{"id":5274,"date":"2014-06-11T09:02:26","date_gmt":"2014-06-11T02:02:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/xuanbichvietnam.net\/trangchu\/?p=5274"},"modified":"2014-06-11T09:02:26","modified_gmt":"2014-06-11T02:02:26","slug":"mot-so-van-de-lien-quan-den-tinh-cam-va-tinh-duc-cua-linh-muc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/xuanbichvietnam.net\/trangchu\/mot-so-van-de-lien-quan-den-tinh-cam-va-tinh-duc-cua-linh-muc\/","title":{"rendered":"M\u1ed8T S\u1ed0 V\u1ea4N \u0110\u1ec0 LI\u00caN QUAN \u0110\u1ebeN T\u00ccNH C\u1ea2M V\u00c0 T\u00cdNH D\u1ee4C C\u1ee6A LINH M\u1ee4C"},"content":{"rendered":"

M\u1ed8T S\u1ed0 V\u1ea4N \u0110\u1ec0 LI\u00caN QUAN \u0110\u1ebeN T\u00ccNH C\u1ea2M V\u00c0 T\u00cdNH D\u1ee4C C\u1ee6A LINH M\u1ee4C<\/strong><\/p>\n

Th\u01b0\u1eddng Hu\u1ea5n Linh M\u1ee5c Tr\u1ebb Hu\u1ebf\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong><\/p>\n

(Ng\u00e0y 3\/6\/2014)<\/strong><\/p>\n


\n\u00a0 <\/strong><\/p>\n

V\u00c0O \u0110\u1ec0 <\/strong><\/p>\n

K\u00ednh th\u01b0a Qu\u00fd Cha,<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Do s\u1ee9 m\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i s\u1ed1ng trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi t\u1ee5c h\u00f3a h\u00f4m nay, v\u00e0 do t\u00ednh th\u1eddi s\u1ef1 nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, l\u1ea7n n\u00e0y con xin chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi qu\u00fd Cha M\u1ed8T S\u1ed0 V\u1ea4N \u0110\u1ec0 LI\u00caN QUAN \u0110\u1ebeN T\u00ccNH C\u1ea2M V\u00c0 T\u00cdNH D\u1ee4C C\u1ee6A LINH M\u1ee4C. Con tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n, b\u1ea7u nhi\u1ec7t huy\u1ebft h\u0103ng say m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u01a1i m\u1edbi trong \u0111\u1eddi linh m\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a qu\u00fd cha. Nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t linh m\u1ee5c gi\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng l\u0103n l\u1ed9n gi\u1eefa \u0111\u1eddi, c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng tr\u0103n tr\u1edf v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t cha gi\u00e1o v\u00e0 linh h\u01b0\u1edbng cho nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf nhi\u1ec1u m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t \u0111a d\u1ea1ng, con mu\u1ed1n gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3n b\u00e1o \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh linh m\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a qu\u00fd cha \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c an to\u00e0n, th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, con \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 do t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta trong ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n linh m\u1ee5c, tr\u01b0\u1edbc l\u1eddi m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i C\u00f4ng Gi\u00e1o. Qu\u1ea3 th\u1eadt, kh\u00f4ng ai th\u00fac \u00e9p hay b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3, m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n. Bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i m\u1ea5t, nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a th\u00ec s\u1ebd c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ki\u00ean tr\u00ec s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a \u0111\u00f3 cho \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f9ng. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n ti\u00ean quy\u1ebft cho ch\u00fang ta ki\u00ean t\u00e2m s\u1ed1ng trung t\u00edn, th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u0111\u1eddi linh m\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, d\u00f9 c\u00f3 khi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng v\u00e0 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn kh\u00e1c. K\u00ednh xin qu\u00fd cha \u0111\u1ecdc ri\u00eang trong m\u1ee5c LINH M\u1ee4C T\u1ef0 NGUY\u1ec6N S\u1ed0NG LU\u1eacT \u0110\u1ed8C TH\u00c2N.<\/p>\n

Ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ebfn, con s\u1ebd tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i T\u00ccNH B\u1ea0N KH\u00c1C PH\u00c1I C\u1ee6A LINH M\u1ee4C. C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t ra l\u00e0 Linh m\u1ee5c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c ph\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng? C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0 \u201c\u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c, nh\u01b0 Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu v\u00e0 c\u00e1c th\u00e1nh v\u1eabn c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c ph\u00e1i. Nh\u01b0ng\u2026, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00ean ch\u1eef nh\u01b0ng quan tr\u1ecdng n\u00e0y, v<\/em>\u00ec m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng nguy hi\u1ec3m \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111e d\u1ecda Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu, l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111e d\u1ecda <\/em>linh m\u1ee5c <\/em>trong nh\u1eefng li\u00ean h\u1ec7 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady<\/em>\u201d. Con s\u1ebd khai tri\u1ec3n ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0y qua vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1eb7t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, r\u1ed3i n\u00f3i chi ti\u1ebft c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn: t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef n\u00f3i chung, t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan v\u1edbi n\u1eef tu, t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c ph\u00e1i \u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng, trong \u0111\u00f3 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c ph\u00e1i c\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o, b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c ph\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o, t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan v\u1edbi c\u00e1c g\u00f3a ph\u1ee5, d\u1eef ki\u1ec7n t\u00e2m sinh l\u00fd h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c, c\u1ea1m b\u1eaby m\u1ef9 nh\u00e2n k\u1ebf, y\u00eau v\u00e0 chia tay. Con c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 ch\u1ecb em ru\u1ed9t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, coi c\u00e1c c\u1ee5 b\u00e0 nh\u01b0 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 c\u00e1c thi\u1ebfu n\u1eef tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0 ch\u1ecb em. Ngo\u00e0i ra c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u00ecn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed v\u00e0 m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan h\u00e0i ho\u00e0 c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef.<\/p>\n

Trong ph\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 ba, con s\u1ebd tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y v\u1ec1 KH\u1ee6NG HO\u1ea2NG L\u1ea0M D\u1ee4NG T\u00ccNH D\u1ee4C V\u00c0 C\u00c1C BI\u1ec6N PH\u00c1P C\u1ee6A GI\u00c1O H\u1ed8I V\u00c0 TH\u1ebe GI\u1edaI, trong \u0111\u00f3 con s\u1ebd n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh nh\u01b0 c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o c\u00e1c bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i v\u00e0 X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i d\u00e2n s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u1ec7 n\u1ea1n gi\u00e1o s\u0129 l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c c\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec li\u00ean h\u1ec7, \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1 ph\u00f2ng, nh\u01b0 th\u00e1nh Phaol\u00f4 c\u0103n d\u1eb7n \u201cnh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c \u1ea5y x\u1ea3y ra \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc r\u0103n d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1eebng chi\u1ec1u theo…<\/em>\u201d[1]<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Sau h\u1ebft, con s\u1ebd tr\u00edch d\u1eabn cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a th\u00f4ng t\u1ea5n x\u00e3 Zenith v\u1edbi \u0110\u1ee9c \u00d4ng Rossetti, t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u201cT\u1ea1i sao c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/em><\/strong>?<\/em><\/strong>\u201d v\u00e0 b\u1ea3n kinh Linh m\u1ee5c d\u00e2ng m\u00ecnh cho Th\u00e1nh T\u00e2m Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu.<\/p>\n

A. LINH M\u1ee4C T\u1ef0 NGUY\u1ec6N S\u1ed0NG LU\u1eacT \u0110\u1ed8C TH\u00c2N<\/strong><\/p>\n

Trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5c h\u00f3a h\u00f4m nay, \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a tinh th\u1ea7n t\u00f4n s\u00f9ng v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t \u0111ang thao t\u00fang m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t: \u0110\u1ecba v\u1ecb, ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c v\u00e0 l\u1ea1c th\u00fa \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea1i \u0111a s\u1ed1 xem nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. S\u1ef1 ph\u00f3ng t\u00fang t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 ngh\u0129a h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1ea1c cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat bao tr\u00e1i tim v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb. Do \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n khi\u1ebft t\u1ecbnh, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 n\u01a1i gi\u1edbi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, b\u1ecb nghi ng\u1edd v\u00e0 coi l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3.\u00a0Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i C\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o R\u00f4ma, \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n linh m\u1ee5c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c r\u1ea5t c\u1ef1u tr\u00e0o d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o\u00a0 truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng T\u00f4ng \u0110\u1ed3, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n v\u00e0o th\u1ebf k\u1ef7 IV, C\u00f4ng \u0110\u1ed3ng Carthage (n\u0103m 390) \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i: \u201cNh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 c\u00e1c m\u1ea7u nhi\u1ec7m th\u00e1nh ph\u1ea3i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ti\u1ebft d\u1ee5c h\u1ea7u nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u00e1c T\u00f4ng \u0110\u1ed3 \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ea3ng d\u1ea1y v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a g\u00ecn gi\u1eef th\u00ec nay ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng tu\u00e2n gi\u1eef n\u00f3.<\/em>\u201d T\u1eeb C\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng Lat\u00earan\u00f4 I (n\u0103m 1123), lu\u1eadt \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng trong Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i C\u00f4ng Gi\u00e1o \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi linh m\u1ee5c theo l\u1ec5 nghi Latinh. C\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng Trent\u00f4 (n\u0103m 1543) l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c canh t\u00e2n thi\u00eang li\u00eang s\u00e2u xa v\u00e0 b\u1ec1n b\u1ec9 v\u1ec1 ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c v\u00e0 th\u1eeba t\u00e1c m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a linh m\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n

Th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u cu\u1ed9c tranh lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt n\u00e0y. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 cho r\u1eb1ng ch\u1eb3ng m\u1ea5y h\u1eefu l\u00fd khi \u0111\u00f2i bu\u1ed9c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd ch\u1ecbu ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng b\u1eadc \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n; h\u1ecd v\u1ecbn c\u1edb c\u1ea3 Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu l\u1eabn th\u00e1nh Phaol\u00f4 kh\u00f4ng tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y b\u1eadc \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c m\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec7. M\u1ed9t \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n \u0111i xa h\u01a1n n\u1eefa \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho b\u1eadc \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng \u01a1n g\u1ecdi linh m\u1ee5c v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00f9 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra t\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u n\u01b0\u1edbc B\u1eafc M\u1ef9 v\u00e0 \u00c2u Ch\u00e2u.[2]<\/a> D\u00f9 v\u1eady, qua S\u1eafc l\u1ec7nh Ch\u1ee9c v\u1ee5 v\u00e0 \u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng linh m\u1ee5c<\/em> c\u1ee7a C\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng Vatican\u00f4 II, Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i v\u1eabn duy tr\u00ec truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i, v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 ch\u1eb7t ch\u1ebd gi\u1eefa\u00a0 \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n khi\u1ebft t\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9c \u00e1i m\u1ee5c t\u1eed v\u00ec N\u01b0\u1edbc Tr\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c th\u1eeba t\u00e1c[3]<\/a>.\u00a0\u0110GH Phaol\u00f4 VI trong Sacerdotalis Coelibatus<\/em> kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh: \u201cLu\u1eadt \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n th\u00e1nh, m\u00e0 Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i canh gi\u1eef t\u1eeb nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf k\u1ef7 nay nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t vi\u00ean ng\u1ecdc qu\u00fd r\u1ea1ng ng\u1eddi, b\u1ea3o t\u1ed3n to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 c\u1ea3 \u1edf th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i ch\u00fang ta v\u1ed1n ti\u00eau bi\u1ec3u b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i s\u00e2u xa c\u00e1c n\u00e3o tr\u1ea1ng v\u00e0 c\u00e1c c\u01a1 c\u1ea5u.<\/em>\u201d[4]<\/a>\u00a0TH\u0110GMTG n\u0103m 1971 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i duy tr\u00ec lu\u1eadt \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n linh m\u1ee5c trong Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i Latinh, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch v\u1ec1 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng, c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 n\u00f3 m\u00e0 linh m\u1ee5c thi h\u00e0nh v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa Kit\u00f4 v\u00e0 trong Ch\u00faa Kit\u00f4.[5]<\/a><\/p>\n

B\u1ed9 Gi\u00e1o lu\u1eadt 1983 l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i: \u201cC\u00e1c Gi\u00e1o s\u0129 bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i gi\u1eef ti\u1ebft d\u1ee5c ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u00e0 v\u0129nh vi\u1ec5n v\u00ec N\u01b0\u1edbc Tr\u1eddi, v\u00e0 v\u00ec th\u1ebf ph\u1ea3i tu\u00e2n gi\u1eef lu\u1eadt \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n, \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa ban, nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e1c th\u1eeba t\u00e1c vi\u00ean ch\u1ee9c th\u00e1nh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u1ebft hi\u1ec7p d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n v\u1edbi \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4 b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n kh\u00f4ng chia s\u1ebb, t\u1ef1 hi\u1ebfn tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do h\u01a1n cho vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/em>\u201d[6]<\/a> T\u00f4ng hu\u1ea5n h\u1eadu TH\u0110GMTG Pastores Dabo Vobis <\/em>tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y lu\u1eadt \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi c\u0103n b\u1ea3n trong to\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh b\u1ed1n chi\u1ec1u k\u00edch \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n, thi\u00eang li\u00eang, tri th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5. S\u00e1ch Gi\u00e1o l\u00fd C\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o s\u1ed1 <\/em>1599 l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i: \u201cTrong Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i Latinh, th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ec9 truy\u1ec1n ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c cho c\u00e1c \u1ee9ng vi\u00ean t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng khai bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 \u00fd mu\u1ed1n n\u00e0y v\u00ec y\u00eau m\u1ebfn N\u01b0\u1edbc Tr\u1eddi v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 tha nh\u00e2n.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n

Trong cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp v\u1edbi l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o c\u00e1c B\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o tri\u1ec1u ng\u00e0y 16\/11\/2008, \u0110TC Bi\u1ec3n \u0110\u1ee9c XVI \u0111\u00e3 t\u00e1i kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c, h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng C\u00f4ng Gi\u00e1o ch\u01b0a b\u1ecb gi\u00e1n \u0111o\u1ea1n v\u00e0 l\u1eadp l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f2i bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n v\u00e0 Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o v\u1eefng v\u00e0ng cho c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c ch\u1ee7ng sinh l\u1eabn c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecbu ch\u1ee9c.<\/p>\n

Ch\u1ec9 Nam cho th\u1eeba t\u00e1c v\u1ee5 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng linh m\u1ee5c<\/em> n\u0103m 1994 (l\u1eabn n\u0103m 2013) c\u1ee7a B\u1ed9 Gi\u00e1o s\u0129 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh: \u201cX\u00e1c t\u00edn v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 s\u00e2u xa l\u00e0m c\u01a1 s\u1edf cho m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan gi\u1eefa s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n v\u00e0 ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c soi s\u00e1ng b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng t\u00e1 c\u00f2n gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay c\u1ee7a r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi linh m\u1ee5c v\u1eefng m\u1ea1nh v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t thi\u00eang li\u00eang v\u00e0 Ph\u00fac \u00c2m, m\u1eb7c d\u1ea7u x\u1ea3y ra nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u0111au th\u01b0\u01a1ng, Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i \u0111\u00e3 t\u00e1i x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn, qua C\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng Vatican\u00f4 II v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c Gi\u00e1o ho\u00e0ng v\u1ec1 sau, \u2018\u00fd mu\u1ed1n m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t duy tr\u00ec lu\u1eadt \u0111\u00f2i bu\u1ed9c t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n v\u0129nh vi\u1ec5n t\u1ef1 do ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a cho c\u00e1c \u1ee9ng vi\u00ean linh m\u1ee5c theo nghi l\u1ec5 Latinh,<\/em>\u2019[7]<\/a> x\u00e1c t\u00edn r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u00e2n hu\u1ec7 mang l\u1ea1i thi\u1ec7n \u00edch cho Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i v\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi.<\/em>\u201d[8]<\/a><\/p>\n

T\u1eeb th\u1eddi c\u00e1c t\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3, Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i \u0111\u00e3 mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea3o t\u1ed3n \u01a1n ti\u1ebft d\u1ee5c v\u0129nh vi\u1ec5n c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o s\u0129 v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p ch\u1ecdn \u1ee9ng vi\u00ean ch\u1ee9c th\u00e1nh n\u01a1i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n.[9]<\/a> S\u1ef1 d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n \u01a1n g\u1ecdi linh m\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 do v\u00e0 qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i l\u00e0 l\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3 h\u1ed3ng \u00e2n qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa.[10]<\/a> V\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf hi\u1ec7n nay, \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ee5 phong linh m\u1ee5c, \u1ee9ng vi\u00ean ch\u1ee9c th\u00e1nh ph\u1ea3i l\u1edbn ti\u1ebfng tuy\u00ean h\u1ee9a v\u1edbi Gi\u00e1m M\u1ee5c ch\u1ee7 phong, tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n, v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi Gi\u00e1m M\u1ee5c B\u1ea3n Quy\u1ec1n v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n linh m\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed9c th\u00e2n linh m\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi t\u1ea1c ngay t\u1ea1i n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i li\u00ean l\u1ec9 gi\u1eefa Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 m\u1ed7i linh m\u1ee5c. Qua vi\u1ec7c cho \u0111i ch\u00ednh \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n, linh m\u1ee5c c\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng s\u1ed1ng cho Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 tha nh\u00e2n h\u01a1n, l\u1ed9t b\u1ecf li\u00ean l\u1ec9 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u201ct\u1ef1 h\u1ee7y<\/em>\u201d (Ph 2,7), l\u00e0m cho m\u00ecnh \u201cnh\u1ecf b\u00e9 \u0111i \u0111\u1ec3 cho Ch\u00faa l\u1edbn l\u00ean<\/em>\u201d (Ga 3,30) v\u00e0 g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i. \u0110\u1ed9c th\u00e2n linh m\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng kit\u00f4 \u201ckh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 t\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00ednh \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4 s\u1ed1ng trong t\u00f4i<\/em>\u201d (Gal 2,19-20), v\u00e0 linh m\u1ee5c lu\u00f4n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00ecnh d\u1ea1ng v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa Kit\u00f4 M\u1ee5c T\u1eed \u201cban s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng m\u00ecnh cho \u0111o\u00e0n chi\u00ean<\/em>\u201d (Ga 10,11).<\/p>\n

Ch\u00ednh trong khung c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do c\u1ee7a linh m\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ec3 lu\u00f4n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 d\u00e2n Ng\u00e0i. Ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n, linh m\u1ee5c g\u1eb7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kho b\u00e1u h\u00e0m ch\u1ee9a vi\u1ec7c \u201cmang trong th\u00e2n x\u00e1c s\u1ef1 ch\u1ebft c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu, \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e0y t\u1ecf trong th\u00e2n x\u00e1c m\u00ecnh<\/em>\u201d (2 Cr 4,10), nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft ban ph\u00e1t s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng m\u00ecnh cho \u0111o\u00e0n d\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao ph\u00f3 cho m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y loan b\u00e1o Tin M\u1eebng \u201cl\u00fac thu\u1eadn ti\u1ec7n c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 l\u00fac kh\u00f4ng thu\u1eadn ti\u1ec7n<\/em>\u201d (2 Tim 4,2).<\/p>\n

M\u1ed7i th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ee9c tin trong n\u00e3o tr\u1ea1ng v\u0103n h\u00f3a ri\u00eang v\u00e0 t\u00f9y theo m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e2m r\u1ec5 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn trong Truy\u1ec1n Th\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta s\u1ed1ng nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3. Gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i cung c\u1ea5p cho linh m\u1ee5c nh\u1eefng c\u0103n b\u1ea3n c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh l\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi h\u1ed3ng \u00e2n c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa trong b\u1eadc \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n khi\u1ebft t\u1ecbnh t\u1ef1 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t l\u00e0 li\u00ean h\u1ec7, li\u00ean h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, li\u00ean h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. N\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecbnh ph\u1ea9m c\u0103n t\u00ednh linh m\u1ee5c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a li\u00ean h\u1ec7, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 v\u1edbi Gi\u00e1m M\u1ee5c v\u00e0 linh m\u1ee5c \u0111o\u00e0n gi\u00e1o ph\u1eadn m\u00ecnh. N\u00f3 m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi linh m\u1ee5c nh\u1eadn r\u00f5 s\u1ef1 b\u1ed5 t\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1eadc s\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i duy tr\u00ec v\u1edbi h\u1ecd. N\u00f3 c\u0169ng cho ph\u00e9p linh m\u1ee5c thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp c\u00e1c li\u00ean h\u1ec7 nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c li\u00ean h\u1ec7 b\u1ea1n h\u1eefu ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam l\u1eabn ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef.<\/p>\n

N\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, nh\u1edd \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n, linh m\u1ee5c gi\u00e1o ph\u1eadn th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 tr\u1edf n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa<\/em>[11]<\/strong><\/em><\/a> <\/em>v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, <\/em>qua nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt sau \u0111\u00e2y:[12]<\/a><\/p>\n

S\u1ed1ng\u00a0<\/em>\u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n linh m\u1ee5c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c y\u00eau m\u1ebfn v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu v\u1edbi tha nh\u00e2n. N\u00f3 khai m\u1edf m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f3ng k\u00edn n\u01a1i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng khai s\u00e1ng nh\u1eefng li\u00ean h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1, k\u00eau g\u1ecdi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng nhau t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho N\u01b0\u1edbc Ch\u00faa ng\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ebfn.<\/p>\n

S\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n khi\u1ebft t\u1ecbnh h\u1ec7 t\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi: Nh\u1edd b\u00ed t\u00edch Truy\u1ec1n Ch\u1ee9c, l\u1eddi h\u1ee9a s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n linh m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00e2m r\u1ec5 s\u00e2u xa v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh th\u1ef1c th\u1ec3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi linh m\u1ee5c v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i trong su\u1ed1t chi\u1ec1u d\u00e0i \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng linh m\u1ee5c, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t trong L\u1ec5 Truy\u1ec1n D\u1ea7u Th\u1ee9 N\u0103m Tu\u1ea7n Th\u00e1nh v\u00e0 d\u1ecbp t\u0129nh t\u00e2m n\u0103m linh m\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n linh m\u1ee5c t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 trong li\u00ean h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi c\u00e1c l\u1eddi kh\u1ea5n kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 ra hay hi\u1ec3u ng\u1ea7m, mang d\u1ea5u \u1ea5n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n chuy\u00ean c\u1ea7n, v\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u1ed3ng \u00e2n ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn l\u00e3nh v\u00e0 l\u00e0m m\u1edbi l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng, khu\u00f4n m\u00ecnh c\u00e1ch m\u1eadt thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng m\u1ea7u nhi\u1ec7m m\u00ecnh c\u1eed h\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n linh m\u1ee5c gi\u1ea3 thi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t kh\u1ed5 h\u1ea1nh, d\u00f9 ng\u00e0y nay \u00edt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh, nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn l\u00e0 thi\u1ebft y\u1ebfu. S\u1ef1 th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng, d\u00e8 d\u1eb7t, t\u1ec9nh th\u1ee9c, t\u1eeb b\u1ecf, ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn m\u1ecdi th\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 trong su\u1ed1t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c c\u00f9ng lo\u1ea1i, l\u00e0m th\u00e0nh b\u1ea5y nhi\u00eau ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t quan ni\u1ec7m to\u00e0n v\u1eb9n v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n khi\u1ebft t\u1ecbnh.[13]<\/a><\/p>\n

Ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n linh m\u1ee5c l\u00e0 trao hi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eafm t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 phong ph\u00fa \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t.[14]<\/a> Linh m\u1ee5c ch\u1ecdn s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t quan ni\u1ec7m l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh ph\u1ee5 t\u1eed v\u00e0 danh hi\u1ec7u \u201ccha<\/em>\u201d m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao ph\u00f3 cho m\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1ecdi m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ng\u00e0i ph\u1ea3i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n quy h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd trong \u0111\u1ee9c tin, \u0111\u1ee9c c\u1eady v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9c m\u1ebfn.<\/p>\n

Linh m\u1ee5c c\u00e0ng suy t\u01b0 v\u00e0 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n Th\u00e1nh Kinh c\u00e0ng th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u c\u0103n b\u1ea3n Ph\u00fac \u00c2m c\u1ee7a b\u1eadc \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n linh m\u1ee5c: k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i Roma kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u1edbi truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng l\u00e2u \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 xa l\u1ea1 v\u1edbi Th\u00e1nh Kinh, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n m\u1eb7c l\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c, cho d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ecbnh trong T\u00e2n \u01af\u1edbc. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1eb1ng nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch, T\u00e2n \u01af\u1edbc v\u1eabn l\u00e0m vang l\u00ean l\u1eddi m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi v\u00e0o b\u1eadc \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n linh m\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n linh m\u1ee5c ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1a tr\u00ean n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc nghi\u00eam ch\u1ec9nh v\u00e0 s\u00e2u xa cho ph\u00e9p hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 \u00fd ngh\u0129a Kit\u00f4 h\u1ecdc, Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i h\u1ecdc, Th\u00e1nh Kinh h\u1ecdc, \u00fd ngh\u0129a h\u00f4n \u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 t\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 t\u00ednh \u201cth\u00edch h\u1ee3p\u201d c\u1ee7a b\u1eadc \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n v\u1edbi ch\u1ee9c v\u1ee5 linh m\u1ee5c m\u00e0 s\u1eafc l\u1ec7nh Ch\u1ee9c v\u1ee5 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng linh m\u1ee5c<\/em> n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn.<\/p>\n

Ngo\u00e0i ra c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i l\u01b0u \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 c\u0103n b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n linh m\u1ee5c, nh\u1edd s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 qu\u00e2n b\u00ecnh gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng th\u1eddi gian trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00e0 tr\u1ea7m m\u1eb7c, nh\u1eefng chia s\u1ebb gi\u1eefa ch\u1ee7ng sinh v\u00e0 nh\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o, trong s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi c\u00e1c c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng kh\u00e1c, l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean nh\u01b0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i nh\u01b0 gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9.<\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n linh m\u1ee5c ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n t\u1ef1 do v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i chu\u1ea9n nh\u1eadn, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. Gi\u00e1o Lu\u1eadt nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf: \u201c\u0110\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ef1 do ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n, tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u01b0\u1ee1ng b\u00e1ch b\u1eb1ng b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o v\u00e0 v\u00ec b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 l\u00fd do g\u00ec, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ee7 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng x\u1ee9ng h\u1ee3p theo Gi\u00e1o lu\u1eadt.\u201d<\/em>[15]<\/strong><\/em><\/a> <\/em>V\u00e0 k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 che ch\u1edf b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t g\u00e1nh nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng l\u00e0m cho linh m\u1ee5c c\u00e0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u0103ng ti\u1ebfn v\u00e0 tri\u1ec3n n\u1edf,[16]<\/a> nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 linh m\u1ee5c th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m v\u00e0 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3, l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n t\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n

B. T\u00ccNH B\u1ea0N KH\u00c1C PH\u00c1I C\u1ee6A LINH M\u1ee4C<\/strong><\/p>\n

I. \u0110\u1eb7t V\u1ea5n \u0110\u1ec1<\/strong><\/p>\n

Do ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng gi\u1edbi, c\u00e1c \u1ee9ng sinh c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 con g\u00e1i, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u1ee9ng sinh c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i n\u1eefa. V\u1eady linh m\u1ee5c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c ph\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng? N\u1ebfu Ch\u00faa Kit\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, cho h\u1ecd c\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi Ng\u00e0i trong c\u00f4ng tr\u00ecnh c\u1ee9u \u0111\u1ed9 nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i, th\u00ec t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa ph\u00ea chu\u1ea9n, v\u00e0 Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1eabu g\u01b0\u01a1ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c ph\u00e1i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n th\u00e1nh hi\u1ebfn. M\u1eabu g\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecda l\u1ea1i r\u00f5 n\u00e9t trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ecb th\u00e1nh[17]<\/a>. V\u00e0 m\u1eabu g\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu v\u1eabn c\u00f2n c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi theo Ng\u00e0i, trong t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi chi\u1ec1u k\u00edch nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n v\u00e0 thi\u00eang li\u00eang c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u01a1n g\u1ecdi v\u00e0 s\u1ee9 v\u1ee5. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, \u1ee9ng sinh linh m\u1ee5c v\u00e0 linh m\u1ee5c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c ph\u00e1i, nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4n ngoan v\u00e0 c\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u, ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi phong c\u00e1ch v\u00e0 b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1eddi tu. V\u00ec m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng nguy hi\u1ec3m \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111e d\u1ecda Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu, l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111e d\u1ecda nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi th\u00e1nh hi\u1ebfn trong nh\u1eefng li\u00ean h\u1ec7 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd qu\u00ean r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi th\u00e2n x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec1u mang gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan nam n\u1eef n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 ph\u00e1i t\u00ednh, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u1ea3 trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan m\u00e1u m\u1ee7 v\u00e0 thi\u00eang li\u00eang m\u00e0 th\u00e1nh Phaol\u00f4 khuy\u1ebfn c\u00e1o l\u00e0 \u2018kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u trong tinh th\u1ea7n nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i k\u1ebft th\u00fac trong x\u00e1c th\u1ecbt<\/em>\u2019, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3 d\u00e1m t\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5 cho r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd b\u1ecb v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3! Qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n th\u00e1nh hi\u1ebfn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb nguy hi\u1ec3m, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 trong quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u1eefu, khi m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam \u0111\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed9c \u1edf v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef \u0111\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed9c (solus cum sola), hay ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i (sola cum solo), l\u00e2u gi\u1edd trong m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i k\u00edn \u0111\u00e1o c\u1eeda kh\u00f3a ch\u1eb7t, ch\u1eb3ng ai bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 tr\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o, c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng bi\u00ean gi\u1edbi c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 l\u00fd, t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 thi\u00eang li\u00eang, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1eb1ng c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa[18]<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\u00a0Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i tu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 qu\u00e2n b\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n theo nguy\u00ean l\u00fd b\u1ed5 t\u00fac \u00e2m d\u01b0\u01a1ng, n\u00ean ph\u1ea3i thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng cho \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ebf qu\u00e2n b\u00ecnh si\u00eau nhi\u00ean b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n, m\u1eadt thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa, t\u00ecnh huynh \u0111\u1ec7, t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y v\u1edbi s\u1ee9 v\u1ee5, c\u1ea3nh gi\u00e1c to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u00fd th\u1ee9c r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u201cg\u00ecn gi\u1eef kho t\u00e0ng \u1ea5y trong nh\u1eefng chi\u1ebfc b\u00ecnh s\u00e0nh\u201d d\u1ec5 v\u1ee1.[19]<\/sup><\/sup><\/a> S\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu qu\u00e2n b\u00ecnh trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 s\u1ee9 v\u1ee5, c\u1ed9ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n th\u1eed th\u00e1ch \u0111au kh\u1ed5, s\u1ef1 y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i b\u00ean trong v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 khi \u0111i t\u00ecm s\u1ef1 qu\u00e2n b\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean kia m\u00e0 v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3. Kinh nghi\u1ec7m cho th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng linh m\u1ee5c, tu s\u0129 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong s\u1ee9 v\u1ee5, g\u1eb7p th\u1eed th\u00e1ch bu\u1ed3n phi\u1ec1n, l\u1ea1i b\u1ecf \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n, thi\u1ebfu t\u00ecnh huynh \u0111\u1ec7 c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n v\u00e0 b\u1ecf b\u00ea b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn s\u1edbm mu\u1ed9n g\u00ec c\u0169ng s\u1ebd sa ng\u00e3, b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c: nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta s\u1ebd li\u1ec1u thua cu\u1ed9c khi con tim th\u1ed5n th\u1ee9c, m\u1ea5t h\u01b0\u1edbng tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng th\u1eed th\u00e1ch bu\u1ed3n phi\u1ec1n, ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng g\u00e2y n\u00ean b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1ng ra ph\u1ea3i y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Do \u0111\u00f3, c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh, h\u00e0i h\u00f2a v\u00e0 qu\u00e2n b\u00ecnh gi\u1eefa c\u1ea3 hai ph\u00e1i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta n\u00ean t\u1ed1t hay kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec1u do c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Ngo\u00e0i ra \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh r\u01a1i v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh bi \u0111\u00e1t, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng l\u00e0m cho ai ph\u1ea3i bu\u1ed3n phi\u1ec1n qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1ed7i. \u0110TC Bi\u1ec3n \u0110\u1ee9c XVI khuy\u00ean \u201cH\u00e3y m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 qua l\u1eddi c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y, ch\u0103m ch\u00fa trung th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c tham d\u1ef1 Th\u00e1nh L\u1ec5<\/em>.\u201d \u201cTh\u00e1nh Th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u1ed3ng \u00e2n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau phi th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa li\u00ean t\u1ee5c canh t\u00e2n trong ch\u00fang ta, \u0111\u1ec3 d\u01b0\u1ee1ng nu\u00f4i cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ee9c tin c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, ti\u1ebfp th\u00eam s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh cho ni\u1ec1m hy v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 kh\u01a1i d\u1eady t\u00ecnh b\u00e1c \u00e1i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean gi\u1ed1ng Ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01a1n<\/em>.\u201d[20]<\/a><\/p>\n

II. linh m\u1ee4c t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan v\u1edai ng\u01b0\u1edci n\u1eee[21]<\/a>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

II.1 V\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef n\u00f3i chung: Tr\u1ee3 L\u1ef1c hay l\u00e0 V\u1ea5n \u0110\u1ec1?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Theo s\u00e1ch S\u00e1ng Th\u1ebf[22]<\/a> v\u00e0 quan ni\u1ec7m \u00c1 \u0110\u00f4ng v\u1ec1 \u00c2m-D\u01b0\u01a1ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef r\u1ea5t g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u1edbi nhau, h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn nhau, c\u1ea7n nhau v\u00e0 b\u1ed5 t\u00fac cho nhau, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu nhau. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i.[23]<\/a> \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u1edfi s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean \u1edf trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ngay t\u1eeb th\u1eddi ni\u00ean thi\u1ebfu, v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng qu\u00e2n b\u00ecnh, c\u1ea3 nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n v\u00e0 thi\u00eang li\u00eang, v\u1eabn\u00a0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c tr\u1ea3i ra v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n.<\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf v\u1edbi c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef, n\u1eef tu hay n\u1eef gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n. Trong nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan n\u00e0y, c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u1eadt \u00fd ngh\u0129a, \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebd v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi. Tuy nhi\u00ean, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 tr\u1ee3 l\u1ef1c, nh\u01b0ng l\u1eafm khi c\u0169ng l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 sa l\u1ea7y kh\u00f4ng l\u1ed1i tho\u00e1t cho m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u1ee9ng sinh linh m\u1ee5c, ngay c\u1ea3 cho m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 linh m\u1ee5c. C\u00f3 khi v\u00ec m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 linh m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf th\u1eeba t\u00e1c v\u1ee5, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh t\u1ee5c h\u00f3a, v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t, h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee5 kho\u00e1i l\u1ea1c, phim con heo v\u00e0 nh\u1ee5c d\u1ee5c, l\u1ea5y c\u00e1i t\u00f4i ch\u1ee7 ngh\u0129a c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n l\u00e0m tr\u1ecdng t\u00e2m, thay v\u00ec Ch\u00faa Kit\u00f4. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n linh m\u1ee5c c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 c\u00e1ch \u00fd th\u1ee9c b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eef c\u1ea3nh gi\u00e1c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, n\u1ebfu d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u1eefu v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef.<\/p>\n

II.2 T\u01b0\u01a1ng quan v\u1edbi n\u1eef tu: kh\u00f4n ngoan v\u00e0 t\u1ec9nh th\u1ee9c.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y gi\u1eef trong tr\u00ed \u00f3c v\u00e0 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n s\u1ef1 l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c n\u1eef tu \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa, v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n \u00fd th\u1ee9c ph\u1ea3i \u201ctr\u1ea3 cho Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa nh\u1eefng g\u00ec thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa\u201d<\/em>[24]<\/sup><\/sup><\/a>: C\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 cho r\u1ed3i, kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i m\u00e0 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c! M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e3 qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i d\u00e2ng hi\u1ebfn th\u00ec h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i cho \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f9ng.<\/p>\n

\u00a0Nh\u01b0ng do l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng hi\u1ebfn d\u00e2ng v\u00e0 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 chung, linh m\u1ee5c v\u00e0 n\u1eef tu c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan th\u00e2n m\u1eadt, b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 c\u1edfi m\u1edf cho nhau, hi\u1ec3u nhau v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb s\u1ee9 v\u1ee5, nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, tin t\u01b0\u1edfng nhau, c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng nhau, quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn nhau. Ch\u00ednh t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt n\u00e0y, m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u201cy\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng\u201d c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng ph\u00e1t sinh v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, r\u1ed3i t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean nguy hi\u1ec3m h\u01a1n, v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 ra theo ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh: mu\u1ed1n chi\u1ebfm h\u1eefu – ghen tu\u00f4ng – v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c quy\u1ec1n, l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i g\u00e2y ra r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u phi\u1ec1n h\u00e0 v\u00e0 tai ti\u1ebfng. Nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u00f2n \u0111i xa h\u01a1n trong chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. Nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y d\u1ec5 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 n\u01a1i c\u00e1c c\u00f4 b\u1ebfp hay nh\u1eefng n\u1eef tu tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 v\u00e0 \u1edf lu\u00f4n trong nh\u00e0 x\u1ee9. V\u00e0 c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i k\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef c\u00f9ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3 trong c\u00e1c \u0111o\u00e0n h\u1ed9i, hay \u00e2n nh\u00e2n, b\u1ea3o tr\u1ee3, m\u1ea1nh th\u01b0\u1eddng qu\u00e2n: Kh\u00f4ng ai cho c\u00e1i g\u00ec m\u00e0 cho kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3, v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u khi \u00e2n \u0111\u00f2i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3 b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh! \u0110\u1eebng qu\u00ean nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh bao \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ti\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n \u201cl\u1eeda g\u1ea7n r\u01a1m l\u00e2u ng\u00e0y c\u0169ng ch\u00e1y\u201d<\/em>! Kh\u00f4ng ai tr\u00e1ch l\u1eeda t\u1ea1i sao \u0111\u1ed1t ch\u00e1y r\u01a1m, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ai tr\u00e1ch r\u01a1m t\u1ea1i sao \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ecb l\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed1t ch\u00e1y, m\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec3 r\u01a1m g\u1ea7n l\u1eeda.<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 H\u00e3y nh\u1edb l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean t\u1ec9nh th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu, v\u00ec tinh th\u1ea7n th\u00ec nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng ch\u00f3ng v\u00e1nh nh\u01b0ng x\u00e1c th\u1ecbt l\u1ea1i n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i[25]<\/sup><\/sup><\/a>: l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e1nh hi\u1ebfn, ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng th\u00f4i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ham mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i. Th\u00e1nh Phaol\u00f4 chia s\u1ebb: \u201cC\u00f3 ai trong anh em y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i m\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i, c\u00f3 ai trong anh em sa ng\u00e3 m\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 thi\u00eau nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ed1t?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i \u00fd th\u1ee9c r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt l\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n th\u00e1nh hi\u1ebfn kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 l\u00fd ph\u00e1i t\u00ednh v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng truy\u1ec1n sinh. S\u1ef1 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n th\u00e1nh hi\u1ebfn c\u00f3 m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 ri\u00eang bi\u1ec7t th\u00edch h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Ch\u00ednh m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 n\u00e0y cung \u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ee7 t\u1ef1 do \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi th\u00e1nh hi\u1ebfn y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua c\u00e1c gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

\u00a0Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y khu\u00f4n \u0111\u00fac c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan kh\u00e1c ph\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh theo g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eabu \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Ba Ng\u00f4i v\u00e0 k\u00eau xin \u01a1n can \u0111\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ec3 th\u0103ng ti\u1ebfn, v\u01b0\u1ee3t th\u1eafng v\u00e0 th\u00e1nh ho\u00e1 \u201cti\u1ebfng g\u1ecdi nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i\u201d <\/em>c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ee3t nghe v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t l\u00fac n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ng\u00f5 h\u1ea7u gi\u00fap nhau s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 chu to\u00e0n nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 cam k\u1ebft trong \u01a1n g\u1ecdi v\u00e0 s\u1ee9 v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nhi\u1ec1u khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 gi\u1edd h\u1eb9n[26]<\/a>. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u1ea5y, ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng: n\u01a1i ch\u1ed1n g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 – th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 th\u1eddi l\u01b0\u1ee3ng – kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 l\u00fd v\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u2013 s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 ba – nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u00fd th\u1ee9c s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n th\u1ea5u su\u1ed1t m\u1ecdi b\u00ed \u1ea9n c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa.<\/p>\n

\u00a0C\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa, b\u1edfi v\u00ec l\u1eafm khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c che gi\u1ea5u d\u01b0\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u1edb h\u1ee3p ph\u00e1p v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c v\u00e0 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3 m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i b\u00ecnh phong c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng nghi\u00eang chi\u1ec1u nguy hi\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a con tim. V\u00e0 ch\u1edb g\u00ec \u0111\u1eebng v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 d\u1ea1i d\u1ed9t can thi\u1ec7p gi\u1eef l\u1ea1i hay c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf vi\u1ec7c thuy\u00ean chuy\u1ec3n ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a Nh\u00e0 D\u00f2ng, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n r\u00fat v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c n\u1eef tu v\u00ec m\u1ed9t l\u00fd do \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, m\u00e0 c\u00f3 khi ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

\u00a0M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u h\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i tu v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng th\u00f4i l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi: Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m c\u1edb cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u1ea5p ph\u1ea1m, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m c\u1edb cho ch\u00fang ta v\u1ea5p ph\u1ea1m. Trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb n\u00e0y, s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng huynh \u0111\u1ec7 c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n s\u1ebd mang l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft[27]<\/a>. Nh\u1edd t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n d\u00e2ng hi\u1ebfn v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap l\u1edbn lao cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c trong vi\u1ec7c soi s\u00e1ng, ch\u1ec9 b\u1ea3o v\u00e0 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 l\u1eabn nhau, khi ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh nguy h\u1ea1i kh\u00e1c nhau, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 l\u00e2y nhi\u1ec5m m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 tinh th\u1ea7n th\u1ebf t\u1ee5c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng c\u1ea3 d\u00e1m t\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5 qu\u00ean \u0111i c\u00e1i ngh\u1ecbch l\u00fd m\u00e0 th\u00e1nh Phaol\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u0103n tr\u1edf: \u201cV\u00ec t\u00ednh x\u00e1c th\u1ecbt th\u00ec \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi Th\u1ea7n Kh\u00ed, c\u00f2n Th\u1ea7n Kh\u00ed l\u1ea1i \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi t\u00ednh x\u00e1c th\u1ecbt, \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean k\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ecbch nhau, khi\u1ebfn anh em kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u anh em mu\u1ed1n\u2026\u201d <\/em>V\u00e0 ng\u00e0i qu\u1ea3 quy\u1ebft \u201cNh\u1eefng ai thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 \u0110\u1ee9c Ki-t\u00f4 Gi\u00ea-su th\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00f3ng \u0111inh t\u00ednh x\u00e1c th\u1ecbt v\u00e0o th\u1eadp gi\u00e1 c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi c\u00e1c d\u1ee5c v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 \u0111am m\u00ea. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta s\u1ed1ng nh\u1edd Th\u1ea7n Kh\u00ed, th\u00ec c\u0169ng h\u00e3y nh\u1edd Th\u1ea7n Kh\u00ed m\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn b\u01b0\u1edbc\u201d<\/em>[28]<\/sup><\/strong><\/sup><\/em><\/a><\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0Ngo\u00e0i ra, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00ean nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n, kh\u1ed5 ch\u1ebf, \u0103n chay v\u00e0 chi\u00eam ni\u1ec7m. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111i theo con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f3 \u1ea5y n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 kh\u1ed5 ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t. Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu tha thi\u1ebft c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa Cha cho c\u00e1c t\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3 ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a, v\u00e0 cho ch\u00fang ta h\u00f4m nay: \u201cCon kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u1edf trong th\u1ebf gian n\u1eefa, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd c\u00f2n \u1edf trong th\u1ebf gian… Con kh\u00f4ng xin Cha c\u1ea5t h\u1ecd ra kh\u1ecfi th\u1ebf gian, nh\u01b0ng xin Cha g\u00ecn gi\u1eef h\u1ecd kh\u1ecfi \u00e1c th\u1ea7n. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gian c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 con \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gian. Xin Cha l\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt m\u00e0 th\u00e1nh h\u00f3a h\u1ecd. L\u1eddi Cha l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt. Nh\u01b0 Cha \u0111\u00e3 sai con \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ebf gian th\u00ec con c\u0169ng sai h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ebf gian. V\u00ec h\u1ecd, con xin th\u00e1nh hi\u1ebfn ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh con, \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1edd s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt, h\u1ecd c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e1nh hi\u1ebfn\u201d<\/em>[29]<\/sup><\/sup><\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng tr\u00ean h\u1ebft, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i tin r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa l\u1edbn h\u01a1n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i (m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u1edbn h\u01a1n v\u01b0\u1ee3t th\u1eafng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nh\u1ecf h\u01a1n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn c\u1ee7a n\u00f3); r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa m\u1edbi l\u00e0m tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c con tim ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta th\u1ebf n\u00e0o th\u00ec Ng\u00e0i y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00fang ta th\u1ebf \u1ea5y, v\u00e0 Ng\u00e0i y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00fang ta cho \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eadn c\u00f9ng; v\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eadn c\u00f9ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady [s\u1ef1 chung th\u1ee7y c\u1ee7a giao \u01b0\u1edbc nhi\u1ec7m h\u00f4n]. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m t\u1ea1 Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 vui m\u1eebng v\u00ec tuy s\u1ef1 y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n v\u1eabn c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ea1i \u0111a s\u1ed1 linh m\u1ee5c v\u00e0 tu s\u0129 \u0111\u00e3 lu\u00f4n ki\u00ean tr\u00ec gi\u1eef v\u1eefng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 s\u1ee9 v\u1ee5 th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 mu\u1ed1i\/men s\u1ef1 th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa gi\u1eefa tr\u1ea7n gian v\u00e0 l\u00e0 ch\u1ee9ng t\u00e1 h\u00f9ng h\u1ed3n cho \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u00e1nh chung mai h\u1eadu, l\u00e0 l\u00fac m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 con c\u00e1i s\u1ef1 s\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa.<\/p>\n

II.3 T\u01b0\u01a1ng quan v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c ph\u00e1i \u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh, h\u00e0i ho\u00e0 v\u00e0 qu\u00e2n b\u00ecnh. Xin ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t hai tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 con g\u00e1i v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i C\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o.<\/em> N\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng l\u01b0u \u00fd v\u1ec1 n\u01a1i ch\u1ed1n g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1, th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 th\u1eddi l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 l\u00fd v\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd, s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 ba v\u00e0 \u00fd th\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u00ean kia v\u1edbi gi\u1edbi nh\u00e0 tu v\u00ec nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, th\u00ec \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y c\u00e0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n n\u1eefa, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd m\u1eddi hay nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi \u0111i ri\u00eang m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u00e1ch s\u1ea1n, nh\u00e0 kh\u00e1ch, nh\u00e0 ngh\u1ec9, hay nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1, v\u00ec b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 l\u00fd do g\u00ec[30]<\/a>. Nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 th\u00ea th\u1ea3m, h\u1ecfng m\u1ea5t l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t khi u\u1ed1ng qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1ea5t k\u00edch th\u00edch [say r\u01b0\u1ee3u l\u00e0m m\u00f9 qu\u00e1ng l\u00fd tr\u00ed, nh\u01b0ng k\u00edch th\u00edch b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n].<\/p>\n

II.3a \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 con g\u00e1i hay b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i C\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 con g\u00e1i hay b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i C\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o th\u00ec d\u00f9 g\u00ec c\u0169ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u1eabu s\u1ed1 chung l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9c tin, lu\u00e2n l\u00fd v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o l\u00fd c\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o. Ch\u00ednh m\u1eabu s\u1ed1 chung \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi quan ni\u1ec7m v\u00e0 l\u1eadp tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1ec1 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c hay t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i t\u1ea1o n\u00ean m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 h\u1eefu hi\u1ec7u v\u00e0 an to\u00e0n h\u01a1n. T\u00e2m th\u1ee9c s\u1ee3 t\u1ed9i v\u00e0 y\u00eau m\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi tr\u1ecdng, \u0111\u1ec1 cao v\u00e0 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c g\u00ecn gi\u1eef b\u1edfi c\u00e1c th\u1ea9m quy\u1ec1n h\u1eefu tr\u00e1ch trong Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i, trong D\u00f2ng Tu, trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, trong c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9 v\u00e0 \u0111o\u00e0n th\u1ec3. N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u201cxem ra c\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3<\/em>\u201d th\u00ec s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng can thi\u1ec7p k\u1ecbp th\u1eddi v\u00e0 th\u00edch \u0111\u00e1ng. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed n\u1ebfu ai th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u201cc\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1<\/em>\u201d th\u00ec c\u0169ng c\u00f3 m\u1eabu s\u1ed1 chung c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u201c\u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u00f9a v\u1edbi l\u1eeda\u201d, nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fac trong t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng xem ra an to\u00e0n l\u1ea1i g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i nguy hi\u1ec3m nh\u1ea5t. Ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00ean gi\u1eef lu\u1eadt giao ti\u1ebfp: Ai gi\u1eef lu\u1eadt th\u00ec s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c lu\u1eadt g\u00ecn gi\u1eef cho.<\/p>\n

II.3b B\u1ea1n l\u00e0 con g\u00e1i hay b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 con g\u00e1i hay b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o th\u00ec v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 s\u1ebd kh\u00e1c h\u1eb3n. Vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eabu s\u1ed1 chung v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ee9c tin v\u00e0 lu\u00e2n l\u00fd, v\u1ec1 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c v\u00e0 t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i, v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c qui t\u1eafc c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan tr\u1edf n\u00ean ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p v\u00ec s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t c\u0103n b\u1ea3n v\u1ec1 \u0110\u1ea1o, m\u00e0 s\u1ef1 thua thi\u1ec7t ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda m\u00ecnh. C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft y\u00eau l\u00e0 cho v\u00e0 cho \u0111\u1ec3 chinh ph\u1ee5c ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh y\u00eau, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed g\u00e0i b\u1eaby cho \u201cc\u00f3 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3\u201d r\u1ed3i c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n lui c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa. \u0110\u1eddi c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u m\u00e1nh l\u1edbi v\u00e0 c\u1ea1m b\u1eaby kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ee7. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi c\u0169ng c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i t\u1ed1t t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi th\u00e1nh hi\u1ebfn, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n tr\u1edf n\u00ean x\u1ea5u v\u00e0 t\u00e1c h\u1ea1i cho \u0111\u1eddi tu, ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn, c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec3u, c\u00e1ch suy ngh\u0129 kh\u00f4ng chung h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o.<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Hy v\u1ecdng n\u00f3i \u00edt nh\u01b0ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p khuy\u00ean th\u00ec xin khuy\u00ean r\u1eb1ng ai ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng li\u00ean h\u1ec7 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u0111\u1eebng n\u00ean thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp, v\u00e0 ai \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u00ec c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng c\u1edfi b\u1ecf d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n \u0111i, cho t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thanh th\u1ea3n, \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi v\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1eadn, nh\u1edb c\u00e2u th\u01a1 c\u1ee7a Xu\u00e2n Di\u1ec7u: \u201c\u0110\u01b0\u1eddng \u00eam qu\u00e1 ta \u0111i m\u00e0 qu\u00ean ng\u00f3, \u0111\u1ebfn khi hay th\u00ec gai nh\u1ecdn \u0111\u00e3 v\u00e0o th\u1ea5u x\u01b0\u01a1ng!<\/em>\u201d Mong m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft \u1ee9ng x\u1eed th\u00edch \u0111\u00e1ng, s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 gi\u1eef \u0111\u00fang c\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ecb c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1eebng l\u00e0m cho h\u1ecd hi\u1ec3u sai v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 sai v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eddi tu v\u00e0 v\u1ec1 linh m\u1ee5c C\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t g\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u1ea5u g\u00e2y c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf l\u1edbn lao cho ch\u1ee9ng t\u00e1 Tin M\u1eebng v\u00e0 truy\u1ec1n gi\u00e1o c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00e3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n qu\u00e1 xa th\u00ec \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea5t \u0111i thi\u1ec7t h\u1ea1i cho Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 \u00fd r\u00fat lui v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n c\u01b0\u01a1ng quy\u1ebft trong vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y: V\u00e2ng l\u1eddi Ch\u00faa h\u01a1n l\u00e0 v\u1ecb n\u1ec3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i nh\u1edb \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ee9 m\u1ec7nh v\u00e0 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c truy\u1ec1n gi\u00e1o l\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho Ch\u00faa Kit\u00f4 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 y\u00eau m\u1ebfn, m\u00e0 v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng qu\u00ean n\u1ed7i lo s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb h\u01b0 m\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a th\u00e1nh Phaol\u00f4.[31]<\/a><\/p>\n

II.3c \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c g\u00f3a ph\u1ee5<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c\u00a0 go\u00e1 ph\u1ee5. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e0ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1c g\u00f3a ph\u1ee5 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 n\u01a1i \u0103n ch\u1ed1n \u1edf, ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, xe c\u1ed9, m\u00e1y m\u00f3c… Nh\u1edb cu\u1ed9c \u0111i\u1ec1u tra v\u1ec1 \u201csinh vi\u00ean t\u1ea7m g\u1eedi\u201d c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ch\u00e0ng trai c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u201ch\u1ea5p d\u1eabn t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c\u201d. \u0110\u00e0ng kh\u00e1c, nh\u1eefng g\u00f3a ph\u1ee5 tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p \u201cm\u1eb9 d\u1ea1i con th\u01a1\u201d g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u1ea7n gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, l\u00f2ng tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n ch\u0103m s\u00f3c lo l\u1eafng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd hay ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng tr\u1ecdng \u00e2n ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd s\u1ebd l\u00e0 b\u1eaby ng\u1ea7m kh\u00f4ng ng\u1edd \u0111\u00f3! \u0110\u1ec3 cho l\u00f2ng b\u00e1c \u00e1i tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n \u1ea5y kh\u1ecfi b\u1ecb hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m l\u00e0 y\u00eau, n\u00ean gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 qua ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ho\u1eb7c c\u01a1 quan b\u00e1c \u00e1i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9, \u0111\u1eebng th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 h\u1ecd v\u00e0 c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

\u00a0II.3d S\u1ef1 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/em>Ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn d\u1eef ki\u1ec7n t\u00e2m sinh l\u00fd n\u00e0y l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c.<\/em><\/strong> C\u00f3 s\u1ee9c h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c [nh\u01b0 Giuse Ai c\u1eadp v\u1edbi v\u1ee3 \u00f4ng quan] hay b\u1ecb h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c [nh\u01b0 Dav\u00edt v\u1edbi v\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a Uria] \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nguy hi\u1ec3m \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng hay l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngay ch\u00ednh v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu h\u00e0nh, coi ch\u1eebng k\u1ebbo b\u1ecb t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng ho\u1eb7c t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng m\u00e0 v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3. Ngo\u00e0i ra, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00e1c g\u00f3a ph\u1ee5 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb nhu c\u1ea7u sinh l\u00fd \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi, m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef d\u00f9 \u0111ang c\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c, ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u1ea1i d\u1ee5c v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd m\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n \u0111i t\u00ecm th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n \u1edf ngo\u00e0i h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, \u0111\u01b0a t\u1edbi t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c mua d\u00e2m n\u01a1i \u0111\u00e1m \u201c\u0111\u0129 \u0111\u1ef1c.\u201d<\/p>\n

II.3e C\u1ea1m b\u1eaby m\u1ef9 nh\u00e2n k\u1ebf<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o v\u1edbi c\u1ea1m b\u1eaby m\u1ef9 nh\u00e2n k\u1ebf:<\/p>\n

–\u00a0\u00a0 C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea1m b\u1eaby t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi th\u00e2n ph\u1eadn con ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i \u201ctrai t\u00e0i g\u00e1i s\u1eafc\u201d;<\/p>\n

–\u00a0\u00a0 C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea1m b\u1eaby \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00e0n d\u1ef1ng v\u00ec ti\u1ec1n;<\/p>\n

–\u00a0\u00a0 C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea1m b\u1eaby \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eafp \u0111\u1eb7t v\u00ec th\u00f9 o\u00e1n;<\/p>\n

–\u00a0\u00a0 C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea1m b\u1eaby \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00e0n d\u1ef1ng c\u00e0i \u0111\u1eb7t v\u00ec v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb, quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c;<\/p>\n

–\u00a0\u00a0 C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea1m b\u1eaby \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1 h\u1ea1i t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i.<\/p>\n

II.3f Y\u00eau v\u00e0 chia tay<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0 tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan nam n\u1eef v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 l\u1ebd b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia tay \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 an b\u00e0i. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ed1i chia tay:<\/p>\n

\u00a0C\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ed3ng thu\u1eadn:<\/em><\/strong> C\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ed3ng thu\u1eadn chia tay, kh\u00f4ng ai b\u1ecf ai, kh\u00f4ng ai n\u00edu k\u00e9o ai. Cu\u1ed9c chia tay di\u1ec5n ra khi hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi nhau: ho\u1eb7c v\u00ec ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u1eb7t trong \u0111\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u00ec l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng, ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh \u201cng\u00f5 c\u1ee5t\u201d nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. \u0110\u1eebng t\u01b0\u1edfng khi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ai n\u1ea5y \u0111i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111au kh\u1ed5, m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t, t\u00f9y m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 v\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian g\u1eafn b\u00f3\u2026 L\u1eddi khuy\u00ean cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c l\u00e0 h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1eddi gian gi\u00fap ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh, \u0111\u1eebng b\u1eaft m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i nhanh ch\u00f3ng v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua.<\/p>\n

\u00a0Tan v\u1ee1 v\u00ec l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng: <\/em><\/strong>M\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng hay l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng t\u1ef1 n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 mang d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u d\u1ef1 b\u00e1o v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c chia tay s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra. Nh\u01b0ng khi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c v\u1eabn c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn. Ngu\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u n\u1ed5i t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn y\u00eau v\u00e0 nh\u1edb nhung k\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 x\u1eed t\u1ec7 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. C\u00f3 l\u00fac b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n hay g\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i, nh\u01b0ng xin \u0111\u1eebng, v\u00ec l\u00e0m v\u1eady ch\u1ec9 thua thi\u1ec7t cho b\u1ea1n th\u00f4i, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

\u00a0Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta b\u1ecf b\u1ea1n: <\/em><\/strong>R\u01a1i v\u00e0o ki\u1ec3u chia tay n\u00e0y, ngo\u00e0i \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn ra c\u00f2n b\u1ecb s\u1ed1c, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u00f4m m\u1ed9t v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng r\u1ea5t l\u00e2u m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0nh. H\u00e3y x\u00f3a s\u1ed1 \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u0103n b\u1ea1n g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n. C\u1ed1 g\u1eafng gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa t\u00e2m tr\u00ed, thanh th\u1ea3n v\u01b0\u1ee3t l\u00ean cho m\u1ed9t kh\u1edfi\u00a0 \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1edbi.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n b\u1ecf ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta: <\/em><\/strong>B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t th\u1eddi gian c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00f3i l\u1eddi chia tay, nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t khi n\u00f3i ra r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i th\u1ea5y m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfc nu\u1ed1i. C\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ti\u1ebfc nu\u1ed1i ngay sau khi chia tay, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t giai \u0111o\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 ng\u1ee7 y\u00ean.<\/p>\n

\u00a0Kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u0169: <\/em><\/strong>Sau khi chia tay, c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u n\u00f3i \u201ccoi nhau nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng.\u201d \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng, v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3, v\u00ec \u201ct\u00ecnh c\u0169 kh\u00f4ng r\u1ee7 c\u0169ng t\u1edbi\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cb\u00e9n m\u00f9i ch\u00f9i ch\u1eb3ng s\u1ea1ch.\u201d N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a\u201d hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m m\u00e0 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh c\u00f2n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n quay l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u00ec \u0111\u1eebng c\u00f3 li\u00ean l\u1ea1c n\u1eefa. L\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady s\u1ebd g\u00e2y h\u1ea1i cho c\u1ea3 \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean. M\u1ed9t c\u1eadu trai v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a nhau, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia: c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u1ea5t s\u1edbm, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u1ea5t mu\u1ed9n, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd\u2026 T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn sau t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 sau t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, v\u00ec thu\u1ed1c u\u1ed1ng ch\u1ec9 h\u1eefu \u00edch tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ch\u1ebft ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 sau khi ch\u1ebft. Th\u1eadt kh\u00f4i h\u00e0i, \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 ngu\u1ef5 bi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 quan h\u1ec7 th\u00e2n x\u00e1c r\u1ed3i ph\u1ea3i chia tay m\u00e0 c\u00f2n du d\u01b0a lui t\u1edbi l\u1ea1i b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i coi nhau nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 \u201cb\u1ea1n b\u00e8 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d!<\/p>\n

\u00a0N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t m\u00e0 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n r\u1ea5t tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eabn \u0111ang tr\u00f4ng ch\u1edd m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3\u2026 l\u00e0 \u0111ang \u0111i n\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f4i, r\u1ea5t nguy hi\u1ec3m: nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u01a1ng anh v\u00e0 lo cho Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn c\u1ea3nh anh ch\u00e2n trong ch\u00e2n ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u00f3; c\u00f2n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gh\u00e9t anh v\u00e0 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i s\u1ebd t\u1ed1 c\u00e1o anh; v\u00e0 c\u00f3 khi ch\u00ednh \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y\u201d s\u1ebd t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f2i l\u1ea1i anh (v\u00ec th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 m\u1eadp m\u1edd c\u1ee7a anh d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea3o ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i). C\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 tr\u1eafc nghi\u1ec7m b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng y\u00ean t\u00e2m l\u00e0 anh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00e0 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1edbi: \u201c\u0110\u01b0\u1eddng anh anh \u0111i, \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng em em \u0111i, t\u00ecnh ngh\u0129a \u0111\u00f4i ta c\u00f3 th\u1ebf th\u00f4i, \u0111\u00e3 quy\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng mong sum h\u1ecdp n\u1eefa, b\u1eadn l\u00f2ng chi n\u1eefa l\u00fac chia ph\u00f4i<\/em>\u201d (N\u1eeda Ch\u1eebng Xu\u00e2n). N\u1ebfu \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t s\u00e2u \u0111\u1eadm v\u1edbi nhau, th\u00ec n\u00ean t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng r\u00fat lui, \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 B\u1ec1 Tr\u00ean ph\u1ea3i can thi\u1ec7p sa th\u1ea3i[32]<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\u00a0H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 \u201c\u0111\u1ee9t \u0111u\u00f4i n\u00f2ng n\u1ecdc\u201d<\/em><\/strong>: <\/strong><\/em>C\u00f3c \u0111\u1ebb tr\u1ee9ng d\u01b0\u1edbi n\u01b0\u1edbc, n\u1edf ra n\u00f2ng n\u1ecdc. Khi n\u00f2ng n\u1ecdc bi\u1ebfn th\u00e1i, \u0111\u1ee9t \u0111u\u00f4i th\u00e0nh c\u00f3c th\u00ec l\u00ean s\u1ed1ng tr\u00ean kh\u00f4. C\u00f3c kh\u00f4ng xu\u1ed1ng s\u1ed1ng d\u01b0\u1edbi n\u01b0\u1edbc, n\u1ebfu l\u1ee1 b\u1ecb r\u01a1i hay b\u1ecb n\u00e9m xu\u1ed1ng n\u01b0\u1edbc, c\u00f3c s\u1ebd v\u1ed9i v\u00e3 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch l\u00ean kh\u00f4. S\u1ef1 d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t \u0111o\u1ea1n tuy\u1ec7t v\u1edbi c\u00e1c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng t\u00ecnh c\u0169 c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. Tuy nhi\u00ean, khi t\u00ecnh c\u1edd g\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i, h\u00e3y c\u01b0 x\u1eed c\u00e1ch tao nh\u00e3 c\u00f3 v\u0103n h\u00f3a v\u00e0 cao th\u01b0\u1ee3ng, c\u1ee9 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi ch\u00e2n t\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i, kh\u00f4ng n\u1ec3 m\u1ea5t l\u00f2ng, y\u1ebfu m\u1ec1m th\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u1ea1i m\u00e0 nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi hay r\u1ee7 r\u00ea ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y \u0111i ri\u00eang v\u1edbi nhau t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng t\u1edbi, kh\u00f4ng chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e3n l\u00e2u gi\u1edd, kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e3 qua. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 qua \u0111i, v\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi vun \u0111\u1eafp cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

\u00a0II.4 Nh\u1eefng con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan t\u1ed1t<\/strong><\/p>\n

II.4a T\u01b0\u01a1ng quan v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 ch\u1ecb em ru\u1ed9t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean v\u00e0 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef ph\u1ea3i k\u1ec3 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 ch\u1ecb em ru\u1ed9t th\u1ecbt c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. M\u1eb9 linh m\u1ee5c l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef m\u00e0 ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, v\u00e0 nh\u1edd m\u1eb9 m\u00e0 ng\u00e0i c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u01a1n k\u00eau g\u1ecdi nh\u01b0 h\u00f4m nay. S\u1ef1 d\u1ecbu d\u00e0ng v\u00e0 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh m\u1eb9 n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 v\u00e0 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 ng\u00e0i, gi\u00fap ng\u00e0i l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng thi\u00eang li\u00eang l\u00e0m t\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa. M\u1eb9 v\u00e0 ch\u1ecb em ru\u1ed9t th\u1ecbt lu\u00f4n ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng linh m\u1ee5c, v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n, v\u1edbi ch\u0103m s\u00f3c canh ph\u00f2ng nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ea7y an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng. M\u1ed9t linh m\u1ee5c t\u1ed1t lu\u00f4n gi\u1eef m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 m\u1eadt thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 c\u00e1c ch\u1ecb em ru\u1ed9t th\u1ecbt c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t trong th\u1eddi gian g\u1eb7p th\u1eed th\u00e1ch, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, b\u1ecb hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m, \u0111au \u1ed1m b\u1ec7nh ho\u1ea1n, bu\u1ed3n phi\u1ec1n ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n, l\u1ea1i b\u1ecb dao \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, b\u1ecb c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ecb y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3 n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

II.4b Coi c\u00e1c C\u1ee5 B\u00e0 nh\u01b0 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu n\u1eef nh\u01b0 ch\u1ecb em\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng h\u1ed3ng \u00e2n qu\u00ed gi\u00e1 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n linh m\u1ee5c v\u00ec N\u01b0\u1edbc Tr\u1eddi trong con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 trong s\u00e1ng, \u0111i\u1ec1u xem ra \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1ch s\u00e2u xa trong ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef nh\u01b0 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 ch\u1ecb em m\u00ecnh, v\u1edbi c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 ch\u1ecb em m\u00ecnh, m\u00e0 th\u00e1nh Phaol\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 khuy\u00ean nh\u1ee7 Tim\u00f4t\u00ea: \u201cCon h\u00e3y coi c\u00e1c c\u1ee5 b\u00e0 nh\u01b0 m\u1eb9, c\u00e1c thi\u1ebfu n\u1eef nh\u01b0 ch\u1ecb em, v\u1edbi t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n trong s\u1ea1ch<\/em>.\u201d[33]<\/a><\/p>\n

Trong th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i h\u00f4m nay, ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 v\u00e0 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef trong Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i v\u00e0 trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. H\u01a1n bao gi\u1edd c\u1ea3, ng\u00e0y nay ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng, b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 v\u00e0 th\u0103ng ti\u1ebfn ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, v\u00e0 xem ra ngo\u00e0i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n trong Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i! Th\u1eadt ra kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i th\u1ebf, v\u00ec ngay t\u1eeb th\u1eddi c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i, Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu \u0111\u00e3 \u00e2n c\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 c\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef theo gi\u00fap Ng\u00e0i v\u00e0 cho h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb tr\u00ed \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t quan tr\u1ecdng, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a M\u1eb9 Maria v\u00e0 Maria Madal\u00eana d\u01b0\u1edbi ch\u00e2n th\u1eadp gi\u00e1, trong bi\u1ebfn c\u1ed1 Ph\u1ee5c sinh v\u00e0 th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i s\u01a1 khai, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi L\u1ec5 Ch\u00faa Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n Hi\u1ec7n Xu\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i c\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t hay l\u00e3ng qu\u00ean t\u1eeb hai m\u01b0\u01a1i th\u1ebf k\u1ef7 nay.[34]<\/a> S\u1ef1 th\u0103ng ti\u1ebfn n\u00e0y l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng nhau trong m\u1ecdi kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh. M\u1ed9t bi\u1ebfn c\u1ed1 ch\u1ee9ng minh \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u1eeba n\u00f3i l\u00e0 ng\u00e0y 21\/1\/2010, \u0110TC Bi\u1ec3n \u0110\u1ee9c XVI \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ed5 nhi\u1ec7m C\u00f4 Flaminia Giovanelli l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean n\u1eafm gi\u1eef v\u1ecb tr\u00ed Ph\u00f3 Th\u01b0 K\u00fd c\u1ee7a H\u1ed9i \u0110\u1ed3ng Gi\u00e1o Ho\u00e0ng C\u00f4ng L\u00fd v\u00e0 H\u00f2a B\u00ecnh.[35]<\/a> <\/em>M\u1ed9t n\u1eef gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00dac, Rosemary Goldie, c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 \u1edf v\u1ecb tr\u00ed t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ea1i H\u1ed9i \u0110\u1ed3ng Gi\u00e1o Ho\u00e0ng v\u1ec1 Gi\u00e1o D\u00e2n t\u1eeb 1966 \u0111\u1ebfn 1976. M\u1ed9t n\u1eef tu ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00dd, Soeur Enrica Rosanna, hi\u1ec7n \u0111ang gi\u1eef c\u00f9ng ch\u1ee9c v\u1ee5 t\u1ea1i Th\u00e1nh B\u1ed9 Tu S\u0129[36]<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u0110TC\u00a0Phanxic\u00f4 \u0111ang c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00e1i n\u00e2ng vai tr\u00f2 n\u1eef gi\u1edbi l\u00ean m\u1ed9t t\u1ea7m cao m\u1edbi: Sau khi nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c v\u1ecb ti\u1ec1n nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 vai tr\u00f2 quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, Ng\u00e0i kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh: \u201cC\u1ea3 t\u00f4i c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 tr\u1ef1c gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tha nh\u00e2n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u1ebfu th\u1ebf v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f4 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ebf t\u1ef1 v\u1ec7; t\u00f4i vui m\u1eebng khi th\u1ea5y nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef chia s\u1ebb m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 v\u1edbi c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c qua vi\u1ec7c th\u00e1p t\u00f9ng c\u00e1c c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 nh\u00f3m, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 trong vi\u1ec7c suy t\u01b0 th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u1ea7u mong kh\u00f4ng gian d\u00e0nh cho s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1edbi r\u1ed9ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch s\u00e2u r\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n trong Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i\u2026 Nh\u1eefng n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 d\u1ecbu d\u00e0ng m\u00e0 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef v\u1ed1n r\u1ea5t phong ph\u00fa, kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c cho \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh, l\u00e0m lan t\u1ecfa b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed thanh th\u1ea3n v\u00e0 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i m\u00e0 n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u00ec \u01a1n g\u1ecdi c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c<\/em>\u201d[37]<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\u00a0Ng\u00e0i c\u00f2n n\u00f3i m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n: \u201cCh\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o h\u00ecnh dung m\u1ed9t Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng? Kh\u00f4ng, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o h\u00ecnh dung \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c; \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 c\u1ee7a l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa, l\u00e0 men b\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec3 cho s\u1ef1 t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng ch\u00ednh h\u01a1n, cho t\u00ecnh huynh \u0111\u1ec7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1eaft ch\u1eb7t h\u01a1n, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 mang \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Kit\u00f4 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i c\u00f2n t\u0103m t\u1ed1i, \u0111\u1ec3 gieo hy v\u1ecdng cho nh\u1eefng qu\u1ea3 tim \u0111\u00e3 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 chia s\u1ebb cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1ecf b\u00e9, cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o. C\u00e1c n\u1eef tu c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta th\u1eadt cao c\u1ea3, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eadn hi\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 mang L\u1eddi Ch\u00faa \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gian!\u201d<\/em>[38]<\/a>.<\/sup><\/p>\n

\u00a0Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, \u0110\u1ee9c Phaol\u00f4 VI c\u0169ng nh\u1eafc D\u00e2n Ch\u00faa tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua m\u1ecdi n\u1ed7i kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, t\u1eadn t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1c ng\u00e0i v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh con th\u1ea3o v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng c\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi c\u00e1c ng\u00e0i, v\u1edbi k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb d\u00e8 gi\u1eef, kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 v\u00e0 an \u1ee7i, v\u00ec c\u00e1c ng\u00e0i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n t\u1eadn hi\u1ebfn cho Ch\u00faa Kit\u00f4 v\u00e0 Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i.<\/p>\n

\u00a0II.4c. Nh\u00ecn c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed v\u00e0 m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan h\u00e0i ho\u00e0 c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ph\u00fac \u00c2m cho ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u1ee9ng x\u1eed c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu mang l\u1ea1i t\u1ef1 do v\u00e0 h\u00f2a \u0111i\u1ec7u gi\u1eefa Ng\u00e0i v\u00e0 c\u00e1c ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu, l\u00e0 Th\u1ea7y v\u00e0 Ch\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan v\u00e0 \u1ee9ng x\u1eed th\u1ebf n\u00e0o cho \u0111\u00fang m\u1ef1c v\u1edbi c\u00e1c ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef. Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y xem v\u00e0i khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t ch\u00ednh:<\/p>\n