{"id":6147,"date":"2014-12-15T17:35:45","date_gmt":"2014-12-15T10:35:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/xuanbichvietnam.net\/trangchu\/?p=6147"},"modified":"2014-12-21T17:41:42","modified_gmt":"2014-12-21T10:41:42","slug":"su-thanh-thien-ven-toan-trong-doi-song-linh-muc-giao-phan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/xuanbichvietnam.net\/trangchu\/su-thanh-thien-ven-toan-trong-doi-song-linh-muc-giao-phan\/","title":{"rendered":"S\u1ef0 TH\u00c1NH THI\u1ec6N V\u1eb8N TO\u00c0N TRONG \u0110\u1edcI S\u1ed0NG LINH M\u1ee4C GI\u00c1O PH\u1eacN"},"content":{"rendered":"

LTS: Nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u n\u00e0y h\u1eefu \u00edch cho vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o linh m\u1ee5c, n\u00ean ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 cho \u0111\u00e1nh m\u00e1y l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft d\u1ecbch gi\u1ea3 l\u00e0 ai, v\u1eady xin m\u1ea1n ph\u00e9p d\u1ecbch gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u n\u00e0y v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh c\u00e1m \u01a1n d\u1ecbch gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e3 chuy\u1ec3n ng\u1eef m\u1ed9t t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u h\u1eefu \u00edch cho vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o linh m\u1ee5c.<\/em><\/p>\n

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S\u1ef1 th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n v\u1eb9n to\u00e0n trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng<\/strong><\/p>\n

Linh m\u1ee5c Gi\u00e1o Ph\u1eadn-<\/strong><\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a ng\u00e0n n\u0103m th\u1ee9 ba<\/strong><\/p>\n

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THE WHOLENESS IN HOLINESS IN THE LIFE OF DIOCESAN PRIESTS – A THIRD MILLENNIUM PERSPECTIVE<\/strong><\/p>\n

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(The Paradigm Shift in the Mission and Ministry<\/strong><\/p>\n

of the Priest in Asia)<\/strong><\/p>\n

Seminar, Bangkok, 2010<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Fr. Lawrence Pinto, MSIJ<\/p>\n

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\u00a0T\u1eeb ng\u1eef “Th\u00e1nh” ph\u00e1t xu\u1ea5t t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t t\u1eeb ti\u1ebfng Anh c\u00f4\u0309 ‘halig’ c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 “s\u1ef1 toa\u0300n v\u1eb9n”, di\u00ea\u0303n t\u1ea3 s\u1ef1 th\u00e1nh thi\u00eang trong m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, m\u1ed9t h\u1eefu th\u1ec3, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi, m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i ch\u00f4\u0309 hay m\u1ed9t \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng. Trong v\u0103n m\u1ea1ch th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00f9ng, h\u1ea1n t\u1eeb \u201cth\u00e1nh” \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1ch t\u00f4\u0309ng qu\u00e1t, \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 li\u00ean k\u1ebft v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh th\u1ea7n th\u00e1nh. \u0110\u00f4i khi t\u1eeb “th\u00e1nh” (holy) \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi \u201cth\u00e1nh h\u00f3a\u201d (sacred), theo La ng\u1eef l\u00e0 \u201csacrum: th\u00e1nh\u201d, \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c v\u1ecb th\u1ea7n ho\u0103\u0323c nh\u1eefng gi\u0300 thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, v\u00e0 thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 t\u01b0 t\u1ebf \u2018sacer\u2019;d\u00e0nh ri\u00eang \u201csanctum\u201d. \u00dd t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i trong t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi.<\/p>\n

Ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 h\u00f4m nay c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng cho th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u201cla\u0300nh m\u1ea1nh” hay “nguy\u00ean v\u1eb9n” trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta (ho\u1eb7c trong b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta), th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u00ea\u0309 tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n (thi\u00eang li\u00eang), ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a chu\u0301ng ta l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng linh m\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1eddi s\u00f4\u0301ng tinh th\u1ea7n \u0111ang hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu trong b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Nh\u00e2n t\u00ednh l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u00f4\u0301ng t\u00e2m linh. N\u1ebfu chu\u0301ng ta th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 t\u00e2m linh. Do \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t tinh th\u1ea7n l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh tr\u00ean s\u1ef1 kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta (Pinto, 2000). M\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta trong thi\u00ean ni\u00ean k\u1ef7 th\u1ee9 ba l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i gi\u00fap m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 ca\u0301c linh m\u1ee5c, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u201ccon ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eb9n to\u00e0n\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf tha\u0300nh “v\u1eb9n to\u00e0n thi\u00eang li\u00eang ho\u1eb7c v\u1eb9n to\u00e0n tinh th\u1ea7n”.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00e1o ho\u00e0ng Gioan Phaol\u00f4 II (1992) trong T\u00f4ng hu\u1ea5n “Pastores Dabo Vobis” , cho th\u1ea5y c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 “nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u00e2n b\u00ecnh”, m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do, c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng mang g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng c\u1ee7a tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m m\u1ee5c t\u1eed… (43 ). \u0110\u1ee9c Th\u00e1nh Cha tuy\u00ean b\u00f4\u0301 c\u00e1ch m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd r\u0103\u0300ng t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n, l\u00e0 c\u00e1c \u1ee9ng c\u1eed vi\u00ean cho ch\u1ee9c th\u00e1nh ph\u1ea3i ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n, ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u00f4\u0323ng v\u1edbi c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u0301c thi\u00eang li\u00eang; ng\u00e0i n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t, t\u00ednh kh\u00ed con ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i ho\u0300a tr\u1ed9n v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh “ph\u00e2\u0309m ch\u1ea5t” c\u1ee7a ch\u1ee9c t\u01b0 t\u1ebf, r\u1ed3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Ch\u00faa “s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp l\u1ea1i” v\u00e0 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng trong b\u00ed t\u00edch Truy\u00ea\u0300n ch\u1ee9c; v\u00e0 ng\u00e0i cho bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch, t\u00ednh kh\u00ed, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, trong t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 Linh M\u1ee5c, ho\u1eb7c s\u1ebd l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00ea\u0301n v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu v\u00e0 Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i, ho\u1eb7c xua \u0111u\u00f4\u0309i h\u1ecd. Nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a m\u00f4\u0323t linh m\u1ee5c ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00f2a h\u01a1\u0323p c\u00e1ch h\u1ee3p l\u00fd, l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eddi s\u00f4\u0301ng thi\u00eang li\u00eang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1edbn l\u00ean, v\u00e0 nh\u1edd \u0111o\u0301 ma\u0300 tr\u01a1\u0309 th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t m\u1ee5c t\u1eed t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh, r\u1ea5t nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n m\u00e0 c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n

T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0110\u1ee9c Tn\u00e1nh Cha \u0111ang n\u00f3i l\u00e0 “\u01a1n th\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng tr\u00ean nh\u00e2n ti\u0301nh” – n\u00ean l\u1eddi m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi ti\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a \u00c2n S\u1ee7ng, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ch\u00fang ta cung c\u1ea5p nguy\u00ean li\u1ec7u th\u00f4 cho \u00e2n su\u0309ng tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. “Ch\u1ee7ng sinh sao, linh m\u1ee5c v\u1eady”, nh\u01b0 ng\u1ea1n ng\u1eef x\u01b0a \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i. Ch\u00fang ta co\u0301 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y cho \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng si\u00eau nhi\u00ean n\u1eefa – n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c khi c\u00f2n la\u0300 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee7ng sinh, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n cu\u0303ng s\u1ebd nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf khi l\u00e0 linh m\u1ee5c, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7ng sinh t\u1ed1t l\u1eabn linh m\u1ee5c t\u1ed1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, b\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u00ed t\u00edch truy\u1ec1n ch\u1ee9c th\u00e1nh, trong khi bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i ca\u0301ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1c th\u00f3i quen c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng. C\u0169ng th\u1ebf, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u01a1\u0301i chi\u1ec1u k\u00edch nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n: n\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee7ng sinh l\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec se\u0303 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t linh m\u1ee5c l\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

C\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1edf n\u00ean d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n n\u1ebfu nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch con ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00f2a \u0111i\u1ec7u v\u00e0 l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n n\u1ebfu g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch ch\u01b0a tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh ho\u1eb7c c\u00f2n kh\u1eadp khi\u00ea\u0303ng. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u1ed1m y\u1ebfu hay kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh, th\u00ec \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng thi\u00eang li\u1ebfng c\u1ee7a chu\u0301ng ta c\u0169ng s\u1ebd \u1ed1m y\u1ebfu v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh, v\u00ec v\u1eady, \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u1eddi s\u00f4\u0301ng thi\u00eang li\u00eang, tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n. N\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean Th\u00e1nh, ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edb th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o, l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh.<\/p>\n

H\u00e2\u0300u h\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec1u ch\u1ecbu \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t linh m\u1ee5c, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 trong gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9, \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc, trong t\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i t\u1ed9i, ho\u1eb7c trong th\u1eddi gian cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng g\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. T\u00ednh nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n n\u01a1i ng\u00e0i, s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt, s\u01b0\u0323 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb bi c\u1ee7a ng\u00e0i, \u0111\u1ed9 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m, s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean nh\u00e2\u0303n, t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 chi\u1ebfc xe, nh\u1ecbp c\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0a ch\u00fang ta g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, g\u1eb7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u01a1n th\u00e1nh h\u00f3a, s\u1ef1 si\u00eau nhi\u00ean. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t linh m\u1ee5c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf! Song, b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eb7p c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c g\u00e2y s\u1ed1c v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec nh\u1eefng khi\u1ebfm khuy\u00ea\u0301t c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f2n b\u1edfi c\u00e1 t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng xa hoa, t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c ph\u00f3ng t\u00fang c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, s\u1ef1 \u0103n nh\u1eadu, t\u00ednh kh\u00ed c\u1ed9c c\u1eb1n, ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb t\u1ee5c t\u1eb1n, s\u1ef1 c\u01b0\u0301ng co\u0309i va\u0300 s\u1ef1 l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng cu\u0309a h\u1ecd (Dolan, 2000).<\/p>\n

C\u1ea7n tr\u00edch d\u1eabn l\u1eddi \u0110\u1ee9c Th\u00e1nh Cha l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa, r\u1eb1ng “\u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1eabu m\u01b0\u0323c trong nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh sao cho h\u1ecd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t nh\u1ecbp c\u1ea7u ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u01a1\u0309 ng\u1ea1i cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c trong vi\u1ec7c g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu”. S\u01b0\u0323 v\u1eb9n to\u00e0n (\u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n) nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a Th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n (\u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng thi\u00eang li\u00eang) \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y nh\u01b0 sau:<\/p>\n

I.<\/strong> Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n \u0111\u00f2i ho\u0309i ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m cho \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng thi\u00eang li\u00eang l\u1edbn l\u00ean.<\/p>\n

II.<\/strong> \u00dd ngh\u0129a c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ee9ng vi\u00ean ch\u1ee9c Linh M\u1ee5c<\/p>\n

III.<\/strong> Tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u01b0a t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng thi\u00eang li\u00eang l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh cho \u0111\u1eddi Linh m\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n

IV.<\/strong> Ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u0103n t\u00ednh Linh m\u1ee5c nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng s\u1ef1 th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n to\u00e0n v\u1eb9n.<\/p>\n

V.<\/strong> C\u00e1c nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c – s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu – t\u0103ng th\u00eam s\u1ef1 th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng Linh m\u1ee5c tri\u1ec1u.<\/p>\n

VI.<\/strong> K\u1ebft lu\u1eadn – S\u1ef1 v\u1eb9n to\u00e0n v\u00e0 th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi Linh mu\u0323c tri\u00ea\u0300u<\/p>\n

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\u00a0I. Vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m cho \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng thi\u00eang li\u00eang l\u1edbn l\u00ean<\/strong><\/p>\n

Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c th\u1ec3 ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p bao g\u1ed3m c\u00e1c chi\u1ec1u k\u00edch sinh l\u00fd, t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 t\u00e2m linh, v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a thi\u00ean ni\u00ean k\u1ef7 th\u1ee9 ba, nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft h\u01a1n h\u1ebft, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a linh m\u1ee5c l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng nhu c\u1ea7u x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n, v\u00e0 gi\u00fap con ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eadn ra c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a N\u01b0\u01a1\u0301c Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e0o t\u1ea1o nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n c\u1ea7n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o \u1edf ch\u1ee7ng vi\u1ec7n gi\u1ea3 thi\u1ebft lu\u00f4n d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Mu\u1ed1n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng cho m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f2i ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n t\u1eeb gia \u0111\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, s\u1ef1 \u00e2u y\u1ebfm, s\u1ef1 qu\u00e2n b\u00ecnh k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt, cha m\u1eb9 m\u1eabu m\u1ef1c v\u00e0 gieo m\u1ea7m \u0111\u1ee9c tin trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1 kha\u0301c n\u1eefa v\u1ed1n \u0111ang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gia \u0111\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng. N\u1ebfu x\u1ea3y ra n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh l\u1eafm, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e0i b\u1ed3i va\u0300 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa c\u00e1ch h\u01a1\u0323p l\u00fd trong th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u00e0o ta\u0323o \u1edf ch\u1ee7ng vi\u1ec7n. \u0110\u1ed3ng b\u1ed9 (gi\u1eefa gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 nh\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u01a1\u0300ng) c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a la\u0300 \u0111\u1eb7t ca\u0301c y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c nhau ho\u0103\u0323c nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh ph\u00e2\u0300n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t to\u00e0n th\u1ec3, t\u00f9y theo b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t v\u00e0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u1ed5ng th\u1ec3, sao cho ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00e0i ho\u00e0 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u00f9ng nhau v\u00ec l\u1ee3i \u00edch c\u1ee7a t\u1eadp th\u1ec3. Ch\u00fang ta g\u1ecdi \u0111\u00f3 la\u0300 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a linh m\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p b\u00ean trong, s\u1ebd l\u00e0m ph\u00e1t sinh nhi\u1ec1u m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u00e0 ha\u0300nh vi \u0111\u1ec1n b\u00f9. \u00a0Khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i t\u00ecm th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n c\u00e1c nhu c\u1ea7u thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 sinh l\u00fd c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 b\u1ecf qua nhu c\u1ea7u tinh th\u1ea7n, th\u00ec nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xung \u0111\u1ed9t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u1ed1 g\u0103\u0301ng c\u1ee7a nhu c\u1ea7u kia \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00ec c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u0301c lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u00f4\u0323t \u0111\u01a1\u0300i s\u00f4\u0301ng lu\u00e2n l\u00fd va\u0300 thi\u00eang li\u00eang l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh. Nh\u1eefng xung \u0111\u00f4\u0323t n\u00e0y ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i cu\u0309a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u0323 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, t\u00f4\u0323i l\u00f4\u0303i, x\u00e2\u0301u h\u1ed5, lo l\u1eafng ho\u0103\u0323c l\u00f2ng t\u01b0\u0323 tr\u1ecdng th\u1ea5p, \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng x\u1ea5u \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, \u0111\u1ebfn hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, hi\u00ea\u0323u n\u0103ng, c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Cho d\u1eabu cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean \u0111\u1ed3ng b\u1ed9 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c \u1edf nh\u00e0 c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc h\u1ea7u gi\u00fap c\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n, th\u00ec \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u1ee9ng c\u1eed vi\u00ean tr\u1ebb cho ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a h\u1eb3n \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t khi mu\u1ed1n h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng linh m\u1ee5c l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, th\u1eadt c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft cho m\u1ed9t \u1ee9ng c\u1eed vi\u00ean trong ch\u1ee9c t\u01b0 t\u00ea\u0301 khi ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng kh\u00e1t khao ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi, v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u00fd ch\u00ed trau d\u1ed3i kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 v\u00e0 t\u00e0i n\u0103ng v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0m ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u1eddi s\u00f4\u0301ng nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a m\u00f4\u0323t Linh M\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n

II. \u00dd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 th\u00fac \u0111\u00e2\u0309y n\u01a1i c\u00e1c \u1ee9ng vi\u00ean ti\u1ebfn t\u1edbi ch\u1ee9c Linh M\u1ee5c<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi “nh\u00fac nh\u00edch” \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y bao h\u00e0m m\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c c\u00f9ng h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee5 th\u00ea\u0309 ho\u1eb7c m\u1ee5c \u0111i\u0301ch, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c hay \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o (Anice & Pinto, 2000). \u0110\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y bao g\u1ed3m hai kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 “s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 (Cencini & Manenti. 1998)”.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p. N\u00f3 b\u0103\u0301t ngu\u1ed3n v\u00e0 ch\u1ecbu \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n di truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1t c\u00e1c \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u00e1c bao g\u1ed3m cha m\u1eb9, \u0111\u00f4\u0300ng nghi\u1ec7p, ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, v\u00e0 to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 c\u00e1c kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1 th\u1ec3 (Coville, 1968). Tuy nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u bao h\u00e0m s\u1ef1 t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng: \u01a1n g\u1ecdi ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea9y.<\/p>\n

Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng lu\u00f4n t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng, lu\u00f4n ra kho\u0309i m\u00ecnh, ra kh\u1ecfi m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 tha nh\u00e2n. B\u1ea5y gi\u1edd, m\u1ecdi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh cu\u0309a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00fac \u0111\u00e2\u0309y b\u1edfi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y chi\u0301nh n\u01a1i m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee7ng sinh ph\u00e1t xu\u1ea5t t\u1eeb ngo\u00e0i v\u00e0o. Nh\u01b0ng nay trong thi\u00ean ni\u00ean k\u1ef7 th\u01b0\u0301 ba, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00e1 ch\u0103\u0301c ch\u1eafn r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 l\u1edbn c\u00e1c ch\u1ee7ng sinh quan ni\u1ec7m \u01a1n go\u0323i linh m\u1ee5c nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u00ea\u0301n th\u00e2n trong x\u00e3 h\u00f4\u0323i, b\u1edfi trong nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o \u0111a\u0309m kinh t\u1ebf \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. \u0110\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee7ng sinh bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a l\u1eddi th\u1ec1 h\u1ee9a, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 gia t\u0103ng l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tin, c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean kh\u00edch l\u1ec7, v\u00e0 trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c ch\u1ee7ng sinh bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y ti\u1ebfn \u0111\u00ea\u0301n \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng linh m\u1ee5c v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n ch\u1ec9 co\u0301 th\u1ec3 trong s\u00e1ng khi h\u1ecd \u0111i theo m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi d\u00e2\u0301n th\u00e2n cho Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi, qua vi\u1ec7c vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 tha nh\u00e2n theo \u00fd h\u01b0\u1edbng cao c\u1ea3 \u0111\u00f3. Do \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c th\u00fac \u0111\u00e2\u0309y l\u00e0 trung t\u00e2m l\u00e0m cho nh\u00e2n ca\u0301ch tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, ma\u0300 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng cho \u0111\u1eddi linh m\u1ee5c d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o v\u00e0 tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a (Van Kaam, 1966).
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III. Tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u00f4\u0301ng t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u01b0a t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng thi\u00eang li\u00eang l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh cho \u0111\u1eddi Linh m\u1ee5c.<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t, tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7, ca\u0309m x\u00fac, t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n. Vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u01a1\u0309ng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n lu\u00f4n \u0111i \u0111\u00f4i v\u1edbi h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh thi\u00eang li\u00eang h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00ea\u0300 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. T\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 t\u00e2m linh c\u00f9ng nhau t\u1ea1o n\u00ean s\u1ef1 to\u00e0n v\u1eb9n n\u01a1i con ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i ch\u00fang ta. Do \u0111\u00f3 ta\u0301ch \u0111\u00f4i ch\u00fang ra la\u0300 ph\u00e1 v\u01a1\u0303 s\u1ef1 to\u00e0n v\u1eb9n ma\u0300 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111a\u0303 lu\u00f4n d\u00e0nh cho ch\u00fang ta. Trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m qua, t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb b\u1ecf qua, bi\u0323 xem th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 coi l\u00e0 t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i. Trong l\u1ed1i suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eeba h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1eeb Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i m\u1ed9t di s\u1ea3n kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y s\u00e1ng s\u1ee7a khi c\u1ef1c \u0111oan xuy\u00ean t\u1ea1c qu\u00e1 kh\u01b0\u0301, nghi ng\u1edd v\u00ec cho \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ec7nh l\u00fd c\u1ee7a c\u01a1 th\u1ec3, v\u00e0 lo s\u1ee3 n\u1ebfu qua\u0301 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb l\u00e0m h\u1ea1i. (AntoneSamy, 2001). \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u01a1\u0309ng kh\u00f4n l\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u00ean t\u00e2m l\u00fd con ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

A. Y\u0301 ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a t\u00ednh du\u0323c con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/strong><\/p>\n

T\u00ednh d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a h\u1eefu th\u1ec3 con ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i ch\u00fang ta. V\u00ec v\u00e2\u0323y m\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u00f4ng tr\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean h\u1ea1n h\u1eb9p t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c trong ph\u1ea1m vi ba\u0309n n\u0103ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c gi\u1eefa hai gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh. Ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c l\u1ea1i c\u00f2n h\u01a1n th\u1ebf, n\u00f3 lu\u00f4n lu\u00e2n chuy\u1ec3n, ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p, v\u00e0 mang t\u00ednh t\u01b0\u01a1ng giao. Ti\u0301nh d\u1ee5c c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111em ra th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec1u ta ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi ho\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec1u ta ca\u0309m th\u1ea5y v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh x\u00e9t nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u1eefu th\u00ea\u0309 hi\u1ec7n sinh. No\u0301 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n v\u01a1\u0301i to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 hi\u1ec7n sinh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e0ng l\u00e0 do nhu c\u1ea7u c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u00e0 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o, \u0111\u00e0ng kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 do t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i kh\u00e1c. T\u00ednh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i v\u00e0o c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1edbng quan, l\u00e0m th\u0103ng hoa cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, sung m\u00e3n cu\u1ed9c s\u00f4\u0301ng, v\u00e0 h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp (Nelson, 1978). M\u00f4\u0323t \u0111\u00e0ng n\u00f3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho ch\u00fang ta ni\u1ec1m say m\u00ea cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, c\u0169ng l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n m\u1ea1ch c\u1ee7a l\u00f2ng can \u0111\u1ea3m phi th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ea1i l\u01b0\u01a1\u0323ng anh h\u00f9ng, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e0ng kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng m\u1ed9t n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u01a1\u0323ng \u1ea5y l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn ch\u00fang ta \u0111i v\u00e0o th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u1ef1 hu\u0309y v\u00e0 v\u00f4 nh\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

T\u00ednh d\u1ee5c, b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh (sexuality) l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef mang t\u00ednh to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n h\u01a1n t\u1eeb “sex” (quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c), v\u00ec bao h\u00e0m nhi\u1ec1u \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u1eeba \u0111a d\u1ea1ng v\u00e0 v\u1eeba t\u01b0\u1ee3ng tr\u01b0ng, v\u1eeba nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng cho t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 v\u0103n h\u00f3a. Ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c l\u1ea1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c (sex) \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t nhu c\u1ea7u sinh h\u1ecdc c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi sinh s\u1ea3n m\u00e0 th\u00f4i, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 kho\u00e1i l\u1ea1c v\u00e0 x\u1ea3 n\u00e9n c\u00e1c c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. Tuy nhi\u00ean, t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 t\u01b0\u0323 bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi x\u00e9t nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 ph\u00e1i nam v\u00e0 ph\u00e1i n\u1eef. N\u00f3 bao g\u1ed3m s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1nh gia\u0301 cu\u0309a ch\u00fang ta v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 va\u0300 c\u00e1c \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh m\u00e0 nh\u1edd c\u00e1c n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng hay \u0111\u00e0n ba\u0300. T\u00ednh d\u1ee5c c\u00f2n h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh hay kh\u00e1c. (Pinto&Mendes, 2002).<\/p>\n

Huy\u1ec1n nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 huy\u1ec1n nhi\u00ea\u0323m c\u1ee7a nhu c\u1ea7u mu\u00f4\u0301n ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn \u00f4m l\u1ea5y tha nh\u00e2n c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t l\u1eabn tinh th\u1ea7n. Th\u1eadt v\u1eady, t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, trong \u00fd ngh\u0129a \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 v\u00e0 phong ph\u00fa nh\u00e2\u0301t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng t\u00e2m sinh l\u00fd c\u1ee7a kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Nhu c\u1ea7u mu\u1ed1n g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t h\u1eefu th\u1ebf hi\u1ec7n sinh kh\u00e1c n\u01a1i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ed1n c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan m\u1eadt thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c. Nhu c\u1ea7u t\u01b0\u01a1ng giao n\u00e0y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nhu c\u1ea7u t\u00e2m linh. Ch\u00fang ta mong m\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 tinh th\u1ea7n ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ee5ng ch\u1ea1m, nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t trong nhau. (Clarke, 1986).<\/p>\n

B.<\/strong> T\u00ednh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu v\u00e0 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu, \u0110\u1ea5ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u1ee9c d\u1ea7u, \u0110\u1ea5ng m\u00e0 l\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu qua m\u1ecdi th\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t \u0111i gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i. Vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadp th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00fang ngh\u0129a s\u1ebd tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n khi n\u00e0o c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa t\u1ecf m\u00ecnh trong ba\u0309n t\u00ednh nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i. C\u0169ng v\u1eady, m\u1ed9t Kit\u00f4 h\u1ecdc s\u1ebd thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t khi t\u1ef1 cho ph\u00e9p m\u00ecnh t\u1ea1o n\u00ean h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh m\u1ed9t \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu \u0111ang d\u1ea5n s\u00e2u v\u00e0o c\u01a1n \u0111am m\u00ea t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, y nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang l\u00e0m v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c th\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f3 c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i. Quy\u1ec1n n\u0103ng s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi h\u1eefu th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00e1o Ho\u00e0ng Paul VI (1967) trong th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n “Sacerdotalis Caelibatus” \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng l\u00fd do Kit\u00f4 t\u00ednh cu\u0309a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n v\u1edbi t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng trinh khi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh Ch\u00faa Kit\u00f4, v\u00e0 qua c\u00e1c l\u1eddi m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi \u0111i theo Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u cho th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i g\u1eafn b\u00f3 s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u1edbi Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ai kh\u00e1c. \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00e1o ho\u00e0ng m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u00f4\u0301ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n lu\u00f4n mang t\u00ednh gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i v\u00ec m\u00f4\u0303i khi linh m\u1ee5c k\u1ebft hi\u1ec7p m\u1eadt thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu th\u00ec c\u0169ng la\u0300 l\u00fac ng\u00e0i \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi y\u00eau m\u1ebfn Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i nh\u01b0 th\u00ea\u0309 \u0111ang th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00ednh h\u00f4n v\u1edbi Gi\u00e1o h\u00f4\u0323i \u1ea5y trong m\u1ed9t kh\u1ebf \u01b0\u1edbc r\u1ea5t ch\u1eb7t ch\u1ebd m\u00e0 c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9c chi\u1ebfm. \u0110GH Phaol\u00f4 VI cu\u0303ng m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n mang t\u00ednh c\u00e1nh chung, v\u00ec n\u00f3 m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t kh\u1ebf \u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 g\u0103\u0301n k\u1ebft v\u01b0\u1ee3t l\u00ean tr\u00ean cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y; v\u00e0 ng\u00e0i c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn chi\u1ec1u k\u00edch m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n, v\u00ec n\u00f3 t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n cho c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u1ee7y chung v\u00e0 tinh r\u00f2ng.<\/p>\n

C\u00e1c s\u00e1ch Tin M\u1eebng kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng ri\u00eang t\u01b0 v\u00e0 t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu. Tuy nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean c\u00f3 \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng cho r\u1eb1ng t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn trong c\u00e1c s\u00e1ch Tin M\u1eebng, s\u00e1ch Tin M\u1eebng v\u1eabn \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u00ea\u0301n \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng theo c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta mong \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y. N\u00f3 t\u00f9y thu\u00f4\u0323c va\u0300o nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta hi\u00ea\u0309u v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c. T\u00ednh d\u1ee5c v\u1eeba la\u0300 c\u00e1c c\u01a1 quan sinh d\u1ee5c ma\u0300 cu\u0303ng v\u1eeba mang chi\u1ec1u k\u00edch c\u1ee7a ca\u0309m t\u00ednh. C\u1ea3m t\u00ednh v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec n\u00f3 bao ha\u0300m \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c. Chi\u1ec1u k\u00edch t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m hay c\u1ea3m x\u00fac cu\u0309a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ec7 t\u1ea1i \u1edf s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec1n h\u00f2a v\u00e0 d\u1ecbu d\u00e0ng, l\u00e0m cho t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. L\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t la\u0300 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea5u ch\u1ec9 cao nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c h\u00e0i h\u00f2a t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p.<\/p>\n

Kho\u00e1i c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 sinh l\u00fd h\u00e0i h\u00f2a c\u00e1ch v\u1eb9n to\u00e0n trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu. Qua c\u00e1c s\u00e1ch Tin M\u1eebng, Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi thanh th\u1ea3n v\u1edbi gi\u01a1\u0301i t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi thanh th\u1ea3n c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, \u1ea5m \u00e1p, d\u1ecbu d\u00e0ng v\u00e0 ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef va\u0300 tr\u1ebb em. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, r\u1ea5t t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t thi\u00eang li\u00eang. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n nam v\u00e0 n\u1eef. Ch\u00ednh qua c\u00e1c t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan n\u00e0y m\u00e0 b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng gi\u1edbi ti\u0301nh c\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi xuy\u00ean su\u1ed1t, c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi h\u1ea1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ee5ng ch\u1ea1m v\u00e0o Ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00ec l\u00e0 h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 trao ban (Goergen, 1974). Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n s\u1ed1ng b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh, \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb g\u00f2 \u00e9p, th\u00e1i qu\u00e1 hay b\u1eeba b\u00e3i, nh\u01b0ng lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ea7y s\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng, n\u1ed3ng n\u00e0n y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c s\u1ebd cho vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ecdn s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111a\u0303 b\u1ecf qu\u00ean n\u00e9t \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i, m\u1ed9t ba\u0301u v\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u00f4\u0301ng.<\/em> T\u1eeb khi Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa m\u1eb7c kh\u1ea3i r\u1eb1ng kho\u00e1i l\u1ea1c c\u1ee7a quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng r\u1ea5t th\u00e1nh thi\u00eang ch\u1ec9 d\u00e0nh cho m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef vui h\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00ean m\u1ed9t trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, th\u00ec s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a r\u1eb1ng, khi t\u1ef1 \u00fd kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea5y v\u1ee3, ch\u00fang ta t\u1ef1 do t\u1eeb b\u1ecf t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi sinh ho\u1ea1t t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 kho\u00e1i c\u1ea3m kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed3ng gi\u1edbi, m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh hay v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, trong t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng, l\u1eddi n\u00f3i, v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec r\u1ea5t th\u0103\u0309ng th\u1eafn, l\u00e0 c\u1ee9u c\u00e1nh, hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u00f4\u0301ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n (Dclan, 2000).<\/p>\n

Trong m\u1ed9t Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i e d\u00e8 lo ng\u1ea1i v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn ra trong \u0111\u01a1\u0300i c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu v\u00f4\u0301n b\u1ecb coi l\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh, \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gia\u0309i tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng \u00e1m \u1ea3nh v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c. C\u00e1c m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu \u0111a\u0303 \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i do t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c nh\u01b0ng t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n. Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec l\u00f2ng trong tr\u0103\u0301ng, s\u1ef1 trinh nguy\u00ean v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9c khi\u1ebft t\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u00ea\u0323n ti\u00ean quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 truy\u1ec1n ch\u1ee9c ph\u00f3 t\u00ea\u0301 v\u00e0 Linh m\u1ee5c, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ebd l\u00e0 \u0111i\u00ean r\u1ed3 n\u00ea\u0301u chu\u0301ng ta xem \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c truy\u1ec1n ch\u1ee9c.<\/p>\n

M\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1eddi s\u00f4\u0301ng t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 t\u00e2m linh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 n\u00ean m\u1ed9t c\u1ee7a \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ef1 v\u1edbi Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. \u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng thi\u00eang li\u00eang l\u00e0 trung t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n, v\u00e0 t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng thi\u00eang li\u00eang ph\u1ea3i \u0111i tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 \u0111i theo t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a \u0111\u01a1\u0300i \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n. \u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t linh \u0111\u1ea1o. \u0110\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n n\u00ean l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m ch\u1ee9ng b\u1eb1ng con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa.
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C. Tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n t\u00e2m sinh l\u00fd n\u00e2ng cao s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng thi\u00eang li\u00eang.<\/strong><\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 li\u00ean k\u1ebft c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 gi\u1eefa b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng thi\u00eang li\u00eang lu\u00f4n m\u01a1\u0301i la\u0323 v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi kh\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi (Pinto & Mertdes, 2002). \u0110\u00ea\u0309 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 m\u00f4\u0301i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa \u0111\u1eddi s\u00f4\u0301ng thi\u00eang li\u00eang v\u00e0 ba\u0309n n\u0103ng gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c nh\u1ea1y ca\u0309m ai cu\u0303ng ne\u0301 tra\u0301nh, chu\u0301ng ta c\u00e2\u0300n xa\u0301c t\u00edn r\u1eb1ng c\u1ea3 hai chi\u1ec1u k\u00edch tr\u00ean lu\u00f4n g\u1eafn bo\u0301 ch\u1eb7t ch\u1ebd trong t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c ch\u00fang ta. C\u1ea3 hai c\u00f9ng nhau t\u1ea1o n\u00ean s\u1ef1 to\u00e0n v\u1eb9n n\u01a1i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta.<\/em> Do \u0111\u00f3, b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n l\u1eadp n\u00ean m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n v\u00e0 c\u00e1c ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh, m\u00e0 c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00e0i h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ed3ng b\u1ed9 v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n trong chu\u0309ng vi\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n

C\u00e1c xung l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m linh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c b\u00ed \u1ea9n m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd nh\u1ea5t trong m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. M\u1ee5c ti\u00eau th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 cu\u0309a ca\u0309 hai l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau trong s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7p th\u00f4ng v\u1edbi nhau. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00ecnh di\u1ec7n s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 hai b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng tinh th\u1ea7n. T\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 t\u00e2m linh v\u1eabn t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 trong t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, trong c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u1edbi ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt v\u00e0 thi\u00ean nhi\u00ean, trong nh\u1eefng \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 tr\u00ed t\u01b0\u01a1\u0309ng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, trong s\u1ef1 g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea7y c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c n\u00e0y. \u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng t\u00e2m linh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u01b0\u1ee1ng b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a linh h\u1ed3n v\u1ed1n t\u00e1ch ra kh\u1ecfi th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi tr\u1ea7n t\u1ee5c, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i li\u00ean quan ch\u1eb7t ch\u1ebd v\u1edbi m\u1ed1i b\u1eadn t\u00e2m v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n c\u1eadn v\u00e0 to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n

V\u00ec l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c (sexed-person) n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u1ea5t. Nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh s\u00e2u s\u0103\u0301c \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng t\u00e2m linh c\u0169ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi m\u1ed9t s\u01b0\u0323 c\u1edfi m\u1edf tri\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ec3 v\u00e0 v\u00e2ng ph\u1ee5c tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u1ea7u nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 chi\u1ebfm h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i. T\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 t\u00e2m linh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c ch\u1ea1m tr\u00e1n s\u00e2u xa v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 v\u1edbi Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1ch s\u00e2u s\u1eafc ch\u00fang ta tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf n\u00ean. Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n g\u00f4\u0301c v\u00e0 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta khao kh\u00e1t. B\u1ea3n n\u0103ng gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh v\u00e0 \u0111\u01a1\u0300i s\u1ed1ng t\u00e2m linh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1m b\u00e1o tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7p nh\u1ea5t hoan l\u1ea1c t\u1ed9t b\u00e2\u0323c v\u1edbi Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. L\u00f2ng khao kh\u00e1t Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 tha nh\u00e2n n\u01a1i ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 \u00e2m vang c\u1ee7a l\u00f2ng Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa khao kh\u00e1t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n

Ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e2m linh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00e0n g\u1eafn n\u1ed7i \u0111au t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u1edf qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 khi ch\u00fang mang l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. Ch\u00fang ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng ch\u1ea5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec1m \u1ea9n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, ph\u1ee5c h\u1ed3i ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Cu\u1ed9c va ch\u1ea1m th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau h\u1ed5 t\u01b0\u01a1ng gi\u1eefa cho v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn, c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh v\u00e0 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o c\u00e1ch s\u00e2u xa. Ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c: v\u00e0 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e2m linh c\u00f2n mang t\u00ednh ph\u1ed5 qu\u00e1t v\u00e0 to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, ch\u00fang v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n t\u1eed s\u00e2u k\u00edn v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n su\u1ed1t trong to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch v\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta, trong v\u1eadn m\u1ec7nh v\u00e0 trong to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn, c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 chung s\u1ed1ng trong \u00fd th\u1ee9c n\u00f3 v\u1eeba duy nh\u1ea5t v\u1eeba kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t n\u01a1i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t khi ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ee7 nh\u00e2\u0323n b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c n\u01a1i m\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang ta g\u00e2y ra c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tinh th\u1ea7n, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u00e2n v\u1ecb, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng b\u00e0 con.<\/p>\n

D. \u0110\u00e0o t\u1ea1o t\u00ednh du\u0323c v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n<\/strong><\/p>\n

Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u trong ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o n\u00e0y \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u00f3c hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n v\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1ch th\u00edch h\u1ee3p, l\u1ea1i c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean, c\u1ea3 \u1edf trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u1eabn gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n v\u1edbi nhau. Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o linh m\u1ee5c cu\u0309a ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i \u0111i xa h\u01a1n c\u00e1c ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. N\u00f3i t\u00f3m, ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u1ec1n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c lu\u00f4n t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ti\u1ebfn t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n (Fernandes, 1996). V\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nhu c\u1ea7u to l\u1edbn lu\u00f4n n\u1ea3y sinh, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i gi\u00fap c\u00e1c ch\u1ee7ng sinh t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng h\u00e0i h\u00f2a c\u00e1c t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t th\u1ec3 l\u00fd, gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh, lu\u00e2n l\u00fd, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, tri th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 t\u00e2m linh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho s\u1ef1 cam k\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n. D\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 c\u00e1ch c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nhu c\u1ea7u c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n trong thi\u00ean ni\u00ean k\u1ef7 n\u00e0y cho nh\u1eefng ai mu\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n. Ch\u1ee7ng sinh c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nghi\u1ec7m nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c n\u01a1i m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u01a1n ban \u0111\u00e1ng qu\u00fd h\u01a1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh nguy hi\u1ec3m \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3, \u0111\u00e1ng t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i, b\u1ecb d\u1ed3n n\u00e9n ho\u1eb7c ki\u1ec1m ch\u00ea\u0301 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 th\u00f4ng tho\u00e1ng. Ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c mang theo kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111em l\u1ea1i l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh ho\u1eb7c b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng, th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n hay t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y c\u1ea3 trong t\u01b0 duy l\u1eabn kinh nghi\u1ec7m n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 trong c\u00e1c s\u1ee9 v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c ch\u1ee7ng sinh c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, m\u00f4n h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c l\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u1eddng khi kh\u00f4ng n\u1eb1m trong ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o \u1edf c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 c\u00e1c ch\u1ee7ng vi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t \u0111\u00e1ng tr\u00e1ch, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 thi\u00ea\u0301u s\u00f3t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh. Ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o ra trong ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c ch\u1ee7ng sinh, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn c\u00e1ch c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u00e0 trung th\u1ef1c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y trong b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00edch c\u1ef1c h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u00e1ch x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng. Th\u00e0nh th\u1eed, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd mang theo nh\u01b0 h\u00e0nh trang m\u1ed9t m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i, x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 v\u00e0 m\u1ea5t c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng trong ph\u1ea1m vi gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u1ed7i \u00e1m \u1ea3nh trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng linh m\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 d\u00e8 ch\u1eebng trong \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o v\u1edbi c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ef1\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 “t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n ri\u00eang t\u01b0\u201d v\u1ed1n l\u00e0m n\u00ean m\u1ecdi t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng linh m\u1ee5c v\u1edbi h\u1ebft c\u1ea3 l\u00f2ng d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n (Sipe, 1990). Theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, m\u1ecdi n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c trong vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00ecnh th\u00e2n h\u1eefu c\u00e1ch l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1ecb ph\u00e1 h\u1ee7y.<\/p>\n

Khi c\u00e1c \u1ee9ng vi\u00ean ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c v\u00e0o nh\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng gi\u1eefa \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean, h\u1ecd v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a n\u1eafm r\u00f5 nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e1c \u1ee9ng vi\u00ean xu\u1ea5t th\u00e2n t\u1eeb c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng trong c\u00e1c c\u01a1 quan c\u1ee7a c\u01a1 th\u1ec3, v\u00e0 s\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 l\u1ebd mang trong ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eefng ch\u1ea5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 l\u1edbn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i d\u00e0nh ri\u00eang cho nam hay n\u1eef gi\u1edbi. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ch\u1ee7ng sinh ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh theo c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef, m\u00e0 l\u1eafm khi g\u00e2y quan ng\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng \u00edt cho c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o. Xung \u0111\u1ed9t b\u00ean trong, t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i, x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5, ho\u1eb7c lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00e1c th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 quan trong c\u01a1 th\u1ec3, th\u1ee7 d\u00e2m v\u00e0 c\u00e1c ch\u1ee9ng b\u1ec7nh thu\u1ed9c sinh l\u00fd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o.<\/p>\n

E. \u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n – m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfng “v\u00e2ng” v\u1edbi l\u00f2ng nhi\u1ec7t th\u00e0nh li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 tha nh\u00e2n.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cam k\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 n\u00f3i \u2018kh\u00f4ng\u2019 v\u1edbi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, v\u1edbi \u2018vi\u1ec7c sinh con c\u00e1i, v\u00e0 v\u1edbi c\u00e1c li\u00ean h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn sinh d\u1ee5c. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1edbi ch\u1eef “kh\u00f4ng” trong \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n m\u00e0 b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a ch\u1eef “v\u00e2ng”. B\u1ecb m\u1eafc k\u1eb9t v\u1edbi ti\u1ebfng “kh\u00f4ng”, \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean cay \u0111\u1eafng v\u00e0 ph\u1eabn u\u1ea5t. H\u1ecd ph\u1eabn u\u1ea5t v\u00ec \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u1eb7t n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng tr\u00ean c\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb c\u1ea5t \u0111i kh\u1ecfi h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd t\u1ee9c b\u1ef1c d\u00f9 trong \u00fd th\u1ee9c hay v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c b\u1edfi v\u00ec c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb t\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111o\u1ea1t c\u00e1ch b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Th\u1eadt v\u1eady, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb t\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng n\u1ebfu to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng (Rossetti, 2005).<\/p>\n

V\u1eady \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u00e0 n\u00f3i “v\u00e2ng” trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u00f4\u0301ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n? Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, c\u1ea7n kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n c\u00e1ch to\u00e0n v\u1eb9n kh\u00f4ng th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn “con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ee9 ba”. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ngay c\u1ea3 khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u01b0a k\u1ebft h\u00f4n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p s\u1ed1ng hai m\u1eb7t, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p c\u00f3 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00f4i l\u1ee9a. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 linh m\u1ee5c cho r\u1eb1ng s\u1ed1ng th\u00e2n m\u1eadt v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh (nh\u01b0 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c) th\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ch\u1ec9 ki\u00eang khem quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c th\u00ec v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n to\u00e0n v\u1eb9n. S\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n l\u00e0 n\u00f3i “v\u00e2ng”, m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfng “v\u00e2ng” \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi h\u1ebft \u0111am m\u00ea h\u1ee9ng kh\u1edfi. Th\u1ef1c v\u00e2\u0323y, c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 r\u1ed3i l\u00e0m ch\u1ee9ng cho s\u1ef1 thi\u1ec7n h\u1ea3o c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi quanh ta \u0111ang l\u00e0 ch\u1ee9ng nh\u00e2n cho Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa (Rossetti, 2005).<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng linh m\u1ee5c c\u1ea3 hai ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i – thi\u00eang li\u00eang. Th\u1eadt ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c khi khoa T\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 c\u00e1c m\u00f4n khoa h\u1ecdc c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e1c l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n. Nh\u01b0ng, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m s\u00e1ng t\u1ecf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t trong hai m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c ng\u00e0nh khoa h\u1ecdc th\u00e1nh. C\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng linh m\u1ee5c v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng thi\u00eang li\u00eang v\u00e0 trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee9ng t\u1eeb c\u1ee7a th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u1edf c\u00f9ng ch\u00fang ta. C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u1edbi Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a v\u1ecb linh m\u1ee5c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng. M\u1ed9t linh m\u1ee5c t\u1ef1 c\u00f4 l\u1eadp l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t linh m\u1ee5c \u0111ang b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u01b0\u1edbc va\u0300o s\u1ef1 sa ng\u00e3.<\/p>\n

V\u00ec v\u1eady, ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m cho c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng. Ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i n\u1ed1 l\u1ef1c gi\u0103ng m\u1eafc m\u1ed9t m\u1ea1ng l\u01b0\u1edbi c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh th\u00e2n h\u1eefu th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 khi n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u00f2i ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f2i m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh th\u1ee5c. Th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc khi l\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta trong ch\u1ee7ng vi\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1c h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 c\u00f4\u0309 v\u0169 cho t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ngay c\u1ea3 Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu, v\u1ecb Th\u1ea7y c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n, \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh m\u01b0\u1eddi hai t\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ee9c T\u1ed5ng Gi\u00e1m M\u1ee5c Timothy Dolan (2000) t\u1ed5ng gi\u00e1m m\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a New York, gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 g\u1ee3i \u00fd th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh cho c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c nh\u1eb1m b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u1ea3 hai c\u00e1ch gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c l\u1eabn t\u00edch c\u1ef1c:<\/p>\n

a. Nh\u1eefng Gi\u00fap \u0111\u01a1\u0303 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c- C\u1ea7n Tr\u00e1nh:<\/em><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

1. R\u01b0\u1ee3u – u\u1ed1ng qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1ea5t ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t c\u00e1c \u0111am m\u00ea.<\/p>\n

2. Nh\u1eefng k\u00eanh truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh, phim \u1ea3nh, t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed v\u00e0 s\u00e1ch b\u00e1o khi\u00eau d\u00e2m tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng Internet g\u1ee3i h\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

3. Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1eb7t l\u1eb1n ranh th\u00edch h\u1ee3p trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, tr\u1ebb em v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u00f3 li\u00ean can \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n

4. Xem c\u00e1c chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y nh\u01b0 k\u1ec9m ch\u1ec9 nam c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

5. N\u00f3i nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n t\u1ee5c t\u1ec9u.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>b. Nh\u1eefng <\/em><\/strong>gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c – N\u00ean D\u00f9ng:<\/em><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

1. C\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n – \u0110\u1eebng x\u1ea5u h\u1ed1 khi \u0111\u01b0a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0o c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n. C\u1ea7n th\u00fa nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 c\u1ea7u xin \u01a1n th\u00e1nh.<\/p>\n

2. H\u00e3y t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc c\u00f4 t\u1ecbch – T\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng ni\u1ec1m vui v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

3. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng k\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt l\u00e0m c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng – \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00f2i ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t khung \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n, l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i, vui ch\u01a1i gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed, v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n, v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t k\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt kh\u1ea3 thi trong vi\u1ec7c \u0103n, u\u1ed1ng, chi ti\u00eau ti\u1ec1n, mua c\u00e1c ti\u1ec7n \u00edch m\u1edbi, v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed.<\/p>\n

4. Nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n linh m\u1ee5c t\u1ed1t, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb ni\u1ec1m vui, n\u00f4\u0303i bu\u1ed3n, v\u00e0 g\u00e2y ni\u1ec1m hy v\u1ecdng, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta r\u1ea5t an to\u00e0n, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta khi ch\u00fang ta l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c v\u00e0 c\u00e1c l\u1eddi kh\u1ea5n h\u1ee9a.<\/p>\n

5. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n – \u0110\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng tr\u00ean, s\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft \u01a1n s\u00e2u xa \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta n\u00f3i, “ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n t\u1ed1t c\u0169ng s\u1ebd la\u0300 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha t\u1ed1t”. Quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0m cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n n\u01a1i ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng c\u00e1ch b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, v\u00e0 m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf ch\u00fang ta r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00eau g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i c\u00e1ch d\u1ecbu d\u00e0ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng hy sinh cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng hy sinh cho con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd v\u1eady. Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n khi\u1ebft t\u1ecbnh ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh, th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh, vui t\u01b0\u01a1i, t\u1ef1 do. S\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, n\u00edu k\u00e9o l\u1ea1i, ho\u1eb7c thi\u1ebfu trung th\u1ef1c s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ed7 trong m\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

F. M\u1ed9t c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o v\u00ea\u0300 n\u1ea1n \u1ea5u d\u00e2m – C\u00e1c xu h\u01b0\u1edbng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c Ch\u1ee7ng sinh\/ Linh m\u1ee5c<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1eebng t\u1ef1 m\u00e3n cho r\u1eb1ng n\u1ea1n \u1ea5u d\u00e2m l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y hay M\u1ef9; n\u00f3 c\u0169ng \u0111ang ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn kh\u00e1 th\u1ecbnh h\u00e0nh \u1edf t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c n\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00e2u \u00c1 (Pirito, 2004). Qua c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n, P.D. Cristantiello (2002) m\u1ed9t linh m\u1ee5c – t\u00e2m l\u00fd gia c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 l\u1ecbch s\u1eed t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t linh m\u1ee5c, ho\u1eb7c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u1ee9ng vi\u00ean cho ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c. Theo ngh\u0129a r\u1ed9ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn m\u1eafc ch\u1ee9ng th\u00edch t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em ph\u00e1t xu\u1ea5t t\u1eeb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n th\u00edch th\u00fa, th\u00e8m mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 b\u1ecb cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em ho\u1eb7c thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean (Groth, 1979). Vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ea9n \u0111o\u00e1n b\u1ec7nh \u1ea5u d\u00e2m kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. Hy v\u1ecdng trong nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ng n\u0103m ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i theo b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng nh\u1ee5c d\u1ee5c, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i \u1ea5u d\u00e2m th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 anh ta \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea1m nhi\u1ec1u sai l\u1ea7m khi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi nh\u1ee5c d\u1ee5c l\u1ec7ch h\u01b0\u1edbng. (Prendergast, 2003).<\/p>\n

H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng ho\u1eb7c ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef m\u1eafc b\u1ec7nh \u1ea5u d\u00e2m l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n v\u00e0 nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t, kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c t\u1ee5 h\u1ecdp hay c\u00e1c sinh ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd v\u1eabn c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed duy\u00ean d\u00e1ng, th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n, v\u00e0 h\u00f2a m\u00ecnh trong c\u00e1c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 che d\u1ea5u c\u1ea3m x\u00fac th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi “\u0111\u00f3ng k\u1ecbch” nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfn thu\u1eadt ph\u00f2ng th\u00f9. Ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em ho\u1eb7c thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean th\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 h\u1ecd tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i h\u01a1n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. N\u1ebfu ph\u1ea3i tham gia tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00ec c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed v\u00e0 t\u1ea7m \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i l\u00e2u v\u00e0 n\u00f4ng c\u1ea1n. H\u1ecd bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi h\u00e0nh vi v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ai bi\u1ebft b\u1ea5t c\u01b0\u0301 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi \u0111\u1ee9ng “tr\u00ean s\u00e2n kh\u1ea5u”, v\u00e0 kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o bi\u1ec3u di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0. H\u1ecd th\u00edch n\u1eafm gi\u1eef c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb v\u1ed1n \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho h\u1ecd quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c, quy\u1ec1n h\u1ea1n v\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t trong hai gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em ho\u1eb7c thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean (Pinto, 2004).<\/p>\n

IV. Nhu c\u1ea7u ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u0103n t\u00ednh linh m\u1ee5c nh\u1eb1m t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng s\u1ef1 th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ecdc trong s\u0103\u0301c l\u1ec7nh v\u1ec1 Ch\u1ee9c v\u1ee5 v\u00e0 \u0110\u01a1\u0300i s\u1ed1ng Linh M\u1ee5c (Presbyterorum Ordinis, s\u1ed1 2) c\u1ee7a C\u00f4ng \u0110\u1ed3ng Vatican II: “C\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tham d\u1ef1 v\u00e0o quy\u1ec1n b\u00ednh m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh Ch\u00faa Kit\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ebfn t\u1ea1o, th\u00e1nh h\u00f3a v\u00e0 cai qu\u1ea3n Th\u00e2n Th\u1ec3 Ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00ec v\u1eady, ch\u1ee9c Linh M\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c ng\u00e0i tuy d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng B\u00ed T\u00edch khai sinh \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t B\u00ed T\u00edch ri\u00eang in d\u1ea5u \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t khi c\u00e1c ng\u00e0i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Ch\u00faa Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n x\u1ee9c d\u1ea7u: nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf c\u00e1c ng\u00e0i n\u00ean gi\u1ed1ng Ch\u00faa Kit\u00f4 Linh M\u1ee5c, \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n thay m\u1eb7t Chu\u0301a Kit\u00f4 l\u00e0 \u0110\u1ea7u m\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng”.<\/p>\n

Ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p; l\u00e0 t\u00e1i x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u1ea1i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u00f4\u0323t ch\u1ee9c v\u1ee5 m\u1edbi; l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch s\u00f4\u0301ng ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c; m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i hi\u1ec7n sinh ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng, m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 cam k\u1ebft v\u0129nh vi\u1ec5n su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ecbch vu\u0323 t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi; m\u00f4\u0323t c\u0103n t\u00ednh ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t vai tr\u00f2 (Dolan, 2000). Ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 linh m\u1ee5c; v\u00e2ng, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c hay ch\u1ee9c v\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 cao c\u1ea3, nh\u01b0ng xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t hi\u1ec7n sinh; ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 linh m\u1ee5c, thi h\u00e0nh th\u1eeba t\u00e1c nh\u01b0 linh m\u1ee5c, gi\u1eef vai tr\u00f2 nh\u01b0 linh m\u1ee5c, ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 linh m\u1ee5c, rao gi\u1ea3ng nh\u01b0 linh m\u1ee5c, b\u1edfi v\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft v\u00e0 tr\u00ean h\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 Linh M\u1ee5c. Ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng “hi\u1ec7n sinh” tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi l\u00e0 \u201ch\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng\u201d. Ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 v\u00e0 c\u0103n t\u00ednh n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 ai; ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n

Theo c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec3u c\u1ee7a gi\u1edbi C\u00f4ng Gi\u00e1o ch\u00fang ta, ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem nh\u01b0 la\u0300 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c l\u00e0m m\u1edbi l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00e1ch c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n v\u00e0 t\u1ed5ng qu\u00e1t tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn cu\u0309a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi, b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch mang l\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t b\u1ea3n th\u1ec3 “\u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed3ng d\u1ea1ng” v\u1edbi \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4. C\u0103n t\u00ednh linh m\u1ee5c n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng, l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4\u0300ng th\u1eddi l\u1ea1i t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng tr\u00ean hi\u1ec7n sinh v\u00e0 tr\u00ean h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Do \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vui h\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 c\u1ee7a V\u1ecb Linh m\u1ee5c V\u0129nh c\u1eedu T\u1ed1i Cao. Hai chi\u1ec1u k\u00edch \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u00e1ng quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0: ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 v\u0129nh vi\u1ec5n va\u0300 \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c c\u0169ng l\u00e0 trung th\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00e1o Ho\u00e0ng Gioan Phaol\u00f4 II n\u00f3i; “Khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i “v\u00e2ng” v\u1edbi ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c th\u00ec ti\u1ebfng “v\u00e2ng” \u1ea5y l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1eddi”. Trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c “r\u1eddi b\u1ecf” ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c ho\u1eb7c th\u00f4i ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c, v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec h\u01a1n \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m ng\u01b0ng la\u0323i ch\u1ee9c “cha” cu\u0309a ch\u00fang ta (our father). Ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c l\u00e0 \u0111\u01a1\u0300i \u0111\u1eddi. Ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 t\u1eebng g\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1eddi b\u1ecf ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c – ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111o\u00e1n x\u00e9t h\u1ecd, h\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn, cho d\u1eabu kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft bao nhi\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft bao nhi\u00eau l\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch ph\u00ea ph\u00e1n, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft bao nhi\u00eau v\u1ee5 b\u00ea b\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra, linh m\u1ee5c v\u1eabn l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1eddi. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 d\u00e2\u0301n th\u00e2n tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n v\u00e0 vi\u0303nh vi\u1ec5n v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa Kit\u00f4 v\u00e0 Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i (Dolan, 2000). Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sai \u0111i ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u, la\u0300m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i, nh\u01b0ng c\u0103n t\u00ednh linh m\u1ee5c cu\u0309a chu\u0301ng ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Ch\u1ee9c Linh m\u1ee5c l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u1ee9 hai c\u1ee7a c\u0103n t\u00ednh linh m\u1ee5c ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 trung th\u00e0nh. M\u1eb9 T\u00ear\u00eaxa Ch\u00e2n ph\u01b0\u1edbc th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i: “Ch\u00faa kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2i ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, Ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u00f2i ch\u00fang ta trung th\u00e0nh”. Ch\u00fang ta trung th\u00e0nh v\u1edbi c\u0103n t\u00ednh linh m\u1ee5c cu\u0309a m\u00ecnh b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng nghe ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00e1c tin t\u01b0\u0301c b\u00e1o ch\u00ed: “Linh m\u1ee5c: \u0111\u00e1ng tr\u00e1ch v\u00ec c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t. I\u0301t \u0111i th\u0103m vi\u1ebfng. Gi\u1ea3ng da\u0323y b\u1eady b\u1ea1. \u00d4ng ta l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ed1t.” T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u0103n t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a linh m\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 trung th\u00e0nh s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n khi \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng linh m\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta h\u1ea1nh phu\u0301c, th\u00edch th\u00fa v\u00e0 tr\u00e0n tr\u00e0o sinh l\u1ef1c. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n, s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i s\u1ebd \u0111\u00ea\u0301n, v\u00e0 c\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf li\u1ec7u ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 trung th\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng? C\u00f3, n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng l\u00f2ng trung th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, m\u1ed9t ngh\u00ea\u0300 nghi\u1ec7p, m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng, m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 giao vi\u1ec7c, nh\u01b0ng thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfng g\u1ecdi, m\u00f4\u0323t c\u0103n t\u00ednh, m\u00f4\u0323t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi mang t\u00ean Gi\u00easu v\u00e0 Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi! L\u00f2ng trung tha\u0300nh kh\u00f4ng d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean th\u00e0nh t\u00edch, s\u1ef1 khen th\u01b0\u1edfng, ho\u1eb7c s\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdn h\u1ea3o. \u0110\u00f4i khi, trong ch\u1ee9c Linh m\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4 khan, hoang mang, b\u00f4\u0301i r\u1ed1i, nghi ng\u1edd, m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c, n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn – Ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng khi nh\u01b0 th\u00ea\u0301 m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ee9ng minh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00f2ng trung th\u00e0nh cu\u0309a ch\u00fang ta. Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i, Hi\u1ec1n th\u00ea c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u1eafm khi nh\u01b0 qu\u00e8 qu\u1eb7t v\u00e0 v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng, c\u1ea1n ki\u1ec7t; Th\u1ea7y c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu, \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 xa c\u00e1ch, v\u1eafng m\u1eb7t v\u00e0 ng\u1ee7 qu\u00ean, v\u1eady \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ee9 trung th\u00e0nh. Nh\u01b0 l\u1eddi nguy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a Th\u00e1nh T\u00f4ma Aquin\u00f4: ” L\u1ea1y Cha l\u00e0 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa c\u1ee7a con, xin ban cho con m\u1ed9t tr\u00e1i tim th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh, \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng ha\u0303o huy\u1ec1n n\u00e0o k\u00e9o con xa Cha;m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng cao th\u01b0\u1ee3ng, \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh ca\u0309m \u0111\u00ea ti\u1ec7n n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u00ea\u0309 h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p con; m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng ngay th\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t \u00fd \u0111\u00f4\u0300 m\u1eadp m\u1edd n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho con ra xi\u00ean x\u1eb9o; L\u1ea1y Cha l\u00e0 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa c\u1ee7a con, xin ban cho con m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m lo\u0300ng trung th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ec3 lu\u00f4n g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u1edbi Ng\u00e0i m\u00e0 th\u00f4i”<\/p>\n

B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng c\u0103n t\u00ednh linh m\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta? Tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean, ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u00e1ng ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n. C\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n d\u0129 nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 kh\u0103\u0309ng \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e1ch tin t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f4\u0301i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec l\u00e0 co\u0301 th\u1ec3, trong khi \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 gi\u0300 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3.<\/p>\n

C\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng tr\u00ean ni\u1ec1m tin r\u1eb1ng Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd m\u01a1\u0300i g\u1ecdi ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n. N\u00ea\u0301u linh mu\u0323c bi\u1ebft h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn d\u00e2n m\u00ecnh ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n m\u1ea7u nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, v\u1ed1n \u0111em l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 tha\u0301nh thi\u1ec7n, th\u00ec r\u1ed3i ch\u00ednh c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c c\u0169ng s\u1ebd b\u1eaft li\u00ean l\u1ea1c v\u01a1\u0301i s\u01b0\u0323 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 m\u1ea7u nhi\u1ec7m \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. Nh\u01b0 \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00e1o Ho\u00e0ng Gioan Ph\u1ea1ol\u00f4 n\u00f3i “C\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n theo m\u1ed9t ngh\u0129a n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m n\u00ean c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, m\u1ed7i linh m\u1ee5c t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m n\u00ean ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh c\u00e1ch li\u00ean li\u0309 qua c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n. \u0110i\u1ec1u cao c\u1ea3 nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi l\u1eddi c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n l\u00e0 Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ec3, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u01a1i ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m nghi\u1ec7m c\u00e1ch s\u00e2u xa nh\u00e2\u0301t c\u0103n t\u00ednh linh m\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. “Linh m\u1ee5c l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ec3 “, \u0110\u1ee9c Th\u00e1nh Cha n\u00f3i ti\u1ebfp trong c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t tr\u00edch \u0111o\u1ea1n tr\u00ean (Presbyterorum Ordinis s\u1ed1 2). Ch\u00fang ta c\u1eed h\u00e0nh Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ec3 nh\u00e2n danh \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4, v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh “m\u1ed9t \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4 kh\u00e1c”.<\/p>\n

Linh m\u1ee5c c\u00f2n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7p \u00fd c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi M\u1eb9 Maria, M\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a v\u1ecb Linh m\u1ee5c ti\u00ean kh\u1edfi. Nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t ch\u00fang ta \u0111a\u0303 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 nu\u00f4i n\u1ea5ng trong l\u00f2ng b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea5t th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, th\u00ec \u0111\u1eddi linh m\u1ee5c v\u00e0 c\u0103n t\u00ednh ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4i n\u1ea5ng d\u01b0\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 tr\u00ean tr\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 \u0111\u1eddi s\u00f4\u0301ng linh m\u1ee5c l\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi anh em linh m\u1ee5c. S\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh v\u00e0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a “nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5u” (comrades in arm) l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap v\u00f4 gi\u00e1 l\u00e0m s\u1ed1ng \u0111i\u1ed9ng ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c cu\u0309a ch\u00fang ta. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y gi\u1ea3 thi\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n duy tr\u00ec t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n Linh m\u1ee5c t\u1ed1t, l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh, kh\u00f4ng hay ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch, kh\u00f4ng d\u1eadt d\u1edd. Th\u1ef1c ra, tr\u00e1nh \u0111i l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi anh em linh m\u1ee5c lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng. Ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng linh m\u1ee5c n\u00ean lu\u00f4n mang \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t cho nhau. Khi ch\u00fang ta \u0111i th\u0103m nhau, chia s\u1ebb; qua \u0103n u\u1ed1ng, ng\u00e0y ngh\u1ec9, ho\u1eb7c ng\u00e0y h\u00e8, th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, x\u1ea3 h\u01a1i v\u1edbi nhau, th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 nhau, th\u0103m h\u1ecfi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi anh em \u0111ang ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n, ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n v\u01a1\u0301i nhau…l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng cho nhau \u0111\u1eddi linh m\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eefa m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta v\u00ec l\u00e0 Linh m\u1ee5c n\u00ean c\u1ea7n gi\u1eef li\u00ean l\u1ea1c, lu\u00f4n y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 tin c\u1eady, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 gi\u00e1m m\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. M\u1ed1i li\u00ean k\u1ebft m\u1eadt thi\u1ebft gi\u1eefa m\u00f4\u0323t v\u1ecb gi\u00e1m m\u1ee5c v\u00e0 c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft v\u1eeba mang t\u00ednh th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc ma\u0300 c\u0169ng v\u1eeba l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n. Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n gi\u00e1m m\u1ee5c m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng \u01b0u ti\u00ean h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u0103m lo ph\u00fac l\u01a1\u0323i v\u00e0 s\u0103n s\u00f3c c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

C\u00f2n n\u1eefa, ngo\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t trong s\u00f4\u0301 c\u00e1c anh em linh m\u1ee5c, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u1edbi gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u1eb1m t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u01a1\u0300ng v\u00e0 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng linh m\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n

T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 \u1edf tr\u00ean s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean lu m\u1edd khi ch\u00fang ta n\u00f3i t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng c\u0103n t\u00ednh linh m\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta: \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 g\u1eafn b\u00f3 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu. Ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 linh m\u1ee5c v\u00ec l\u1eddi m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi ch\u00fang ta ph\u00e1t xu\u1ea5t t\u1eeb Ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean m\u1ed9t v\u1edbi Ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00eau g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00ean m\u1ed9t v\u1edbi Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ean th\u1eadp gi\u00e1? D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 linh m\u1ee5c t\u1ed1i cao, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 Linh m\u1ee5c khi ch\u00fang ta chia s\u1ebb \u0111au kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nh\u1eefng \u0111au kh\u1ed5 v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t, tinh th\u1ea7n v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac. Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y kh\u00e9p l\u1ea1i b\u00e0i tham lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t linh m\u1ee5c n\u00e0y b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch tr\u00edch d\u1eabn l\u1eddi \u0110\u1ee9c Th\u00e1nh Cha Gioan Phaol\u00f4 II n\u00f3i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c t\u00e2n linh m\u1ee5c m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea5n phong: “Cho \u0111\u1ebfn bu\u1ed5i ho\u00e0ng h\u00f4n c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, trong kinh ng\u1ea1c va\u0300 bi\u1ebft \u01a1n, con h\u00e3y gi\u1eef ti\u1ebfng g\u1ecdi nhi\u1ec7m m\u1ea7u ng\u00e0y \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 vang v\u1ecdng trong s\u00e2u th\u1eb3m t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n con: “H\u00e3y theo ta!”.<\/p>\n

V. C\u00e1c nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c – s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng cu\u0309a \u0111\u1eddi Ki-t\u00f4 h\u1eefu – Th\u0103ng ti\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n linh m\u1ee5c tri\u1ec1u<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t linh m\u1ee5c gi\u00e1o ph\u1eadn c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi Ki-t\u00f4 h\u1eefu nghi\u00eam ch\u1ec9nh n\u00ea\u0301u ng\u00e0i mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o v\u1ecb tr\u00ed l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o D\u00e2n Ch\u00faa. Linh m\u1ee5c c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i th\u1ea5m nhu\u00e2\u0300n v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c Ki-t\u00f4 gi\u00e1o \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u1eefng m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 tha\u0301nh thi\u00ea\u0323n m\u00e0 l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111oa\u0300n d\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ng\u00e0i \u0111i t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n, t\u1edbi Ch\u00faa Cha \u0110\u1ea5ng ng\u1ef1 tr\u00ean tr\u1eddi. C\u00e1c nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0: \u0111\u1ee9c tin, c\u1eady, m\u1ebfn, khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u1eddng, trung tha\u0300nh, v\u00e2ng ph\u1ee5c, l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1, ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c, c\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng, ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn, s\u00e1m h\u00f4\u0301i, gia\u0309n di\u0323 trong l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng va\u0300 vui t\u01b0\u01a1i.<\/p>\n

1. Linh m\u1ee5c – Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9c tin<\/em><\/p>\n

Gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng nghi nan, nh\u1ea1o b\u00e1ng, m\u1ec9a mai v\u00e0 l\u1ed9n x\u1ed9n, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a \u0111\u01b0\u0301c tin da\u0301m c\u00f4ng b\u1ed1 r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 b\u1edfi v\u00ec c\u00e1c s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb Thi\u00ean Chu\u0301a ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng t\u1eeb nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i. “\u0110\u1ee9c tin”, theo nh\u01b0 th\u01b0 g\u1eedi t\u00edn h\u01b0\u0303u Do Th\u00e1i ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn ch\u00fang ta, “l\u00e0 b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m cho nh\u1eefng ph\u00fac l\u00e0nh m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta tr\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee3i, l\u00e0 b\u1ea3o ch\u1ee9ng cho s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i m\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n th\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng tr\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y” (x. Dt 11,1). v\u00e2ng, cho d\u00f9 l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1m, ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f4\u0301i, v\u00e0 ly gi\u00e1o bao v\u00e2y ch\u00fang ta ch\u0103ng n\u01b0\u0303a, \u0111\u1ee9c tin c\u0169ng cho ph\u00e9p ta g\u0103\u0301n k\u1ebft ch\u1eb7t ch\u1ebd v\u1edbi nh\u01b0\u0303ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i ch\u1eafc ch\u0103\u0301n r\u1eb1ng: Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 Ng\u00e0i y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00fang ta c\u00e1ch say \u0111\u1eafm!<\/p>\n

\u0110\u01b0\u0301c tin ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ec3 n\u01a1i Thi\u00ean Chu\u0301a kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft nh\u01b0ng mang t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t v\u00e0 h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n t\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu. Khi linh m\u1ee5c chu\u0301ng ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean bi\u1ebfn ch\u1ea5t trong b\u1ea5t c\u1ea9n, c\u00e1u k\u1ec9nh, h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee5, l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng, khe\u0301p ki\u0301n, kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00ec \u01a1n g\u1ecdi n\u1eefa, l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 l\u00fac ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 v\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u0301c tin! \u0110\u00fang nh\u01b0 \u0110\u1ee9c Cha Fulton Sheen \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i: “Kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u00f4\u0301ng linh m\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn \u01a1n g\u1ecdi m\u00e0 l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9c tin!” Ho\u1eb7c ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9c tin m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd ho\u1eb7c ch\u00fang ta ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec c\u1ea3! Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9c tin, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o c\u00e1c b\u00ed t\u00edch, th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean tr\u1ed1ng r\u00f4\u0303ng v\u00f4 h\u1ed3n. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9c tin, n\u1ebfu ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng tin v\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec1u chu\u0301ng ta n\u00f3i, th\u00ec b\u00e0i gi\u1ea3ng c\u0169ng tr\u01a1\u0309 n\u00ean nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n, bu\u1ed3n t\u1ebb. Sau c\u00f9ng, kh\u00f4ng co\u0301 \u0111\u01b0\u0301c tin, ch\u00fang ta t\u1ef1 \u0111\u01b0a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ebfn sa ng\u00e3. s\u1edbm hay mu\u1ed9n, m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, c\u01a1n kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng s\u1ebd \u0111\u00ea\u0301n.<\/p>\n

V\u1eady ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 gia t\u0103ng v\u00e0 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ee9c tin c\u1ee7a chu\u0301ng ta? C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n:<\/p>\n

1) H\u1ecdc c\u00e1c m\u00f4n th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m t\u0103ng th\u00eam \u0111\u1ee9c tin;<\/p>\n

2) C\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n t\u0103ng th\u00eam \u0111\u1ee9c tin, b\u1edfi v\u00ec, \u0111\u1ee9c tin t\u1ef1 th\u00e2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u1ed3ng \u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ban cho ch\u00fang ta khi ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7u xin;<\/p>\n

3) Th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c xin d\u1ea5u l\u1ea1, v\u00ec \u0111\u1ee9c tin c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u l\u1ea1 (ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n c\u00e1c ph\u00e9p l\u1ea1 hay nh\u01b0\u0303ng cu\u1ed9c hi\u1ec7n ra);<\/p>\n

4) Kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng, \u0111au kh\u1ed5 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thanh luy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 t\u0103ng s\u01b0\u0301c cho \u0111\u1ee9c tin ch\u00fang ta. Ng\u00e0y m\u1edbi ch\u1ecbu ch\u1ee9c ch\u00fang ta tin c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng, nh\u01b0ng sau \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 tin khi l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean cha s\u1edf tr\u00fat c\u01a1n b\u00e3o t\u1ed1 tr\u00ean ch\u00fang ta. \u0110\u1ee9c tin th\u00e2\u0323t su\u00f4n s\u1ebb khi chu\u0301ng ta kho\u1ebb m\u1ea1nh, nh\u01b0ng th\u1eadt gai g\u00f3c khi ch\u00fang ta \u1ed1m \u0111au; Ti\u1ec7n nghi v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 an ph\u1eadn th\u1ee7 th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u0169ng d\u1ec5 b\u00f3p ngh\u1eb9t \u0111\u1ee9c tin;<\/p>\n

5) Chu\u0301ng ta c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng ha\u0300nh, tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap v\u00e0 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 ch\u00fang ta trong \u0111\u1ee9c tin. M\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u00e3 r\u1eddi xa m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ee7ng vi\u1ec7n, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u01b0\u0303ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 anh em linh m\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ee1 n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee9c tin c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n

2. Linh m\u1ee5c – Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a hy v\u1ecdng (\u0111\u1ee9c c\u1eady)<\/em><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t ph\u00f3 t\u1ebf \u0111ang trong gi\u1edd h\u1ea5p h\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i: “\u0110\u1ee9c c\u1eady l\u00e0 h\u1ed3ng \u00e2n gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta ti\u1ebfn b\u01b0\u1edbc khi ch\u00fang ta t\u01b0\u1edfng Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu \u0111ang ng\u1ee7 m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng ch\u0103m s\u00f3c g\u00ec cho ch\u00fang ta, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y t\u1ea1 \u01a1n Ch\u00faa v\u1ec1 h\u1ed3ng \u00e2n cao tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9c tr\u00f4ng c\u1eady”. \u0110\u1ee9c c\u1eady l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta ti\u1ebfn b\u01b0\u1edbc khi ch\u00fang ta r\u01a1i v\u00e0o c\u01a1n c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 cho r\u1eb1ng \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu \u0111ang ng\u1ee7. “Ch\u1ec9 n\u01a1i Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa m\u00e0 th\u00f4i, h\u1ed3n t\u00f4i m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i an to\u00e0n, \u01a1n c\u1ee9u \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i b\u1edfi Ng\u00e0i m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn. Duy Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 n\u00fai \u0111\u00e1, l\u00e0 la\u0300 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh, l\u00e0 th\u00e0nh lu\u1ef9 ch\u1edf che, t\u00f4i ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ec1 nao n\u00fang” (Tv 62).<\/p>\n

D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u1ee9c tin l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c gi\u00fap ta tin c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa; \u0111\u1ee9c c\u1eady l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u0301c gi\u00fap ta x\u00e1c t\u00edn r\u1eb1ng Ch\u00faa lu\u00f4n gi\u1eef l\u1eddi Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ee9a! H\u1ed3ng y Suenens vi\u1ebft: “T\u00f4i l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a hy v\u1ecdng, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec nh\u1eefng l\u00fd l\u1ebd c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec ch\u1ee7 ngh\u0129a l\u1ea1c quan t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, nh\u01b0ng b\u1edfi v\u00ec t\u00f4i tin r\u1eb1ng Ch\u00faa lu\u00f4n ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi t\u00f4i, trong Gia\u0301o h\u1ed9i, trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, ngay c\u1ea3 khi danh Nga\u0300i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c nghe bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn”. \u0110\u1ee9c c\u1eady nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m hy v\u1ecdng s\u00e2u xa, v\u1eefng b\u00ea\u0300n, kh\u00f4ng nao n\u00fang, bi\u0300nh t\u00e2m m\u00e0 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn, qu\u1ea3 th\u1ef1c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u00e2\u0301t quan tr\u1ecdng va\u0300 thi\u1ebft y\u1ebfu cho \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng linh m\u1ee5c! D\u00e2n ch\u00faa mu\u1ed1n ch\u00fang ta trao t\u1eb7ng cho h\u1ecd ni\u1ec1m hy v\u1ecdng, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 cho \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng co\u0301 (Nemo dat quad non habat). Ch\u00ednh ch\u1ee9c v\u1ee5 linh m\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f3 l\u00f2ng m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u1eefng va\u0300 t\u0103ng ti\u1ebfn, tri\u1ec3n n\u1edf, n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m hy v\u1ecdng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf.<\/p>\n

V\u1eady gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ebf m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c s\u1ed1ng ni\u1ec1m hy v\u1ecdng trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi linh m\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c ng\u00e0i.<\/p>\n

A.<\/strong> Hy vo\u0323ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tranh \u0111\u1ea5u cam go cho c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c b\u1edfi vi\u0300 ch\u00fang ta i\u0301t khi nhi\u0300n th\u00e2\u0301y nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 x\u00e1c th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 t\u1ee9c th\u1eddi n\u01a1i nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1eebng c\u00f3 ng\u00e2y th\u01a1 cho r\u0103\u0300ng s\u01b0\u0301 v\u1ee5 linh m\u1ee5c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u00f4\u0323c s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd mang l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng, ni\u1ec1m vui va\u0300 s\u1ef1 tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n l\u1edbn lao. Nh\u01b0ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fac ch\u00fang ta c\u00e2\u0300n ph\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec1n ng\u1eabm cho ky\u0303 r\u1eb1ng: n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 b\u00e2\u0301t c\u01b0\u0301 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m m\u00e0 mang l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3, hay l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec t\u1ed1t, th\u00ec c\u0169ng l\u00e0 b\u1edfi v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang c\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng cu\u0309a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng \u00e2m th\u1ea7m c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh, nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, ti\u1ec7m ti\u1ebfn v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t hi\u1ebfm khi l\u00e0m na\u0309y sinh ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c nh\u1eefng ng\u1ecdn hoa \u0111\u0103ng hay l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 phi th\u01b0\u1eddng. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u00fd do cho th\u1ea5y t\u1ea1i sao ni\u1ec1m hy v\u1ecdng la\u0323i quan tro\u0323ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng linh m\u1ee5c, b\u1edfi v\u00ec ch\u00ednh hy v\u1ecdng cho ta th\u00e2\u0301y r\u1eb1ng Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa hoa\u0323t \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t n\u01a1i chu\u0301ng ta, qua ch\u00fang ta va\u0300 thay cho ch\u00fang ta, ngay c\u1ea3 khi chu\u0301ng ta kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn ra k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3.<\/p>\n

B.<\/strong> M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft s\u00e2u s\u1eafc nh\u00e2\u0301t v\u1ec1 ch\u1ee9c v\u1ee5 linh m\u1ee5c \u1edf nh\u1eefng n\u0103m g\u00e2\u0300n \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn. C\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn t\u1eeb c\u00e1c anh em linh m\u1ee5c, c\u00e1c gi\u00e1m m\u1ee5c, m\u1ee5c t\u1eed, d\u00e2n Ch\u00faa, gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n h\u1eefu. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00ea\u0301u ch\u00fang ta c\u1ee9 l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn, l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng d\u00e2n ch\u00fang, c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi tung h\u00f4 v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta t\u1ef1 chu\u1ed1c l\u1ea5y th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng!<\/p>\n

C.<\/strong> Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecb c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 \u0111\u1eb7t hy v\u1ecdng v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u1edbn lao, nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u01a1\u0300ng nu\u1ed1t ch\u01b0\u0303ng ch\u00fang ta. Nh\u01b0\u0303ng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh \u0111\u00f3 la\u0300: ch\u00fang ta tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, v\u00e0o c\u00e1c gi\u00e1m m\u1ee5c, v\u00e0o To\u0300a Th\u00e1nh, v\u00e0o ti\u1ebfng t\u0103m cu\u0309a m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng sau khi ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh t\u1ed1t m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u00ea\u0323c. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00e0y m\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 ch\u00ednh \u0111a\u0301ng \u0111o\u0301, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh \u0111\u00e1ng tin \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd h\u1ea1 ch\u00fang ta xu\u1ed1ng; N\u00ean n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang t\u1ea1 c\u01b0\u0301 \u0111\u1eb7t t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ni\u00ea\u0300m tin v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng se\u0303 t\u01b0\u0323 chu\u1ed1c l\u1ea5y th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

D.<\/strong> Nh\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u0301c chu\u0309 \u0111a\u0323o \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ee9c c\u1eady l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec b\u1ec1n \u0111\u00f4\u0303. C\u00f3 l\u1ea7n \u0110\u1ee9c Th\u00e1nh Cha Phao-l\u00f4 VI \u0111\u00e3 no\u0301i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c ch\u1ee7ng sinh Roma r\u0103\u0300ng: \u201cKhi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea5t ti\u00ea\u0301ng th\u01b0a v\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e3nh ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ti\u1ebfng th\u01b0a v\u00e2ng mu\u00f4n \u0111\u1eddi! \u0110\u1ec3 gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u01a1\u0300i h\u1ee9a \u1ea5y, \u0111\u1ebf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c cu\u1ed9c chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5u ngoan c\u01b0\u1eddng, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 trung th\u00e0nh, va\u0300 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec ngay c\u1ea3 gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng nghi nan, x\u00e1o tr\u1ed9n, \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m hy vo\u0323ng\u201d.<\/p>\n

E.<\/strong> \u0110\u1ee9c c\u1eady \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1eddi c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n. Th\u1ea7y Ch\u00ed Th\u00e1nh \u0111\u00e3 c\u0103n d\u1eb7n ch\u00fang ta: ki\u00ean tr\u00ec, b\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ed7, trung th\u00e0nh c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i ke\u0300m v\u1edbi \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u00e2\u0300u nguy\u1ec7n li\u00ean li\u0309, v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n m\u1ea1ch c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c hy v\u1ecdng. L\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t ma\u0300 chu\u0301ng ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u1ea1m ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 khi g\u1eb7p kho\u0301 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n th\u00ec bo\u0309 c\u00e2\u0300u nguy\u00ea\u0323n ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t hy v\u1ecdng. \u0110\u1ee9c c\u1eady gi\u00fap chu\u0301ng ta chi\u00ea\u0301n \u0111\u1ea5u ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i t\u1ed9i l\u00f4\u0303i, ch\u00f4\u0301ng l\u1ea1i t\u1eadt thi\u1ebfu ki\u00ean tr\u00ec, ng\u1ed3i l\u00ea \u0111\u00f4i ma\u0301ch, l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng, ta\u0300 d\u00e2m, n\u00f3ng n\u1ea3y, l\u01a1\u0300i no\u0301i cay \u0111\u1ed9c, x\u00e9t \u0111o\u00e1n. Gi\u00e1m m\u1ee5c Fulton Sheen nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf ch\u00fang ta r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1eddi s\u00f4\u0301ng thi\u00eang li\u00eang c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng ph\u1eb3ng h\u00ea\u0301t \u0111\u00e2u, m\u00e0 cu\u0303ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed3i n\u00fai va thung l\u0169ng, n\u00ean b\u00ed quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00ean th\u00e1nh l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t l\u00f2ng c\u1eady tr\u00f4ng khi b\u01b0\u01a1\u0301c qua l\u0169ng s\u00e2u.<\/p>\n

F.<\/strong> Trong th\u01b0 th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a th\u00e1nh Ph\u00ea-r\u00f4 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ecdc th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng: “H\u00e3y lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi cho b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai ch\u1ea5t v\u1ea5n v\u1ec1 ni\u1ec1m hy v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a anh em” (1Pr 3,5). Tr\u00ean tr\u1eddi l\u00e0 n\u01a1i ni\u1ec1m hy v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u0300ng bao gi\u1edd ph\u1ea3i s\u1ee3 khi n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 tr\u00ean tr\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

3. Linh m\u1ee5c – Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a l\u00f2ng m\u1ebfn (\u0111\u1ee9c \u00e1i)<\/em><\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y cu\u1ed1i \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a th\u00e1nh Gioan, T\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a \u0110\u01b0\u0301c Gi\u00easu, l\u00e0 ng\u00e0i c\u1ee9 l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i b\u00e0i gi\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a ng\u00e0i h\u1ebft Chu\u0301a Nh\u1eadt n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ebfn Chu\u0301a Nh\u1eadt kh\u00e1c: “C\u00e1c con th\u00e2n m\u1ebfn, c\u00e1c con h\u00e3y y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau! C\u00e1c con h\u00e3y y\u00eau ph\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau!”. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta h\u1ecfi ng\u00e0i sao c\u1ee9 l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i hoa\u0300i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, ng\u00e0i tr\u1ea3 l\u01a1\u0300i r\u1eb1ng: “V\u00ec Th\u1ea7y Ch\u00ed Th\u00e1nh c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 lu\u00f4n l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u1ea5y nh\u01b0 v\u1eady”.<\/p>\n

Nga\u0300y nay, \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng linh m\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ea7y \u1eafp nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u v\u00e0 mong \u0111\u01a1\u0323i; n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh, chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho ph\u1ee5ng v\u1ee5, cho s\u01b0\u0301 vu\u0323, cho c\u00e1c cu\u00f4\u0323c g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 li\u00ean mi\u00ean ph\u1ea3i tham d\u1ef1, v\u00e0 c\u1ee9 th\u1ebf…c\u1ee9 th\u1ebf. Nguy c\u01a1 \u1edf <\/strong>ch\u00f4\u0303 <\/strong>l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 vi\u0300 \u0111o\u0301 m\u00e0 tr\u1edf n\u00ean r\u1eddi r\u1ea1c, ph\u00e2n t\u00e1n, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed b\u1ecb tr\u00e2\u0323t kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ea7y. Vi\u0300 v\u1eady, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n t\u00ecm ra m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang la\u0323i s\u01b0\u0323 ha\u0300i ho\u0300a, nguy\u00ean l\u00fd \u0111em l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t, ngu\u1ed3n s\u01b0\u0301c m\u1ea1nh mang l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 g\u1eafn k\u00ea\u0301t li\u00ean t\u1ee5c, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f4\u0323ng c\u01a1 \u0111\u00ea\u0309 \u0111i\u0323nh h\u01b0\u1edbng cho ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef va\u0300 ha\u0300nh \u0111\u1ed9ng cu\u0309a chu\u0301ng ta, \u0111\u00f3 chi\u0301nh l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau.<\/p>\n

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C\u0169ng th\u1ebf, \u0110\u1ee9c th\u00e1nh cha Gioan Phao-l\u00f4 II trong t\u00f4ng hu\u00e2\u0301n Pa<\/em>stores <\/em>Da bo Vobis<\/em> (1992) \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft: “Ch\u00faa Ki-t\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 trao ban ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh cho Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i. \u0110\u00e2y la\u0300 hoa tr\u00e1i c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 b\u1eb1ng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7p nh\u00e2\u0301t gi\u1eefa C\u00f4 d\u00e2u v\u00e0 Cha\u0300ng r\u00ea\u0309… Linh m\u1ee5c c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00eau g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh s\u00f4\u0301ng \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu Ki-t\u00f4, Phu qu\u00e2n cu\u0309a Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i (PDV 22). V\u00ec v\u1eady, linh m\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi s\u00f4\u0301ng \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng thi\u00eang li\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh la\u0300m sao \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh phu qu\u00e2n c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Ki-t\u00f4 d\u00e0nh cho Gia\u0301o h\u1ed9i, Hi\u00ea\u0300n Th\u00ea c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i. \u0110\u1ec3 l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa Ki-t\u00f4 v\u00e0 Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 vi\u00ea\u0323c na\u0300o \u0111\u00f3. Gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 l\u01a1\u0301n l\u00ean trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau?<\/p>\n

A.<\/strong> \u0110\u1ec3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3 t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n co\u0301 th\u01a1\u0300i gian \u1edf b\u1ebfn h\u1ecd, trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00e0 l\u0103\u0301ng nghe, chia vui s\u1ebb bu\u1ed3n v\u1edbi ho\u0323, v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng pha\u0309i la\u0300m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa Gi\u00ea-su.<\/p>\n

B.<\/strong> M\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00e2ng cao t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n hay m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 chia se\u0309 b\u1eefa \u0103n v\u01a1\u0301i nhau. Cu\u0303ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho Ch\u00faa Ki-t\u00f4 \u0111ang th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 hi\u00ea\u0323n di\u00ea\u0323n trong B\u00e1nh H\u1eb1ng S\u1ed1ng, trong Bi\u0301 T\u00edch Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng? “Ai \u0103n th\u1ecbt t\u00f4i v\u00e0 u\u1ed1ng m\u00e1u t\u00f4i th\u00ec \u01a1\u0309 trong t\u00f4i v\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u1edf trong ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y” (Ga 6,56).<\/p>\n

C.<\/strong> Khi ch\u00fang ta \u0111em l\u00f2ng y\u00eau ai, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 cu\u0309a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng? V\u00e2\u0323y la\u0300 ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n Ch\u00faa Ki-t\u00f4 v\u00e0 Gi\u00e1o h\u00f4\u0323i c\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u00ecnh y\u00eaucho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. V\u1eady la\u0300 co\u0301 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00e0 M\u1eb9 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eefa! Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa c\u00e1ch m\u1eadt thi\u1ebft t\u1edbi m\u01b0\u0301c Me\u0323 Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1edf tha\u0300nh Me\u0323 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. L\u00e0 nh\u1eefng linh m\u1ee5c, ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n c\u1ea7u kh\u00e2\u0309n M\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb ghen gh\u00e9t, c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, b\u1ecb ch\u1ed1i t\u1eeb, c\u1ea3m nghe m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t ho\u1eb7c kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 s\u1ee9 v\u1ee5 linh m\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n

D.<\/strong> Khi ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n th\u00e2n m\u1eadt v\u1edbi ai nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta. c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng \u0111\u00fang trong m\u00f4\u0301i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan v\u1edbi Chu\u0301a. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao c\u00e1c m\u00f4n th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc c\u00f3 tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 v\u00e0 h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i \u1ee7y th\u00e1c cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh v\u00ec ni\u00ea\u0300m y\u00eau m\u1ebfn say m\u00ea Ch\u00faa Ki-t\u00f4 v\u00e0 Hi\u1ec1n Th\u00ea c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i l\u00e0 Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i.<\/p>\n

E.<\/strong> Khi ch\u00fang ta y\u00eau m\u1ebfn ai, ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n thanh luy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1eddi s\u00f4\u0301ng ch\u00fang ta kh\u1ecfi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta y\u00eau m\u1ebfn. V\u00ec v\u00e2\u0323y, \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa ch\u00fang ta v\u01a1\u0301i Ch\u00faa l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00e2\u0300n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ebft \u0111i h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y v\u1edbi t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i trong \u00e2n ngh\u0129a.<\/p>\n

F.<\/strong> Khi ch\u00fang ta y\u00eau m\u1ebfn ai, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd hy sinh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang ta: “N\u1ebfu anh mu\u1ed1n theo t\u00f4i, anh ph\u00e1i t\u1eeb b\u1ecf ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh; v\u00e0 v\u00e1c th\u1eadp gi\u00e1 m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 theo”. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau d\u00e0nh cho Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu v\u00e0 Hi\u1ec1n th\u00ea cu\u0309a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9ng minh r\u00f5 nh\u1ea5t trong th\u01a1\u0300i gian th\u1eed th\u00e1ch, c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, b\u1ecb lo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb, \u0111au kh\u1ed5, b\u1ecb c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng – \u0111o\u0301 l\u00e0 l\u00fac t\u00ecnh y\u00eau trong s\u00e1ng nh\u1ea5t. Ti\u0300nh y\u00eau m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta d\u00e0nh cho Chu\u0301a Gi\u00easu v\u00e0 Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i kh\u00f4ng lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i, d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu v\u00e0 kh\u1eafng kh\u00edt tr\u00e0n tr\u1ec1. Kh\u00f4ng, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 hy sinh v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3, m\u1ed3 h\u00f4i n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 m\u00e1u \u0111\u00e0o n\u1eefa. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00f3 lu\u00f4n bao ha\u0300m th\u1eadp gi\u00e1.<\/p>\n

\u00a04. Linh m\u1ee5c – Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u1eddng<\/em><\/p>\n

Khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c m\u00e0 Ch\u00faa \u01b0a th\u00edch, l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c tr\u1ecdng y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a \u0111\u01a1\u0300i s\u00f4\u0301ng n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m, l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu, l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea5t ca\u0309 ca\u0301c v\u1ecb th\u00e1nh tu\u00e2n gi\u1eef v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 “y\u1ebfu t\u00f4\u0301 ti\u00ean quy\u1ebft \u0111\u00ea\u0309 ti\u1ebfn tri\u1ec3n tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1ecdn l\u00e0nh”. Th\u00e1nh T\u00ea-r\u00ea-sa, B\u00f4ng Hoa Nh\u1ecf \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i: “Kh\u01a1\u0309i \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n l\u00e0 khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u00f2ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 Ch\u00faa ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, nh\u01b0ng trong Ng\u00e0i v\u00e0 nh\u1edd Ng\u00e0i, m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ec1u co\u0301 th\u00ea\u0309 \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c!\u201d<\/p>\n

\u00a0Ta\u0323i sao s\u01b0\u0323 khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u01a1\u0300ng la\u0323i \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c Chu\u0301a Gi\u00easu \u0111a\u0301nh gia\u0301 cao nh\u01b0 v\u00e2\u0323y? Co\u0301 le\u0303 b\u01a1\u0309i vi\u0300 trong t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 \u0110\u1ea5ng c\u1ee9u chu\u1ed9c, s\u1ee9 m\u1ea1ng ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 c\u1ee9u chu\u0301ng ta kh\u1ecfi t\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ed1i ngh\u1ecbch v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9c khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 ki\u00eau ng\u1ea1o – gi\u1ed1ng t\u1ed9i m\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh nguy\u00ean t\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 sa ng\u00e3, b\u1edfi h\u1ecd ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi \u0111\u00edch \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. Th\u00e1nh Augustin\u00f4 nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t r\u1eb1ng: “Ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 ki\u00eau ng\u1ea1o \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e2y ra s\u1ef1 sa ng\u00e3… n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00e2\u0303n t\u1edbi Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ngay r\u1eb1ng con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u1eddng, con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u1eddng, con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ee9 ba l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u1eddng…”. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd v\u00ec v\u1eady m\u00e0 s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadp th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ec9nh nh\u00e2\u0301t cu\u0309a s\u1ef1 khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u1eddng. Th\u00e1nh Berna\u0111\u00f4 t\u1eebng vi\u00ea\u0301t: “\u0110\u1ee9c khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a \u01a1n c\u1ee9u r\u1ed7i”.<\/p>\n

M\u1eb9 T\u00ea-r\u00ea-sa, v\u01a1\u0301i t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n \u0111\u01a1n s\u01a1 r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eb7c tr\u01b0ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 th\u1ee9 t\u1ef1 \u01b0u ti\u00ean trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 J-0-Y (ni\u1ec1m vui): J: Jesus (Gi\u00ea su); O-Others (tha nh\u00e2n), Y- you ( Y- ch\u00ednh mi\u0300nh). N\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u1ee9c khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u1eddng da\u0323y ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1eb7t m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 trong m\u1ed9t t\u1ea7m nh\u00ecn xa, v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ch\u1eb3ng \u0111\u00e1ng c\u00f4ng chi v\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng, trong cu\u1ed9c ch\u1ea1y \u0111ua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00e0i, ni\u1ec1m h\u00e3nh di\u1ec7n, vi\u1ec7c g\u00e2y chu\u0301 \u00fd, <\/strong>uy danh th\u1ebf l\u1ef1c th\u1eadt l\u00e0 nguy hi\u1ec3m v\u00e0 n\u00ean xa tr\u00e1nh l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. N\u00f3i theo th\u00e1nh Phaol\u00f4: “N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i c\u00f3 t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o, th\u00ec t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1ec1 th\u1eadp gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu Ki-t\u00f4, Ch\u00faa chu\u0301ng ta”.<\/p>\n

5. Linh m\u1ee5c – Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi trung t\u00edn<\/em><\/p>\n

S\u1eafc l\u1ec7nh C\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng Vaticano II v\u1ec1 ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00e3 di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p tuy\u1ec7t v\u01a1\u0300i cu\u0309a trung t\u00edn nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c th\u00edch h\u1ee3p nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi linh m\u1ee5c, v\u00ec trong s\u01b0\u0301 vu\u0323 m\u1ee5c t\u1eed c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, linh m\u1ee5c ph\u1ea3n chi\u1ebfu cho c\u00e1c t\u00edn h\u1eefu th\u1ea5y t\u00ecnh y\u00eau d\u1ea1t da\u0300o ma\u0300 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa d\u00e0nh cho d\u00e2n Ng\u00e0i v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e0 Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu \u0111\u00e3 d\u00e0nh cho Gia\u0301o h\u1ed9i. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, trung t\u00edn c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb \u01a1n g\u1ecdi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u00f4\u0323c s\u1ed1ng ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c to\u00e0n v\u1eb9n, kh\u01a1i ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb ni\u1ec1m x\u00e1c t\u00edn th\u00e2m s\u00e2u r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta s\u1ed1ng d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa, r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta trung t\u00edn ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn \u01a1n g\u1ecdi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ecdng l\u01a1\u0300i h\u1ee9a, l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1ng tin c\u1eady v\u00ec \u0111a\u0303 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta n\u00f3i v\u00e0 \u0111em ra s\u00f4\u0301ng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta tuy\u00ean x\u01b0ng.<\/p>\n

Ngu\u1ed3n tr\u01a1\u0323 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean cho s\u1ef1 trung t\u00edn c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi linh m\u1ee5c ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 Th\u00e1nh l\u1ec5 \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0h\u0103\u0300ng ng\u00e0y. Nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ecdc gi\u1ea3 tu \u0111\u1ee9c hay c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n nh\u1eafn nh\u1ee7 ch\u00fang ta r\u1eb1ng: n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u00f4\u0301n trung th\u00e0nh v\u1edbi \u01a1n g\u1ecdi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, h\u00e3y trung th\u00e0nh v\u01a1\u0301i Th\u00e1nh l\u1ec5 h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y”.<\/p>\n

Ngu\u1ed3n tr\u01a1\u0323 l\u1ef1c th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 trung th\u00e0nh v\u1edbi kinh nguy\u1ec7n ph\u1ee5ng v\u1ee5 ha\u0300ng ng\u00e0y; T\u00f4\u0309ng gi\u00e1m m\u1ee5c Timothy Dolan \u0111\u00e3 chia se\u0309 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m cu\u0309a nga\u0300i cho m\u1ed9t linh m\u1ee5c: H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c b\u1ecf ch\u1ee9c v\u1ee5 linh m\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec1u la\u0300 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf Kinh nguy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i.<\/p>\n

Ngu\u1ed3n ti\u1ebfp s\u1ee9c th\u1ee9 ba cho s\u1ef1 trung t\u00edn c\u1ee7a linh m\u1ee5c l\u00e0 k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u00f4\u0301i s\u00f4\u0301ng nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 nghe nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ecb linh h\u01b0\u1edbng, nhi\u1ec1u nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u va\u0300 c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia cho bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y m\u00e0 co\u0301 m\u1ed9t khung \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e0ng ho\u00e0ng, c\u00f3 k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch, co\u0301 k\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt, c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng trong c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n, trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, lao t\u00e1c, gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed, th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c, th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0nh cho b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, cho \u0103n u\u00f4\u0301ng, ng\u1ee7 ngh\u1ec9… th\u00ec \u0111o\u0301 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m t\u1ed1t cho m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng vui kho\u1ebb v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n

6. Linh m\u1ee5c – Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e2ng ph\u1ee5c\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

\u201cN\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 h\u00f4m nay c\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u01a1i nghe ti\u1ebfng Ch\u00faa, th\u00ec \u0111\u1eebng c\u1ee9ng l\u00f2ng”, c\u00e2u Th\u00e1nh V\u1ecbnh n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 quen thu\u1ed9c nh\u1ea5t trong kinh th\u1ea7n v\u1ee5. V\u00e2ng phu\u0323c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c d\u1ec5 \u0111\u1ec3 di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 nh\u1ea5t, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c kh\u00f3 th\u1ef1c thi nh\u1ea5t. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9ng nghi\u1ec7m n\u01a1i c\u00e1c T\u1ed5 ph\u1ee5, n\u01a1i \u0110\u1ee9c Trinh N\u1eef, n\u01a1i tha\u0301nh Giu-se, v\u00ec ch\u00ednh n\u01a1i c\u00e1c ng\u00e0i ma\u0300 ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh \u01a1n c\u1ee9u \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u. Ng\u00e0y nay, vi\u1ec7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00ea\u0301n y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 t\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, t\u1ef1 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh ca\u0300ng \u0111\u00e0o s\u00e2u th\u00eam nh\u1eefng nghi v\u1ea5n v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ee9c v\u00e2ng ph\u1ee5c. Th\u1eadt la\u0300 \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn khi v\u00ec \u0111\u1ee9c v\u00e2ng ph\u1ee5c m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta l\u1ed9i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c do\u0300ng \u0111\u1eddi nh\u1ea5t, v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t xa\u0303 h\u1ed9i m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecb th\u00fac b\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 do ch\u1ecdn l\u01b0\u0323a, kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c g\u00ec, lu\u00f4n s\u0103\u0303n sa\u0300ng ch\u1ea1y theo \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n h\u01a1n, b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 l\u1ee3i \u00edch ri\u00eang t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta h\u01a1n b\u1ea5t c\u01b0\u0301 c\u00e1i g\u00ec kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i v\u00e0 ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf.<\/p>\n

Trong ng\u00e0y ch\u1ecbu ch\u1ee9c, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 tuy\u00ean h\u1ee9a ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u00e2ng ph\u1ee5c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi va\u0300 m\u1ed9t khung gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n l\u00e0 v\u01b0\u1eddn nho c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9c v\u00e2ng ph\u1ee5c. \u0110\u00f3 c\u0169ng la\u0300 l\u00f4\u0323i ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c d\u00f2ng \u0111\u1eddi!<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng chi\u0309 v\u00e2ng ph\u1ee5c \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00e1m M\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i v\u00e2ng ph\u1ee5c thi\u00ean ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c cu\u0309a ch\u00fang ta n\u1eefa. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta trung th\u00e0nh v\u1edbi \u01a1n g\u1ecdi l\u00e0m linh m\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00fang ta qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i v\u00e2ng theo nh\u1eefng mong \u01b0\u1edbc Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i \u0111\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ec3 n\u01a1i ch\u00fang ta, ng\u00e0y ng\u00e0y ch\u00fang ta nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng va\u0300 l\u00e0m tri\u1ec3n n\u1edf c\u0103n t\u00ednh linh m\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, v\u00e0 xa tr\u00e1nh t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ai hay nh\u01b0\u0303ng g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u00ea\u0309 \u0111e d\u1ecda thi\u00ean ch\u1ee9c \u1ea5y. Th\u1eadt l\u1ea1 l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecb c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 kh\u00f4ng v\u00e2ng ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u01a1\u0301i ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 khi b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n, nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n hay th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i m\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 l\u00fac ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau m\u1ebfn, ca t\u1ee5ng v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

V\u00e2ng ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c c\u00f2n c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ch\u00fa t\u00e2m chu to\u00e0n nh\u1eefng b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn c\u1ee7a \u01a1n g\u1ecdi m\u00ecnh: d\u00e2ng l\u1ec5 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecdc kinh th\u1ea7n t\u1ee5ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, nguy\u1ec7n ng\u1eafm, l\u00e0m cho c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c trong s\u1ea1ch, khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng, s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n trong s\u00e1ng v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c anh em linh m\u1ee5c, ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 \u0103n u\u1ed1ng th\u00edch h\u1ee3p, tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o b\u00ed t\u00edch h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i, duy tr\u00ec vi\u1ec7c t\u0129nh t\u00e2m h\u1eb1ng n\u0103m v\u00e0 linh h\u01b0\u1edbng – T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y g\u00ecn gi\u1eef l\u00f2ng trung th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u1edbi thi\u00ean ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n

\u00a0Ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ebfn, ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i v\u00e2ng ph\u1ee5c gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, v\u00e2ng, h\u1ecd ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee7 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 h\u1ecd. Lo ph\u1ea7n r\u1ed7i linh h\u1ed3n h\u1ecd l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. M\u1ed9t \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn: v\u00e2ng ph\u1ee5c gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. T\u00f4i n\u1ee3 b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn v\u00e2ng ph\u1ee5c \u1ea5y v\u1edbi gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i khi t\u00f4i l\u00e0 linh m\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Thi\u00ean Ch\u00fa\u1ea1 kh\u00f4ng trao thi\u00ean ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb \u0111\u1ec3 h\u01b0\u1edfng s\u1ef1 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 d\u00e2n Ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

Sau c\u00f9ng, ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i v\u00e2ng ph\u1ee5c c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111au kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0 l\u1eddi th\u00e1nh T\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3 trong th\u01b0 g\u1eedi cho gi\u00e1o \u0111o\u00e0n Do Th\u00e1i nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf ch\u00fang ta “d\u1eabu l\u00e0 Con, Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 v\u00e2ng ph\u1ee5c nh\u1edd \u0111au kh\u1ed5”. Ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. \u0110au kh\u1ed5 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c giao cho m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 mong mu\u1ed1n, nh\u01b0ng bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i lao m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o; \u0111au kh\u1ed5 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng “\u0111\u1ed3ng b\u00e0n” v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta. \u0110au kh\u1ed5 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea7y kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 xem nh\u01b0 b\u1ebf t\u1eafc. Trong m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta v\u00e2ng ph\u1ee5c ch\u00fang v\u1edbi \u00fd th\u1ee9c ch\u00ednh Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 th\u01b0a “xin Cha h\u00e3y c\u1ea5t ch\u00e9n n\u00e0y xa Con; nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng theo \u00fd Con, m\u00e0 theo \u00fd Cha”.<\/p>\n

7. Linh m\u1ee5c – Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1<\/em><\/p>\n

Ng\u00e0y nay, l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a. Ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft n\u00f3 khi ch\u00fang ta nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y n\u00f3; v\u00e0 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft n\u00f3 ngay c\u1ea3 khi ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y n\u00f3. L\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 c\u00e1ch t\u1eed t\u1ebf, c\u00f3 c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc, c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c, \u0111\u00fang m\u1ef1c v\u00e0 \u0111oan trang. L\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem \u0111\u1ee9ng th\u1ee9 hai sau \u0111\u1ee9c b\u00e1c \u00e1i, nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o. Th\u00e1nh Phanxic\u00f4 n\u00f3i: “Th\u01b0a anh em, anh em ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 qu\u1ea3 th\u1ef1c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong c\u00e1c thu\u1ed9c t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Chu\u0301a, Ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi m\u1ecdc l\u00ean v\u00e0 m\u01b0a r\u01a1i xu\u1ed1ng tr\u00ean c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f4ng ch\u00ednh c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 k\u1ebb b\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh c\u0169ng v\u00ec l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1; l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 ch\u1ecb em c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9c \u00e1i, nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 h\u1eadn th\u00f9 b\u1ecb tan bi\u1ebfn, t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1ea5p \u1ee7”.<\/p>\n

L\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean ba nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc: Nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng – Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3nh di\u1ec7n t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta v\u1edbi t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi con c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng gi\u1ed1ng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ee9u \u0111\u1ed9 b\u1eb3ng gi\u00e1 m\u00e1u ch\u00e2u b\u00e1u c\u1ee7a Con c\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u0129nh c\u1eedu. Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf mang l\u1ea1i cho ch\u00fang ta m\u1ed9t l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i c\u01b0 x\u1eed v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch.<\/p>\n

Nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c- T\u00f4i tin m\u00ecnh th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn t\u00f4i c\u0169ng tin ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, v\u00e0 v\u00ec th\u1ebf t\u00f4i s\u1ebd c\u01b0 x\u1eed v\u1edbi h\u1ecd nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa – ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 c\u01b0 x\u1eed h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1.<\/p>\n

Nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc th\u1ee9 ba, l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 theo quan ni\u1ec7m th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng cho r\u1eb1ng d\u00f9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e0nh x\u1eed trong b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i l\u1edbn hay nh\u1ecf n\u00e0o th\u00ec n\u00f3 c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i, ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 \u0111em l\u1ea1i th\u00e0nh qu\u1ea3 khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n theo m\u1ed9t quy t\u1eafc r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng c\u1ee7a ph\u00e9p l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1, c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m ch\u0103m s\u00f3c .<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t linh m\u1ee5c, l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00f2i ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1, hi\u1ebfu kh\u00e1ch v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi xa l\u1ea1 v\u1eeba m\u1edbi t\u1edbi, tin t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sai \u0111\u1ebfn, \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi m\u1eddi, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng mong \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t (ki\u1ec3u giao s\u0129 tr\u1ecb), th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o khi m\u00ecnh \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u ra kh\u1ecfi nhi\u1ec7m s\u1edf, tr\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng l\u00e1 th\u01b0 \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac.<\/p>\n

Ph\u00e9p l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec1 cao danh t\u00ednh, kh\u00f4ng b\u00f9ng l\u00ean nh\u1eefng c\u01a1n t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi c\u00e1o bu\u1ed9c. Ch\u00fang ta b\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh, b\u00e1c \u00e1i v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 th\u00ec cao th\u01b0\u1ee3ng, s\u1ef1 cao th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n khi ai \u0111\u00f3 lu\u00f4n c\u01b0 x\u1eed th\u00f4 l\u1ed7 v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 v\u1edbi h\u1ecd. C\u01b0 x\u1eed\u00a0 l\u1ecbch thi\u1ec7p bao g\u1ed3m cung c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed, s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u00f3i quen c\u1ea3m \u01a1n khi nh\u1eadn \u01a1n.<\/p>\n

8. Linh m\u1ee5c – Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c<\/em><\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecfi Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i mong \u0111\u1ee3i g\u00ec n\u01a1i c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c, c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u01a1\u0300i quen thu\u1ed9c nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 “th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n”. \u0110\u00fang v\u1eady! Nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan r\u1ea5t g\u1ea7n g\u0169i \u0111i theo s\u1ef1 th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9c ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c, v\u00e2ng, Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i, gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u mong c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c. Ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 nh\u1eadn ra.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt, kh\u00f4ng l\u1eeba \u0111\u1ea3o; m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1ng tin th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng tin \u1edf b\u00ean trong \u0111u\u1ee3c t\u1ecf l\u1ed9 ra b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, Coi tr\u1ecdng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i l\u1eabn vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec1u ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf anh ta lu\u00f4n trung th\u1ef1c v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u anh ta n\u00f3i \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh, trung th\u1ef1c, m\u1ef1c th\u01b0\u1edbc, c\u00f3 nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng tin c\u1eady. L\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a anh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u1ea3i k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta x\u01b0ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m tin, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, s\u1ed1ng gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb, trong s\u1ea1ch, trung th\u00e0nh, danh d\u1ef1 v\u00e0 qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i – nh\u01b0ng th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1eady. Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta h\u1ee9a, nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i gi\u1ea3ng v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ee5ng th\u1edd Ch\u00faa c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed3i ch\u00f3t l\u01b0\u1ee1i v\u00f4 \u00edch n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ee9c khi\u1ebft t\u1ecbnh (\u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n) l\u00e0 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng li\u00ean quan tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c. Ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c v\u00e0 khi\u1ebft t\u1ecbnh c\u00f3 t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan m\u1eadt thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi nhau. Gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n tin t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u00fang ta khi ch\u00fang ta n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n trong tr\u0103\u0301ng, r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn h\u1ecd b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau trong s\u00e1ng, r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng nh\u1eefng ham mu\u1ed1n ph\u00e1i t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta m\u00e0 b\u1edfi v\u00ec ch\u00ednh nh\u00e2n v\u1ecb c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng linh m\u1ee5c l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, l\u00e0m t\u00f4\u0309n th\u01b0\u01a1ng tha nh\u00e2n, Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i qua vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2m ph\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ee9c ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c trong l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c khi\u1ebft t\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta mong \u0111\u1ee3i n\u01a1i c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ee9c ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1c ng\u00e0i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1ng tin c\u1eady. H\u1ecd tr\u00f4ng ch\u1edd ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi y nh\u01b0 l\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta rao gi\u1ea3ng, nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi mang theo nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi h\u1ee9a \u0111\u00e1ng tin c\u1eady (1 Cr 4, 1-2).<\/p>\n

L\u00e3nh v\u1ef1c chuy\u00ean bi\u1ec7t th\u1ee9 ba m\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta mong \u0111\u1ee3i s\u1ef1 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c n\u01a1i c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n n\u00f3i s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt: “m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u con c\u1ea7n n\u00f3i l\u00e0: c\u00f3 thi\u0300 n\u00f3i c\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng, th\u00eam b\u1edbt \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u00e0 do \u00e1c qu\u1ef7”. Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf (Mt 5,37).<\/p>\n

Kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh th\u1ee9 t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm n\u01a1i c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng. H\u1ecd mong m\u1ecfi ch\u00fang ta ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh, r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, v\u00f4 t\u01b0 v\u00e0 s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 thi\u00ean v\u1ecb! Bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u00e3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ea7u c\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn, tr\u1ebb kho\u1ebb, d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ed1n l\u00e0m tho ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y qu\u00e1 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n

V\u00e0 l\u00e3nh v\u1ef1c cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c linh m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9c \u00e1i. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f4ng khai x\u01b0ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau m\u1ebfn \u0110\u1ea5ng l\u00e0 khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi c\u1ee7a l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t, nh\u1eabn n\u1ea1i, hi\u1ec1n l\u00e0nh, qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i v\u00e0 quan t\u00e2m. S\u1ef1 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 x\u01b0ng m\u00ecnh. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng l\u00e3nh v\u1ef1c g\u00e2y nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ea5p ph\u1ea1m nh\u1ea5t trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng linh n\u1ee5c. Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 say s\u01b0a, s\u0103\u0301c d\u1ee5c, n\u00f3i n\u0103ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00f4 \u00fd, l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng, gi\u1ea3ng gi\u1ea3i s\u01a1 s\u00e0i, g\u00e2y nhi\u1ec1u bi k\u1ecbch – m\u00e0 c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta gi\u1ea3ng v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang ta tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1nh l\u00f9ng; v\u00f4 t\u00e2m v\u00e0 v\u00f4 c\u1ea3m!<\/p>\n

L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o b\u00e2y gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ec3 tri\u1ec3n khai \u0111\u1ee9c ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c? R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u g\u1ee3i \u00fd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a ra \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y. Nh\u01b0 th\u00e1nh T\u00ea-r\u00ea-sa Lisieux, ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eeba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c phong l\u00e0m ti\u1ebfn s\u1ef9 H\u1ed9i th\u00e1nh, vi\u1ebft: “Khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n”. Ng\u00e0i c\u00f3 \u00fd n\u00f3i l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn v\u00e0 trung th\u1ef1c v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

Ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u00ea\u0301n, s\u1ef1 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap th\u1ee9 hai \u0111\u1ec3 theo \u0111u\u1ed5i v\u00e0 duy tr\u00ec \u0111\u1ee9c ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng nghe s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00edn m\u01b0\u01a1i ch\u00edn ph\u1ea7n tr\u0103m linh m\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng x\u00e1o tr\u1ed9n trong s\u1ee9 v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd (li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c, c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, thi\u1ebfu trong s\u00e1ng v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 c\u0103n t\u00ednh c\u00f9a m\u00ecnh, say s\u01b0a, ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec kh\u00e1c…), \u0111\u1ec1u th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 t\u1eeb l\u00e2u, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u la\u0300 h\u1ecd ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn hay ph\u1edbt l\u1edd n\u00f3 m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u00edch th\u1ee9 ba \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9c ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c tu d\u01b0\u1ee1ng. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft l\u00e0 g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7n v\u00e0 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u1edbi v\u1ecb linh h\u01b0\u1edbng, sau \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean l\u00e3nh nh\u1eadn b\u00ed t\u00edch ho\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i.<\/p>\n

Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ebf tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap th\u1ee9 t\u01b0 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ee9c ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ea3m \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t, bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng x\u00e1c t\u00edn c\u00faa m\u00ecnh, bi\u1ebft ngh\u0129a v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 thi h\u00e0nh ch\u00fang c\u00e1ch h\u00e3nh di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y, v\u00e0 ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 khi m\u00ecnh thi h\u00e0nh hay kh\u00f4ng thi h\u00e0nh. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 sai d\u00f9 r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu khi \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. \u0110i\u1ec1u cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng m\u00e0 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1i thi\u1ec3u nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta mong nh\u1eefng linh m\u1ee5c ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n

9. Linh m\u1ee5c – Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n ngoan<\/em><\/p>\n

Ng\u00e0y nay ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n nghe n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 \u0110\u1ee9c kh\u00f4n ngoan, n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thay th\u1ebf b\u1eb1ng thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef “l\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng”. Tuy nhi\u00ean, nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u00ea\u0309 ch\u00fang ta th\u1ee7 \u0111\u1eafc h\u1ea7u tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng m\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec7 \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu.<\/p>\n

Nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c n\u00e0y bao g\u1ed3m nh\u1eefng nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c “h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng” nh\u01b0: kh\u00f4n ngoan, t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n, th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u, c\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng, ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n v\u00e0 bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e2n. Gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o h\u00e0ng linh m\u1ee5c ch\u00fang ta nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n ngoan, th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n, c\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng, v\u00ec th\u1ebf, \u0111\u1ee9c c\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng hay kh\u00f4n ngoan ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n cho m\u1ecdi t\u00edn h\u1eefu, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi h\u00e0ng ng\u0169 linh m\u1ee5c th\u00ec r\u1ea5t l\u00e0 quan y\u1ebfu.<\/p>\n

Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng b\u1eadc nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9c kh\u00f4n ngoan \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh trong l\u00fac n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn, \u0111am m\u00ea, trong l\u00fac n\u1ea3n ch\u00ed hay trong khi v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng khi n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn. Nh\u1eefng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n khi ch\u00fang ta b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh th\u01b0 th\u00e1i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb d\u1ee5c v\u1ecdng th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y. Ng\u1ea1n ng\u1eef c\u00f3 c\u00e2u “d\u1ee5c t\u1ed1c b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ea1t”, n\u00ean \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd h\u00e0nh’ \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng, \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u1ea5p t\u1ea5p.<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Tr\u1ee3 l\u1ef1c th\u1ee9 hai c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9c kh\u00f4n ngoan l\u00e0 duy tr\u00ec s\u1ef1 h\u00e0i h\u00f2a trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. \u0110\u01b0\u01a1\u0300ng \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u0103\u0301m r\u1ec5 v\u1eefng v\u00e0ng trong Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa qua c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m x\u00e1c t\u00edn v\u1ec1 c\u0103n t\u00ednh c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ee9 m\u1ea1ng linh m\u1ee5c. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 linh m\u1ee5c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft uy\u1ec3n chuy\u1ec3n, nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ng\u00e0i v\u1eabn c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau. N\u00ean h\u00e0i h\u00f2a trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 c\u1ea7n tr\u00e1nh s\u1ef1 v\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9, l\u00ean k\u00ea\u0301 hoa\u0323ch m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y: ng\u1ee7 ngh\u1ec9, th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111u\u0309, \u0103n u\u1ed1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed9 ch\u1eebng m\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Th\u1ee9 ba, \u0111\u1ee9c kh\u00f4n ngoan gi\u00fap ta gi\u1eef v\u1eefng m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, gi\u1eef v\u1eefng nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb \u01b0u ti\u00ean. Ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng lu\u00f4n r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau trong tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1. Th\u00e1nh Phanxic\u00f4 Sales b\u00e0y t\u1ecf quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ee9c kh\u00f4n ngoan nh\u01b0 sau: “b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y kh\u00f4n ngoan nh\u01b0 con r\u0103\u0301n, khi g\u1eb7p nguy hi\u1ec3m n\u00f3 v\u1ee9t b\u1ecf th\u00e2n x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 che ch\u1edf ca\u0301i \u0111\u1ea7u; t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1, ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i li\u1ec1u l\u0129nh m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 g\u00ecn gi\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa s\u00e2u th\u1eb3m trong lo\u0300ng chu\u0301ng ta, v\u00ec Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 th\u00e2n th\u00ea\u0309.”<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 L\u01a1\u0323i \u00edch th\u1ee9 t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9c kh\u00f4n ngoan \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf trong nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta bo\u0309 l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e0ng sau. Ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n trong t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch linh mu\u0323c. Nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c t\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf l\u01b0\u1edbi thuy\u1ec1n, cha m\u1eb9, v\u01a1\u0323 con, anh em \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i theo ti\u00ea\u0301ng g\u1ecdi, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecf l\u1ea1i ph\u00eda sau. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1eebng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu ch\u1ec9 gi\u1ee1n ch\u01a1i khi Ng\u00e0i cho ch\u00fang ta bi\u00ea\u0301t c\u00e1i gi\u00e1 ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec7 l\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, th\u00f9 ngh\u1ecbch, cha\u0301n n\u1ea3n, \u0111au kh\u1ed5 v\u00e0 hy sinh. Ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i t\u1eeb b\u1ecf kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c, truy\u1ec1n sinh, s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p, danh ti\u1ebfng, m\u00e1i \u1ea5m v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00f9m b\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3 con v\u00e0 m\u00f4\u0323t gia \u0111\u00ecnh, c\u1ea3 s\u1ef1 gi\u00e0u sang vinh hoa ph\u00fa qu\u00fd. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ee9c kh\u00f4n ngoan gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eadn ra ch\u00e2n gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta t\u1eeb b\u1ecf.<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 La\u0303nh v\u1ef1c cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9c kh\u00f4n ngoan \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 r\u1ea5t tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi v\u1edbi t\u1eeb “th\u00e2\u0323n tr\u1ecdng,” m\u1ed9t t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f4\u0300ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c n\u00e0y. Th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng r\u1ea5t h\u1eefu \u00edch trong khi n\u00f3i. \u0110\u1ee9c kh\u00f4n ngoan h\u01b0\u01a1\u0301ng d\u1eabn ch\u00fang ta bi\u00ea\u0301t nhu\u1ea7n nhuy\u1ec5n n\u1ed9i dung sao cho th\u00edch h\u01a1\u0323p, gi\u00fap cho l\u01a1\u0300i \u0103n ti\u00ea\u0301ng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o, chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c va\u0300 nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, s\u1ef1 th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb r\u1ea5t cao khi ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft ti\u1ebft ch\u1ebf trong vi\u1ec7c tranh lu\u00e2\u0323n. Th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng r\u1ea5t h\u1eefu \u00edch c\u1ea3 trong khi kh\u00f4i h\u00e0i. Linh mu\u0323c c\u00f3 \u00f3c kh\u00f4i h\u00e0i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fac l\u00e0nh nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4i h\u00e0i ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 th\u1eadn tro\u0323ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9c kh\u00f4n ngoan. Ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 s\u1ef1 t\u1ebfu t\u00e1o n\u00e0o v\u00ea\u0300 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh, v\u1ec1 s\u1eafc t\u1ed9c, v\u00ec d\u00e2n ch\u00fang co\u0301 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng b\u1ecb s\u1ed1c ho\u1eb7c b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n

Th\u1eadn trong r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 gia\u0301 tr\u1ecb trong ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a l\u00f2ng trung th\u00e0nh khi bi\u1ebft ch\u1ec9 ra nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t to\u00e0n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ec1 tr\u00ean v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c. \u0110\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi n\u00e0o, n\u01a1i n\u00e0o v\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ee9c kh\u00f4n ngoan v\u00e0 th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng. Cu\u00f4\u0301i c\u00f9ng th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y ch\u00fang ta xa tr\u00e1nh kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 s\u1ef1 d\u1eef m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng bo\u0301ng d\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 d\u1eef n\u1eefa. Tuy nhi\u00ean, th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu s\u00e1ng ta\u0323o, thi\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u, thi\u1ebfu quy\u1ebft \u0111o\u00e1n, thi\u1ebfu m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m. Th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 bi\u00ea\u0301t nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, khi n\u00e0o, v\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u th\u00ec l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

10. Linh m\u1ee5c – M\u1ed9t m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u00e1m h\u1ed1i<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c s\u00e1m h\u1ed1i r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft cho \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec7 ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng linh m\u1ee5c. Nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c s\u00e1m h\u1ed1i\u2026m\u01a1\u0300i g\u1ecdi ta bi\u1ebft h\u00e3m m\u00ecnh, kh\u1ed5 ch\u1ebf, t\u1eeb b\u1ecf; ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf, ph\u1ee5c thi\u1ec7n, ch\u1eebng m\u1ef1c, bi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft \u0111i cho nh\u1eefng th\u00e8m kh\u00e1t, nh\u1eefng l\u1ea1c th\u00fa, nh\u1eefng \u0111am m\u00ea, nh\u1eefng d\u1ee5c v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a th\u00ea\u0301 gian x\u00e1c th\u1ecbt \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng t\u1ef1 do th\u00e2n m\u1eadt v\u1edbi \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu (Doian 2000). Nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi th\u1eddi nay. Sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ti\u0300nh hu\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9c s\u00e1m h\u00f4\u0301i trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng linh m\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n

A<\/strong>.<\/strong> S\u1ef1 hi sinh th\u1eddi gian, d\u00f9 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n. Ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i g\u1eafn b\u00f3 nghi\u00eam ch\u1ec9nh v\u1edbi c\u00e1c gi\u1edd kinh nguy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i, c\u00e1c gi\u1edd suy g\u1eabm v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec li\u00ean h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng thi\u00eang li\u00eang c\u1ee7a linh mu\u0323c ch\u00fang ta. S\u1ef1 hy sinh th\u1eddi gian c\u0169ng bao g\u1ed3m vi\u1ec7c d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho d\u00e2n Ch\u00faa. S\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a linh m\u1ee5c qu\u00fd bi\u1ebft bao! \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi hy sinh v\u00ea\u0300 th\u1eddi gian, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf.<\/p>\n

B.<\/strong> M\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c s\u00e1m h\u1ed1i t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n th\u1ee9 hai c\u1ee7a s\u1ee9 v\u1ee5 l\u1ecbnh m\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c go\u0323i la\u0300 s\u1ed1ng gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb. “\u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng xa hoa ph\u00f4 b\u00e0y gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 c\u1ee7a linh mu\u0323c c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed1i cu\u0309a nh\u1eefng v\u1ee5 tai ti\u1ebfng l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi gi\u00e1o h\u1eefu h\u01a1n la\u0300 nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a x\u00e1c th\u1ecbt ca\u0301m d\u1ed7 ho\u1eb7c b\u00ea tha r\u01b0\u1ee3u ch\u00e8”, vi\u0300 v\u1eady c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft t\u1eeb b\u1ecf ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ti\u1ec7n nghi, nh\u1eefng t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n v\u00e0 b\u1ed5ng l\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ee9c kh\u00f3 ngh\u00e8o Ph\u00fac \u00c2m l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ba\u0300i h\u1ecdc thi\u1ebft y\u00ea\u0301u cho c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n

C.<\/strong> Kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh th\u1ee9 ba c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c s\u00e1m h\u1ed1i mang t\u00ednh cam k\u1ebft t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n r\u1ea5t th\u00edch h\u01a1\u0323p v\u1edbi linh m\u1ee5c ph\u00e1t xu\u1ea5t t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng \u0111\u1ea5u tranh ch\u1ed1ng la\u0323i s\u1ef1 t\u0103m t\u1ed1i v\u00e0 t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i n\u01a1i ch\u00fang ta. Gi\u00e1m m\u1ee5c Fulton no\u0301i: “M\u1ed9t v\u1ecb th\u00e1nh ch\u1ec9 la\u0300 m\u1ed9t t\u1ed9i nh\u00e2n bi\u1ebft ho\u00e1n c\u1ea3i”. M\u1ed9t linh m\u1ee5c kh\u00f4n ngoan l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3nh gi\u00e1c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i, nh\u1eefng khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng m\u1eb7t tr\u00e1i \u0111en t\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ee9u chu\u1ed9c, v\u1eabn c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ea7n kh\u00ed x\u00e2\u0301u xa l\u1ea9n khu\u1ea5t b\u00ean trong, v\u00e0 v\u00ec th\u1ebf, b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng ch\u00fang l\u00e0 pha\u0309i xa\u0301c \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u00fang v\u00e0 t\u1ea9y tr\u1eeb ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n

D.<\/strong> Th\u1ee9 t\u01b0, v\u00ec l\u00e0 linh m\u1ee5c, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 b\u1ecf r\u01a1i \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb ph\u00eda nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch l\u1eddi gi\u1ea3ng d\u1ea1y c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u00ea\u0300 nh\u01b0 ph\u00e1 thai hay vi\u1ec7c truy\u1ec1n ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c cho ph\u00e1i n\u1eef hay v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i. h\u01a1n n\u1eefa, h\u1ecd th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i va\u0300 b\u1ea5t h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c v\u01a1\u0301i linh m\u1ee5c trong gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9 n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

\u00a0E.<\/strong> Th\u1ee9 n\u0103m, v\u00ec l\u00e0 linh m\u1ee5c ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00eau g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00f4\u0323i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f2ng \u0111\u1eddi. Chesterton n\u00f3i: “Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o kh\u00f4ng chi\u0309 an u\u0309i k\u1ebb \u01b0u phi\u1ec1n, nh\u01b0ng co\u0300n \u01b0u phi\u1ec1n v\u1edbi k\u1ebb th\u00edch tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i”. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong s\u1ed1 gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta hi\u1ec7n nay th\u00edch m\u1ed9t t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o d\u1ec5 d\u00e3i, h\u1ee3p th\u1eddi, tho\u1ea3 hi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng. Vi\u0300 v\u1eady linh m\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00eau g\u1ecdi v\u01b0\u1ee3t l\u00ean tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng tr\u00e0o l\u01b0u v\u0103n ho\u00e1, v\u00ec ng\u00e0i \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u00ea\u0300 ph\u00eda b\u00ecnh an v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9 \u0111ang khi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i l\u1ea1i lan tr\u00e0n b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 h\u1eadn th\u00f9. Ng\u00e0i ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n trong khi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi lo t\u00ecm tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n nh\u1ee5c d\u1ee5c. Ng\u00e0i l\u00e0 m\u1eabu g\u01b0\u01a1ng cho \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb v\u00e0 x\u1ea3 k\u1ef7, trong khi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ch\u1ec9 lo h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee5, s\u1edf h\u1eefu v\u00e0 vun v\u00e9n t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n. Ng\u00e0i th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng cho c\u00f4ng l\u00fd \u0111ang khi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i h\u1eaft h\u1ee7i v\u00e0 khinh mi\u1ec7t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o, v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3 gi\u00e1 b\u1eb1ng ti\u1ebfng t\u0103m, uy th\u1ebf v\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c; v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 mang l\u1ea1i \u00fd nh\u0129a n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf, l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang t\u1ea1 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f4\u0300ng d\u1ea1ng v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh \u0110\u1ea5ng \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb h\u1eaft h\u1ee7i, b\u1ecb khinh b\u00ed v\u00e0 b\u00e1ch h\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

11. Linh m\u1ee5c – con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ki\u00ean nh\u00e2\u0303n\u00a0\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

Th\u00e1nh Phanxic\u00f4 de Sales \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch r\u1ea5t kinh \u0111i\u00ea\u0309n c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i “D\u1eabn v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c” (“S\u1ed1ng th\u00e1nh gi\u1eefa \u0111\u1eddi”) r\u1eb1ng: “\u0110\u1ee9c ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c ba\u0309o \u0111\u1ea3m ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn cho ch\u00fang ta s\u1ef1 to\u00e0n h\u1ea3o. Ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c trung t\u00e2m \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c. \u0110\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u00f4\u0323t nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c m\u00e0 linh m\u1ee5c b\u1ecb ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch nhi\u1ec1u. T\u1ed5ng gi\u00e1m m\u1ee5c Timothy Dolan (2000) vi\u1ebft: “H\u01a1n c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i gi\u1ea3ng ngh\u00e8o n\u00e0n, h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng d\u1ecbp nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi say s\u01b0a, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng sa ng\u00e3 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd d\u00e2n Ch\u00faa tr\u1ea3i qua n\u0103m th\u00e1ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng b\u1ecb s\u1ed1c n\u1eb7ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng linh m\u1ee5c c\u00f3 bi\u1ec7t danh “th\u00f9ng thu\u1ed1c n\u1ed5”, hay thay \u0111\u1ed5i, n\u00f3ng n\u1ea3y, th\u00f4 b\u1ea1o l\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn.”<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ee9c ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u trong ba c\u00e1ch: ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa, ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft l\u00e0 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa – ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 nh\u01b0 ta bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n Ch\u00faa, v\u00e0 khi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng theo nh\u01b0 k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ea5t ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa. Th\u1eadt l\u00e0 h\u1eefu \u00edch khi bi\u1ebft nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn \u0111\u1ee7 v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa trong c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n, s\u1ef1 c\u1eb1n c\u1ed7i, kh\u00f4 khan v\u00e0 l\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea1t trong l\u1eddi c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n c\u00f3 nguy c\u01a1 d\u1eabn ch\u00fang ta t\u1edbi ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n, b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c. Ch\u00ednh Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang ta r\u1eb1ng c\u1ea7n ki\u00ean tr\u00ec nh\u1eabn n\u1ea1i v\u00e0 b\u1ec1n t\u00e2m v\u1eefng ch\u00ed \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eddi c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n sinh nhi\u1ec1u hoa tr\u00e1i.<\/p>\n

Th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00e0 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, v\u1ea7 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. Th\u00e1nh Phanxic\u00f4 de Sales n\u00f3i: “Ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng tr\u00ean t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u01a1\u0301i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng lo \u00e2u v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t to\u00e0n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch can \u0111\u1ea3m sau khi ng\u00e3.” S\u1ef1 kh\u00f4n ngoan \u0111\u00edch th\u1eadt c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o ch\u00fang ta r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn n\u00e0o v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng d\u1eabn t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u1ed1n l\u00e0m ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ebft d\u1ea7n ch\u1ebft m\u00f2n. V\u00ec th\u1ebf th\u1ea3m k\u1ecbch l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec7 t\u1ea1i n\u01a1i s\u1ef1 sa ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta nh\u01b0ng \u1edf ch\u1ed7 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ed7i d\u1eady.<\/p>\n

Ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa, ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh… v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng l\u00e0 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, th\u00ec s\u1ebd kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Vi\u1ec7c ch\u00fang ta t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1ec1 th\u00e2n th\u1ebf c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u00edch \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00ednh n\u00f3ng n\u1ea3y n\u01a1i ch\u00fang ta, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi ch\u00fang ta qu\u00e1 h\u00e3nh di\u1ec7n m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 “ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 t\u1eeb Roma”, “ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea5p c\u1ee7a M\u1ef9”, “Hi\u1ec7u tr\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc”, “m\u1ed9t Gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c ch\u1ee7ng vi\u1ec7n”, ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 “Cha T\u1ed5ng \u0111\u1ea1i di\u1ec7n”, “Ch\u01b0\u1edfng \u1ea5n Gi\u00e1o ph\u1eadn” v.v… Tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta mong \u0111\u1ee3i linh m\u1ee5c l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec1m t\u0129nh trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c giao, c\u00f3 tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ea7u ti\u1ebfn, nhi\u1ec7t th\u00e0nh ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5, s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng c\u00fai xu\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00e2n ch\u00fang t\u00edn nhi\u1ec7m tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ea3 khi ng\u00e0i kh\u1edfi s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec.<\/p>\n

12. Linh m\u1ee5c – Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb<\/em><\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb d\u1ec5 n\u00f3i h\u01a1n l\u00e0 l\u00e0m, d\u1ec5 b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c h\u01a1n l\u00e0 v\u00e2ng ph\u1ee5c. Gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb l\u00e0 kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m r\u1ea5t m\u01a1 h\u1ed3 v\u00e0 h\u00e0m ch\u1ee9a v\u00f4 v\u00e0n l\u1ed1i c\u1eaft ngh\u0129a kh\u00e1c nhau. Nh\u01b0ng, \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00fang ta t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn l\u00e0, gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ed1t y\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c m\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec7 ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 m\u00ecnh h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u00e2n danh \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4” (in persona Christi) trong t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t linh m\u1ee5c. G\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eabu tuy\u1ec7t h\u1ea3o nh\u1ea5t cho ch\u00fang ta theo \u0111u\u1ed5i \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4. B\u1eb1ng ch\u00ednh \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eabu, Con Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n tr\u00fat b\u1ecf m\u1ecdi danh d\u1ef1, vinh quang, gia\u0300u sang v\u00e0 an to\u00e0n, sinh ra trong m\u1ed9t m\u00e1ng c\u1ecf, ch\u1ea1y tr\u1ed1n trong \u0111\u00e0y \u1ea3i, l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1eddi r\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng, kh\u00f4ng nh\u00e0, kh\u00f4ng s\u1ea3n nghi\u1ec7p, t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n duy nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc \u00e1o kho\u00e1c, l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u01a1i g\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ea7u, v\u00e0 t\u00e1ng x\u00e1c trong m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4i m\u1ed9 vay m\u01b0\u1ee3n. B\u1eb1ng ch\u00ednh g\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u00e1ng v\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi gi\u1ea3ng d\u1ea1y, Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 ca\u0309nh b\u00e1o th\u00eam cho ch\u00fang ta s\u1ef1 nguy hi\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a gia\u0300u c\u00f3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1 cao n\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb t\u00edn th\u00e1c v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 quan ph\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu tuy\u00ean d\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang ta s\u1ed1ng gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb c\u1ea3 trong l\u1eddi n\u00f3i l\u1eabn g\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u00e1ng:<\/p>\n

A.<\/strong> Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta r\u1eb1ng nhi\u1ec1u c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i s\u1ebd l\u00e0m ch\u00fang ta xa l\u00eca Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e3i, ti\u1ec7n nghi v\u00e0 xa hoa, t\u00edch lu\u1ef9 c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t l\u00f4i k\u00e9o ch\u00fang ta xa l\u00eca Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 ch\u00fang ta ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 (s\u1ee1 h\u1eefu), ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 (hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu), t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 l\u00e0m con Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o n\u00ean gi\u1ed1ng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ee9u chu\u1ed9c b\u1eb1ng gi\u00e1 m\u00e1u ch\u00e2u b\u00e1u Con Ng\u00e0i, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ef1ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau m\u1ebfn Ng\u00e0i v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi Ng\u00e0i m\u00e3i m\u00e3i.<\/p>\n

B.<\/strong> M\u1ed9t l\u00fd do th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0m phong ph\u00fa th\u00eam l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u00f3 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u00ecnh li\u00ean \u0111\u1edbi v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o. Khi ch\u00fang ta t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n g\u1eafn k\u1ebft v\u1edbi \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb, thanh tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi gia\u0300u sang ph\u00fa qu\u00fd, ti\u1ec7n nghi, xa hoa v\u00e0 t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t, ch\u00fang ta g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

C.<\/strong> Th\u1ee9 ba, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f4\u0301 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ai mu\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ee9c kh\u00f3 ngh\u00e8o m\u1ee5c t\u1eed. Th\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f4\u0301 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u1ec5n l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0103n m\u1eb7c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Nh\u1edd \u01a1n Ch\u00faa l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 tu ph\u1ee5c gi\u00e1o s\u0129, gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o. Tuy nhi\u00ean, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef v\u1ec7 sinh, \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1eb7c ch\u1ec9nh t\u1ec1, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u00e0 kho\u1ebb kho\u1eafn. Ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng h\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng “ngh\u00e8o kh\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 d\u01a1 b\u1ea9n”. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1eebng l\u1eabn l\u1ed9n gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb trong c\u00e1ch \u0103n m\u1eb7c v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 lu\u1ed9m thu\u1ed9m nh\u1ebfch nh\u00e1c, l\u00f4i th\u00f4i l\u1ebfch th\u1ebfch. D\u00f9 v\u1eady ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i tr\u00e1nh l\u1ed1i \u0103n m\u1eb7c l\u00f2e lo\u1eb9t, ph\u00f4 tr\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea3 trong \u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1eabn trong ph\u1ee5ng v\u1ee5.<\/p>\n

D<\/strong>.<\/strong> M\u1ed1i \u0111e do\u1ea1 l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9c kh\u00f3 ngh\u00e8o m\u1ee5c t\u1eed c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c. Vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m cho nhi\u1ec1u linh m\u1ee5c h\u01b0 h\u1ecfng trong say s\u01b0a v\u00e0 nh\u1ee5c d\u1ee5c. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i tr\u00e1nh kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u00f3i quen vay m\u01b0\u1ee3n ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi m\u1ee9c t\u00e0i ch\u00e1nh gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ee9c kh\u00f3 ngh\u00e8o m\u1ee5c t\u1eed.<\/p>\n

\u00a013. Linh m\u1ee5c Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi vui t\u01b0\u01a1i<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0Tri\u1ebft gia ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ph\u00e1p Leon Bloy \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft: “Vui t\u01b0\u01a1i l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u r\u00f5 nh\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng sai l\u1ec7ch v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa ” Tin t\u01b0\u1edfng, hy v\u1ecdng, y\u00eau m\u1ebfn, hi\u1ec1n l\u00e0nh, nhi\u1ec7t th\u00e0nh, t\u1eeb b\u1ecf, trung t\u00edn, khi\u1ebft t\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 vui t\u01b0\u01a1i… t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c thi\u1ebft y\u1ebfu trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng linh m\u1ee5c (Dolan, 2000). M\u1ed9t linh m\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng vui t\u01b0\u01a1i l\u00e0 Linh m\u1ee5c thi\u1ebfu s\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng, c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u linh m\u1ee5c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady trong ch\u00fang ta. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n ch\u00ednh cho s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3m s\u00fat \u01a1n g\u1ecdi linh m\u1ee5c \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 v\u1ecb Linh m\u1ee5c v\u00e0 tu s\u0129 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u00ecm \u0111\u1eafm trong b\u00f9n nh\u01a1, lo l\u1eafng cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, \u00f4m \u0111\u1ed3m qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c, ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, ti\u1ebfc nu\u1ed1i v\u00ea\u0300 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, qu\u00e1 kh\u1eaft khe v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. H\u1ecfi r\u1eb1ng c\u00f2n ai mu\u1ed1n tham gia v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t h\u00e0ng ng\u0169 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady?<\/p>\n

T\u1ed1ng gi\u00e1m m\u1ee5c Timothy Dolan (2000) n\u00f3i: “Th\u1eadt l\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a n\u1ebfu Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y ni\u1ec1m vui, c\u00e1c v\u1ecb m\u1ee5c t\u1eed, cha x\u1ee9, v\u00e0 c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c s\u1ebd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi vui t\u01b0\u01a1i, v\u00ec n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn “tin m\u1eebng” th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi gian d\u1ed1i. Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng, ni\u1ec1m vui \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, \u0110\u1ea5ng \u0111\u00e3 gieo n\u00f3 trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb tin. Th\u00e1nh Phaol\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 li\u1ec7t k\u00ea ni\u1ec1m vui nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng hoa tr\u00e1i c\u1ee7a Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n, m\u1ed9t \u00e2n hu\u1ec7, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eb7c s\u1ee7ng do Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa ban t\u1eb7ng”.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00ednh Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n vui, b\u1edfi v\u00ec Ng\u00e0i y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00fang ta. Ch\u00fang ta x\u00e1c t\u00edn s\u00e2u s\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 Ng\u00e0i kh\u00f4ng mang cho ch\u00fang ta \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec kh\u00e1c ngo\u00e0i ni\u1ec1m vui.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t ngu\u1ed3n m\u1ea1ch n\u1eefa c\u1ee7a vui t\u01b0\u01a1i l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m x\u00e1c t\u00edn v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n m\u00e0 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa d\u00e0nh cho ch\u00fang ta, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 tin ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng Ng\u00e0i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ng\u1ef1 trong ch\u00fang ta nh\u1edd \u01a1n th\u00e1nh s\u1ee7ng. N\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, ngu\u1ed3n m\u1ea1ch c\u1ee7a ni\u1ec1m vui l\u00e0 khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u1edbi l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n v\u00e0 k\u00ednh s\u1ee3 v\u1ec1 \u01a1n ng\u1ef1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Ba Ng\u00f4i, v\u1ec1 \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng thanh hi\u1ebfn th\u1ea5m s\u00e2u trong linh h\u1ed3n ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n

Ngu\u1ed3n su\u1ed1i th\u1ee9 ba c\u1ee7a ni\u1ec1m vui l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 hy v\u1ecdng, t\u00edn th\u00e1c v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 quan ph\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. Th\u00e1nh Phaol\u00f4 vi\u1ebft: “M\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ec1u ho\u00e0 h\u1ee3p cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng tin.” T\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i ph\u1ea3i bu\u1ed3n ch\u00e1n, t\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i ph\u1ea3i th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, t\u1ea1i sao ph\u1ea3i ph\u00e2n c\u00e1ch ni\u1ec1m vui kh\u1ecfi ch\u00fang ta?<\/p>\n

Ngu\u1ed3n m\u1ea1ch cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a vui t\u01b0\u01a1i \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n. C\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n m\u1ea1ch c\u1ee7a ni\u1ec1m vui trong c\u1ea3 hai h\u01b0\u1edbng: n\u1ebfu vui t\u01b0\u01a1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c, m\u1ed9t h\u1ed3ng \u00e2n, th\u00ec khi ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m vui, ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i xin qua vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n. Ch\u00fang ta x\u00e1c t\u00edn r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1ea7n Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111\u1ec3 h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00f2ng x\u00f3t th\u01b0\u01a1ng, \u01a1n tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn, l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u gia t\u0103ng ni\u1ec1m vui cho ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n

VI. K\u1ebft lu\u1eadn: V\u1eb9n toa\u0300n v\u00e0 th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n – \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00e0i h\u00f2a trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng linh m\u1ee5c tri\u1ec1u<\/strong><\/p>\n

Trong t\u00f4ng hu\u1ea5n Pastores Dabo Vobis<\/em> (“Nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c t\u1eed nh\u01b0 l\u00f2ng Ch\u00faa mong \u01b0\u1edbc”), \u0110\u1ee9c Gioan Phaol\u00f4 II (1992) \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ec3 ra ba d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u Ng\u00e0i l\u01b0u t\u00e2m v\u1ec1 m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 h\u1eefu tr\u00e1ch ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm n\u01a1i c\u00e1c \u1ee9ng sinh, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m sinh l\u00fd, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n th\u00e2m tr\u1ea7m s\u00e2u l\u1eafng v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh. C\u1ea7n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c, \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i v\u00e0 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ed5 v\u00f5 v\u00e0 gi\u00fap cho vi\u1ec7c cam k\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n \u0111\u00fang ngh\u0129a. Tuy nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1edbp hay m\u1ed9t ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111a d\u1ea1ng mu\u00f4n v\u1ebb c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc, ba\u1ecd g\u1ed3m vi\u1ec7c linh h\u01b0\u1edbng, c\u00e1c b\u00ed t\u00edch, s\u1ef1 t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee1 n\u00e2ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u1ee9ng, s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ea7u nguy\u00ean \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c. C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o c\u1ea7n t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng ti\u1ec7n \u00edch m\u00e0 khoa t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec1 ra nh\u1eb1m \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch s\u1ef1 l\u1edbn m\u1ea1nh gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c \u1ee9ng sinh.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd m\u1edf ra cho \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng thi\u00eang li\u00eang nh\u1eefng h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng. Nh\u1eefng nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i l\u1ea1i kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng: n\u1ebfu c\u00e1c nhu c\u1ea7u, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a th\u1eddi ni\u00ean thi\u00ea\u0301u kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh, th\u00ec khi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd b\u1ecb v\u1eabn \u0111\u1ee5c. Qua qu\u00e1 tri\u0300nh t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n v\u00e0 ch\u1eefa tr\u1ecb c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft nh\u01a1 trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t thi\u00eang li\u00eang n\u1eefa. Nh\u00e2n t\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh thu\u0301c \u0111\u1ea9y \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng t\u00e2m linh l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh; n\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng t\u00e2m linh t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1edd th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh c\u00e1c nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc nh\u01b0: v\u1ecb tha, khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n, bi\u1ebft ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn, tha th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng (Pinto, 2004). S\u1ef1 v\u1eb9n to\u00e0n trong nh\u00e2n t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0a t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

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T\u00c0I LI\u1ec6U THAM KH\u1ea2O<\/strong><\/p>\n

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    \u00a0M\u1ee4C L\u1ee4C<\/strong><\/p>\n

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    I. Vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m cho \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng thi\u00eang li\u00eang l\u1edbn l\u00ean.. 7<\/p>\n

    II. \u00dd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 th\u00fac \u0111\u00e2y n\u01a1i c\u00e1c \u1ee9ng vi\u1ec7n ti\u1ebfn t\u1edbi ch\u1ee9c Linh M\u1ee5c.. 8<\/p>\n

    III. Tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u00f4\u0301ng t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u01b0a t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng thi\u00eang li\u00eang l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh cho \u0111\u1eddi Linh m\u1ee5c.\u00a0\u00a0 10<\/p>\n

    IV. Nhu c\u1ea7u ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u0103n t\u00ednh linh m\u1ee5c nh\u1eb1m t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng s\u1ef1 th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n\u00a0\u00a0 24<\/p>\n

    V. C\u00e1c nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c – s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng cu\u0309a \u0111\u1eddi Ki-t\u00f4 h\u1eefu – Th\u0103ng ti\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n linh m\u1ee5c tri\u1ec1u.. 29<\/p>\n

    VI. K\u1ebft lu\u1eadn: V\u1eb9n toa\u0300n v\u00e0 th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n – \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00e0i h\u00f2a trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng linh m\u1ee5c tri\u1ec1u.. 55<\/p>\n

    T\u00c0I LI\u1ec6U THAM KH\u1ea2O.. 57
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