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Xung \u0111\u1ed9t trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4n ngoan c\u1ee7a Th\u00e1nh Kinh v\u00e0 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c th\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0a ra ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3i qua ch\u00fang v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh an v\u00e0 kh\u00f4n ngoan. D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 10 nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc Th\u00e1nh Kinh v\u00e0 thi\u00eang li\u00eang \u0111\u1ec3 (t\u00e1i) x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng b\u00ecnh an trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/em><\/p>\n

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C\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi. Nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u1ec1 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m, nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u0169, nh\u1eefng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng, nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i: r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u00e0m suy y\u1ebfu m\u1ed1i li\u00ean k\u1ebft gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9, con c\u00e1i, v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, anh ch\u1ecb em… Nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y, \u0111\u00f4i khi \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u01b0 x\u1eed b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4n ngoan v\u00e0 t\u1eed t\u1ebf.<\/p>\n

L\u1eddi Ch\u00faa l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ef1a v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc trong nh\u1eefng th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y. \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c Ch\u00faa Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n linh h\u1ee9ng, L\u1eddi Ch\u00faa mang l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u01b0\u1edbng m\u1ed7i t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00f2a b\u00ecnh, b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch cung c\u1ea5p nh\u1eefng ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 xoa d\u1ecbu nh\u1eefng xung \u0111\u1ed9t: tha th\u1ee9, l\u1eafng nghe, khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n, h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i. C\u00e1c th\u00e1nh x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn, qua gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c ng\u00e0i, r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4n ngoan Th\u00e1nh Kinh n\u00e0y v\u1eabn c\u00f2n th\u1eddi s\u1ef1 cho \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00e0y nay.<\/p>\n

1.<\/strong> N\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n c\u00e1ch b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean khi x\u1ea3y ra xung \u0111\u1ed9t: mu\u1ed1n \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. V\u00e0 r\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh, nh\u01b0ng trong c\u01a1n t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 la h\u00e9t. Tuy nhi\u00ean, vi\u1ec7c l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i.<\/p>\n

\u201cC\u00e2u \u0111\u00e1p d\u1ecbu d\u00e0ng khi\u1ebfn c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn ti\u00eau tan, l\u1eddi n\u00f3i khi\u00eau kh\u00edch l\u00e0m n\u1ed5i c\u01a1n th\u1ecbnh n\u1ed9.<\/em>\u201d (Cn 15, 1)<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb, gi\u1ecdng \u0111i\u1ec7u v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u1ea3 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xoa d\u1ecbu nhi\u1ec1u c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. M\u1ed9t l\u1eddi n\u00f3i g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i d\u1ea5u v\u1ebft l\u00e2u d\u00e0i v\u00e0 l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh v\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e3 mong manh tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1m t\u0129nh v\u00e0 nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng m\u1edf ra kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1. Th\u00e1nh Phanxic\u00f4 Sal\u00ea, b\u1eadc th\u1ea7y t\u00e2m linh v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf k\u1ef7 XVII, \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh: \u201cH\u00e3y n\u00f3i ch\u1eadm r\u00e3i v\u00e0 nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, ngay c\u1ea3 khi s\u1eeda l\u1ed7i, b\u1edfi v\u00ec t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n s\u1ebd r\u1ed9ng m\u1edf h\u01a1n v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt khi n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn v\u1edbi l\u00f2ng b\u00e1c \u00e1i\u201d. S\u1ef1 nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m kh\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 n\u1ed5i kh\u00f9ng.<\/p>\n

L\u1eddi khuy\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf: t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i l\u1edbn ti\u1ebfng b\u00e0y t\u1ecf phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c khi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng xung \u0111\u1ed9t, c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng, n\u1ea3y sinh. D\u00f9 ph\u1ea3i h\u1ee9ng ch\u1ecbu s\u1ef1 th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ed5n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng ngay l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3. Sau \u0111\u00f3, ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i y\u00ean t\u0129nh, v\u00e0 sau khi suy ng\u1eabm v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e2y ra l\u1eddi n\u00f3i ho\u1eb7c c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y \u0111i\u1ec1m t\u0129nh n\u00f3i ra.<\/p>\n

2. L\u1eafng nghe tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cM\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i \u200bmau nghe, \u0111\u1eebng v\u1ed9i n\u00f3i, v\u00e0 khoan gi\u1eadn<\/em>\u201d (Gc 1,19)<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u tranh lu\u1eadn n\u1ebfu ch\u0103m ch\u00fa l\u1eafng nghe tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi. L\u1eafng nghe kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 h\u1ec7 t\u1ea1i gi\u1eef im l\u1eb7ng, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f2n t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3. Th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb duy nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i. S\u1ef1 c\u1edfi m\u1edf n\u00e0y cho ph\u00e9p v\u01b0\u1ee3t qu\u00e1 c\u00e1i t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec3 b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1. Th\u00e1nh Inhaxi\u00f4 Loyola \u0111\u00e3 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch trong t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m Linh Thao c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh: \u201cPh\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n mau m\u1eafn c\u1ee9u v\u00e3n \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e2n c\u1eadn h\u01a1n l\u00e0 l\u00ean \u00e1n n\u00f3\u201d.<\/p>\n

L\u1eddi khuy\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf: \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00f3i xong tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi mu\u1ed1n tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i m\u1ed7i c\u00e2u m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 v\u1ebb sai ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang, th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia kh\u00f4ng gian c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1eaft \u0111\u1ee9t n\u00f3.<\/p>\n

3. Ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ed1ng ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn, c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cAnh em h\u00e3y \u200bs\u1ed1ng cho x\u1ee9ng v\u1edbi \u01a1n k\u00eau g\u1ecdi m\u00e0 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 ban cho anh em. Anh em h\u00e3y \u0103n \u1edf th\u1eadt khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n, hi\u1ec1n t\u1eeb v\u00e0 nh\u1eabn n\u1ea1i<\/em>\u2026\u201d (Eph 4, 1-3)<\/p>\n

S\u1ed1ng khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nh\u1ee7: \u201cT\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia\u201d. S\u1ef1 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trau d\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c: n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1eddi gian c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 cho s\u1ef1 xung \u0111\u1ed9t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e1o g\u1ee1. Th\u00e1nh Augustin\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh: \u201cN\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t t\u00f2a nh\u00e0 v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i v\u00e0 v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc, tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean h\u00e3y ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1eb7t n\u1ec1n m\u00f3ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d. Ba \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh n\u00e0y \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e0 tr\u1ee5 c\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng h\u00f2a b\u00ecnh trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

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4. S\u1ed1ng ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh, nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh b\u00e1c \u00e1i huynh \u0111\u1ec7<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cS\u1ed1ng theo s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt v\u00e0 trong t\u00ecnh b\u00e1c \u00e1i, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n, v\u01b0\u01a1n t\u1edbi \u0110\u1ee9c Ki-t\u00f4 v\u00ec Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 \u200b\u0110\u1ea7u<\/em>\u201d (\u00cap 4, 15).<\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta n\u00f3i, c\u00f3 \u201cn\u1ed9i dung v\u00e0 h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c\u201d. Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, n\u1ed9i dung th\u00ec \u0111\u00fang, nh\u01b0ng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c th\u00ec k\u00e9m ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat… Th\u00e1nh Catarina Siena \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o: \u201cS\u1ef1 th\u1eadt m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9c \u00e1i th\u00ec l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00f2n \u0111\u00e1 n\u00e9m v\u00e0o m\u1eb7t\u201d. \u0110\u1ee9c \u00e1i l\u00e0m cho s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt phong nhi\u00eau, v\u00ec n\u00f3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm thi\u1ec7n \u00edch cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

L\u1eddi khuy\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf kh\u00e1c: nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn do ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh t\u1ea1o ra. \u201cT\u00f4i c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c r\u1eb1ng\u201d, \u201cT\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady\u201d, \u201cTh\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng\u201d: nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t n\u00e0y tr\u00e1nh bu\u1ed9c t\u1ed9i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 do \u0111\u00f3 d\u1ed3n h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f9ng, \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3t h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

5. T\u1eeb b\u1ecf tr\u1ea3<\/strong> th\u00f9<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201c\u0110\u1eebng l\u1ea5y \u00e1c b\u00e1o \u00e1c<\/em>.\u201d (Rm 12, 17)<\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 tr\u1ea3 th\u00f9 h\u1ee7y di\u1ec7t, trong khi s\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9 gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t. Th\u00e1nh Gioan Kim Kh\u1ea9u \u0111\u00e3 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh:<\/p>\n

“Nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n tr\u1ea3 th\u00f9? B\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng tr\u1ea3 th\u00f9, v\u00e0 qua \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb tr\u1ea3 th\u00f9: n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n tr\u1ea3 th\u00f9, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ea3 th\u00f9. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1i ngh\u0129a, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt. Th\u1ebf n\u00e0y l\u00e0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? B\u1edfi v\u00ec, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ea3 th\u00f9, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd k\u00e9o theo c\u01a1n th\u1ecbnh n\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa l\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m b\u1ea1n; ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ea3 th\u00f9 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, th\u00ec s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u1eefa: Ch\u00faa kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ea3 th\u00f9 cho b\u1ea1n. V\u00ec \u201c\u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa ph\u00e1n: \u200bCh\u00ednh Ta s\u1ebd b\u00e1o o\u00e1n, ch\u00ednh Ta s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3.\u201d (Rm 12, 19 ; \u0110nl 32, 43).<\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta g\u00e1nh ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u00f4i khi l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecb c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 \u0111\u00f2i c\u00f4ng l\u00fd cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ecdi Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu ph\u1ea3i noi g\u01b0\u01a1ng Ch\u00faa Kit\u00f4, bao g\u1ed3m – v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed tr\u00ean h\u1ebft – trong nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 s\u1ec9 nh\u1ee5c t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 s\u1ec9 nh\u1ee5c kh\u1ee7ng khi\u1ebfp nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu. Ch\u00ednh Ch\u00faa Kit\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 tha th\u1ee9 cho nh\u1eefng \u0111ao ph\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ean th\u1eadp gi\u00e1, ban cho nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng cao c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n h\u1eadn th\u00f9.<\/p>\n

6. Nh\u1eadn ra l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cAnh em h\u00e3y th\u00fa t\u1ed9i v\u1edbi nhau v\u00e0 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n cho nhau \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ee9u tho\u00e1t.\u201d<\/em> (Gc 5, 16)<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eadn ra l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, c\u1ea7u xin s\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n s\u1ebd m\u1edf \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng cho s\u1ef1 ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1. Vi\u1ec7c th\u00fa t\u1ed9i v\u00e0 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean mang l\u1ea1i cho \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n.<\/p>\n

7. C\u1ea7u xin Ch\u00faa Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cN\u1ebfu ai trong anh em thi\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ee9c \u200bkh\u00f4n ngoan, th\u00ec h\u00e3y c\u1ea7u xin Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, Ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd ban cho<\/em>\u201d. (Gc 1, 5)<\/p>\n

Trong nh\u1eefng gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. Ng\u00e0i g\u1ee3i l\u00ean nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn, xoa d\u1ecbu nh\u1eefng tr\u00e1i tim r\u1ed1i ren v\u00e0 bi\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. Th\u00e1nh S\u00e9raphin de Sarov \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i: \u201cH\u00e3y \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh an n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m, v\u00e0 h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0n ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y \u01a1n c\u1ee9u r\u1ed7i\u201d. S\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh an do Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n ban t\u1eb7ng lan t\u1ecfa ra ngo\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3. Do \u0111\u00f3, vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n v\u00e0 xin Ng\u00e0i \u01a1n kh\u00f4n ngoan, khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea7u xin s\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft trong ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0110\u1ee9c H\u1ed3ng y Verdier g\u1ee3i \u00fd, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea7u xin s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n:<\/p>\n

\u201cL\u1ea1y Ch\u00faa Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n, l\u00e0 T\u00ecnh Y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Cha v\u00e0 Ch\u00faa Con, xin lu\u00f4n soi d\u1eabn cho con \u0111i\u1ec1u con ph\u1ea3i ngh\u0129, \u0111i\u1ec1u con ph\u1ea3i tin, c\u00e1ch con c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n, \u0111i\u1ec1u con ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i, c\u00e1ch con ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, \u0111i\u1ec1u con ph\u1ea3i im l\u1eb7ng, \u0111i\u1ec1u con ph\u1ea3i vi\u1ebft, \u0111i\u1ec1u con ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m, c\u00e1ch con ph\u1ea3i h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i vinh quang c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa, l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c cho ph\u1ea7n r\u1ed7i lo\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 cho s\u1ef1 th\u00e1nh h\u00f3a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Amen<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n

8. S\u00e1ng ki\u1ebfn h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i<\/strong><\/p>\n

“H\u00e3y \u0111i l\u00e0m h\u00f2a v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi anh em \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3.”<\/em> (Mt 5, 23-24)<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean s\u1ebd k\u00e9o d\u00e0i s\u1ef1 chia r\u1ebd m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. Tin M\u1eebng m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eadm tr\u1ec5, ngay c\u1ea3 khi s\u1ef1 ki\u00eau ng\u1ea1o ph\u1ea3i \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn. Th\u00e1nh Phanxic\u00f4 Assisi c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n: \u201cL\u1ea1y Ch\u00faa, xin bi\u1ebfn con th\u00e0nh kh\u00ed c\u1ee5 b\u00ecnh an c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa\u201d. Th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh vi tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau.<\/p>\n

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9.<\/strong> L\u00e1nh \u0111i<\/strong> khi c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cG\u1eb7p nguy hi\u1ec3m, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n \u1ea9n m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ee9a kh\u1edd d\u1ea1i lao t\u1edbi v\u00e0 b\u1ecb thi\u1ec7t th\u00e2n<\/em>.\u201d (Cn 22, 3)<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00f4i khi vi\u1ec7c r\u00fat lui tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh x\u1ea5u h\u01a1n l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4n ngoan. L\u00e1nh \u0111i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ch\u1ea1y tr\u1ed1n, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00f4n ngoan \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u0103n ch\u1eb7n vi\u1ec7c c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh an c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft cho s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. \u0110\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c kh\u00f4n ngoan: th\u01b0\u1eddng trong nh\u1eefng xung \u0111\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh, c\u00e1c phe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra v\u00e0 n\u1ed5i n\u00f3ng ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i nhau. Vi\u1ec7c r\u00fat lui kh\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 k\u00edch \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0y cho ph\u00e9p c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng gi\u1eef c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng s\u1ef1 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn ho\u1eb7c b\u1ecb cu\u1ed1n v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef.<\/p>\n

10. Gi\u1eef g\u00ecn mi\u1ec7ng l\u01b0\u1ee1i<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cGi\u1eef m\u1ed3m \u200bgi\u1eef mi\u1ec7ng l\u00e0 b\u1ea3o to\u00e0n m\u1ea1ng s\u1ed1ng, khua m\u00f4i m\u00faa m\u00e9p \u1eaft s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7t th\u00e2n.<\/em>\u201d (Cn 13, 3)<\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 im l\u1eb7ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i giao ti\u1ebfp, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u00e1c \u00e1i v\u00e0 th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng kh\u00f4n ngoan: n\u00f3 cho ph\u00e9p kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed5 th\u00eam d\u1ea7u v\u00e0o l\u1eeda v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. C\u00e1c Gi\u00e1o Ph\u1ee5 sa m\u1ea1c nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y vi\u1ec7c \u201cg\u00ecn gi\u1eef mi\u1ec7ng l\u01b0\u1ee1i\u201d l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 kh\u1ed5 ch\u1ebf c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n:<\/p>\n

\u201cTr\u00ean h\u1ebft, \u0111an s\u0129 ph\u1ea3i gi\u1eef mi\u1ec7ng l\u01b0\u1ee1i kh\u1ecfi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec ph\u00e1 r\u1ed1i s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh an<\/em>.\u201d (Abba Poemen)<\/p>\n

Trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u201cgi\u1eef g\u00ecn mi\u1ec7ng l\u01b0\u1ee1i\u201d c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch im l\u1eb7ng khi c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn n\u1ed5i l\u00ean, tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng b\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed3ng, v\u00e0 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n trong n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ec3 xin Ch\u00faa nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi nh\u01b0ng phong nhi\u00eau s\u00e2u xa: n\u00f3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 cho Ch\u00faa Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n soi s\u00e1ng, v\u00e0o th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u00edch h\u1ee3p, nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i b\u00ecnh an thay v\u00ec chia r\u1ebd.<\/p>\n

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T\u00fd Linh chuy\u1ec3n ng\u1eef<\/em><\/p>\n

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