{"id":5576,"date":"2014-08-21T15:29:04","date_gmt":"2014-08-21T08:29:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/xuanbichvietnam.net\/trangchu\/?p=5576"},"modified":"2014-08-21T15:29:04","modified_gmt":"2014-08-21T08:29:04","slug":"chuyen-phiem-dao-doi-doc-trong-tuan-21-thuong-nien","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/xuanbichvietnam.net\/trangchu\/chuyen-phiem-dao-doi-doc-trong-tuan-21-thuong-nien\/","title":{"rendered":"CHUY\u1ec6N PHI\u1ebeM \u0110\u1ea0O \u0110\u1edcI \u0110\u1eccC TRONG TU\u1ea6N 21 TH\u01af\u1edcNG NI\u00caN"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201c\u0110\u00f4i chim, l\u00e0 chim r\u00edu r\u00edt tr\u00ean c\u00e0nh,\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

Em y\u00eau l\u00e0 y\u00eau ti\u1ebfng g\u1ecdi<\/em><\/p>\n

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C\u1ee7a M\u00ecnh l\u00e0 M\u00ecnh, M\u00ecnh \u01a1i! <\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0(Di\u1ec7u H\u01b0\u01a1ng \u2013 M\u00ecnh \u01a0i<\/em>)<\/p>\n

(1Cor 9: 19-23)<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/strong>N\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3, hi\u1ec3u s\u00e2u v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u xa \u00fd-ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a t\u1eeb-v\u1ef1ng \u201cM\u00ecnh\u201d ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u201cb\u1ea1n t\u00ecnh\u201d r\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ecnh, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 \u201cb\u1ea1n tr\u0103m n\u0103m\u201d, th\u00ec ch\u1eafc b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 t\u00f4i, ta s\u1ebd c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e0n, r\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng ch\u00e1n.<\/p>\n

Chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e1ng n\u00f3i v\u00e0 b\u00e0n, m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee9 t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n tr\u0103m-n\u0103m-cu\u1ed9c-t\u00ecnh-\u0111\u00f4i-l\u1ee9a nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fac th\u1ea5y c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng. Th\u01b0\u1eddng x\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ebfn, c\u00e2u h\u00e1t bu\u1ed3n t\u1eebng n\u1ed1i \u0111u\u00f4i theo, nh\u01b0:<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u201c\u0110em qua th\u1ee9c gi\u1ea5c b\u00f9i ng\u00f9i<\/em><\/p>\n

Nh\u00ecn quanh, l\u00e0 em kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y m\u1eb7t ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/em><\/p>\n

L\u00e0, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

(Di\u1ec7u H\u01b0\u01a1ng \u2013 b\u0111d<\/em>)<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00dd-t\u01b0\u1edfng, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi vi\u1ebft nh\u1ea1c di\u1ec5n-t\u1ea3 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 t\u00e2m t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecnh t\u1eebng c\u00f3 \u201ctr\u0103m n\u0103m m\u1ed9t c\u00f5i \u0111i v\u1ec1\u201d, m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc, l\u1ea1i di\u1ec5n r\u1ed9ng th\u1ee9 t\u00ecnh tr\u0103m n\u0103m ho\u1eb7c ngh\u00ecn n\u0103m m\u00e2y bay th\u00e0nh t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n\/t\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, h\u1eb5n r\u1eb1ng l\u1ea1i kh\u00e1c!<\/p>\n

V\u00e2ng! S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c. C\u0169ng s\u1ebd kh\u00e1c, n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 ta l\u1ea1i c\u1ee9 h\u00e1t c\u00e2u cu\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a nh\u1ea1c b\u1ea3n n\u00e0y v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi-t\u00ecnh-ng\u00e0n-n\u0103m s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y kh\u00e1c, c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u sau \u0111\u00e2y:<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00f4i chim g\u1eaby c\u00e1nh gi\u1eefa \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng,<\/em><\/p>\n

T\u1eeb nay l\u00e0 em th\u00f4i h\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c<\/em><\/p>\n

G\u1ecdi M\u00ecnh l\u00e0 M\u00ecnh, M\u00ecnh \u01a1i.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

(Di\u1ec7u H\u01b0\u01a1ng \u2013 b\u0111d<\/em>)<\/p>\n

Th\u1ebf th\u00ec, nay c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1-ngh\u1ecb t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea1o b\u1ea7y t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e2y, c\u1ee9 hi\u1ec3u ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t \u201ct\u00ecnh m\u00ecnh\u201d ng\u00e0n-n\u0103m-m\u00e2y-bay kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f4i l\u1ee9a m\u00e0 th\u00f4i, h\u1eb3n r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 t\u00f4i, ta l\u1ea1i s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 thi\u00ean\/c\u1ea3 ngh\u00ecn v\u1ea5n-\u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eb7t ra cho ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eeb x\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn nay.<\/p>\n

N\u00f3i d\u00f4ng n\u00f3i d\u00e0i, l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1eabn v\u00e0o c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi nh\u00e0 \u0110\u1ea1o, r\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng l\u00e2u. Mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec v\u1eeba x\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u00f4ng l\u00e2u, xin m\u1eddi b\u1ea1n\/m\u1eddi t\u00f4i ta \u0111\u1ecdc ti\u1ebfp c\u00e1c \u201cm\u1ea9u\u201d th\u00f4ng-tin t\u1eeb nh\u00e0 \u0110\u1ea1o m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0 sau:<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u201cTrong l\u1ea7n g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 x\u01b0a\/c\u0169 t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0 th\u1edd Caserta, \u0110\u1ee9c Phanxic\u00f4 c\u00f3 n\u00f3i: ng\u00e0i bi\u1ebft ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng: m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ecf ra s\u1eedng s\u1ed1t khi th\u1ea5y ng\u00e0i th\u1ef1c-hi\u1ec7n chuy\u1ebfn \u0111i th\u0103m nh\u00f3m b\u1ea1n-h\u1eefu thu\u1ed9c gi\u00e1o-ph\u00e1i Ng\u0169 Tu\u1ea7n, x\u01b0a nay l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a ng\u00e0i.
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\u0110\u1ee9c Phanxic\u00f4 c\u00f3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi nh\u00f3m Ng\u0169 Tu\u1ea7n n\u00e0y, r\u1eb1ng: \u2018Ch\u00faa Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n-c\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 \u0111a-d\u1ea1ng trong H\u1ed9i-th\u00e1nh. \u0110a-d\u1ea1ng \u0111\u00e2y, l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c-t\u00ednh phong-ph\u00fa, t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh, h\u1ea1nh-\u0111\u1ea1o nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ea1o. Ch\u00faa Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n l\u00e0 \u0110\u1ea5ng t\u1ea1o s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7p-nh\u1ea5t h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, H\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh v\u1eabn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i \u0111a-d\u1ea1ng \u1ea5y. V\u00e0 \u0110\u1ee9c Phanxic\u00f4 l\u1ea1i n\u00f3i: ng\u00e0i y\u00eau-th\u00edch t\u1eeb-v\u1ef1ng r\u1ea5t hay v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eb9p v\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi trong Kinh th\u00e1nh, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e2u: T\u00ednh \u0111a-d\u1ea1ng th\u1ef1c-hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 ho\u00e0-gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00edch-th\u1ecb l\u00e0 qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n.\u201d
\n<\/em><\/p>\n

Trong bu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y, \u0110\u1ee9c Phanxic\u00f4 l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea5y l\u00ean m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi g\u1eedi \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ed9ng-\u0111\u1ed3ng c\u00e1c v\u1ecb Rao gi\u1ea3ng Ph\u00fac \u00c2m g\u1ed1c \u00dd, l\u00e0: th\u1eddi Ph\u00e1t-x\u00edt l\u1ed9ng-h\u00e0nh, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi C\u00f4ng-gi\u00e1o \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng-ph\u1ea1m trong v\u1ee5 gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u anh ch\u1ecb em Tin L\u00e0nh thu\u1ed9c ph\u00e1i Ng\u0169 Tu\u1ea7n v\u00e0 Rao Gi\u1ea3ng Ph\u00fac \u00c2m, \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y. <\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0Th\u1ebf n\u00ean, v\u1edbi t\u01b0-c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c-t\u1eed \u0110\u1ea1o Ch\u00faa, t\u00f4i mong anh ch\u1ecb em h\u00e3y tha th\u1ee9 cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi anh\/ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ecb c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi C\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o khi x\u01b0a v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 do s\u1ef1 d\u1eef c\u00e1m-d\u1ed7 n\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n x\u1eb1ng b\u1eady m\u1ea5t \u0111o\u00e0n-k\u1ebft nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf…<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi h\u00f4m \u1ea5y, \u0110\u1ee9c Phanxic\u00f4 c\u0169ng \u0111em \u0111\u1ebfn cho c\u00e1c linh-m\u1ee5c v\u00e0i t\u01b0-t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 m\u1ed1i quan-h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi C\u00f4ng-gi\u00e1o v\u1edbi c\u00e1c anh em Ng\u0169 Tu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5y ng\u1ea1c-nhi\u00ean. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 khi, \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00e1o Ho\u00e0ng cho bi\u1ebft: nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi C\u00f4ng-gi\u00e1o \u1edf Ch\u00e2u M\u1ef9 La-tinh \u0111\u00e3 gia-nh\u1eadp c\u1ed9ng-\u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00edn-h\u1eefu Ng\u0169 Tu\u1ea7n. Ng\u00e0i k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n n\u1eef t\u00edn-h\u1eefu n\u1ecd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi C\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o c\u00f3 n\u00f3i: Gi\u00e1o-h\u1ed9i C\u00f4ng-gi\u00e1o \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf r\u01a1i ch\u1ecb v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb theo C\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o n\u1eefa. Ch\u1ecb n\u00f3i: ch\u1ecb c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 L\u1eddi Ch\u00faa d\u1eabn-d\u1eaft, n\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i gia-nh\u1eadp sinh-ho\u1ea1t c\u1ee7a anh em Tin L\u00e0nh n\u00e0y… <\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u0110\u1ec3 minh-ho\u1ea1 v\u00e0 c\u0169ng k\u1ebft th\u00fac b\u00e0i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n h\u00f4m \u1ea5y, \u0110\u1ee9c Phanxic\u00f4 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh: <\/em>\u201cB\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai, d\u00f9 nam hay n\u1eef, v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111em \u0111\u1ebfn cho ta \u0111\u00f4i \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u00e0m qu\u00e0-t\u1eb7ng. \u0110\u00f3, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1eddi ri\u00eang ho\u1eb7c t\u00ecnh-c\u1ea3nh t\u01b0-ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. D\u00f9 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111i n\u1eefa, c\u0169ng n\u00ean l\u1eafng nghe h\u1ecd. V\u00e0, Ch\u00faa Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n l\u00e0 \u0110\u1ea5ng kh\u00f4n-ngoan r\u1ea5t m\u1ef1c, s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 d\u1ea1y cho ta bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch \u0103n\/n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd h\u00e3i s\u1ee3 khi \u0111\u1ed1i-tho\u1ea1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai. \u0110\u1ed1i-tho\u1ea1i, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o-v\u1ec7 ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, d\u00f9 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i-th\u00edch nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh tin. V\u00e0, c\u0169ng l\u00e0 cung-c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m \u00e1p-l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 thuy\u1ebft-ph\u1ee5c ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe gia-nh\u1eadp \u0110\u1ea1o m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u1ee9c B\u00ean\u00ea\u0111\u00edcht\u00f4 16 c\u00f3 l\u00fd khi n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cH\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh l\u1edbn m\u1ea1nh kh\u00f4ng do vi\u1ec7c khuy\u1ebfn-d\u1ee5 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gia-nh\u1eadp \u0110\u1ea1o m\u00ecnh, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 ngang qua s\u1ef1 thu h\u00fat c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng\u201d. <\/em>(X. <\/em>Cindy Wooden, Pope, friends move in the Spirit<\/em>, The Catholic Weekly 03\/8\/2014 tr. 7)<\/p>\n

N\u00f3i g\u00ec th\u00ec n\u00f3i, n\u1ebfu c\u1ee9 n\u00f3i v\u00e0 h\u00e1t theo ca-t\u1eeb c\u1ee7a nh\u1ea1c-b\u1ea3n tr\u00edch \u1edf tr\u00ean, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc l\u1ea1i s\u1ebd nh\u01b0 b\u1ea7y t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e2y, s\u1ebd h\u00e1t nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi b\u1ee9c-b\u00e1ch r\u1ea5t nh\u01b0 sau:<\/p>\n

\u201cT\u1eeb khi, t\u1eeb khi l\u00e0 M\u00ecnh b\u1ecf em bu\u1ed3n<\/em><\/p>\n

\u0110\u00f4i chim l\u01a1 l\u00e1o, quay cu\u1ed3ng l\u00e0 cu\u1ed3ng bi\u1ebfng \u0103n.<\/em><\/p>\n

Co ro, co ro t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed7 em n\u1eb1m,<\/em><\/p>\n

Ph\u00f2ng kh\u00f4ng, ph\u00f2ng kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng chi\u1ebfu l\u1ea1nh<\/em><\/p>\n

Nh\u1ec7n s\u1ea7u l\u00e0 s\u1ea7u gi\u0103ng ngang.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

(Di\u1ec7u H\u01b0\u01a1ng \u2013 b\u0111d<\/em>)<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu hi\u1ec3u ch\u1eef \u201cM\u00ecnh\u201d theo \u00fd c\u1ee7a c\u1ed1 Linh m\u1ee5c DCCT ng\u01b0\u1eddi Canada l\u00e0 Lm G\u00e9rard Gagnon khi tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1eabn hi\u1ec3u ch\u1eef \u201cM\u00ecnh\u201d trong c\u00e2u th\u01a1 Ki\u1ec1u: \u201cNgh\u0129 M\u00ecnh, M\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i n\u00ean th\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u1ed7i M\u00ecnh\u201d <\/em>l\u00e0 \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa Tr\u1eddi Ba Ng\u00f4i hi\u1ec7n-di\u1ec7n n\u01a1i m\u00ecnh\/n\u01a1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi, trong \u0111\u1eddi, th\u00ec h\u00f4m nay ch\u1eef n\u00e0y c\u00f2n mang nhi\u1ec1u \u00fd-ngh\u0129a h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu th\u1ebf th\u00ec, xin b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 t\u00f4i, ta c\u1ee9 ti\u1ebfp-t\u1ee5c h\u00e1t th\u00eam c\u00e2u h\u00e1t c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ch\u1eef \u201cM\u00ecnh\u201d nh\u01b0 sau:<\/p>\n

\u201cM\u00ecnh \u01a1i l\u00e0 M\u00ecnh, M\u00ecnh \u01a1i!<\/em><\/p>\n

M\u00ecnh \u0111i l\u00e0 \u0111i \u0111i m\u00e3i qu\u00ean l\u1eddi,<\/em><\/p>\n

L\u1eddi x\u01b0a m\u00e0 ta \u01b0\u1edbc h\u1eb9n,<\/em><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi s\u1eaft son.<\/em><\/p>\n

C\u00e2y xanh, l\u00e0 xanh l\u00e1 v\u1eabn t\u01b0\u01a1i m\u00e0u,<\/em><\/p>\n

Ri\u00eang em l\u00e0 em h\u00e9o t\u00e0n.<\/em><\/p>\n

Nh\u1ea1t nho\u00e0, l\u00e0 nho\u00e0 t\u00ecnh xu\u00e2n.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

(Di\u1ec7u H\u01b0\u01a1ng \u2013 b\u0111d<\/em>)<\/p>\n

Th\u1eadt ra th\u00ec, khi nghe h\u00e1t nh\u1eefng \u00fd\/l\u1eddi c\u00f3 ch\u1eef \u201cm\u00ecnh\u201d \u1edf tr\u00ean, b\u1ea7n-\u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u00e2y l\u1ea1i c\u1ee9 li\u00ean-t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi \u00fd-t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a t\u00e1c-gi\u1ea3 b\u00e0i h\u00e1t r\u1ea5t \u00fai ch\u00e0 \u201cM\u00ecnh \u01a1i, l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh!\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n

V\u00e2ng! Th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 th\u00ec: trong \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh, l\u1ea1i c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u201cm\u00ecnh\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cm\u00ecnh\u201d v\u1ed1n li\u00ean-k\u1ebft v\u1edbi nhau kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 ngang qua t\u00ecnh ru\u1ed9t th\u1ecbt m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh-th\u00e2n th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng con c\u00e1i Ch\u00faa, \u1edf N\u01b0\u1edbc Tr\u1eddi nh\u00e0 \u0110\u1ea1o.<\/p>\n

Li\u00ean-t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng g\u00ec mang ch\u1eef \u201cm\u00ecnh\u201d, b\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u00e2y l\u1ea1i b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p nh\u1eefng \u0111o\u1ea1n g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201ct\u00ecnh m\u00ecnh b\u00e2y gi\u1edd\u201d v\u00e0 khi x\u01b0a, nh\u1eefng k\u1ec3 r\u1eb1ng:<\/p>\n

\u201cTheo c\u00e1c c\u1ee5 Zelmyra v\u00e0 Herbert Fisher, l\u00e0 c\u1eb7p ph\u1ed1i-ng\u1eabu c\u00f3 87 n\u0103m chung s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau, th\u00ec: mu\u1ed1n cho h\u00f4n-nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh k\u00e9o d\u00e0i c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n cho l\u1eafm. Sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i m\u1eb9o v\u1eb7t do hai c\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ec1-ngh\u1ecb h\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ea3m-b\u1ea3o cho h\u00f4n-nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh-c\u00f4ng, to\u1ea1i nguy\u1ec7n:
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Ly-d\u1ecb, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ch\u1ecdn-l\u1ef1a. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u00edt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i tin ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 ng\u00e0y nay, c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ednh chuy\u1ec7n ly-d\u1ef5 ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u1ecdn-l\u1ef1a, ngay tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ly-d\u1ecb l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n kh\u1ea3-thi, th\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ea3-n\u0103ng l\u00e0: khi m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u00f3-kh\u0103n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u201cch\u1ecdn\u201d vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u201cd\u1ec5 \u0111i\u201d h\u01a1n l\u00e0 l\u00e0m h\u1ebft m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9nh-s\u1eeda t\u01b0\u01a1ng-quan m\u00ecnh v\u1eabn c\u00f3.
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H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng: h\u00f4n-nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 cu\u00f4c \u201cthi-\u0111\u1ea5u\u201d, \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd duy-tr\u00ec s\u1ed1 \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. B\u1edfi l\u1ebd, b\u1ea1n \u1edf c\u00f9ng chung m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed9i-ng\u0169 quy\u1ebft gi\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n th\u1eafng l\u1ee3i, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 ri\u00eang m\u1ed7i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0M\u1eb9o k\u1ebf ti\u1ebfp, l\u00e0: H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ed3ng-\u00fd v\u1edbi nhau l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea5t-\u0111\u1ed3ng v\u1ec1 nhi\u1ec1u chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 chi\u1ebfn-\u0111\u1ea5u cho nh\u1eefng g\u00ec th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n-\u0111\u1ec1. H\u00e3y h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch c\u00fai g\u1eadp ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh xu\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng-thu\u1eadn ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ph\u00e1 \u0111\u1ed5 m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1. Theo t\u00f4i th\u00ec, nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c m\u00ecnh tin-t\u01b0\u1edfng, th\u00ec c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i-ng\u1eabu v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh \u1edf tr\u00ean c\u00f9ng chi\u1ec1u d\u00e0i c\u1ee7a c\u01a1n s\u00f3ng v\u1ed7 nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh v\u1eady. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u xa n\u1ebfu ta b\u1ea5t-\u0111\u1ed3ng v\u1edbi nhau v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3 \u201cchuy\u1ec7n nh\u1ecf\u201d. Th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 th\u00ec, c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 ta h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng-thu\u1eadn v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh. Th\u00eam n\u1eefa, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 cho th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 tho\u1ea3i-m\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nhau, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u00e2n-tr\u1ecdng \u00fd-ki\u1ebfn\/l\u1eadp-tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a nhau v\u00e0 nh\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ed9 nhau, n\u1ebfu c\u1ea7n.
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M\u1eb9o cu\u1ed1i th\u00eam n\u1eefa l\u00e0: \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n n\u00ean c\u00f3 chung v\u1edbi nhau, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0: h\u00e3y th\u0103ng-ti\u1ebfn h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1, b\u1edfi ta \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 t\u00edn-h\u1eefu \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4 v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng tin v\u00e0o Ch\u00faa. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng: mu\u1ed1n th\u00e0nh v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng th\u00e0nh-c\u00f4ng trong h\u00f4n-nh\u00e2n, th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 Kit\u00f4-h\u1eefu.
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Kh\u00f4ng. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i th\u1ebf. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn y\u1ebfu-t\u1ed1 b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng: h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3-ch\u1ed3ng ho\u00e0-h\u1ee3p\/\u0111o\u00e0n-k\u1ebft v\u1edbi nhau l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng san-s\u1ebb m\u1ed9t ni\u1ec1m tin ho\u1eb7c gi\u00e1-tr\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea1o-\u0111\u1ee9c. T\u1ea1i sao th\u1ebf? B\u1edfi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, h\u1ecd hi\u1ec3u nhau h\u01a1n, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 nhau v\u1eefng ch\u00ed v\u1edbi ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng gi\u00e1p m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng xung-\u0111\u1ed9t l\u1edbn lao khi nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u00e0n con c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd\u201d. <\/em>(xem Tamara Rajakariar, A Happy Marriage is Simple, <\/em>MercatorNet 21\/5\/2014)
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\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Th\u1ebf \u0111\u00f3, c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 l\u1eadp-tr\u01b0\u1eddng t\u01b0-ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ai \u0111\u00f3. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1ecdi h\u1ecd l\u00e0 \u201cc\u00e1c c\u1ee5 gi\u00f2ng h\u1ecd Fisher\u201d \u1edf \u00dac hay M\u1ef9 Qu\u1ed1c. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1ecdi h\u1ecd l\u00e0 \u00f4ng A b\u00e0 B, r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng k\u1ec3. Nh\u01b0ng, g\u1ecdi th\u1ebf n\u00e0o th\u00ec g\u1ecdi, n\u00f3i g\u00ec th\u00ec n\u00f3i v\u1eabn c\u1ee9 n\u00ean n\u00f3i cho c\u00f3 s\u00e1ch v\u00e0 m\u00e1ch cho c\u00f3 ch\u1ee9ng. Nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee9ng c\u1ee9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi d\u1ea5u \u1edf Kinh S\u00e1ch r\u1ea5t nh\u01b0 sau:<\/p>\n

\u201cPh\u1ea3i, t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 do, <\/em><\/p>\n

kh\u00f4ng l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o ai, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, <\/em><\/p>\n

h\u1ea7u chinh ph\u1ee5c th\u00eam \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi. <\/em><\/p>\n

V\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi Do-th\u00e1i, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean Do-th\u00e1i, \u0111\u1ec3 chinh ph\u1ee5c ng\u01b0\u1eddi Do-th\u00e1i. <\/em><\/p>\n

V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ai s\u1ed1ng theo L\u1ec1 Lu\u1eadt, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng theo L\u1ec1 Lu\u1eadt, <\/em><\/p>\n

d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng theo L\u1ec1 Lu\u1eadt n\u1eefa, \u0111\u1ec3 chinh ph\u1ee5c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng theo L\u1ec1 Lu\u1eadt. <\/em><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb s\u1ed1ng ngo\u00e0i L\u1ec1 Lu\u1eadt, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng ngo\u00e0i L\u1ec1 Lu\u1eadt, <\/em><\/p>\n

d\u00f9 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng ngo\u00e0i lu\u1eadt Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ed1ng trong lu\u1eadt \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4, <\/em><\/p>\n

\u0111\u1ec3 chinh ph\u1ee5c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng ngo\u00e0i L\u1ec1 Lu\u1eadt. <\/em><\/p>\n

T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean y\u1ebfu v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u1ebfu, \u0111\u1ec3 chinh ph\u1ee5c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u1ebfu. <\/em><\/p>\n

T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi c\u00e1ch c\u1ee9u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi. <\/em><\/p>\n

V\u00ec Tin M\u1eebng, t\u00f4i l\u00e0m t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, <\/em><\/p>\n

\u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f4ng chia ph\u1ea7n ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a Tin M\u1eebng.\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n

(1Cor 9: 19-23)<\/p>\n

S\u1ed1ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, l\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng b\u1eb1ng L\u1eddi khuy\u00ean d\u1ea1y t\u1eeb Tin M\u1eebng. S\u1ed1ng, L\u1eddi d\u1ea1y t\u1eeb Tin M\u1eebng, c\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng tin v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi th\u00e0nh-vi\u00ean H\u1ed9i-th\u00e1nh, t\u1ee9c ch\u00ednh H\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh. S\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, c\u00f2n l\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng r\u1ea5t th\u1ef1c b\u1eb1ng v\u00e0o v\u00e0 ngang qua \u00fd-ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi, trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc th\u00e0y-d\u1ea1y \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1edbp r\u1ea5t th\u1ea7n-h\u1ecdc.<\/p>\n

V\u00e0 h\u00f4m nay, b\u1ea7n-d\u1ea1o b\u1ea7y t\u00f4i l\u1ee5c-l\u1ecdi x\u1ea5p b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t trong c\u00e1c b\u1eadc th\u00e0y nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 sau:<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u201cTrong m\u1ecdi ho\u00e0n-c\u1ea3nh, c\u00e1c v\u1ecb quan-t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ec1n th\u1ea7n-h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o-h\u1ed9i th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n-n\u1ea1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1ea5t, h\u1ecfi r\u1eb1ng: <\/em>\u201cThi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111ang l\u00e0m g\u00ec cho th\u1ebf-gian?\u201d C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u0103n-b\u1ea3n t\u1eeb n\u1ec1n th\u1ea7n-h\u1ecdc th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1eabn b\u1ea3o: Thi\u00ean-Ch\u00faa s\u1ed1ng-\u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1eabn \u0111ang ti\u1ebfp-t\u1ee5c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i n\u01a1i nh\u00e2n-lo\u1ea1i, \u1edf m\u1ecdi th\u1eddi, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ecf-l\u1ed9 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n-di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n-uy c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i theo c\u00e1ch k\u00edn \u0111\u00e1o, v\u00e0 gi\u00e1n-ti\u1ebfp.
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Th\u1ebf n\u00ean, tr\u00e1ch-nhi\u1ec7m ti\u00ean-quy\u1ebft c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o-h\u1ed9i, l\u00e0 nh\u1eadn-th\u1ee9c cho r\u00f5 v\u00e0 ngoan-ngo\u00e3n \u1ee9ng-\u0111\u00e1p b\u1eb1ng ni\u1ec1m tin-t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng-vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa, \u1edf ch\u1ed1n gian tr\u1ea7n. Nh\u1eadn-th\u1ee9c cho r\u00f5 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec Ch\u00faa \u0111ang l\u00e0m v\u00e0 Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2u, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec Ch\u00faa g\u1ecdi m\u1eddi Gi\u00e1o-h\u1ed9i bi\u1ebft v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi, d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac th\u1ea5y vi\u1ec7c \u1ea5y c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y d\u1ec5.\u00a0 \u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

B\u1eb1ng v\u00e0o trao-\u0111\u1ed5i v\u1edbi t\u00e1c-gi\u1ea3 Duffy h\u00f4m tr\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1eebng c\u00f3 nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t, l\u00e0: hi\u1ec7n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 kh\u00e1 \u0111\u00f4ng t\u00edn-h\u1eefu C\u00f4ng-gi\u00e1o v\u1eabn s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng k\u1ebft-h\u1ee3p h\u00f4n-nh\u00e2n \u201ckh\u00f4ng theo qui-c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ea1o\u201d. D\u00f9 ta c\u00f3 ch\u1ea5p-nh\u1eadn v\u1ee5 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ec3 trong bu\u1ed5i trao-\u0111\u1ed5i \u1ea5y nh\u01b0 k\u1ebft-lu\u1eadn c\u1ee7a t\u00e1c-gi\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 y\u1ebfu-t\u1ed1 m\u1ee5c-v\u1ee5 mang \u00fd-ngh\u0129a nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c ch\u00e2m ng\u00f2i cho bom n\u1ed5 ch\u1eadm n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, th\u1ebf th\u00f4i.
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Tuy l\u00e0 th\u1ebf, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t-thi\u1ebft cho th\u1ea5y con s\u1ed1 c\u00e1c v\u1ee5 s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau kh\u00f4ng theo qui-c\u00e1ch nh\u00e0 \u0110\u1ea1o, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u ch\u1ec9 v\u1ec1 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng-l\u1ed1i m\u00e0 c\u00e1c gi\u00e1-tr\u1ecb x\u00e3-h\u1ed9i l\u00e2u nay \u0111\u1eb7t-\u0111\u1ecbnh cho s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3-n\u0103ng nh\u1eadn-th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a t\u00edn-h\u1eefu, ho\u1eb7c d\u1ea5u-hi\u1ec7u h\u00f4n-nh\u00e2n C\u00f4ng-gi\u00e1o ho\u1eb7c th\u1ec3-ch\u1ebf h\u00f4n-nh\u00e2n C\u00f4ng-gi\u00e1o tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e0 \u0111i xu\u1ed1ng.
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Th\u1eadt ra, ta c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00e1c d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u \u1ea5y nh\u01b0 d\u1ea5u ch\u1ec9 v\u1ec1 l\u1eddi m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi h\u00e3y li\u00ean t\u1ee5c s\u1ed1ng k\u1ebft-h\u1ee3p h\u00f4n-nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0 giao-\u01b0\u1edbc, ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1eb7c-bi\u1ec7t h\u01a1n, l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u ch\u1ec9 v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eeb-ch\u1ed1i t\u00ednh-c\u00e1ch ph\u00e1p-l\u00fd \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u00ed-t\u00edch h\u00f4n-ph\u1ed1i m\u1ed7i khi c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 quy\u1ebft-t\u00e2m.
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C\u00f3 l\u1ebd, v\u1ea5n-\u0111\u1ec1 tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ed9c-l\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ed9ng-l\u1ef1c t\u1ea1o \u201ck\u1ebft-h\u1ee3p sai qui-c\u00e1ch\u201d c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c coi th\u01b0\u1eddng Gi\u00e1o-h\u1ed9i c\u00f9ng c\u00e1c b\u00ed-t\u00edch m\u00e0 Gi\u00e1o-h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec1 ra. Ho\u1eb7c, \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e1c-t\u00edn r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c s\u1ed1ng chung-th\u1ee7y kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n-\u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 t\u00ednh th\u00e1nh-thi\u00eang c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n-nh\u00e2n nay \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a qu\u00e1-kh\u1ee9.
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T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, ta k\u1ebft-lu\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng: nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ed9c-l\u1ed9, l\u00e0 m\u00f4-h\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c h\u00ecnh-th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng-h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, H\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh c\u0169ng n\u00ean t\u1ef1 bi\u1ec7n-h\u1ed9 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00fang-\u0111\u1eafn v\u1ec1 chu\u1ea9n-m\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec1 ra cho h\u00f4n-nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0 lu\u1eadt-\u0111\u1ecbnh, v\u1edbi c\u00e1i gi\u00e1 m\u00e0 Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3 cho l\u1eadp-tr\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0nh th\u00e1nh\/h\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ea1o. B\u1edfi th\u1ebf n\u00ean, vi\u1ec7c th\u00edch-nghi v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9nh-s\u1eeda chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y, t\u1ee9c c\u00f3 \u0111\u00fang qui-c\u00e1ch hay kh\u00f4ng, c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9ng-th\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n bi\u1ebft tin v\u00e0o Gi\u00e1o-h\u1ed9i n\u1eefa.
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C\u00f3 l\u1ebd, c\u00e1c chuy\u1ec7n do ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi h\u00f4n-nh\u00e2n sai qui-c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i t\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh lu\u1eadt v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1ee7y-chung \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1p-\u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i \u00e2n-hu\u1ec7 l\u00e0nh, ngay trong ho\u00e0n-c\u1ea3nh kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n n\u00e0y kh\u00e1c.
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Th\u1ebf n\u00ean, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 Ch\u00faa m\u1eb7c-kh\u1ea3i cho Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i bi\u1ebft nhu-c\u1ea7u ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn ra v\u00e0 \u1ee9ng-\u0111\u00e1p c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng b\u1eb1ng v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed9ng-th\u00e1i cho ph\u00e9p c\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i-ng\u1eabu s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p hi\u1ec7p-th\u00f4ng san-s\u1ebb c\u00e1c b\u00ed-t\u00edch c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o-h\u1ed9i.
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Ngay Gi\u00e1o-h\u1ed9i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eddi xem x\u00e9t l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111i\u1ec1u-kho\u1ea3n \u201cth\u1ec3-ch\u1ebf h\u00f4n-ph\u1ed1i\u201d d\u1ef1ng ra l\u00e2u nay, v\u00ec v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a l\u00e0m h\u00e0i-l\u00f2ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi, h\u1ea7u c\u1ee7ng-c\u1ed1 v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1p-\u1ee9ng v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng-vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa nh\u01b0 t\u1eebng di\u1ec5n-l\u1ed9 n\u01a1i \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u01a1n l\u00e0nh Ch\u00faa ban. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng-h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, \u0111\u1ed5i-thay s\u1ebd l\u00e0 cung-c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 Gi\u00e1o-h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng-t\u1ecf m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi b\u1eb1ng ni\u1ec1m tin ngoan-c\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d. <\/em>(xem th\u00eam Luke Timothy Johnson, Sex, Marriage and the Church<\/em>, The Corpus Blog, 2011-2012)<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Th\u1ebf m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft, h\u1ec5 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi h\u00f4n-nh\u00e2n theo qui-c\u00e1ch r\u1ea5t qui-c\u1ee7 \u1edf nh\u00e0 \u0110\u1ea1o, \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n d\u1ec5 n\u00f3i, d\u1ec5 l\u00e0m. Ch\u1ea3 th\u1ebf m\u00e0, \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00e1o T\u00f4ng nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi H\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u00e1ng, \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ho\u1eb7c hai bu\u1ed5i h\u1ecdp g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cTh\u01b0\u1ee3ng H\u1ed9i \u0110\u1ed3ng Gi\u00e1m M\u1ee5c \u1edf \u00a0R\u00f4ma\u201d v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ng s\u1eafp t\u1edbi, trong n\u0103m 2014 v\u00e0 2015 n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Th\u1ebf m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft, c\u1ee9 \u1edbi g\u1ecdi nhau qua c\u00e2u h\u00e1t \u201cM\u00ecnh \u01a1i l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh<\/em>\u201d c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5, nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c c\u00e2u:<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u201c\u0110\u00f4i chim g\u1eaby c\u00e1nh gi\u1eefa \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng,<\/em><\/p>\n

T\u1eeb nay l\u00e0 ch\u0103n g\u1ed1i ng\u1eadm ng\u00f9i<\/em><\/p>\n

L\u00e0 ng\u00f9i ti\u1ebfc th\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/em><\/p>\n

H\u00f2 l\u00e0 h\u00f2 \u01a1i \u1edbi h\u00f2,<\/em><\/p>\n

M\u00ecnh \u0111i m\u00f4 m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111i mi\u1ebft r\u1ee9a lkh\u00f4ng v\u1ec1<\/em><\/p>\n

R\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ec3 em ch\u1ee9 r\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ec3 em ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 ai n\u1eb1m<\/em><\/p>\n

R\u1ee9a em ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 ai n\u1eb1m k\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t b\u00ean.\u201d<\/em>\u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

(Di\u1ec7u H\u01b0\u01a1ng \u2013 b\u0111d<\/em>)<\/p>\n

\u201cChim g\u1eaby c\u00e1nh gi\u1eefa \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d, ch\u0103n g\u1ed1i ng\u1eadm ng\u00f9i\u201d, \u201cti\u1ebfc th\u01b0\u01a1ng\u201d <\/em>c\u0169ng v\u1eabn l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u00fd-t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 t\u01b0-t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 trong s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi ch\u0103n g\u1ed1i. S\u1ed1ng, v\u1edbi c\u1ea3 nh\u00e0 \u0110\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ecbnh ra chuy\u1ec7n ch\u0103n g\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con d\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, r\u1ea5t t\u1eadn t\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 v\u1eabn c\u1ee9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng nh\u1eadn-th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 l\u00e3nh-nh\u1eadn \u01a1n-hu\u1ec7 l\u00e0nh th\u00e1nh Ch\u00faa t\u1eb7ng ban cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. C\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 v\u00e0 \u0111ang ho\u1eb7c c\u0169ng t\u1eebng s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi ch\u0103n g\u1ed1i theo qui-c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ea1o-h\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 \u0110\u1ea1o, l\u1eabn ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng \u1edf \u0111\u1eddi, r\u1ea5t kh\u01a1i kh\u01a1i.<\/p>\n

T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3, ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh-tr\u00ecnh ki\u1ebfm t\u00ecm h\u1ea1nh-ph\u00fac c\u00f3 b\u00e0i-b\u1ea3n hay kh\u00f4ng, c\u00f3 nh\u1edd v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 d\u1eabn-d\u1eaft c\u1ee7a H\u1ed9i-th\u00e1nh ho\u1eb7c c\u01a1-quan, \u0111o\u00e0n-th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf \u0111\u1eddi, hay kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3, s\u1ebd qui v\u00e0o v\u00e0 v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t cung-c\u00e1ch ki\u1ebfm t\u00ecm n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eadn-\u0111\u1ecbnh sau \u0111\u00e2y:<\/p>\n

\u201c<\/em>N\u1ebfu h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 t\u00ecm c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y th\u00ec c\u00f3 l\u1ebd con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i n\u1ebfm m\u00f9i kh\u1ed5 \u0111au nhi\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 v\u1eady nh\u1ec9.<\/em><\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0N\u1ebfu h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 \u1ea9n n\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi tham gia tr\u00f2 tr\u1ed1n t\u00ecm th\u00ec cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 c\u00f2n\u00a0th\u1eddi gian cho y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng?
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V\u00ec th\u1ebf, h\u00e3y d\u1eebng cu\u1ed9c\u00a0t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac\u00a0\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i b\u1edfi n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00e0 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 lu\u00f4n hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu song h\u00e0nh b\u00ean ta, ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec ta qu\u00e1 b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng b\u1ed9n b\u1ec1 m\u00e0 ta qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea5y th\u00f4i.
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N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2y m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3\u00a0t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac\u00a0c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u1edf n\u01a1i \u0111\u00e2u th\u00ec t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 b\u1ea1n nh\u00e9.
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H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac n\u1eb1m \u1edf \u0111\u00f4i m\u00f4i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea5y.<\/em><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f4i m\u00f4i bi\u1ebft m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i l\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u1eeda ng\u00f5 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac an nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/em><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft than v\u00e3n, ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft o\u00e1n tr\u00e1ch nh\u1eefng tr\u1edb tr\u00eau c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft d\u00f9ng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00ea bai, m\u1ec9a mai, c\u00f4ng k\u00edch ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00ec \u0111\u1eebng h\u1ecfi “V\u00ec sao t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/a>“.
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H\u00e3y n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p, h\u00e3y m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng xung quanh, h\u00e3y d\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n y\u00eau qu\u00fd v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac n\u1ea3y n\u1edf t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f4i m\u00f4i.
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H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac n\u1eb1m \u1edf s\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9.<\/em><\/p>\n

Ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 ai \u00f4m trong l\u00f2ng m\u1ed1i h\u1eadn th\u00f9 m\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y vui v\u1ebb v\u00e0 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i c\u1ea3. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea1n, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i l\u00f2ng tin v\u00e0 h\u1eb1n\u00a0trong l\u00f2ng b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u00e2u ho\u1eafm v\u00e0 nh\u1ee9c nh\u1ed1i nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y \u0111\u1eb7t tay l\u00ean ng\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 d\u1eb7n v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh “Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y v\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 d\u00e0i \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00ec t\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i ph\u00ed ho\u00e0i n\u00f3 cho h\u1eadn th\u00f9”.<\/em><\/p>\n

V\u00ec th\u1ebf, b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y hay c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, h\u00e3y qu\u00ean \u0111i nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 qu\u00ean \u0111i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ea5y. M\u1ed9t khi b\u1ea1n cho \u0111i s\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9 th\u00ec c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 ch\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ea7y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 an nhi\u00ean.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i tin, l\u1ea1i y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y nh\u01b0 ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n tha th\u1ee9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec ta s\u1ebd l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi khi gi\u00e1p m\u1eb7t nhau.<\/em><\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n sao.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac n\u1eb1m \u1edf ch\u1eef Cho ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1eef \u0110\u00f2i.<\/em><\/p>\n

H\u00e3y cho \u0111i nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eadn r\u1ed3i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ebd tr\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i cho b\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn r\u1eb1ng trong d\u00f2ng \u0111\u1eddi sau n\u00e0y, s\u1ebd c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec khi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. S\u1ef1 h\u1ee5t h\u1eabng khi \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 \u0111\u1ea9y b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o h\u1ed1 s\u00e2u c\u1ee7a th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0V\u00ec th\u1ebf, \u0111\u1eebng t\u1ef1 gi\u1ebft c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi cho th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, h\u00e3y h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch cho \u0111i th\u1eadt nhi\u1ec1u, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecbu thi\u1ec7t th\u00f2i \u0111\u00e2u.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft \u0110\u1ee7.<\/em><\/p>\n

N\u00f3i theo ki\u1ec3u d\u00e2n gian l\u00e0 “c\u00e1i g\u00ec qu\u00e1 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t”.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0Y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng qu\u00e1 sinh ra g\u00f2 b\u00f3, quan t\u00e2m qu\u00e1 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 do, ghen tu\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 c\u0169ng m\u1ea5t\u00a0v\u1ecb\u00a0t\u00ecnh y\u00eau<\/a>\u00a0v\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u0169ng th\u1ebf, ch\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1eef \u0110\u1ee7 s\u1ebd ch\u1ea1m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c\u00a0h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac tr\u00f2n v\u1ecb.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u0110\u1eebng ch\u1ea1y theo c\u00e1i g\u00ec qu\u00e1 ho\u00e0n ch\u1ec9nh v\u00e0 c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng \u00e9p b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf n\u00ean qu\u00e1 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ee7, \u1ea5m \u00e1p v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ee7, quan t\u00e2m v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ee7 v\u00e0 b\u00ean nhau v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ee7 c\u00f3 l\u1ebd s\u1ebd h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u01a1n.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0V\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac ch\u1eb3ng n\u1eb1m \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u xa, n\u00f3 n\u1eb1m ngay trong\u00a0tr\u00e1i tim<\/a>\u00a0c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh ta, khi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00f4ng ch\u00eanh m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1eb7t tay l\u00ean tim v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 n\u1ecfi “R\u1ed3i m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd \u1ed5n”.
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Khi n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n x\u00e2m chi\u1ebfm t\u00e2m tr\u00ed v\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n th\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecb l\u1ea5n \u00e1t h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, h\u00e3y t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng kh\u00f4ng gian ri\u00eang v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng b\u1ea3n nh\u1ea1c ta y\u00eau, nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n \u0103n ta th\u00edch v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi l\u00f2ng “H\u1ebft h\u00f4m nay th\u00f4i nh\u00e9, ng\u00e0y mai ta s\u1ebd l\u1ea1i m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi”.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng g\u1eafng g\u01b0\u1ee3ng, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa\u00a0n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n\u00a0v\u00e0 mang h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac quay v\u1ec1.
\nH\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac\u00a0c\u1ee7a ta n\u00ean t\u1ef1 ta x\u00e2y l\u1ea5y, \u0111\u1eebng ch\u1ea1y theo ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n l\u00f2ng h\u1ecd v\u00e0 mang v\u1ec1 th\u1ee9 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u1ea3o s\u1ebd ch\u1ebft theo th\u1eddi gian.\u201d <\/em>(tr\u00edch \u0111i\u1ec7n-th\u01b0 b\u01b0\u01a1m b\u01b0\u1edbm tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng)<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u0110i\u1ec7n-th\u01b0 nh\u1eadn-\u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u01b0 tr\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 v\u00e0 v\u1eabn l\u00e0 cung-c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ai \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f3 b\u00e0i-b\u1ea3n hay kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n-\u0111\u1ec1. V\u00e0 v\u1ea5n-\u0111\u1ec1 c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i, v\u1eabn xin d\u00e0nh cho b\u1ea1n\/cho t\u00f4i, l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 quy\u1ebft-\u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft-t\u00e2m v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh. Cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Tr\u1ea7n Ng\u1ecdc M\u01b0\u1eddi Hai<\/em><\/p>\n

V\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ec1-ngh\u1ecb c\u1ecfn con<\/em><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec1 ra cho t\u00f4i v\u00e0 cho b\u1ea1n<\/em><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 cho vui m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/em><\/p>\n

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