{"id":5190,"date":"2014-05-20T17:18:50","date_gmt":"2014-05-20T10:18:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/xuanbichvietnam.net\/trangchu\/?p=5190"},"modified":"2014-05-20T17:18:50","modified_gmt":"2014-05-20T10:18:50","slug":"chuyen-phiem-dao-doi-doc-trong-tuan-chua-nhat-vi-phuc-sinh-a","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/xuanbichvietnam.net\/trangchu\/chuyen-phiem-dao-doi-doc-trong-tuan-chua-nhat-vi-phuc-sinh-a\/","title":{"rendered":"CHUY\u1ec6N PHI\u1ebeM \u0110\u1ea0O \u0110\u1edcI \u0110\u1eccC TRONG TU\u1ea6N CH\u00daA NH\u1eacT VI PH\u1ee4C SINH A"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00a0\u201cVi vu \u0111\u1ed3i th\u00f4ng reo xao x\u00e1c l\u00e1 chi\u1ec1u nay thu v\u1ec1,<\/em><\/p>\n

Em \u01a1i, c\u00e1nh bu\u1ed3m x\u01b0a c\u00f2n v\u01b0\u01a1ng bao l\u1eddi th\u1ec1…\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

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(Nh\u1ea1c ngo\u1ea1i qu\u1ed1c: La Paloma c\u1ee7a <\/em>Tenco\u2013 <\/em><\/p>\n

L\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t: C\u00e1nh Bu\u1ed3m Xa X\u01b0a<\/em> c\u1ee7a T\u1eeb V\u0169)<\/p>\n

(Rm 14: 1-3)<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/strong>Ph\u1ed1i h\u1ee3p ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ec3 phi\u1ebfm c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1eddi v\u1edbi L\u1eddi Ch\u00faa, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf c\u00f3 h\u1ee3p l\u00fd l\u1eafm kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n

Tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y, b\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea1o v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1eb7t ra cho m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf m\u1ed7i khi vi\u1ebft. M\u1ee5c ti\u00eau th\u00f4ng-th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00f4i k\u00e9o b\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea1o g\u00f5 m\u00e1y l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 vi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee7-\u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0o \u0103n kh\u1edbp v\u1edbi chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u1edf \u0111\u1eddi. V\u00e0, chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eddi c\u0169ng t\u1ef1a nh\u01b0 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, l\u1ea1i v\u1eabn c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u00e1t v\u00ed-von \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3m \u00fd\/l\u1eddi, t\u1ef1a h\u1ed3 nh\u01b0 c\u00e2u ti\u1ebfp:<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u201cXa xa \u0111\u00e0n chim m\u1eebng dang c\u00e1nh bi\u1ebfc, tr\u1eddi m\u00e2y tung ho\u00e0nh,<\/em><\/p>\n

S\u01b0\u01a1ng lan l\u1eafng trong ho\u00e0ng h\u00f4n chim, khi t\u00e2m t\u01b0 ta g\u1ea7y.<\/em><\/p>\n

Thuy\u1ec1n ai \u0111ang l\u00eanh \u0111\u00eanh v\u01b0\u1ee3t s\u00f3ng bi\u1ebfc, cho tan v\u01a1i c\u01a1n s\u1ea7u.<\/em><\/p>\n

Ai \u0111ang \u0111\u1eafm \u0111u\u1ed1i tr\u00ean l\u01b0ng mu\u00f4n con s\u00f3ng, xanh b\u1ea1c \u0111\u1ea7u.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

(La Paloma \u2013 b\u0111d<\/em>)<\/p>\n

\u201cChim m\u1eebng dang c\u00e1nh bi\u1ebfc\u201d<\/em> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ed1i-h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi \u201cc\u00e1nh bu\u1ed3m x\u01b0a\u201d <\/em>l\u1ea1i v\u01b0\u01a1ng-v\u1ea5n \u201cbao l\u1eddi th\u1ec1\u201d <\/em>nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf v\u1eabn l\u00e0 v\u00e0 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 l\u1eadp-tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u00fd\/c\u00f3 l\u1eddi r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng n\u1ec3, nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ea5ng th\u00e1nh-hi\u1ec1n da\u1ecd n\u1ecd t\u1eebng kh\u1eb3ng-\u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1edbi th\u00e1nh-h\u1ed9i \u1edf R\u00f4ma, nh\u01b0 sau:<\/p>\n

\u201cAnh em h\u00e3y \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ee9c tin <\/em><\/p>\n

v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng tranh lu\u1eadn v\u1edbi h\u1ecd. <\/em><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tin m\u00ecnh \u0103n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, <\/em><\/p>\n

c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00ec y\u1ebfu ch\u1ec9 \u0103n rau. <\/em><\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0103n \u0111\u1eebng khinh r\u1ebb k\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng \u0103n, <\/em><\/p>\n

c\u00f2n k\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng \u0103n c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng x\u00e9t \u0111o\u00e1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u0103n, <\/em><\/p>\n

v\u00ec Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

(Rm 14: 1-3)<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/em>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eddi x\u01b0a, h\u1ec5 c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n-\u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec loanh quanh nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i-\u0111\u1ec3, nh\u01b0: \u201c\u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ee9c tin\u201d <\/em>v\u00e0 \u201c\u0111\u1eebng tranh-lu\u1eadn v\u1edbi h\u1ecd\u201d, <\/em>kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 n\u1ed9i chuy\u1ec7n \u201c\u0103n u\u1ed1ng\u201d m\u00e0 th\u00f4i, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng \u201c\u0111\u1eebng x\u00e9t \u0111o\u00e1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u0103n\u201d, <\/em>ho\u1eb7c: \u201cThi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00f3n-nh\u1eadn h\u1ecd\u201d,<\/em> l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n c\u0103n-b\u1ea3n h\u1ec7-tr\u1ecdng, trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. <\/em><\/p>\n

C\u0169ng t\u1ef1a nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t \u201cy\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ee9c tin\u201d <\/em>\u0111ang c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201c\u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn<\/em>\u201d ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n g\u00ec \u201ctranh-lu\u1eadn\u201d, v\u1ec1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9. C\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1, kh\u00f4ng thu\u1ed9c th\u1ea9m-quy\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ai, \u0111\u1ec3 \u201ckhinh r\u1ebb<\/em>\u201d, \u201cx\u00e9t \u0111o\u00e1n<\/em>\u201d d\u00f9 m\u00ecnh hay h\u1ecd \u201cy\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ee9c tin<\/em>\u201d.<\/p>\n

Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng, l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng thi\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 m\u00e0 \u00fd\/l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a nh\u1ea1c b\u1ea3n \u1edf b\u00ean tr\u00ean, v\u1eabn di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 qua c\u00e2u h\u00e1t ti\u1ebfp theo sau. R\u1eb1ng:<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u201cBi\u1ec7t ly sao chua cay l\u00e0m m\u1eaft \u01b0\u1edbt, t\u00f3c xanh nay phai m\u00e0u.<\/em><\/p>\n

Nh\u1edb m\u00e3i, nh\u1edb m\u00e3i m\u00f4i em c\u01b0\u1eddi khi b\u1ebfn xa con t\u00e0u.<\/em><\/p>\n

Y\u00eau em qua chu\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y th\u01a1.<\/em><\/p>\n

M\u00e0 gi\u1edd l\u00f2ng c\u00f2n v\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u1edb.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

Nh\u1edb ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a chi\u1ec1u nay m\u00ecnh ta bao \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1.<\/em><\/p>\n

Ni\u1ec1m ri\u00eang se s\u1eaft b\u00ean l\u00f2ng!\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

(La Paloma \u2013 b\u0111d<\/em>)<\/p>\n

Qu\u1ea3 th\u1eadt c\u0169ng \u0111\u00fang! S\u1ed1ng \u1edf \u0111\u1eddi, m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e1ng \u201ckhinh r\u1ebb<\/em>\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i s\u1ebd \u201cx\u00e9t \u0111o\u00e1n<\/em>\u201d ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 \u201ctranh-lu\u1eadn\u201d m\u00e0 th\u00f4i, c\u0169ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng thuy\u1ebft-ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 ta s\u1ed1ng cho ra ng\u01b0\u1eddi, nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ch\u00ed \u00edt, l\u00e0 ch\u00fa-t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec7n d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7\/gi\u00e1o-d\u1ee5c \u0111\u00e1m tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 nh\u00e0 gi\u00e1o \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 b\u00e1o t\u1eebng h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc tin t\u1ee9c, r\u1eb1ng: Ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng, b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 th\u00edch c\u00f3 m\u1ed7i tin vui ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ea1i nghe\/\u0111\u1ecdc c\u00e1c tin bu\u1ed3n r\u01b0\u1eddi r\u01b0\u1ee3i ch\u1ee9, v\u00e0 th\u1ee9 n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n th\u00edch h\u01a1n c\u1ea3? <\/em><\/p>\n

H\u1ecfi th\u1ebf, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee9 \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3-l\u1eddi n\u00e0o cho tho\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e1ng, d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. H\u1ecfi th\u1ebf, c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecfi m\u00e0 th\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i sau \u0111\u00f3, t\u00e1c-gi\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1t nh\u1eefng tin-t\u1ee9c\/\u00fd-t\u01b0\u1edfng, kh\u00e1 \u00fd-nh\u1ecb, nh\u01b0 sau:<\/p>\n

\u201cB\u1ea1n \u01b0a-th\u00edch tin vui \u01b0? Th\u00ec, h\u00f4m nay \u0111\u00e2y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecdc ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed7i tin nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y: con s\u1ed1 c\u00e1c thi\u1ebfu-ni\u00ean \u1edf tu\u1ed5i \u201c<\/em>teen\u201d l\u00e2u nay v\u1eabn ham bia\/r\u01b0\u1ee3u, nay kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ra nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u1eefa. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf cho th\u1ea5y: con s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y, nay thay-\u0111\u1ed5i. C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 kh\u1ea3o-s\u00e1t\/nghi\u00ean-c\u1ee9u v\u1eeba cho bi\u1ebft: con s\u1ed1 ti\u00eau-bi\u1ec3u\/t\u1ef7-l\u1ec7 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c thi\u1ebfu-ni\u00ean \u0111ang \u1edf l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i t\u1eeb 14 \u0111\u1ebfn 17 cho th\u1ea5y: n\u0103m v\u1eeba qua, c\u00e1c em thu\u1ed9c l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i \u201cteen\u201d \u0111\u00e3 th\u00f4i, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n tha thi\u1ebft ch\u1ec9 n\u1ebfm n\u00e1p bia\/r\u01b0\u1ee3u ho\u1eb7c r\u01b0\u1ee3u\/ch\u00e8 hay g\u00ec g\u00ec n\u1eefa. V\u00e0, t\u1ef7-l\u1ec7 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y, \u0111ang t\u1eeb m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 32.9% v\u00e0o n\u0103m 2001, nay v\u1ecdt l\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn 50.2% cho n\u0103m 2010, m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

Th\u1ebf c\u00f2n, tin bu\u1ed3n th\u00ec sao? Tin bu\u1ed3n \u01b0?<\/p>\n

Tin bu\u1ed3n, th\u00ec: \u0111\u00e2y chung qui l\u00e0 l\u00fd-do khi\u1ebfn gi\u1edbi tu\u1ed5i \u201cteen\u201d, nay kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u01b0a-th\u00edch r\u01b0\u1ee3u\/bia n\u1eefa, l\u00e0 b\u1edfi v\u00ec c\u00e1c em nay \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00e1 b\u1eadn v\u1edbi chuy\u1ec7n \u201cinternet\u201d, \u0111i\u1ec7n-th\u01b0 \u201cemail\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft \u201cchit chat\u201d nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0B\u00e1o Daily Telegraph v\u1eeba \u0111\u0103ng-t\u1ea3i m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft, trong \u0111\u00f3 t\u00e1c-gi\u1ea3 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng: \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 khuynh-h\u01b0\u1edbng c\u0169ng kh\u00e1 t\u1ed1t. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u1ecdc b\u00e0i n\u00e0y, ch\u1eafc c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9c-gi\u1ea3 s\u1ebd h\u00e0nh-x\u1eed gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i, t\u1ee9c: c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y vui v\u1ebb v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y, n\u00ean c\u1ee9 th\u1eafc-m\u1eafc ho\u00e0i nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 b\u00e8n c\u1ee9 h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 h\u1ecfi m\u00e3i, h\u1ecfi r\u1eb1ng: nghi\u1ec7n-ng\u1eadp th\u1ee9 n\u00e0o, th\u00ec hay nh\u1ea5t? Ho\u1eb7c, t\u1ed1i t\u1ed1i ng\u1ed3i nh\u00e2m-nhi d\u0103m ba ly r\u01b0\u1ee3u, ho\u1eb7c th\u00f9ng bia m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft tr\u1eddi tr\u0103ng m\u00e2y n\u01b0\u1edbc g\u00ec h\u1ebft, ho\u1eb7c su\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y c\u1ee9 ch\u00fai m\u0169i v\u00e0o m\u00e0n h\u00ecnh vi-t\u00ednh hay di-\u0111\u1ed9ng ho\u1eb7c ipad v\u1edbi ipod, th\u00ec th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?\u201d <\/em>(xem Tamara Rajakariar, Teens prefer internet to drinking, <\/em>MercatorNet 16\/4\/2014)<\/p>\n

H\u1ecfi, m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i h\u1ecfi nh\u01b0 nh\u00e0 m\u00f4-ph\u1ea1m ho\u1eb7c th\u00e0y\/c\u00f4 l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00e0 h\u1ecfi ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i s\u1ebd vi\u1ebft l\u00e1ch in th\u00e0nh s\u00e1ch\/b\u00e1o, th\u00ec l\u1ea1i kh\u00e1c. Kh\u00e1c h\u1eb3n, c\u00e2u \u00a0tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u00e0y t\u00f4i, c\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi cho v\u1ea5n-n\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb7t ra \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, h\u1ea7u th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng: s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf. Nh\u01b0ng, c\u00f2n h\u01a1n th\u1ebf, r\u1ea5t nh\u01b0 sau: \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u201cL\u00e0 b\u1eadc m\u1eb9 cha, ai c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n ban-truy\u1ec1n c\u00e1i hay\/c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p tuy\u1ec7t-v\u1eddi \u1edf \u0111\u1eddi, cho con m\u00ecnh. L\u00e0m th\u1ebf, v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh ta \u0111\u1eb7t con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh-hu\u1ed1ng nguy-hi\u1ec3m c\u1ee9 gia-t\u0103ng ni\u1ec1m lo-l\u1eafng, nh\u1eefng l\u00e0 x\u00e1o-tr\u1ed9n v\u1ec1 th\u1ea7n-tr\u00ed, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ed1t v\u1eeba l\u00f2ng b\u1eadc m\u1eb9 cha, qua \u00e9p-bu\u1ed9c con m\u00ecnh \u00a0l\u1ee3i-d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c c\u01a1-h\u1ed9i ng\u00e0n n\u0103m \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea9y, h\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ea1t k\u1ebft-qu\u1ea3 r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1i-\u0111a, m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. \u0110\u00e2y, c\u0169ng l\u00e0 gi\u00f2ng-ch\u1ea3y t\u01b0-t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 gi\u00e1o ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00dac n\u1ecd c\u00f3 t\u00ean l\u00e0 Margie Ulbrick t\u1eebng \u0111\u1eb7t v\u1ea5n-\u0111\u1ec1 nh\u01b0 sau:
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H\u00f4m \u1ea5y, m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng Ch\u00faa nh\u1eadt kh\u00e1 \u0111\u1eb9p tr\u1eddi. M\u1edbi 7 gi\u1edd s\u00e1ng tinh m\u01a1, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 d\u1eabn ch\u00fa \u201cp\u00e9kinois\u201d nh\u1ecf th\u00f3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ra qu\u00e1n c\u00e0-ph\u00ea n\u1eb1m trong khu h\u1ebbm m\u00ecnh \u1edf, hy v\u1ecdng s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u01b0\u1edfng-th\u1ee9c t\u00e1ch c\u00e0-ph\u00ea n\u00f3ng, r\u1ed3i c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea3o m\u1eaft li\u1ebfc nhanh t\u1edd nh\u1eadt-tr\u00ecnh mi\u1ec5n ph\u00ed, c\u00f3 ch\u00fa Bambino c\u1ee9 ch\u1edd l\u1ec7nh n\u1eb1m d\u00e0i im-\u1eafng, nh\u1eabn-n\u1ea1i. Chung quanh t\u00f4i, v\u1eabn x\u1ea9y \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n th\u01b0\u1eddng-nh\u1eadt, nh\u01b0: chi\u1ebfc du-l\u1ecbch n\u1ecd ch\u1eb3ng gi\u1eef lu\u1eadt, c\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e2\u1ee5 s\u00e1nh \u0111\u00f4i \u00a0b\u00ean h\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc xe kh\u00e1c. V\u00e0 r\u1ed3i, l\u00e0: c\u1ea3nh th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 con t\u1eeb trong xe lon ton ch\u1ea1y \u0111i ch\u1ea1y v\u1ec1, m\u1edf c\u1eeda xe, l\u00ean xu\u1ed1ng chi\u1ebfc xe c\u00f3 n\u1ec7m cao g\u1ea7n b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u00e1u v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 \u0111ang \u0111\u1eadu \u1edf \u0111\u00f3, r\u1ed3i n\u00f3i: con qu\u00ean h\u1ecfi l\u00e0: B\u1ed1 th\u00edch u\u1ed1ng c\u00e0-ph\u00ea \u0111en hay c\u00e0-ph\u00ea s\u1eefa, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f2n mua?\u201d T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng nghe k\u1ecbp c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e1p c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 v\u1ed1n \u0111ang lo ng\u1ea1i b\u1ecb ch\u1ee5p h\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 h\u00e0i-l\u00f2ng v\u00ec c\u1eadu con b\u00e9 b\u1ecfng l\u00e0 th\u1ebf m\u00e0 c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft giao h\u1eb9n, v\u1edbi tr\u1ea3 gi\u00e1 r\u1eb1ng: <\/em>\u201cB\u1ed1 \u0111\u1eebng c\u00f3 m\u00e0 qu\u00ean m\u1edf ch\u01b0\u01a1ng-tr\u00ecnh ch\u01a1i \u201cgames\u201d ra cho con, tr\u00ean ipad nh\u00e9!\u201d
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C\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3, trong chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y, ai c\u0169ng \u0111o\u00e1n r\u1eb1ng: hai b\u1ed1 con h\u00f4m \u1ea5y c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u00e0y ngh\u1ec9 x\u1ea3 h\u01a1i, b\u00e8n l\u00e1i xe v\u1ec1 qu\u00ea, th\u01b0\u1edfng-ngo\u1ea1n c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1eb9p mi\u1ec1n qu\u00ea, r\u1ea5t d\u00e2n-d\u00e3, thanh-tho\u00e1t. Nh\u01b0ng, d\u00f9 hai b\u1ed1 con nh\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa, v\u1eabn c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb ng\u00e0y nay r\u1ea5t \u01b0a th\u00edch n\u00ean c\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f2i b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 chi\u1ec1u l\u00f2ng, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0: ch\u01a1i \u201cgames\u201d tr\u00ean vi-t\u00ednh g\u1ecdn l\u00e0 \u201cipad\u201d.
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Con c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i nay c\u0169ng kh\u00f4n v\u00e0 l\u1edbn c\u1ea3 r\u1ed3i, n\u00ean nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ng ng\u00e0y mi\u1ec7t m\u00e0i v\u1edbi tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i \u201cgames\u201d tr\u00ean vi-t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n h\u1ea5p-d\u1eabn n\u1eefa. Tuy r\u1eb1ng, ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f4ng ta \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1ecf gi\u1edd ra m\u00e0 ch\u01a1i \u0111\u1ee7 tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i tr\u00ean m\u00e0n h\u00ecnh nh\u1ecf; nh\u01b0ng, t\u00f4i th\u00ec v\u1eabn mong cho con m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m th\u1ee9 g\u00ec kh\u00e1c, ngo\u00e0i chuy\u1ec7n ch\u01a1i \u201cgames\u201d, v\u00f4 b\u1ed5 \u1ea5y. N\u00f3i th\u00ec n\u00f3i th\u1ebf, ch\u1ee9 th\u1eadt ra t\u00f4i c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ec-gi\u1edd m\u00e0 ch\u01a1i m\u1ea5y tr\u00f2 nh\u01b0 b\u1ecdn nh\u1ecf ng\u00e0y nay. Nh\u01b0ng, v\u1ea5n-\u0111\u1ec1 t\u00f4i \u0111\u1eb7t ra v\u1eabn l\u00e0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y: ph\u1ea7n t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e2y, t\u1ed1i ng\u00e0y c\u1ee9 b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n v\u1edbi b\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ee9a con s\u00e0n s\u00e0n \u0111\u1ed3ng l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i, th\u00ec n\u1ed9i chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 th\u00f4i c\u0169ng kh\u00e1 b\u1eadn r\u1ed3i c\u00f2n gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2u ra m\u00e0 ghi\u1ec1n ch\u01a1i \u201cgh\u00eam\u201d v\u1edbi \u201cghi\u1ebfc\u201d g\u00ec n\u1eefa, cho cam. Ch\u00ed \u00edt, l\u00e0 v\u00e0o th\u1eddi c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, ai c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n n\u00e9-tr\u00e1nh kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng gi\u1edd m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 xong \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1edbp, \u0111\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0. N\u00ean, v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u01a1i c\u00e1c m\u00f3n qu\u1ea7n v\u1ee3t, ho\u1eb7c h\u1ecdc nh\u1ea1c n\u00e0y\/kh\u00e1c, ch\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 nh\u01b0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, t\u1ed1i ng\u00e0y c\u1ee9 \u201cgh\u00eam\u201d l\u00e0 \u201cgh\u00eam\u201d t\u1eeb l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1ecf, kh\u00f4ng sao cho v\u1eeba!\u201d
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\u0110\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2y, \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed, l\u1ea1i c\u0169ng xin m\u1ea1n ph\u00e9p c\u1eaft ngang c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n gi\u00e1o-d\u1ee5c \u0111\u00e0n tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf, \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1eddi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 m\u1eddi t\u00f4i, ta nghe th\u00eam c\u00e2u nh\u1ea1c \u01b0\u1edbt-\u00e1t, c\u00f3 l\u1eddi than, nh\u01b0:<\/p>\n

\u201cThu \u01a1i gieo m\u1ea5y l\u1ea7n tang,<\/em><\/p>\n

M\u00e0 l\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00e0n theo n\u0103m th\u00e1ng.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00dd thu v\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00e1ch sao l\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi mau l\u00e3ng qu\u00ean.<\/em><\/p>\n

Chi\u1ec1u nay thu v\u1eabn m\u01a1 m\u00e0ng.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

(Nh\u1ea1c ngo\u1ea1i-qu\u1ed1c La Paloma \u2013 b\u0111d<\/em>)
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Khi x\u01b0a, ngh\u1ec7-s\u0129 ho\u1eb7c gi\u1edbi nghe nh\u1ea1c th\u01b0\u1eddng hay ch\u1ea1y v\u1ec1 v\u1edbi \u201cThu \u01a1i!\u201d, \u201c\u0110\u00f4ng h\u1ee1i!\u201d, ch\u1ee9 n\u00e0o m\u1ea5y ai \u0111\u1eb7t v\u1eabn-\u0111\u1ec1 cho ng\u1ecdn-ng\u00e0nh, vanh v\u00e1ch, nh\u01b0 nh\u00e0 gi\u00e1o \u1edf tr\u00ean l\u1ea1i k\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp:<\/p>\n

\u201cM\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t t\u1edd b\u00e1o kh\u00e1 \u0103n kh\u00e1ch c\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm-hi\u1ec3u xem \u1ea3nh-h\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m-l\u00fd n\u01a1i \u0111\u00e1m tr\u1ebb, nay ra sao, \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u00fd-t\u01b0\u1edfng h\u1ecfi r\u1eb1ng: <\/em>\u201cCon c\u00e1i qu\u00fd v\u1ecb c\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 n\u0103ng-khi\u1ebfu n\u00e0y kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng? Qu\u00fd v\u1ecb s\u1ebd l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 th\u0103ng-hoa t\u00e0i-n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang?
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H\u1ecfi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, th\u1eadt ra kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao ho\u1eb7c l\u01b0u-\u00fd v\u1ec1 con tr\u1ebb ho\u1eb7c v\u1ec1 k\u1ef9-n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f2n th\u0103ng-ti\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c c\u00e1c ch\u00e1u ph\u00e1t-tri\u1ec3n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, c\u1ee5m-t\u1eeb \u201cn\u0103ng-khi\u1ebfu\u201d v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng-l\u1ed1i th\u0103ng-ti\u1ebfn c\u00e1c t\u00e0i-n\u0103ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec1-cao c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u201cqui-c\u00e1ch\u201d m\u1edbi m\u1ebb khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i c\u1ee9 ph\u1ea3i \u01b0u-t\u01b0, lo l\u1eafng r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0T\u00f4i c\u0169ng nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i trong \u0111ia-h\u1ea1t \u00e2m-nh\u1ea1c \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee9 th\u00fac-\u00e9p ch\u01a1i cho th\u1eadt nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e0i c\u1ee7a nh\u1ea1c s\u0129 Mozart ngay khi c\u00e1c em c\u00f2n trong b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecdc cho ch\u00fang nghe truy\u1ec7n c\u1ed5-t\u00edch c\u1ea3 v\u00e0o l\u00fac tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi c\u00e1c ch\u00e1u ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi n\u1eefa. Cho n\u00ean, n\u1ebfu sau n\u00e0y c\u00e1c ch\u00e1u c\u00f3 ch\u01a1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t nh\u1ea1c-c\u1ee5 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, th\u00ec ch\u00fang t\u00f4i n\u1eafm ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c ch\u00e1u s\u1ebd gi\u1ecfi to\u00e1n-h\u1ecdc. V\u00e0, n\u1ebfu ngay t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf c\u00e1c ch\u00e1u bi\u1ec3u-di\u1ec5n th\u1ec3-d\u1ee5c th\u1ea9m-m\u1ef9 th\u00ec b\u1ed9 n\u00e3o c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c ch\u00e1u c\u0169ng s\u1edbm c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3-n\u0103ng c\u1ea3m-nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng-chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi th\u00f4ng-\u0111i\u1ec7p. \u0110\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i mang t\u00ednh gi\u00e1o-d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 v\u00e0 c\u00e1c lo\u1ea1i l\u1eafp h\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i n\u00e0y kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u201ctr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i\u201d kh\u00f4ng h\u01a1n kh\u00f4ng k\u00e9m, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f2n mang nhi\u1ec1u \u00fd-ngh\u0129a gi\u00e1o-d\u1ee5c h\u01a1n. V\u1eady n\u00ean, th\u00f4ng-\u0111i\u1ec7p \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y: ch\u01a1i gi\u1ee1n v\u1edbi c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf v\u00e0 c\u00e1c tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i mang t\u00ednh gi\u00e1o-d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gia-t\u0103ng l\u1ed1i di\u1ec5n-b\u00e0y n\u00f3i chung c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. <\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0Ch\u01a1i gi\u1ee1n n\u00e0y kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u01a1i m\u00e0 l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o k\u1ebft-qu\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh mong \u01b0\u1edbc. N\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, th\u00ec: khi cha m\u1eb9 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f4ng-\u0111i\u1ec7p cho th\u1ea5y c\u00e1c v\u1ecb c\u1ed1-g\u1eafng ki\u1ebfn-t\u1ea1o sao cho b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh-c\u00f4ng tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1eddi. Qu\u1ea3 th\u1eadt, b\u1ed5n-ph\u1eadn l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9, l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. D\u00f9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i l\u00e0: k\u1ebft-qu\u1ea3 cho ai? V\u00e0 c\u1ee7a ai? …<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0N\u00f3i cho c\u00f9ng, b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb ng\u00e0y nay l\u1ec7-thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi-kho\u00e1-bi\u1ec3u qu\u00e1 \u01b0 l\u00e0 ch\u1eb7t ch\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9 ch\u00fang c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 \u00edt th\u1eddi-gian \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 con tr\u1ebb, l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb con. Ng\u00e0y nay, ta \u0111ang \u0111i v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf-gi\u1edbi trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb t\u00ecm k\u1ebft-li\u1ec5u cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang n\u00f3, v\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fd-do. V\u00e0, m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1-ki\u1ec7n r\u00f5 h\u01a1n n\u1eefa, l\u00e0: th\u1eddi \u1ea5u-th\u01a1 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb con h\u00f4m nay l\u1ea1i th\u1ea5y qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u \u01b0u-t\u01b0 lo-l\u1eafng c\u1ee9 th\u1ebf gia-t\u0103ng. T\u1eeb nh\u1eefng \u00fd-t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u suy-t\u01b0 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 nh\u01b0: th\u1eadt r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh cha m\u1eb9, th\u1ebf m\u00e0 ta c\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e1m kh\u00f4ng-t\u1eb7c, chuy\u00ean b\u1eaft c\u00f3c ho\u1eb7c b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i tu\u00e2n theo ch\u1ec9-th\u1ecb c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng theo, s\u1ed1ng gi\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng b\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0: s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 con tr\u1ebb, theo tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang.
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N\u00f3i cho c\u00f9ng, ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: gi\u00e1-tr\u1ecb \u0111\u00edch-th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng n\u1eb1m \u1edf vi\u1ec7c ta c\u00f3 c\u00e2n \u0111o \u0111ong \u0111\u1ebfm theo m\u1eabu m\u1ef1c quy\u1ebft th\u00e0nh-to\u1ea1i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1t k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 cho b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn nh\u1eefng mong mu\u1ed1n. M\u00e0 th\u1eadt ra, \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n l\u00e0: ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u01b0a con tr\u1ebb ti\u1ebfn b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1edbi \u00fd-ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f3 khi c\u00f2n quan-tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 vi\u1ec7c th\u00e0nh-\u0111\u1ea1t\/to\u1ea1i-nguy\u1ec7n theo m\u1eabu m\u00e3 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, l\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb con, nh\u01b0 tr\u1ebb con. Th\u1eadt ra th\u00ec, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 n\u0103ng-khi\u1ebfu ho\u1eb7c th\u1ee9 g\u00ec t\u1ef1a h\u1ed3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf m\u1edbi l\u00e0 c\u1ea7n-thi\u1ebft, cho b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea3m-k\u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00e0-t\u1eb7ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng d\u00e0nh cho c\u1ea3 con tr\u1ebb l\u1eabn m\u1eb9 cha c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang, c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u th\u1ebf. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i, l\u00e0: h\u00e3y c\u1ee9 vui-h\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 tr\u00e2n-tr\u1ecdng qu\u00e0-t\u1eb7ng \u0111\u00e3 ban cho ta v\u00e0 cho tr\u1ebb, t\u1ef1 bao gi\u1edd, nh\u1edd qua Ch\u00faa\u201d <\/em>(xem Margie Ulbrick, Children Under Pressure, <\/em>The Mejellan Family, s\u1ed1 th\u00e1ng S\u00e1u 2014, tr. 9-14).
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\u00a0<\/em>N\u00f3i th\u1ebf, l\u00e0 n\u00f3i theo b\u00e0i b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m-l\u00fd, r\u1ea5t m\u00f4-ph\u1ea1m c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u kinh-nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng qua d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con em \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng-l\u1edbp c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 \u1edf nh\u00e0. N\u00f3i v\u1ec1 tr\u01b0\u1eddng-h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 b\u1ea7n-\u0111\u1ea1o, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Ch\u00faa th\u01b0\u01a1ng ban cho c\u00f3 con c\u00f3 ch\u00e1u r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5-th\u01b0\u01a1ng, vui v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 nhi\u1ec1u con tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c. T\u1ee9c: c\u00e1c ch\u00e1u c\u0169ng vui ch\u01a1i, hi\u1ec1n-l\u00e0nh, l\u1ec5-ph\u00e9p v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n l\u00e0m theo l\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, d\u00f9 c\u00e1c v\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 cha c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, b\u00e0n v\u1ec1 th\u00fa ti\u00eau-khi\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ec3 ngang qua nh\u1eefng gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat bu\u1ed3n ch\u00e1n, r\u1ea5t tr\u1ed1ng-tr\u1ea3i, th\u00ec con tr\u1ebb v\u1eabn c\u00f3 ri\u00eang th\u1ebf-gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. Ngh\u0129a l\u00e0: ch\u00fang c\u0169ng ch\u01a1i c\u00e1c tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i tr\u00ean \u201ciphone\u201d, \u201cipad\u201d ho\u1eb7c g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e2u l\u1ea7m-l\u1eeb, t\u01b0-l\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn tu\u1ed5i gi\u1ed1ng b\u1ea7y t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e2y.<\/p>\n

N\u00f3i t\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, m\u1ed7i th\u1ebf-h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng-gian v\u00e0 th\u1eddi-gian ri\u00eang-r\u1ebd, kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t d\u00e0nh cho m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do, l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 d\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ec3 cho m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u00f5 h\u1ea7u gi\u00fap m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1edf-th\u00e0nh \u201ct\u00fdp\u201d ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00fang th\u1eddi\/\u0111\u00fang bu\u1ed5i \u1edf \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh, c\u00f3 gi\u1edbi-h\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

Th\u1eddi h\u00f4m nay, n\u1ebfu ta c\u1ee9 khuy\u00ean c\u1ee9 b\u1ea3o l\u0169 tr\u1ebb: \u0111\u1eebng ch\u01a1i \u201cgames\u201d g\u00ec h\u1ebft, thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y c\u00f3 th\u00ec gi\u1edd r\u1ea3nh-r\u1ed7i m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecdc kinh, l\u1ea7n chu\u1ed7i ho\u1eb7c \u0111i l\u1ec5 \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ebf v\u00e0o th\u1eddi gian tr\u1ed1ng tr\u1ea3i\/r\u1ea3nh r\u1ed7i, th\u00ec t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai t\u1ef1 kh\u1eafc c\u00e1c ch\u00e1u s\u1ebd tr\u1edf-th\u00e0nh \u201cGi\u00e1o-ho\u00e0ng t\u1ef1-ph\u00e1t\u201d m\u1ea5t. T\u1ee9c: tr\u1edf-th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea5ng b\u1eadc v\u1ecb-v\u1ecdng l\u1eadp ra nhi\u1ec1u lu\u1eadt-l\u1ec7 m\u1edbi m\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c s\u1ed1ng sao gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng. V\u00e0, s\u1ed1ng theo ki\u1ec3u c\u00e1ch c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 hi\u1ec7u-l\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 m\u1ed7i \u0111i\u1ec1u quan-tr\u1ecdng trong \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i \u0110\u1ea1o, l\u00e0: s\u1ed1ng sao cho gi\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean d\u1ea1y c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa \u1edf Tin M\u1eebng, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 lo th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh 10 \u0111i\u1ec1u gi\u00e1o-l\u1ec7nh, 6 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u0103n r\u1ea5t th\u00e1nh-h\u1ed9i do \u0111\u1ea5ng b\u1eadc \u1edf tr\u00ean cao, l\u1ee5 kh\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c c\u1ee5, t\u1eebng b\u1ea3o-ban, sai khi\u1ebfn th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

N\u00f3i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ea1y t\u1ed9i hay \u201cch\u1ea1y l\u00e0ng\u201d g\u00ec s\u1ed1t; m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n ph\u00e2n-tr\u1ea7n v\u1edbi b\u00e0 con c\u00f4 b\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i l\u1eddi kh\u1eb3ng-\u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea5ng b\u1eadc \u1edf h\u1ec7-c\u1ea5p gi\u00e1o-quy\u1ec1n r\u1ea5t Vatic\u0103ng, t\u1eebng b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng:<\/p>\n

\u201cNg\u00e0y nay, r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi\/nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ecb \u0111ang c\u00f3 khuynh-h\u01b0\u1edbng mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 v\u00e0i \u0111\u1ed5i-thay, bi\u1ebfn-c\u1ea3i nh\u01b0 \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00e1o Ho\u00e0ng Phanxic\u00f4 c\u0169ng t\u1eebng mu\u1ed1n…\u201d <\/em>(xem ph\u00f3ng-vi\u00ean b\u00e1o Commonweal ph\u1ecfng-v\u1ea5n \u0110\u1ee9c H\u1ed3ng-y Walter Kaspar, qua b\u00e0i Merciful God, Merciful Church, <\/em>\u00a0Commonweal 7\/5\/2014)<\/p>\n

\u1ede \u0111\u00e2y, b\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea1o b\u1ea7y t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 \u00fd l\u1ea5y \u00fd-t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea5ng b\u1eadc \u1edf tr\u00ean cao l\u00e0m h\u00e0ng r\u00e0o ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ee1 cho t\u01b0-t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 \u201c\u0111\u1ed5i thay\u201d hay \u201cth\u1ee9c th\u1eddi\u201d v\u1edbi c\u00e1ch-m\u1ea1ng vi-t\u00ednh n\u00e0y\/kh\u00e1c. Nh\u01b0ng, n\u00f3i th\u1ebf ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u00fd t\u1ea1t ngang, x\u1eb9t l\u00f9i v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1edbi t\u01b0-t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1eabn t\u1eebng c\u00f3 t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea5ng b\u1eadc, th\u00f4i. \u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

Th\u00f4i th\u00ec, \u0111\u1ec3 \u201cchuy\u1ec7n phi\u1ebfm\u201d h\u00f4m nay \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eb9 nh\u00f5m c\u00f3 ch\u00fat \u201cd\u00ed-d\u1ecfm\u201d, c\u0169ng xin k\u1ec3 ra \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u00f4i c\u00e2u \u0111\u1ed1i-tho\u1ea1i v\u1ec1 v\u0103n-ho\u00e1 th\u1eddi-th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f3 gi\u00f2ng ch\u1ea3y c\u0169ng hay hay nh\u01b0 sau:<\/p>\n

\u201cC\u00f3 \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 n\u1ecd \u0111ang ng\u1ed3i khoe con m\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc gi\u1ecfi v\u1edbi kh\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u01a1i nh\u00e0, th\u00ec th\u1eb1ng con t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2u ch\u1ea1y s\u1ed3ng s\u1ed9c v\u1ec1, th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 h\u1ecfi ngay \u0111\u1ee9a con \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f2n khoe:<\/em><\/p>\n

-Con \u00e0, h\u00f4m nay h\u1ecdc to\u00e1n con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec3m?<\/em><\/p>\n

-\u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f3 2 tr\u00ean 10 th\u00f4i b\u1ed1 h\u1ecfi l\u00e0m g\u00ec cho th\u00eam b\u1ef1c!<\/em><\/p>\n

-T\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 2 \u0111i\u1ec3m, m\u1ecdi khi con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u l\u1eafm c\u01a1 m\u00e0?<\/em><\/p>\n

-V\u00ec c\u00f4 h\u1ecfi 2 + 2 b\u1eb1ng m\u1ea5y? Con tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ngay l\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng 4; th\u1ebf l\u00e0 c\u00f4 h\u1ecfi ti\u1ebfp: 2 x 2 b\u1eb1ng m\u1ea5y?<\/em><\/p>\n

-Th\u1ebf con tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi b\u1eb1ng m\u1ea5y?<\/em><\/p>\n

-Con tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi: c\u00f3 kh\u00e1c c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ebfch g\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u m\u00e0 c\u00f4 c\u1ee9 h\u1ecfi, n\u00ean c\u00f4 ch\u1ec9 cho c\u00f3 2 \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u00f4i.<\/em><\/p>\n

-Th\u1ebf m\u00f4n th\u1ec3-d\u1ee5c th\u1ec3-thao con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec3m, ch\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i kh\u00e1 h\u01a1n to\u00e1n ch\u1ee9? <\/em><\/p>\n

-\u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c 2 \u0111i\u1ec3m, m\u00e0 th\u00f4i sao b\u1ed1 h\u1ecfi g\u00ec m\u00e0 h\u1ecfi l\u1eafm th\u1ebf?<\/em><\/p>\n

-Sao l\u1ea1i c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 2 \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u00f4i? C\u00f4 n\u00e0y ch\u1eafc k\u1ef3-th\u1ecb g\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng sai.<\/em><\/p>\n

-B\u1ed1 coi, h\u1ecdc \u0111i m\u1ed9t hai m\u00e0 c\u00f4 d\u1ea1y l\u00e0: Gi\u01a1 ch\u00e2n ph\u1ea3i l\u00ean \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi gi\u01a1 ch\u00e2n tr\u00e1i l\u00ean tr\u01b0\u1edbc.<\/em><\/p>\n

-Th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u0111\u1ee9ng b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ebfch g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9?<\/em><\/p>\n

-Con c\u0169ng n\u00f3i h\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 b\u1ed1, th\u1ebf l\u00e0 c\u00f4 cho con c\u00f3 2 \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u00f4i.<\/em><\/p>\n

-Th\u1ebf c\u00f2n m\u00f4n v\u0103n, con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec3m?<\/em><\/p>\n

C\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 2 \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u00f4i.<\/em><\/p>\n

-Sao l\u1ea1i c\u1ee9 2 \u0111i\u1ec3m, 2 \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00e3i th\u1ebf v\u1eady?<\/em><\/p>\n

-C\u00f4 gi\u00e1o b\u1eaft t\u1ee5i con \u0111\u1eb7t m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u v\u0103n c\u00f3 ch\u1eef \u201cC\u00f4 gi\u00e1o\u201d \u1edf trong \u0111\u00f3.<\/em><\/p>\n

-Th\u1ebf con \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u g\u00ec, n\u00f3i cho tao nghe coi!<\/em><\/p>\n

-Con \u0111\u1eb7t m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u r\u1ea5t ng\u1eafn nh\u01b0ng tr\u1ecdn ngh\u0129a: <\/em>\u201cC\u00f4 gi\u00e1o c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 c\u00f4 g\u00e1i r\u1ea5t qu\u1eady!\u201d<\/p>\n

-Tr\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea5t! Nghe th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00f4 b\u1ea3o sao?<\/em><\/p>\n

-C\u00f4 c\u0169ng cho con c\u00f3 2 \u0111i\u1ec3m, c\u00f2n b\u1eaft con l\u00ean g\u1eb7p th\u00e0y Hi\u1ec7u-tr\u01b0\u1edfng.<\/em><\/p>\n

-Th\u1ebf, th\u00e0y Hi\u1ec7u-tr\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con l\u00e0m sao?<\/em><\/p>\n

-Th\u00e0y Hi\u1ec7u-tr\u01b0\u1edfng cho con 20 ngh\u00ecn \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 h\u1ecfi nh\u00e0 c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u?<\/em><\/p>\n

-Th\u00f4i, tao c\u0169ng ch\u1ecbu c\u00e1i v\u0103n-ho\u00e1 c\u1ee7a tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0y r\u1ed3i, con \u1ea1. Th\u1eadt h\u1ebft bi\u1ebft!\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/em>V\u00e2ng. H\u1ebft bi\u1ebft \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 th\u1ea5y bu\u1ed3n v\u00e0 lo cho n\u1ec1n gi\u00e1o-d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ta th\u1eddi nay, m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i l\u00e0 \u201ch\u00e3i s\u1ee3\u201d v\u1ec1 cung-c\u00e1ch tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi r\u1ea5t \u201cthi\u1ebfu l\u1ec5 ph\u00e9p\u201d c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb ng\u00e0y nay. Hy v\u1ecdng \u0111\u00e2y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u201cc\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i\u1ec7u\u201d, m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. H\u1ebft bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 l\u1ec1-l\u1ed1i ph\u1ea3n-\u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb tr\u01b0\u1edbc l\u1ed1i gi\u00e1o-d\u1ee5c t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn b\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u m\u00e0 ra. \u201cH\u1ebft bi\u1ebft\u201d \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, c\u00f2n l\u00e0 h\u1ebft hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 h\u1ebft bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 l\u1ec1 l\u1ed1i c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed5i thay qu\u00e1 nhanh v\u00e0 qu\u00e1 ch\u00f3ng, \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9 con tr\u1ebb theo kh\u00f4ng k\u1ecbp n\u1ec1n v\u0103n-ho\u00e1 c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ch\u1ebft. M\u00e0 v\u00ec, b\u1ecdn con tr\u1ebb nay b\u00e9n nh\u1ea1y nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 l\u1ec1 l\u1ed1i v\u0103n-ho\u00e1 r\u1ea5t \u201cd\u1eaby ch\u1ebft\u201d, \u0111ang d\u1ea7n-d\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n ra, \u1edf nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1ed1n. Ch\u1eeda bi\u1ebft ch\u1eebng c\u1ea3 \u1edf ch\u1ed1n thi\u00eang nh\u00e0 \u0110\u1ea1o, r\u1ea5t mai ng\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

N\u00f3i th\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9-tr\u00edch ho\u1eb7c ch\u00e2m-bi\u1ebfm cu\u1ed9c c\u00e1ch-m\u1ea1ng th\u1eddi-\u0111\u1ea1i trong tin-t\u01b0\u1edfng, m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 \u201ctr\u1ea7n-t\u00ecnh\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t t\u00e2m-t\u00ecnh l\u1ed9-li\u1ec5u r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3. S\u1ee3 v\u1ec1 ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t, l\u1eabn n\u00e9t tinh-t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9. Ch\u00ed \u00edt, l\u00e0 v\u0103n-ho\u00e1, v\u0103n-minh v\u00e0 v\u0103n-h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i, \u1edf nhi\u1ec1u n\u01a1i r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ea1o-m\u1ea1o, c\u1ea3 trong \u0110\u1ea1o.<\/p>\n

N\u00f3i, th\u00ec n\u00f3i th\u1ebf, ch\u1ee9 t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u0169ng n\u00ean b\u00ecnh-t\u0129nh v\u00e0 hy-v\u1ecdng. Hy-v\u1ecdng r\u1eb1ng: Ch\u00faa th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n v\u1eabn c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t \u201ctr\u00ean t\u1eebng c\u00e2y s\u1ed1\u201d, v\u1edbi mu\u00f4n d\u00e2n, \u1edf trong \u0111\u1eddi. R\u1ea5t nh\u00e0 \u0110\u1ea1o.<\/p>\n

Tr\u1ea7n Ng\u1ecdc M\u01b0\u1eddi Hai<\/em><\/p>\n

V\u1eabn c\u1ee9 nguy\u1ec7n c\u1ea7u cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi <\/em><\/p>\n

V\u00e0 cho m\u00ecnh<\/em><\/p>\n

S\u1ebd kh\u00e1 h\u01a1n.
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