia cho th\u1ebf gian (ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ebf gian n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ed1n bao nhi\u00eau ti\u1ec1n, bao nhi\u00eau s\u1ee9c l\u1ef1c… \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1eddi m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb t\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ebfn n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u00ecnh; c\u00f2n linh m\u1ee5c, ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi, Ch\u00faa T\u1ec3 Tr\u1eddi \u0110\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 ngay tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t, Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u00f4ng huy\u00eanh hoang, kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ecbnh th\u01b0\u1ee3ng, kh\u00f4ng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c, kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y kh\u00f3 d\u1ec5, ai g\u1eb7p Ng\u00e0i c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ng\u00e0i th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi!).<\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n Ch\u00faa \u0111ang l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 theo \u00fd Ng\u00e0i mu\u1ed1n, v\u00e0 Ch\u00faa v\u1eabn \u0111ang l\u00e0m, c\u00f2n l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, ra sao, th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 Ng\u00e0i m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1eb1ng, Ng\u00e0i kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ec3 H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh Ng\u00e0i ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ebft.<\/p>\n Linh m\u1ee5c ch\u00fang m\u00ecnh c\u00f9ng x\u00e1c t\u00edn nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf nh\u00e9! Amen.<\/p>\n Linh m\u1ee5c Kh\u1ea5t Tu\u1ec7<\/em><\/p>\n K\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m L\u1ec5 Th\u00e1nh T\u00e2m Ch\u00faa – 2013<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u00a0Trong 2 tu\u1ea7n qua, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 v\u00e0 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi 8 linh m\u1ee5c, m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 t\u1edbi 6 linh m\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ea1i kh\u00e1i cho […]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2586,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[26,33],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2623","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-linh-muc","category-tam-linh"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/xuanbichvietnam.net\/trangchu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2623","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/xuanbichvietnam.net\/trangchu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/xuanbichvietnam.net\/trangchu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xuanbichvietnam.net\/trangchu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xuanbichvietnam.net\/trangchu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2623"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/xuanbichvietnam.net\/trangchu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2623\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2625,"href":"https:\/\/xuanbichvietnam.net\/trangchu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2623\/revisions\/2625"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xuanbichvietnam.net\/trangchu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2586"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/xuanbichvietnam.net\/trangchu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2623"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xuanbichvietnam.net\/trangchu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2623"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xuanbichvietnam.net\/trangchu\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2623"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}