{"id":4653,"date":"2014-02-26T08:34:37","date_gmt":"2014-02-26T01:34:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/xuanbichvietnam.net\/trangchu\/?p=4653"},"modified":"2014-02-26T08:34:37","modified_gmt":"2014-02-26T01:34:37","slug":"tu-do-vo-den-hoa-dieu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/xuanbichvietnam.net\/trangchu\/tu-do-vo-den-hoa-dieu\/","title":{"rendered":"T\u1eea \u0110\u1ed4 V\u1ee0 \u0110\u1ebeN H\u00d2A \u0110I\u1ec6U"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u0110\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ec7n d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. Theo t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ai ai c\u0169ng cho r\u1eb1ng, nh\u1eefng g\u00ec g\u1ea7n nh\u1ea5t m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u h\u01a1n h\u1ebft. Kh\u00f4ng \u00edt nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: “T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft qu\u00e1 r\u00f5 ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i m\u00e0…” hay “\u1ed3, b\u00e0 \u1ea5y l\u00e0 th\u1ebf \u0111\u00f3… t\u00f4i c\u00f2n l\u1ea1 g\u00ec!” “\u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 m\u00e0,” “\u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng m\u00e0,” “con n\u00edt m\u00e0”… V\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1i lo\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng ki\u1ec3u n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft r\u00e0nh r\u1ecdt c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. C\u0169ng t\u1eeb n\u00e3o tr\u1ea1ng ch\u1ee7 quan “bi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi” n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng x\u1ea3y ra bi\u1ebft bao b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c, hi\u1ec1m th\u00f9, ganh gh\u00e9t,… Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 c\u00e1i “t\u00f4i” c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang nh\u1ea5t, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111o l\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ed3ng lo\u1ea1i! Blaise Pascal: “C\u00e1i t\u00f4i l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng gh\u00e9t, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i t\u00f4i… c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/em>,\u201d ch\u1ee9 c\u00e1i “t\u00f4i” c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i th\u00ec \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau bi\u1ebft d\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0o! Pascal nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh ti\u1ebfp: “M\u1ed7i c\u00e1i t\u00f4i l\u00e0 th\u00f9 \u0111\u1ecbch c\u1ee7a nhau v\u00e0 khao kh\u00e1t mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m b\u1ea1o ch\u00faa tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i t\u00f4i kh\u00e1c<\/em>.\u201d Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec trong th\u1eb3m s\u00e2u t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi, t\u1eeb c\u00e1c t\u00edn h\u1eefu cho \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 tu h\u00e0nh, ai ai c\u0169ng kh\u00e1t khao l\u00e0m b\u1ea1o ch\u00faa ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, n\u00ean th\u1ebf gian n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1, t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i cho \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 ngo\u1ea1i t\u1ea1i k\u00e9o theo.<\/p>\n

Kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t hay t\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cNg\u00e0y n\u1ecd, Trang T\u1eed c\u00f9ng Hu\u1ec7 T\u1eed \u0111\u1ee9ng ch\u01a1i tr\u00ean c\u1ea7u s\u00f4ng H\u00e0o. Trang T\u1eed n\u00f3i: \u2013 \u00d4i! \u0110\u00e0n c\u00e1 b\u1ea1c \u0111ang b\u01a1i l\u1ed9i thong dong, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u00ec c\u00e1 vui v\u1ebb v\u1eady.<\/em><\/p>\n

Hu\u1ec7 T\u1eed h\u1ecfi: \u2013 \u00d4ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1, l\u00e0m sao bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1 vui?<\/em><\/p>\n

Trang T\u1eed h\u1ecfi l\u1ea1i: \u2013 \u00d4ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00f4i th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao \u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1 vui?<\/em><\/p>\n

Hu\u1ec7 T\u1eed tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi: \u2013 T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u00f4ng, d\u0129 nhi\u00ean t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng\u00a0th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng. C\u0169ng v\u1eady, \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1, n\u00ean t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i vui c\u1ee7a c\u00e1. Th\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n nghi ng\u1edd g\u00ec n\u1eefa! <\/em>(Nam Hoa Kinh<\/em>, Trang T\u1eed – Thi\u00ean Thu Th\u1ee7y).<\/p>\n

Nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y c\u00e1, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u ngh\u0129 c\u00e1 \u0111ang tung t\u0103ng. Khi vui, ch\u00fang ta d\u00f9ng ch\u1eef “tung t\u0103ng,” khi bu\u1ed3n th\u00ec d\u00f9ng ch\u1eef “\u1ee7 r\u0169.” Suy b\u1ee5ng ta ra b\u1ee5ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi, th\u1ebf m\u00e0, nhi\u1ec1u khi ch\u00ednh b\u1ee5ng ta, ta c\u0169ng… ch\u1eb3ng hi\u1ec3u. Trong khi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u cho r\u1eb1ng \u201ckh\u00f4ng ai g\u1ea7n g\u0169i ta h\u01a1n ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ta\u201d n\u00ean ch\u1eb3ng ai hi\u1ec3u ta h\u01a1n ch\u00ednh ta. R\u1ea5t h\u1ee3p l\u00fd \u0111\u1ea5y ch\u1ee9! Nh\u01b0ng ta \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea7m, v\u00e0 l\u1ea7m to. Ta t\u01b0\u1edfng ta hi\u1ec3u c\u00e1, r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1 \u0111ang vui th\u00fa! C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb nh\u1ea3y m\u00faa gi\u1eefa ph\u1ed1 ch\u1ee3, v\u1eady th\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111ang vui hay \u0111ang \u0111i\u00ean \u0111\u1ea3o? C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng gi\u1ecdt n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft r\u01a1i xu\u1ed1ng, l\u00e0 bu\u1ed3n kh\u1ed5 hay h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac? T\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec1n th\u1edd th\u1ea7n Apollon, Delphes, Hy L\u1ea1p, c\u00f3 c\u00e2u ch\u00e2m ng\u00f4n: \u201cH\u00e3y t\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh,\u201d v\u00e0 tri\u1ebft gia c\u1ed5 \u0111\u1ea1i Socrates \u0111\u00e3 d\u00f9ng ch\u00e2m ng\u00f4n n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i s\u00e2u r\u1ed9ng v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi m\u1eb7t. Nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n. T\u1ea1i sao con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e3i \u0111\u1ea3o \u0111i\u00ean? T\u1ea1i sao gian d\u1ed1i, ganh t\u1ef5 hi\u1ec1m th\u00f9 c\u1ee9 tr\u00e0n lan? T\u1ea1i sao c\u1ee9 ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebf v\u00e0 ph\u00f2ng v\u1ec7? \u1ea4y ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec ta s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ta, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00ednh ta. Kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ta, th\u00ec ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft y\u00eau m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i y\u00eau ki\u1ec3u Narcissism (y\u00eau \u00edch k\u1ef7, t\u1ef1 y\u00eau, t\u1ef1 \u00e1i), nh\u01b0ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u1ea3y sinh khi ta bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng h\u01a1n g\u00ec ai, m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 b\u1ee5i tr\u1ea7n \u0111eo b\u00e1m c\u1ee7a tham s\u00e2n si ph\u1eadn ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t to\u00e0n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7y h\u1eefu h\u1ea1n, th\u00ec m\u00ecnh m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi chan h\u00f2a v\u00e0o \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng t\u00e2m linh trong th\u1eb3m s\u00e2u l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

V\u1edbi h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh Trang T\u1eed tr\u00ean s\u00f4ng H\u00e0o \u1edf tr\u00ean, s\u1ebd c\u00f3 hai h\u01b0\u1edbng nh\u00ecn: C\u00e1 kh\u00f4ng vui th\u1eadt v\u00e0 c\u00e1 vui th\u1eadt. N\u1ebfu Trang T\u1eed v\u00e0 c\u00e1 l\u00e0 hai h\u1eefu th\u1ec3 t\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t, kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m h\u00f2a \u0111i\u1ec7u n\u00e0o, th\u00ec c\u1ea3 hai s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea1m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi nhau v\u00e0 \u0111i v\u00e0o trong nhau. Khi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 kho ch\u1ee9a nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i t\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t kh\u00f4ng \u0111i v\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi nhau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u1eefng. M\u1ecdi h\u1eefu th\u1ec3 trong v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 li\u00ean \u0111\u1edbi v\u00e0 n\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1a nhau \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu. Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi th\u1ec3 l\u00fd trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1ef1c v\u1eadt n\u00e0o c\u0169ng th\u1ebf, c\u00e1c b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn v\u00e0 chi ti\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t (diversity) ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng t\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t (separation). Kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c nhau v\u1ec1 ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng, c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac, kh\u00f4ng gian th\u1eddi gian… nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i c\u00f9ng chung chia h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi nhau \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i v\u00e0 t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng. M\u1ed7i h\u1eefu th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 t\u00ednh (wholeness) n\u00ean c\u00e1c chi ti\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec1u quy\u1ec7n ch\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nhau (1Cr 12,12-13). Ph\u00e1 r\u1eebng s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00f4i sinh quanh n\u00f3. B\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn hay chi ti\u1ebft n\u00e0o b\u1ecb h\u01b0 h\u1ea1i th\u00ec c\u00e1c b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn hay chi ti\u1ebft kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd b\u1ecb t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t s\u1ebd b\u1ecb ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1.<\/p>\n

Trang T\u1eed n\u00f3i c\u00e1 vui, v\u00ec t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng Trang T\u1eed \u0111ang vui tr\u00ean c\u1ea7u s\u00f4ng H\u00e0o v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nghi\u1ec7m ngo\u1ea1i c\u1ea3nh \u0111ang tu\u00f4n ch\u1ea3y v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh, trong m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft ngo\u1ea1i c\u1ea3nh c\u0169ng \u0111ang vui v\u1edbi ni\u1ec1m vui c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. N\u00f3i theo ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb c\u1ee7a c\u1ee5 Nguy\u1ec5n Du: “C\u1ea3nh n\u00e0o c\u1ea3nh ch\u1eb3ng \u0111eo s\u1ea7u, ng\u01b0\u1eddi bu\u1ed3n c\u1ea3nh c\u00f3 vui \u0111\u00e2u bao gi\u1edd.”<\/em> C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng ch\u1ee7 quan, \u0111em c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh chi ph\u1ed1i l\u00ean c\u1ea3nh v\u1eadt, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 chung chia h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi c\u1ea3nh. Ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng t\u00e2m linh trong th\u1eb3m s\u00e2u l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh th\u00ec m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c “ta v\u1edbi c\u1ea3nh” ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t. Trang T\u1eed \u0111\u00e3 n\u00ean m\u1ed9t v\u1edbi ngo\u1ea1i c\u1ea3nh, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea3m nghi\u1ec7m “m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi ta tuy hai m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t”. Trang T\u1eed v\u00e0 c\u00e1 c\u00f3 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng t\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t. V\u00e2ng! M\u1ed9t gi\u1ecdt l\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u0103n tr\u00ean g\u00f2 m\u00e1 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m rung \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ea3 \u0110\u1ea5t Tr\u1eddi. M\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfng th\u1edf d\u00e0i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng l\u00e0m cho c\u1ea3 v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 n\u00e0y c\u00fai xu\u1ed1ng \u00f4m cho\u00e0ng l\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n. S\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c v\u1eabn li\u00ean t\u1ee5c t\u1ecfa kh\u1eafp v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c lo\u1ea1i s\u00f3ng \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eeb lan truy\u1ec1n trong kh\u00f4ng gian, m\u00e0 m\u1eaft th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y.<\/p>\n

V\u1ecf b\u1ecdc ph\u1ec9nh g\u1ea1t<\/strong><\/p>\n

H\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 \u0111\u00e1nh l\u1eeba ch\u00fang ta. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u<\/em> n\u00e0o c\u0169ng sang<\/em>. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o<\/em> n\u00e0o c\u0169ng h\u00e8n<\/em>. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea1o<\/em> l\u00e0 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9c<\/em>. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f4ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 chung m\u1ed9t khu\u00f4n nh\u00ecn, \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 v\u00e0 k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn d\u1ef1a theo h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a ng\u00e0nh qu\u1ea3ng c\u00e1o \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u1ea5y n\u01a1i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ed1t b\u1ea1c. Trong l\u00e3nh v\u1ef1c \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng t\u00e2m linh c\u0169ng v\u1eady. Ki\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c “nghi\u00eam trang v\u00e0 tr\u1ea7m tr\u1ecdng” \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e2y ra bi\u1ebft bao n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft d\u1ea7n m\u00f2n n\u01a1i c\u00e1c t\u00edn h\u1eefu c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu s\u0129 trong \u0111\u1eddi tu tr\u00ec. T\u00e2m th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c “tr\u1ea7m tr\u1ecdng” v\u1eabn l\u1eb7ng l\u1ebd l\u1ef3 l\u1ee3m b\u00e1m ch\u1eb7t v\u00e0o n\u00e3o tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a k\u1ebb s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea1o, c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng tu s\u0129 cho \u0111\u1ebfn su\u1ed1t c\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi! S\u1ed1ng ki\u1ec3u “\u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c” r\u1eadp khu\u00f4n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu m\u00e0 m\u1ecdi t\u00edn \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i tu\u00e2n theo v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m kh\u00e1c. S\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd b\u1ecb coi l\u00e0 v\u00f4 \u0111\u1ea1o ho\u1eb7c s\u1ebd b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 r\u1ea5t th\u1ea5p, v\u00e0 s\u1ebd b\u1ecb xem l\u00e0 k\u1ebb r\u1ed1t h\u1ebft!<\/p>\n

Trong m\u1ed9t tu vi\u1ec7n n\u1ecd, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u1ea7y tr\u1ebb trung xem ra c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u tri\u1ec3n v\u1ecdng. Anh r\u1ea5t chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c trong m\u1ecdi kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Anh r\u1ea5t ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh, si\u00eang n\u0103ng chu to\u00e0n kinh nguy\u1ec7n, \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd v\u1eafng m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y (gi\u1eef c\u00f4-r\u00f4, ti\u1ebfng Hy L\u1ea1p khoros<\/em>, Latin chorus<\/em>). Kh\u00f4ng ai nghe th\u1ea5y anh ng\u1ed3i l\u00ea \u0111\u00f4i m\u00e1ch n\u00f3i x\u1ea5u v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch ai. Anh lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n nghi\u00eam trang v\u00e0 nghi\u00eam t\u00fac. Anh lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tu s\u0129 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng m\u1eabu m\u1ef1c. Anh ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m h\u00e3nh di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a D\u00f2ng v\u00e0 s\u1ebd<\/em> l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t linh m\u1ee5c r\u1ea5t s\u00e1ng gi\u00e1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai!<\/p>\n

Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, ai ai ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi anh c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t b\u1ee9c r\u00e0o c\u1ea3n v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 gi\u1eefa anh v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Anh \u00edt t\u01b0\u01a1i c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i c\u00e1c anh em b\u1ea1n qu\u00e2y qu\u1ea7n vui \u0111\u00f9a, nh\u01b0ng khi anh xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n th\u00ec nh\u01b0 anh mang c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t b\u1ea7u kh\u00ed u \u00e1m bao tr\u00f9m. Trong l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ed7i anh em c\u1ee7a anh \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean kh\u1ef1ng l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u1ee9c c\u1ea3n v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n \u1edf gi\u1eefa. Anh kh\u00f4ng h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean. Nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfng n\u00f4 \u0111\u00f9a v\u00e0 h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a anh em l\u00e0m anh th\u00eam thu v\u00e0o th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Ph\u00f2ng v\u1ec7. T\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t. Trong v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c, anh \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn v\u00ec s\u1ef1 vui \u0111\u00f9a \u1ea5y t\u1ed1 gi\u00e1c c\u00e1i b\u1ea5t to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 trong anh.<\/p>\n

Tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ef1 ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n n\u01a1i anh \u1edf, anh ch\u00e0ng trai tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean ng\u00e3 b\u1ec7nh. B\u00e1c s\u0129 ch\u1ea9n \u0111o\u00e1n c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh do anh \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng trong t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m (d\u00e9pression). Anh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ebfn khoa tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb trong v\u00f2ng h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ng.<\/p>\n

Tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m x\u1ea3y ra ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu do t\u1eeb hai nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n ch\u00ednh, th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ec7nh \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi bi\u1ebfn c\u1ed1 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng x\u1ea3y ra (tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m ngo\u1ea1i sinh), th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 do s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u1ed9i ti\u1ebft t\u1ed1 trong c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 (tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m n\u1ed9i sinh). Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i m\u1eafc c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m ngo\u1ea1i sinh, v\u00ec cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y th\u00eam ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p v\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i lao theo nh\u1ecbp s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i. C\u00e0ng hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p, c\u00e0ng ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p th\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00e0ng ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf n\u00ean ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p theo. M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh chung, nh\u1ecbp s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng “n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i, ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng \u0111i theo t\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9 \u1ea5y, c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb lo\u1ea1i kh\u1ecfi gu\u1ed3ng m\u00e1y \u0111ang ch\u1ea1y, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng s\u1ebd b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e8 b\u1eb9p.” L\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng nhanh, l\u00e0m cho t\u00e2m tr\u00ed ph\u1ea3i nhanh theo, khi t\u00e2m tr\u00ed nhanh, l\u1ea1i k\u00e9o th\u00eam l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng nhanh n\u1eefa, v\u00e0 c\u1ee9 th\u1ebf…<\/p>\n

Tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m ngo\u1ea1i sinh \u0111ang ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 n\u01a1i c\u00e1c tu s\u0129 trong c\u00e1c D\u00f2ng tu, ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u nghi l\u1ec5, nghi th\u1ee9c tr\u1ecbnh tr\u1ecdng. Nh\u1eefng tu s\u0129 nghi\u00eam trang v\u00e0 qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00e3 v\u00e0 \u0111ang trong t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m. S\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c v\u00e0 nghi\u00eam trang b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 v\u1ecf b\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n \u0111ang \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 b\u00ean trong. Ch\u00ednh \u00e1o kho\u00e1c n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m cho bao nhi\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea7m t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n. Th\u1eadt ra, \u00e1o kho\u00e1c n\u00e0y l\u00e0 r\u00e0o c\u1ea3n t\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t<\/em> gi\u1eefa n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i v\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a anh. M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, s\u1ef1 nghi\u00eam c\u1ea9n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu s\u0129 tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a \u0111i\u1ec7u gi\u1eefa c\u00e1i b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i v\u00e0 b\u00ean trong. L\u00f2ng anh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t, n\u00ean anh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 b\u00ecnh an n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i. Anh c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng gi\u1eef nghi\u00eam t\u00fac, nh\u01b0ng s\u00e2u th\u1eb3m l\u00f2ng anh v\u1eabn \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 v\u00e0 t\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t. Anh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi mang to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 t\u00ednh. Ti\u1ebfng c\u01b0\u1eddi, nh\u1eefng d\u00f2ng l\u1ec7 r\u01a1i, s\u1ef1 h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc, l\u00f2ng ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt, s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb, h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ed3ng, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, l\u00f2ng tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u ch\u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh an v\u00e0 tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng t\u00e2m linh. M\u1ed9t khi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t t\u00ednh h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 trong s\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a ph\u1eadn ng\u01b0\u1eddi, th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i v\u00e0 th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Thomas Merton cho bi\u1ebft: “\u00c2u lo ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u b\u1ea5t an t\u00e2m linh<\/em>” (Anxiety is the mark of spiritual insecurity).<\/p>\n

L\u1eafng nghe ti\u1ebfng n\u1ea5c ngh\u1eb9n \u0111\u1ed3ng lo\u1ea1i…<\/strong><\/p>\n

Trong m\u1ed9t c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n n\u1eef tu n\u1ecd, c\u00f3 ch\u1ecb b\u1ec1 tr\u00ean ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m coi s\u00f3c c\u00e1c ch\u1ecb em g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi m\u1eb7t. T\u00f4i n\u00f3i m\u1ecdi m\u1eb7t v\u00ec c\u00f3 l\u00fd do c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Ch\u1ecb c\u0169ng ph\u00e2n v\u00e0 giao vi\u1ec7c cho m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ch\u1ecb em \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng tu vi\u1ec7n, nh\u01b0ng th\u1eadt t\u00ecnh m\u00e0 n\u00f3i, ch\u1ecb v\u1eabn l\u00e0m t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1. C\u00e1c ch\u1ecb em c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb c\u00f3 “t\u00ean” \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f3 “vi\u1ec7c” \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 tr\u00ean m\u1eb7t ch\u1eef. T\u1eebng chi ti\u1ebft cho \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1ed5ng th\u1ec3 trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng tu vi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 t\u1eebng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n ch\u1ecb em, ch\u1ecb \u0111\u1ec1u n\u1eafm r\u1ea5t r\u00f5, quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3, v\u00e0 chi ph\u1ed1i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3. Ch\u1ecb \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng tin m\u1ed9t ai. C\u00e1c ch\u1ecb em hay t\u00edn h\u1eefu \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi ch\u1ecb ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7, nhu c\u1ea7u, hay v\u00ec c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c quan tr\u1ecdng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t ai d\u00e1m \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 hay tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ch\u1ecb trong t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh ch\u1ecb em hay t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n h\u1eefu. Ch\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng thu\u1ed9c t\u00edp ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghi\u00eam t\u00fac v\u00e0 “\u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c” nh\u01b0 ch\u00e0ng tu s\u0129 tr\u1ebb kia, nh\u01b0ng tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i, ch\u1ecb l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 cau c\u00f3 v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu. Trong nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i nguy\u1ec7n kinh v\u00e0 Th\u00e1nh L\u1ec5, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 v\u00e0 n\u00e9t m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng hi\u1ec7n l\u00ean s\u1ef1 s\u1ea7u n\u00e3o v\u00e0 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. \u00c1nh m\u1eaft ch\u1ecb bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t an. Khi sinh ho\u1ea1t chung v\u1edbi nhau, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecb em n\u00e0o d\u00e1m h\u1ecfi hay n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ch\u1ecb b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 c\u00e2u g\u00ec. C\u00e1c ch\u1ecb em s\u1ee3 ch\u1ecb. C\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n v\u00ec th\u1ebf tr\u1edf n\u00ean ng\u1ed9t ng\u1ea1t v\u00e0… kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng g\u00ec n\u1eefa, d\u00f9 r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c ch\u1ecb em c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb trung v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng n\u1ed9i l\u1ef1c. Gi\u00e1o ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u00e0i, ch\u1ecb c\u00f3 v\u1ebb vui l\u00ean m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi c\u00e1c ch\u1ecb em, ch\u1ecb lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi cay c\u00fa v\u00e0 g\u1eaft g\u1ecfng.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00edt nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vui, v\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang ta th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ra b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0 l\u1eddi n\u00f3i cay c\u00fa v\u00e0 \u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9c. T\u1ee5c ng\u1eef Vi\u1ec7t Nam c\u00f3 c\u00e2u: “Gi\u1eadn c\u00e1 ch\u00e9m th\u1edbt<\/em>.” Ch\u1ecb b\u1ec1 tr\u00ean n\u1eef tu kia \u0111ang c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i. \u0110\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ra b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 l\u1eddi n\u00f3i cay c\u00fa g\u1eaft g\u1ecfng. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ch\u1ecb \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Ch\u1ecb ch\u1ea1y tr\u1ed1n s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 n\u01a1i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t khi ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 th\u00e2n \u00e1i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i trong m\u00ecnh, th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y. Nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 th\u00e2n \u00e1i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a \u0111i\u1ec7u trong m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi cay c\u00fa, c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 khinh mi\u1ec7t, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, n\u00e9t m\u1eb7t c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfng th\u00e9t g\u00e0o van xin \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh. N\u1eef v\u0103n s\u0129 Maya Angelou n\u00f3i: “Cay c\u00fa g\u1eaft g\u1ecfng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 b\u1ec7nh ung th\u01b0, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0103n d\u1ea7n \u0103n m\u00f2n con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y. C\u00f2n gi\u1eadn d\u1eef nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 ng\u1ecdn l\u1eeda thi\u00eau h\u1ee7y ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c<\/em>.” M\u1ed9t con th\u00fa \u0111ang g\u1ea7m g\u1eeb v\u00e0 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef l\u00e0 con th\u00fa \u0111ang mang trong m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111au h\u00e0nh h\u1ea1. H\u00e3y l\u1eafng nghe ti\u1ebfng ngh\u1eb9n n\u1ea5c c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ti\u1ebfng g\u00e0o th\u00e9t c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed3ng lo\u1ea1i xung quanh ch\u00fang ta. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 b\u00ecnh an n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u00e0 chua cay, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ebd hi\u1ec1n l\u00e0nh v\u00e0 lan t\u1ecfa b\u00ecnh an \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n nh\u1ea1y b\u00e9n v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, \u0111\u1ec3 thay v\u00ec l\u00ean \u00e1n v\u00e0 t\u1ea9y chay nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang c\u00f3 v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ea5y, ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y c\u00f3 n\u01a1i m\u00ecnh s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t. H\u1ecd \u0111ang b\u1ec7nh. Th\u1ebf m\u00e0 r\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng khi, ch\u00fang ta r\u01a1i v\u00e0o hai th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9, th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i qua th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 xa l\u00e1nh, kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n d\u00ednh b\u00e9n phi\u1ec1n l\u1ee5y; th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 s\u1ebd “\u0103n thua \u0111\u1ee7<\/em>“, “h\u00f2n \u0111\u1ea5t n\u00e9m \u0111i h\u00f2n ch\u00ec n\u00e9m l\u1ea1i<\/em>.” V\u1edbi hai th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u1ea5y, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho t\u00ecnh th\u1ebf t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u00e0y nay c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng ph\u00f2ng v\u1ec7 l\u1eabn t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 anh c\u00f3 “\u0111\u1ea5t” c\u00f2n t\u00f4i c\u00f3 “ch\u00ec”. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang x\u00e9 to\u1ea1c v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111au c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y th\u00eam s\u00e2u r\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m v\u00e0 m\u00e1u \u0111i\u00ean c\u00f3 pha th\u00eam b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh th\u00edch gi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed5i l\u00ean trong ta. \u00d4ng t\u1ed5 ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc Sigmund Freud, cho bi\u1ebft, trong m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i hai n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y: n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c ch\u1ebft. Khi ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai ph\u00eda \u0111\u1ec1u mang hai n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c n\u00e0y. T\u1ef1 v\u1ec7 m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng l\u1ea1i. T\u1ef1 v\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng c\u00f2n, ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u00eau di\u1ec7t, ti\u00eau di\u1ec7t r\u1ed3i th\u00ec ta m\u1edbi t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i! Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y n\u00e9m h\u00f2n \u0111\u1ea5t v\u00e0o ta, c\u00f2n ta th\u00ec ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e9m h\u00f2n ch\u00ec v\u00e0o h\u1ecd. H\u00f2n ch\u00ec n\u1eb7ng h\u01a1n h\u00f2n \u0111\u1ea5t!<\/p>\n

Ham s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 th\u00e8m ch\u1ebft<\/strong><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng khi ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u t\u1ea1i sao h\u00f4m qua ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i h\u00e0nh x\u1eed t\u1ec7 b\u1ea1c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 l\u00fac ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e3i r\u1ea5t \u01b0 l\u00e0 t\u1eed t\u1ebf v\u00e0 bao dung. L\u00fac th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta hi\u1ec1n h\u1eadu th\u1ee9 tha, g\u1eb7p ai c\u0169ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau v\u00e0 quan t\u00e2m tr\u00ecu m\u1ebfn, n\u00f3i n\u00f3i c\u01b0\u1eddi c\u01b0\u1eddi, l\u00fac th\u00ec l\u1ea1i mu\u1ed1n ph\u00e1 \u0111\u1ed5, cay nghi\u1ec7t cay c\u00fa, ho\u1eb7c v\u00f4 v\u1ecdng r\u00fat v\u00e0o v\u1ecf \u1ed1c m\u1ecfng manh t\u1ea1m b\u1ee3. Nh\u00ecn s\u00e2u v\u00e0o n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 xung kh\u1eafc v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 l\u00fac \u1ea9n l\u00fac hi\u1ec7n. N\u1ed9i t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t tr\u1eadn chi\u1ebfn v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh c\u1ea3 khi th\u1ee9c l\u1eabn khi ng\u1ee7 (\u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c), ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 ta bi\u1ebft ta s\u1ed1ng hay ch\u1ebft trong tr\u1eadn chi\u1ebfn dai d\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 th\u1ea7m l\u1eb7ng \u1ea5y. Khi ta th\u1eafng, ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y an vui, khi ta thua, ta th\u1ea5y c\u1ea3 b\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi n\u00e0y th\u1eadt l\u00e0 u \u00e1m. Nh\u1eefng khi ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1eafng th\u1ebf l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c s\u1ed1ng chi ph\u1ed1i, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, bao dung, th\u00e2n \u00e1i, g\u1ea7n g\u0169i, t\u01b0\u01a1i vui. Nh\u1eefng l\u00fac ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y thua thi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac ta b\u1ecb n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c ch\u1ebft th\u1ed1ng l\u00e3nh, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ghen gh\u00e9t, ganh t\u1ef5, nh\u1ecf nhen, k\u1ebft \u00e1n, h\u1eb1n th\u00f9, c\u00e0m r\u00e0m, kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, \u00edch k\u1ef7, u s\u1ea7u \u1ee7 d\u1ed9t, chua cay, g\u1eaft g\u1ecfng. C\u0169ng n\u00ean nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, \u0111\u1eebng t\u01b0\u1edfng khi ta h\u1ea1 g\u1ee5c ai, ch\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1p ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 ai, d\u00f9ng l\u00fd l\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i ai… l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng! Kh\u00f4ng, ch\u00ednh khi ch\u00fang ta chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng v\u1edbi ch\u1ee7 t\u00e2m n\u00e2ng m\u00ecnh l\u00ean v\u00e0 h\u1ea1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c xu\u1ed1ng, ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u00fac ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 thua tr\u1eadn. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng c\u1ee7a “c\u00e1i t\u00f4i” trong ta. “C\u00e1i t\u00f4i” c\u1ee7a ta c\u00e0ng th\u1eafng th\u1ebf, trong s\u00e2u th\u1eb3m n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m, ch\u00fang ta c\u00e0ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u00ea ch\u1ec1 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1edbn \u0111au. C\u00f3 hai lo\u1ea1i th\u1eafng th\u1ebf, n\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 th\u1eafng th\u1ebf h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng, th\u00ec s\u1ef1 th\u1eafng th\u1ebf \u1ea5y s\u1ebd \u0111em l\u1ea1i b\u00ecnh an v\u00e0 thanh tho\u00e1t cho ta v\u00e0 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi, c\u00f2n s\u1ef1 th\u1eafng th\u1ebf m\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1i t\u00f4i \u00edch k\u1ef7 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 h\u1ea1 g\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ed3ng lo\u1ea1i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eafng th\u1ebf \u0111em \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea5t an v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 chua x\u00f3t s\u00e2u th\u1eb3m.<\/p>\n

V\u1eady, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, ch\u00fang ta th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 ai? l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ham s\u1ed1ng (thu\u1ed9c n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c s\u1ed1ng) hay th\u00e8m ch\u1ebft (thu\u1ed9c n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c ch\u1ebft)? l\u00e0 th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n hay ma qu\u1ef7? l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111em b\u00ecnh an hay mang l\u1ea1i ch\u1ebft ch\u00f3c? Hai n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c c\u1ee9 xen k\u1ebd \u0111\u1eafp \u0111\u1ed5i trong ta!<\/p>\n

T\u1eeb nguy\u00ean th\u1ee7y, do ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1 quy lu\u1eadt c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa b\u1edfi ti\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n A\u0111am v\u00e0 Ev\u00e0, \u0111\u00e3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 trong th\u1eb3m s\u00e2u n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. C\u1ed1 gi\u00e1o ho\u00e0ng Gioan Phaol\u00f4 II cho bi\u1ebft “sau khi ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 nh\u00e2n v\u1ecb,<\/em>” v\u00e0 ng\u00e0i n\u00f3i th\u00eam: “A\u0111am v\u00e0 Ev\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t an v\u00e0 x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh do s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu h\u1ee3p nh\u1ea5t trong ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh”<\/em> (Th\u1ea7n H\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 Th\u00e2n X\u00e1c<\/em>, ch\u01b0\u01a1ng III). \u0110\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 l\u00e0 do \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a \u0111i\u1ec7u trong n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n th\u1eed th\u00e1ch trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng d\u1ec5 v\u1ee1. Ch\u00fang ta \u00edt nhi\u1ec1u c\u0169ng c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m r\u1eb1ng, nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fac ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh an v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tha thi\u1ebft, th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea5t ch\u1ee3t khi g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t bi\u1ebfn c\u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng may n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c suy s\u1ee5p v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i. T\u1eeb th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 vui t\u01b0\u01a1i bao dung \u0111\u00e3 nhanh ch\u00f3ng chuy\u1ec3n sang c\u00e1ch h\u00e0nh x\u1eed cau c\u00f3 g\u1eaft g\u1ecfng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng li\u00ean \u0111\u1edbi. Gi\u00e1o ho\u00e0ng Gioan Phaol\u00f4 II n\u00f3i n\u01a1i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i m\u1ecdi th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u mang c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 nh\u00e2n v\u1ecb, \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 n\u00e0y l\u00e0m con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea5t \u0111i t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7, m\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh: “Sau khi ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i, A\u0111am v\u00e0 Ev\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t th\u00e2n x\u00e1c m\u00ecnh theo ki\u1ec3u tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, v\u1edbi t\u00ednh \u0111\u01a1n s\u01a1 h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f4 t\u1ed9i nguy\u00ean th\u1ee7y n\u1eefa. Ch\u00ednh c\u00e1i c\u01a1 c\u1ea5u t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7, v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n v\u1ecb, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb lung lay t\u1eadn g\u1ed1c r\u1ec5.<\/em>\u201d Vi\u1ec7c l\u1ea5y l\u00e1 che th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a A\u0111am v\u00e0 Ev\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u1edfi s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1, m\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i nhau. B\u1ea5y gi\u1edd hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang h\u00f2a \u0111i\u1ec7u t\u1ef1 th\u00e2n v\u00e0 v\u00e0o nhau. Nh\u01b0ng, thay v\u00ec hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi trao ban s\u1ef1 t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh cho nhau, th\u00ec gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y, hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 ng\u1edd v\u1ef1c nhau, xem b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 th\u00f9 ngh\u1ecbch. Ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m v\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 l\u1ebd ra n\u00ean l\u00e0m (\u0111\u1ed1i chi\u1ebfu Rm 7,19). S\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 l\u00e0 h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a nguy\u00ean t\u1ed9i, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n b\u1ecb th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u00fang ngh\u0129a, nh\u01b0 x\u01b0a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ec3 n\u01a1i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eefa, tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i, thay v\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nguy\u00ean v\u1eb9n c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 l\u00e0 hy hi\u1ebfn trao ban trong gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean, gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 th\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecb, chi\u1ebfm h\u1eefu, \u00edch k\u1ef7, kh\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1eeb, v\u00e0 tri\u1ec7t h\u1ea1 l\u1eabn nhau.\u0085<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n

Cu\u1ed9c chi\u1ebfn dai d\u1eb3ng gi\u1eefa n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 ch\u1ebft trong n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u0111\u00f3. M\u1ed9t th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t cho m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec3 cho n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c s\u1ed1ng chi\u1ebfm \u01b0u th\u1ebf h\u01a1n hay n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c ch\u1ebft lu\u00f4n chi ph\u1ed1i m\u1ecdi suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh? \u0110au kh\u1ed5 v\u1eabn x\u1ea3y ra trong ch\u00fang ta, cho d\u00f9 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c s\u1ed1ng ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ebft. S\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t (tinh th\u1ea7n B\u00e1t Ph\u00fac) hay kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t (b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i, s\u1ef1 d\u1eef), \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3.<\/p>\n

\u0110au kh\u1ed5 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 nh\u00e2n v\u1ecb. Nh\u01b0ng suy cho c\u00f9ng t\u1eadn, \u0111\u00e2y v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u1ea7u nhi\u1ec7m – m\u1ea7u nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00e0 m\u1ea7u nhi\u1ec7m n\u00e0y li\u00ean quan m\u1eadt thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi m\u1ea7u nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu – Ng\u00f4i L\u1eddi xu\u1ed1ng th\u1ebf l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi – \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecdn Giu\u0111a Iscari\u1ed1t l\u00e0m m\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec7. Giu\u0111a ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Ch\u00faa th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u1eafm m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ecdn, v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tin t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1eef “c\u1ee7a”. V\u1eady m\u00e0, Ch\u00faa l\u1ea1i b\u1ecb ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i. \u0110\u1ee9c gi\u00e1o ho\u00e0ng B\u00ean\u00ea\u0111\u00edct\u00f4 XVI \u0111\u00e3 cho bi\u1ebft c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi qua bi\u1ebfn c\u1ed1 Giu\u0111a ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i nh\u01b0 sau: \u201cS\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a Giu\u0111a cho th\u1ea5y, s\u1ebd c\u00f2n m\u00e3i \u0111au kh\u1ed5 v\u00ec h\u1ee9ng ch\u1ecbu s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t trung. Th\u00e1nh v\u1ecbnh vi\u1ebft: \u2018C\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n con h\u1eb1ng tin c\u1eady, \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f9ng con chia c\u01a1m s\u1ebb b\u00e1nh, m\u00e0 nay c\u0169ng gi\u01a1 g\u00f3t \u0111\u1ea1p con!\u2019 (Tv 41, 10). S\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng ch\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n b\u00ed t\u00edch l\u00e0 H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh. Trong H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh, v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u2018nh\u1eadn l\u1ea5y b\u00e1nh\u2019 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Ch\u00faa trao v\u00e0 r\u1ed3i quay l\u1ea1i ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i Ng\u00e0i<\/em>\u201d (Joseph Ratzinger – \u0110\u1ee9c gi\u00e1o ho\u00e0ng B\u00ean\u00ea\u0111\u00edct\u00f4 XVI, cu\u1ed1n \u0110\u1ee9c<\/em> Gi\u00easu th\u00e0nh Nazareth<\/em> \u2013 Ph\u1ea7n II. <\/em>Vatican City, 2011).<\/p>\n

Qua bi\u1ebfn c\u1ed1 tr\u1edb tr\u00eau \u1ea5y, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh \u0111\u00e3, \u0111ang v\u00e0 s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi bi k\u1ecbch Ch\u00faa b\u1ecb kh\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1eeb. Hay n\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1. Nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt trong Kinh Th\u00e1nh C\u1ef1u \u01af\u1edbc v\u00e0 c\u00e1c s\u00e1ch Tin M\u1eebng trong T\u00e2n \u01af\u1edbc, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y to\u00e0n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 (b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt, b\u1ecb lo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb, b\u1ecb khinh mi\u1ec7t, gi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi, b\u1ecf ch\u1ed3ng, b\u1ecf v\u1ee3, ph\u1ea3n b\u1ea1n, ph\u1ea3n th\u1ea7y… b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng b\u1ea5t bao dung, c\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5p). \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ea7u nhi\u1ec7m trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng t\u00e2m linh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, qua \u0111\u00f3 Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu kh\u00e1t khao g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta trong c\u00f5i l\u00f2ng s\u00e2u th\u1eb3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. M\u1ea7u nhi\u1ec7m nh\u1eadp th\u1ec3 v\u1eabn \u0111ang ti\u1ebfp di\u1ec5n. Ch\u00ednh th\u1eb3m s\u00e2u c\u00f5i l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 n\u01a1i t\u1ecbch l\u1eb7ng v\u00e0 l\u00e0 cung th\u00e1nh, n\u01a1i \u0111\u00f3 Ng\u00e0i s\u1ebd cho ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m n\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n th\u1ea5y s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i g\u00ec n\u1eefa. Th\u00e1nh Gioan Th\u00e1nh Gi\u00e1 \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i: “Thinh l\u1eb7ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa<\/em>.” V\u00e0 c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh n\u01a1i \u0111\u00e2y, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n h\u1eefu th\u1ec3 s\u00e2u nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 th\u1eadt nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft y\u00eau Ch\u00faa. Nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 th\u00e2n \u00e1i v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh h\u01a1n. C\u00f3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 hai \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng trong gi\u1edbi r\u0103n c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa: “Gi\u1edbi r\u0103n \u0111\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0: Nghe \u0111\u00e2y, h\u1ee1i \u00cdt-ra-en, \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa, Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, Ch\u00faa ch\u00fang ta, l\u00e0 Ch\u00faa duy nh\u1ea5t, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u01a1i h\u00e3y y\u00eau m\u1ebfn Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa ng\u01b0\u01a1i h\u1ebft l\u00f2ng, h\u1ebft linh h\u1ed3n, h\u1ebft tr\u00ed kh\u00f4n v\u00e0 h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c ng\u01b0\u01a1i. C\u00f2n \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 gi\u1edbi r\u0103n th\u1ee9 hai: Ng\u01b0\u01a1i h\u00e3y y\u00eau m\u1ebfn tha nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh<\/strong> ng\u01b0\u01a1i<\/em>” (Mc 12,29-31). M\u1ed9t khi kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n hay ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, ho\u1eb7c ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn h\u01a1n nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 A\u0111am Ev\u00e0 t\u00ecm c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 che ph\u1ee7 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn m\u00e3i \u1edf trong s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1, n\u01a1i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 n\u01a1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n c\u1eadn. Th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1<\/em> m\u1edf l\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1eddi Ch\u00faa v\u00e0o trong cung th\u00e1nh c\u1ee7a c\u00f5i l\u00f2ng ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng? \u0110\u1ec3 Ch\u00faa ng\u1ef1 v\u00e0o l\u00f2ng ch\u00fang ta, ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft y\u00eau ch\u00ednh th\u00e2n ph\u1eadn \u0111\u1ea7y h\u1ea1n gi\u1edbi v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Khi bi\u1ebft y\u00eau ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 trao ban t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c cho \u0111\u1ed3ng lo\u1ea1i (m\u1edf l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh – bi\u1ebft ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh – y\u00eau ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh – bi\u1ebft Ch\u00faa – y\u00eau Ch\u00faa – y\u00eau \u0111\u1ed3ng lo\u1ea1i). Thomas Merton g\u1ecdi c\u00f5i l\u00f2ng s\u00e2u th\u1eb3m \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00e2m \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a h\u1eefu th\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta, n\u01a1i \u1ea5y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea1m t\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt tinh tuy\u1ec1n v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u00e1ng quy h\u01b0\u1edbng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u1ec1 \u0110\u1ea5ng Tuy\u1ec7t \u0110\u1ed1i. Merton n\u00f3i: “Ch\u00faa \u1ea9n n\u00fap trong t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Ng\u00e0i khi t\u00f4i ch\u00ecm v\u00e0o c\u00f5i t\u1ecbch l\u1eb7ng t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n, l\u00e0 n\u01a1i m\u00e0 Ng\u00e0i \u0111ang \u1ea9n n\u00fap<\/em>” (The Journals of Thomas Merton: Entering the Silence: Becoming a Monk and Writer.<\/em> Volume II: 1941-1952.\u00a0 Jonathan Montaldo, ed.\u00a0 San Francisco: HarperCollins Publishers, 1996, trg. 187).<\/p>\n

M\u00e3nh l\u1ef1c b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i hay n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c ch\u1ebft v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng v\u00e2y b\u1ee7a quanh v\u00e0 trong ch\u00fang ta. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ng\u00e0y nay, c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang \u0111ang chi\u1ebfm \u01b0u th\u1ebf. V\u00e2ng, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng kh\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1eeb v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i l\u1eabn nhau, h\u01a1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 nhau. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00ec th\u1ebf ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00e0n g\u1eafn \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 khi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n nh\u00ecn-nh\u1eadn<\/em> ch\u00ednh c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 \u1ea5y. Nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n r\u00f5 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 n\u01a1i m\u00ecnh, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi “\u0111\u1ea7u h\u00e0ng” Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. Ch\u00ednh khi Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu ch\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 t\u1eadn c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a h\u1eefu th\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh tr\u00ean Th\u00e1nh Gi\u00e1: “L\u1ea1y Cha, sao Cha b\u1ecf con?<\/em>” (Mt 27:46) l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh l\u00fac Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu “\u0111\u1ea7u h\u00e0ng” ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n tr\u01b0\u1edbc Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. Th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, l\u00fac b\u1ea5y gi\u1edd, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n g\u00ec v\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f2n ai \u0111\u1ec3 Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu b\u00e1m v\u00e0o n\u1eefa. “T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ai \u0111ang v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 mang g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f9ng ta<\/em>“ <\/em>(Mt 11,28) v\u00ec r\u1eb1ng, s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa h\u1eefu h\u00ecnh qua Ng\u00f4i L\u1eddi Nh\u1eadp Th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh qua c\u00e1c B\u00ed T\u00edch tr\u00ean tr\u1ea7n gian n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 cho ch\u00fang ta “\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng d\u1ed3i d\u00e0o<\/em>” (Ga 10,10).<\/em> V\u1edbi s\u1ef1 nh\u1eabn n\u1ea1i v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m x\u00e1c t\u00edn v\u00e0o Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 trong ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Ch\u00faa ch\u00fac ph\u00fac. \u201cH\u00e3y ki\u00ean tr\u00ec ch\u1ea1y trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111ua d\u00e0nh cho ta, m\u1eaft h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu l\u00e0 \u0110\u1ea5ng khai m\u1edf v\u00e0 ki\u1ec7n to\u00e0n l\u00f2ng tin. Ch\u00ednh Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 kh\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1eeb ni\u1ec1m vui d\u00e0nh cho m\u00ecnh, m\u00e0 cam ch\u1ecbu kh\u1ed5 h\u00ecnh th\u1eadp gi\u00e1, ch\u1eb3ng n\u1ec1 chi \u00f4 nh\u1ee5c\u201d\u00a0<\/em>(Dt 12,1-2). <\/em><\/p>\n

S\u1ed1ng trong s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m nghi\u1ec7m ph\u00fac l\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, d\u1eabu r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u0111\u00f3 d\u01b0\u1edbi d\u1ea1ng th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 l\u00fd ho\u1eb7c tinh th\u1ea7n, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u00e0 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua m\u1ecdi ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, c\u0169ng c\u00f9ng c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 \u1ea5y, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ch\u00fac l\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa, th\u00ec d\u00f9 m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 r\u1ea5t nh\u1ecf c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ee7 l\u00e0m ch\u00fang ta ng\u00e3 g\u1ee5c. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 ch\u00fac ph\u00fac, n\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 cho ph\u00e9p n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c ch\u1ebft chi\u1ebfm \u01b0u th\u1ebf qua t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m, u s\u1ea7u ho\u1eb7c qua th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 cay c\u00fa, g\u1eaft g\u1ecfng, kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch.<\/p>\n

Khi nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft s\u1ef1 ph\u00fac l\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n tu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ed5 xu\u1ed1ng t\u1eebng h\u01a1i th\u1edf v\u00e0 m\u1ed7i nh\u1ecbp \u0111\u1eadp tr\u00e1i tim ta, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng t\u00e2m linh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 n\u01a1i t\u1eebng t\u1ebf b\u00e0o c\u1ee7a th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh, l\u1eddi m\u00e0 Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta: “Con l\u00e0 con Ta r\u1ea5t y\u00eau d\u1ea5u<\/em>.” V\u00e2ng! Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Ch\u00faa th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f9ng t\u1eadn, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u “c\u00f9ng t\u1eadn” \u1ea5y c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn hay ch\u01b0a ch\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 c\u00f9ng t\u1eadn c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n v\u1ecb.<\/p>\n

C\u00e0ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft ph\u00fac l\u00e0nh “con Ta y\u00eau d\u1ea5u<\/em>“, c\u00e0ng th\u00eam k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi Ng\u00e0i. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, khi b\u1ecb u s\u1ea7u tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m, ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u00fac ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u1edfi s\u1ef1 cu\u1ed9c thanh l\u1ecdc ch\u00ednh n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m m\u00ecnh; Khi b\u1ecb kh\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1eeb v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i, ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u00fac ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1ea7n v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt v\u00e0 tinh trong h\u1eefu th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi; V\u00e0, khi b\u1ecb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00e0 thua cu\u1ed9c, ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u00fac ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u bi\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng d\u1ed3i d\u00e0o. Tri\u1ebft gia La M\u00e3 c\u1ed5 \u0111\u1ea1i, Lucius Annaeus Seneca, n\u00f3i: “Ng\u00e0y m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n cho l\u00e0 t\u1eadn c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1, l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 ng\u00e0y kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a v\u0129nh c\u1eedu.” <\/em><\/p>\n

Linh m\u1ee5c Kh\u1ea5t Tu\u1ec7<\/em><\/p>\n

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S\u00c1CH THAM KH\u1ea2O<\/strong><\/p>\n

– \u00a0Matthew, Iain<\/a>. The Impact of God: Soundings from St. John of the Cross. <\/em>Great Britain: Hodder and Stoughton, 1995.<\/p>\n

– Merton, Thomas. The Silent Life<\/em>. New York: The Noonday Press, the Abbey of Our Lady of Gethsemani, 1957.<\/p>\n

– Merton, Thomas. Life and Holiness. <\/em>USA: The Abbey of Gethsemani, Inc., 1963.<\/p>\n

– Nouwen, Henri J. M. The Only Necessary Thing: Living a Prayerful Life<\/em>. New York: A Crossroad Book, 1999.<\/p>\n

– Pope Benedict XVI. Jesus of Nazareth: The Infancy Narratives<\/em>. New York: Image Books, 2012.<\/p>\n

– Pope Francis. Open<\/em> Mind, Faithful Heart: Reflections on Following Jesus<\/em>. New York: The Crossroad Publishing Company, 2013.<\/p>\n

– Rolheiser, Ronald. The Holy Longing: The Search for a Christian Spirituality. <\/em>New York: Doubleday, 1999.<\/p>\n

– Rolheiser, Ronald. The Restless Heart. <\/em>New York: Doubleday, 2004.<\/p>\n

– Saint John of the Cross. Dark Night of the Soul<\/em>. (New translation and introduction by Mirabai Starr) New York: Riverhead Books, 2002.
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