{"id":8283,"date":"2016-05-10T07:56:29","date_gmt":"2016-05-10T00:56:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/xuanbichvietnam.net\/trangchu\/?p=8283"},"modified":"2024-08-15T19:58:53","modified_gmt":"2024-08-15T12:58:53","slug":"tong-huan-niem-vui-yeu-thuong-amoris-laetitia-ban-dich-day-du-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/xuanbichvietnam.net\/trangchu\/tong-huan-niem-vui-yeu-thuong-amoris-laetitia-ban-dich-day-du-2\/","title":{"rendered":"T\u00d4NG HU\u1ea4N NI\u1ec0M VUI Y\u00caU TH\u01af\u01a0NG (AMORIS LAETITIA) \u2013 B\u1ea2N D\u1ecaCH \u0110\u1ea6Y \u0110\u1ee6 (2)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Lm. L\u00ea C\u00f4ng \u0110\u1ee9c<\/em> d\u1ecbch<\/em><\/p>\n

CH\u01af\u01a0NG 5 – 9<\/p>\n

CH\u01af\u01a0NG N\u0102M:
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L\u00c0M CHO T\u00ccNH Y\u00caU <\/strong>SINH HOA K\u1ebeT QU\u1ea2<\/strong><\/p>\n

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  1. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n \u0111em l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau phu ph\u1ee5 \u201ckh\u00f4ng k\u1ebft th\u00fac n\u01a1i \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng\u2026 \u0110\u00f4i b\u1ea1n, khi t\u1ef1 hi\u1ebfn cho nhau, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 trao ban ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i con c\u00e1i n\u1eefa, con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea3n \u1ea3nh s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau gi\u1eefa v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, m\u1ed9t d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u v\u0129nh vi\u1ec5n v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7p nh\u1ea5t phu ph\u1ee5, v\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1ed5ng h\u1ee3p s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi c\u1ee7a c\u0103n t\u00ednh l\u00e0m cha l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 n\u01a1i \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n\u201d.[1]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    \u0110\u00d3N NH\u1eacN M\u1ed8T S\u1ef0 S\u1ed0NG M\u1edaI<\/p>\n

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    1. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 khung c\u1ea3nh trong \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra m\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn nh\u01b0 qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. M\u1ed7i s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi \u201ccho ph\u00e9p ch\u00fang ta tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng chi\u1ec1u k\u00edch ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, chi\u1ec1u k\u00edch m\u00e3i c\u00f2n l\u00e0m ch\u00fang ta ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft l\u00e0 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau: con c\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ngay c\u1ea3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ch\u00fang xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n\u201d.[2]<\/a> \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea3n \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a t\u00ednh kh\u1edfi ph\u00e1t c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, \u0110\u1ea5ng lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n \u0111i b\u01b0\u1edbc tr\u01b0\u1edbc, v\u00ec con c\u00e1i \u201c\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u1ea5y\u201d.[3]<\/a> Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u201ct\u1eeb nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ch\u00fang, nhi\u1ec1u con c\u00e1i b\u1ecb lo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb, b\u1ecf r\u01a1i, v\u00e0 b\u1ecb t\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ea5t tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1 v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb d\u00e1m n\u00f3i, nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ec7n minh cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, r\u1eb1ng th\u1eadt l\u00e0 sai l\u1ea7m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0a nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con n\u00e0y v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi. \u0110\u00e1ng x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 bi\u1ebft bao! \u2026 L\u00e0m sao ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 d\u00f5ng d\u1ea1c v\u1ec1 nh\u00e2n quy\u1ec1n v\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n tr\u1ebb em, n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t tr\u1ebb em v\u00ec nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn?\u201d[4]<\/a> N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ngo\u00e0i \u00fd mu\u1ed1n, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u1ea5y nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn n\u00f3 v\u1edbi l\u00f2ng qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. V\u00ec \u201ckhi n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi, th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 hy sinh n\u00e0o c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1eaft hay qu\u00e1 l\u1edbn, n\u1ebfu nh\u1edd n\u00f3 m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 sai s\u00f3t ngo\u00e0i \u00fd mu\u1ed1n, hay m\u00ecnh ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u00f4 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb hay b\u1ecb b\u1ecf m\u1eb7c cho s\u1ef1 v\u00f9i d\u1eadp c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ng\u1ea1o m\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u201d.[5]<\/a> M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a con m\u1edbi ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Ch\u00faa k\u00fd th\u00e1c cho m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn, r\u1ed3i ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 su\u1ed1t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi, v\u00e0 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn ni\u1ec1m vui c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng v\u0129nh c\u1eedu. Qua vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ea7m l\u1eafng chi\u00eam ng\u1eafm s\u1ef1 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i nh\u00e2n v\u1ecb con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd \u00fd th\u1ee9c h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng qu\u00ed gi\u00e1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1ee7y trao cho m\u00ecnh. V\u00ec Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa cho ph\u00e9p cha m\u1eb9 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a t\u00ean g\u1ecdi m\u00e0 theo \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh Ng\u00e0i s\u1ebd g\u1ecdi con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u0129nh c\u1eedu.[6]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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      1. Nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u1edbn l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui cho Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a hoa tr\u00e1i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, Th\u00e1nh Gioan Phaol\u00f4 II gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch r\u1ea5t hay r\u1eb1ng vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u201csinh s\u1ea3n v\u00f4 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n hay kh\u00f4ng \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n n\u00f3 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y cha m\u1eb9 d\u00f9ng s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do b\u1ea5t kh\u1ea3 x\u00e2m ph\u1ea1m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4n ngoan v\u00e0 c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, bi\u1ebft c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf v\u1ec1 nh\u00e2n kh\u1ea9u v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh ri\u00eang v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u01b0\u1edbc v\u1ecdng ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh\u201d.[7]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        T\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c mang thai<\/em><\/strong>
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        1. Mang thai l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t giai \u0111o\u1ea1n kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u01b0ng r\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 di\u1ec7u. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa trong vi\u1ec7c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n c\u00e1i ph\u00e9p l\u1ea1 \u0111em l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi. Thi\u00ean ch\u1ee9c l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u201cti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c th\u1ee5 thai v\u00e0 sinh h\u1ea1 m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi\u201d.[8]<\/a> M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef \u0111\u1ec1u chia s\u1ebb trong \u201cm\u1ea7u nhi\u1ec7m s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e1i hi\u1ec7n n\u01a1i m\u1ed7i cu\u1ed9c sinh h\u1ea1\u201d.[9]<\/a> T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 Th\u00e1nh V\u1ecbnh n\u00f3i: \u201cNg\u00e0i d\u1ec7t con trong d\u1ea1 m\u1eabu th\u00e2n con\u201d (Tv 139,13). M\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a con l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong cung l\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u0129nh c\u1eedu c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Cha: \u201cTr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ng\u01b0\u01a1i th\u00e0nh h\u00ecnh trong l\u00f2ng m\u1eb9, Ta \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u01a1i; tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ng\u01b0\u01a1i ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi, Ta \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e1nh hi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u01a1i\u201d (Gr 1,5). M\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed7 trong tr\u00e1i tim c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa t\u1eeb \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1eddi; khi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ee5 thai, gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 v\u0129nh c\u1eedu \u1ea5y c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ea5ng T\u1ea1o H\u00f3a tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c. Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb cao c\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a ph\u00f4i thai ngay t\u1eeb kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc th\u1ee5 thai. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n nh\u00ecn n\u00f3 v\u1edbi c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, \u0110\u1ea5ng lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u01b0\u1ee3t qu\u00e1 nh\u1eefng d\u00e1ng v\u1ebb \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i.<\/li>\n
        2. M\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef mang thai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tham d\u1ef1 v\u00e0o k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch d\u1ec7t \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ee9a con c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u201cTrong ch\u00edn th\u00e1ng, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha \u0111\u1ec1u \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ee9a con c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd\u2026 B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1. M\u1ed9t khi gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u1ea5t kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1, con c\u00e1i s\u1ebd ng\u1eebng l\u1edbn l\u00ean, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau s\u1ebd ng\u1eebng l\u1edbn l\u00ean, s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd h\u00e9o h\u1eaft v\u00e0 t\u00e0n l\u1ee5i\u201d.[10]<\/a> \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu, Ph\u00e9p R\u1eeda ph\u1ea3i nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft hi\u1ec7n ra nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 \u1ea5y. V\u1edbi l\u1eddi c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho Ph\u00e9p R\u1eeda, k\u00fd th\u00e1c \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh cho Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu ngay c\u1ea3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi n\u00f3 ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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          1. Nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 khoa h\u1ecdc ng\u00e0y nay cho ph\u00e9p ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1ec1 m\u00e0u t\u00f3c c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb hay nh\u1eefng b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt ti\u1ec1m t\u00e0ng, v\u00ec t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng s\u1eafc th\u00e1i th\u1ec3 l\u00fd c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi s\u1eb5n trong m\u00e3 di truy\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y \u1edf giai \u0111o\u1ea1n c\u00f2n l\u00e0 ph\u00f4i thai. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 Ch\u00faa Cha, \u0110\u1ea5ng S\u00e1ng T\u1ea1o, m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb; ch\u1ec9 m\u00ecnh Ng\u00e0i bi\u1ebft c\u0103n t\u00ednh v\u00e0 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb s\u00e2u xa nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111ang mang thai c\u1ea7n xin Ch\u00faa ban cho m\u00ecnh s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4n ngoan \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn ch\u00fang nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 cha m\u1eb9 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ee9a con m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0o l\u00fac t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t. H\u1ecd n\u00ean xin Ch\u00faa ch\u1eefa tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ee9a con c\u00e1ch tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n v\u1edbi c\u1ea3 t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng. Th\u1eadt quan tr\u1ecdng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ee9a con ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cha m\u1eb9 mong mu\u1ed1n. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 d\u00f9ng hay m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p cho m\u1ed9t nhu c\u1ea7u c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u1ee9a con l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb cao c\u1ea3, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng cho l\u1ee3i \u00edch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta. V\u00ec th\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi n\u00e0y c\u00f3 thu\u1eadn ti\u1ec7n cho b\u1ea1n hay kh\u00f4ng, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng d\u00e1ng n\u00e9t m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u00edch hay kh\u00f4ng, ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3 c\u00f3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi c\u00e1c k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch v\u00e0 c\u00e1c mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n hay kh\u00f4ng. V\u00ec \u201ccon c\u00e1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng. M\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a con \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thay th\u1ebf\u2026 Ch\u00fang ta y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng con c\u00e1i v\u00ec ch\u00fang l\u00e0 con c\u00e1i, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec ch\u00fang \u0111\u1eb9p, hay ch\u00fang tr\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng ch\u00fang ta ho\u1eb7c suy ngh\u0129 gi\u1ed1ng ch\u00fang ta, hay ch\u00fang ch\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ef1ng c\u00e1c gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Ch\u00fang ta y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00fang v\u00ec ch\u00fang l\u00e0 con c\u00e1i. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a con l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a con\u201d.[11]<\/a> T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n qua \u0111\u00f3 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, Cha ch\u00fang ta, di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh Ng\u00e0i. Ng\u00e0i ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i cu\u1ed9c ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, Ng\u00e0i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n, v\u00e0 Ng\u00e0i ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3n n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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            1. V\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea7y th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ebfn, t\u00f4i tha thi\u1ebft k\u00eau g\u1ecdi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai: h\u00e3y vui m\u1eebng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 g\u00ec t\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ni\u1ec1m vui th\u00e2m s\u00e2u c\u1ee7a thi\u00ean ch\u1ee9c l\u00e0m m\u1eb9. \u0110\u1ee9a con c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ni\u1ec1m h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, lo l\u1eafng, nh\u1eefng b\u00ecnh ph\u1ea9m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c hay nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m \u0111i ni\u1ec1m vui c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi cho th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y. H\u00e3y chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh cho cu\u1ed9c ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a con, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 lo l\u1eafng \u00e1m \u1ea3nh, v\u00e0 h\u00e3y k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi l\u1eddi ca ng\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ea7y h\u00e2n hoan c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Maria: \u201cLinh h\u1ed3n t\u00f4i ng\u1ee3i khen \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa, v\u00e0 th\u1ea7n tr\u00ed t\u00f4i hoan h\u1ec9 trong Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, \u0110\u1ea5ng C\u1ee9u \u0110\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, v\u00ec Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 nh\u00ecn \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u1eadn h\u00e8n t\u00f4i t\u1edb c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i\u201d (Lc 1,46-48). H\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng c\u1ea3m nghi\u1ec7m ni\u1ec1m ph\u1ea5n kh\u00edch th\u00e2m tr\u1ea7m n\u00e0y gi\u1eefa t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 bao \u01b0u t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 xin Ch\u00faa gi\u1eef g\u00ecn ni\u1ec1m vui c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec3n th\u00f4ng ni\u1ec1m vui \u1ea5y cho \u0111\u1ee9a con c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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              1. \u201cCon c\u00e1i, khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng v\u00e0 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn c\u1ea3 \u00e2n ban thi\u00eang li\u00eang c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c bi\u1ebft ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e0y t\u1ecf cho ch\u00fang xuy\u00ean qua t\u00ean g\u1ecdi ri\u00eang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao cho ch\u00fang, vi\u1ec7c chia s\u1ebb ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, nh\u1eefng \u00e1nh nh\u00ecn y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ecfa s\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang h\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ee5ng ch\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ebfn linh h\u1ed3n ch\u00fang ta, t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng h\u1ecd nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n trong \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i\u2026 \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 ch\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t tia l\u1eeda c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa!\u201d[12]<\/a> M\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a con c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha; c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n cho s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00f3 t\u00ednh h\u00f2a \u0111i\u1ec7u v\u00e0 to\u00e0n v\u1eb9n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. Nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c gi\u00e1m m\u1ee5c \u00dac ch\u00e2u ghi nh\u1eadn, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha v\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u201c\u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1ebf ri\u00eang bi\u1ec7t cho s\u1ef1 l\u1edbn l\u00ean c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a con. T\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh nhu c\u1ea7u v\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha\u201d.[13]<\/a> \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 x\u00e9t nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1 th\u1ec3, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f2n n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau gi\u1eefa h\u1ecd n\u1eefa, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u1ea5y, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n. Ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 v\u1ee3, cha v\u00e0 m\u1eb9, c\u1ea3 hai \u201cc\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, \u0110\u1ea5ng S\u00e1ng T\u1ea1o, v\u00e0 \u2013 theo ngh\u0129a n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u2013 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4ng ng\u00f4n cho Ng\u00e0i\u201d.[14]<\/a> H\u1ecd cho con c\u00e1i th\u1ea5y khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9. C\u00f9ng v\u1edbi nhau, h\u1ecd d\u1ea1y v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u01b0\u1ee3ng, s\u1ef1 k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t, v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng cho v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn. N\u1ebfu v\u00ec l\u00fd do n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i thi\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, th\u00ec th\u1eadt quan tr\u1ecdng vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea3i b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp cho s\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t n\u00e0y, \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                1. C\u1ea3m th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 th\u00e2n ph\u1eadn m\u1ed3 c\u00f4i t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1ebb em v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb ng\u00e0y nay th\u00ec th\u00e2m s\u00e2u h\u01a1n ch\u00fang ta t\u01b0\u1edfng. Ng\u00e0y nay ch\u00fang ta nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn l\u00e0 h\u1ee3p l\u1ebd v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1ng ao \u01b0\u1edbc vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ph\u1edbt l\u01a1 nhu c\u1ea7u r\u1eb1ng con c\u00e1i ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 trong nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean sau khi ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi. Th\u1eadt v\u1eady, \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng trong t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ee5 thai v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n trong m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh t\u1eeb m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi\u201d.[15]<\/a> Vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m suy y\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n \u1ea5y s\u1ebd \u0111\u1eb7t ra m\u1ed9t nguy c\u01a1 l\u1edbn cho th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean t\u00f4i tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng phong tr\u00e0o n\u1eef quy\u1ec1n, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u1eef quy\u1ec1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t hay ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn thi\u00ean ch\u1ee9c l\u00e0m m\u1eb9. V\u00ec t\u00ednh cao qu\u00ed c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef bao g\u1ed3m t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c quy\u1ec1n r\u00fat ra t\u1eeb ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea5t kh\u1ea3 nh\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 thi\u00ean n\u0103ng n\u1eef t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd n\u1eefa, \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft y\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. C\u00e1c kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng chuy\u00ean bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef – c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang thi\u00ean ch\u1ee9c l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 – \u0111\u1eb7t ra c\u00e1c b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn, v\u00ec t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u0169ng g\u1eafn li\u1ec1n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ee9 m\u1ea1ng chuy\u00ean bi\u1ec7t tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y, m\u1ed9t s\u1ee9 m\u1ea1ng m\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ea7n b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 v\u00e0 g\u00ecn gi\u1eef v\u00ec \u00edch l\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3.[16]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                  1. \u201cNh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 thu\u1ed1c gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed9c m\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea5t tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ef1 lan tr\u00e0n c\u1ee7a ch\u1ee7 ngh\u0129a c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ea7y \u00edch k\u1ef7\u2026 Ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee9ng cho v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng\u201d.[17]<\/a> Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn, \u201cm\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 th\u00ec s\u1ebd b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t t\u00ednh ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00ec c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u2013 ngay c\u1ea3 trong nh\u1eefng th\u1eddi kh\u1eafc t\u1ec7 h\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t \u2013 lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 ch\u1ee9ng nh\u00e2n cho s\u1ef1 d\u1ecbu hi\u1ec1n, \u0111\u1ea3m \u0111ang v\u00e0 cho s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00f4ng truy\u1ec1n \u00fd ngh\u0129a s\u00e2u xa nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o trong c\u00e1c kinh nguy\u1ec7n ban \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 c\u00e1c th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh m\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ea1o m\u00e0 con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd h\u1ecdc theo\u2026 N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9, th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng nh\u1eefng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1c t\u00edn h\u1eefu m\u1edbi, m\u00e0 ngay ch\u00ednh \u0111\u1ee9c tin c\u0169ng s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t \u0111i ph\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1t s\u1eafng \u0111\u01a1n s\u01a1 m\u00e0 s\u00e2u xa c\u1ee7a n\u00f3\u2026 C\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 th\u00e2n m\u1ebfn, xin c\u00e1m \u01a1n c\u00e1c ch\u1ecb em! Xin c\u00e1m \u01a1n c\u00e1c ch\u1ecb em v\u00ec vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c ch\u1ecb em trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 v\u00ec nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u00e1c ch\u1ecb em c\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfn cho Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i v\u00e0 cho th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi\u201d.[18]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                    1. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 tr\u00f4ng nom \u0111\u1ee9a con m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 s\u1ef1 \u00e2u y\u1ebfm v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ebd gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee9a con l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong ni\u1ec1m tin t\u01b0\u1edfng, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kinh nghi\u1ec7m r\u1eb1ng th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh v\u00e0 \u1ea5m c\u00fang. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee9a con l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u1edbi l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0, \u0111\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3t n\u00f3, s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ed9t kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng m\u1eadt thi\u1ebft v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u c\u1ea3m. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha, v\u1ec1 ph\u1ea7n m\u00ecnh, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee9a con nh\u1eadn hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft s\u1eb5n s\u00e1ng \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhu c\u1ea7u ph\u1ea3i g\u1eafng s\u1ee9c l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng s\u00e1ng t\u1ecf v\u00e0 s\u00e2u l\u1eafng, l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi v\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh, th\u00ec c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ea7y l\u00f2ng quan t\u00e2m. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 linh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c vai tr\u00f2 v\u00e0 c\u00e1c tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, t\u00f9y v\u00e0o c\u00e1c ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi, n\u1eef v\u00e0 nam, s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t cho s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a con.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                      1. Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng nghe r\u1eb1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 \u201cm\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng cha\u201d. Trong n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a T\u00e2y ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang v\u1eafng m\u1eb7t, th\u1ea5t l\u1ea1c hay bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. Ch\u00ednh t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 c\u0169ng b\u1ecb ch\u1ea5t v\u1ea5n. H\u1ec7 qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadp nh\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u201c\u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng: gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng kh\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7, nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1i di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c t\u00e0i \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i, v\u00e0 nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb. Trong m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ch\u1ee7 ngh\u0129a \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111o\u00e1n t\u1eebng th\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecb v\u00e0, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e0n \u00e1p\u201d.[19]<\/a> Nh\u01b0ng, \u201cnh\u01b0 v\u1ed1n th\u01b0\u1eddng x\u1ea3y ra, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111i t\u1eeb th\u00e1i c\u1ef1c n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e1i c\u1ef1c kh\u00e1c. Trong th\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta, d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n ng\u1ed9t ng\u1ea1t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha cho b\u1eb1ng l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 v\u1eafng m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng, \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ea3i m\u00ea v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, c\u00f3 khi m\u1ea3i m\u00ea v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i h\u1ecd ph\u1edbt l\u01a1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd b\u1ecf m\u1eb7c con c\u00e1i c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf d\u1ea1i\u201d.[20]<\/a> S\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha, v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n b\u00ednh c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng, c\u0169ng b\u1ecb chi ph\u1ed1i b\u1edfi l\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0nh cho th\u00f4ng tin li\u00ean l\u1ea1c v\u00e0 truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed. Ng\u00e0y nay quy\u1ec1n b\u00ednh th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecb xem l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng ng\u1edd v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecb c\u01b0 x\u1eed h\u1ed7n l\u00e1o. Ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd c\u0169ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ea5t quy\u1ebft v\u00e0 do \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng cung c\u1ea5p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc cho con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u1ea3o ng\u01b0\u1ee3c vai tr\u00f2 gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh, v\u00ec n\u00f3 l\u00e0m \u00e1ch t\u1eafc ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn m\u00e0 con c\u00e1i c\u1ea7n kinh nghi\u1ec7m, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 t\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ea5t kh\u1ecfi ch\u00fang t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft cho s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh.[21]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                        1. Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111\u1eb7t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha v\u00e0o trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1edd nh\u1eefng \u00e2n ban g\u1eafn li\u1ec1n v\u1edbi nam t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u201cg\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u1edbi v\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1, ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n, hy v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. V\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i con c\u00e1i khi ch\u00fang l\u1edbn l\u00ean \u2013 khi ch\u00fang ch\u01a1i hay l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, khi ch\u00fang v\u00f4 t\u01b0 hay lo l\u1eafng, khi ch\u00fang n\u00f3i huy\u00ean thi\u00ean hay thinh l\u1eb7ng, khi ch\u00fang gan d\u1ea1 hay s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, khi ch\u00fang \u0111i l\u1ea1c v\u00e0 khi ch\u00fang ph\u1ee5c thi\u1ec7n. H\u00e3y l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n. Khi t\u00f4i n\u00f3i \u2018hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n\u2019, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 \u2018ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t\u2019. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha qu\u00e1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t s\u1ebd che m\u1edd con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng cho ch\u00fang ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n\u201d.[22]<\/a> M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng hay kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u00e0 \u201ccon c\u00e1i c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i ch\u00fang khi ch\u00fang v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. Ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng t\u1ecf cho th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ch\u00fang c\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady\u201d.[23]<\/a> Th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc cho nh\u1eefng con c\u00e1i thi\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i l\u1edbn l\u00ean m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u00f2 d\u1eabm.<\/li>\n
                        2. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 con. Ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n \u0111au kh\u1ed5 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 cho h\u1ecd. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng \u201ch\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp ch\u1ec9 cho vi\u1ec7c sinh s\u1ea3n con c\u00e1i\u2026 Ngay c\u1ea3 trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p m\u00e0 d\u00f9 cho hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t, h\u1ecd v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 con, th\u00ec h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n nguy\u00ean \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh to\u00e0n v\u1eb9n v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7p th\u00f4ng s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, v\u00e0 b\u1ea3o t\u1ed3n gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 t\u00ednh b\u1ea5t kh\u1ea3 ph\u00e2n ly c\u1ee7a n\u00f3\u201d.[24]<\/a> C\u0169ng v\u00ec th\u1ebf, \u201cthi\u00ean ch\u1ee9c l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh sinh h\u1ecdc, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 b\u1eb1ng nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c \u0111a d\u1ea1ng\u201d.[25]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                          1. Nh\u1eadn con nu\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u1ea5t qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9. T\u00f4i kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 nh\u1eefng ai kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 con h\u00e3y m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con thi\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh gia \u0111\u00ecnh th\u00edch h\u1ee3p. H\u1ecd s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ph\u1ea3i h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn v\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. Nh\u1eadn nu\u00f4i m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a con l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, l\u00e0 trao t\u1eb7ng m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh cho ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u00f3. Th\u1eadt quan tr\u1ecdng vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh r\u1eb1ng lu\u1eadt ph\u00e1p n\u00ean t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n cho th\u1ee7 t\u1ee5c nh\u1eadn con nu\u00f4i, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c mong mu\u1ed1n, \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec1 ph\u00f2ng vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1 thai hay b\u1ecf r\u01a1i ch\u00fang. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn con nu\u00f4i v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi con nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng v\u00e0 v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n, s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh k\u00eanh chuy\u1ec3n th\u00f4ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. V\u00ec Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa ph\u00e1n: \u201cNgay c\u1ea3 d\u00f9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 qu\u00ean con \u0111i n\u1eefa, th\u00ec Ta v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd qu\u00ean con\u201d (Is 49,15).<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                            1. \u201cVi\u1ec7c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u1eadn con nu\u00f4i v\u00e0 cung c\u1ea5p s\u1ef1 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i hoa tr\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t trong kinh nghi\u1ec7m h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 con. Trong \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh trong \u0111\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ao \u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a con b\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi gi\u00e1, nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn con nu\u00f4i v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c cung c\u1ea5p s\u1ef1 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, n\u1ebfu hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u00fang, s\u1ebd th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i. N\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u00fd th\u1ee9c r\u1eb1ng con c\u00e1i, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 con t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, con nu\u00f4i hay con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, v\u1ed1n d\u0129 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 s\u0103n s\u00f3c, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a v\u00e0o th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. Nh\u1eefng quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i thi\u1ebft y\u1ebfu nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n n\u1eb1m b\u00ean trong b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0o li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn con nu\u00f4i v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ch\u0103m s\u00f3c\u201d.[26]<\/a> \u0110\u00e0ng kh\u00e1c, \u201cn\u1ea1n bu\u00f4n b\u00e1n tr\u1ebb em gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c qu\u1ed1c gia v\u00e0 c\u00e1c l\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ecba c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u0103n ch\u1eb7n b\u1edfi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ph\u00e1p l\u00fd th\u00edch \u0111\u00e1ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc\u201d.[27]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                              1. Ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng ghi nh\u1edb r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng sinh con v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn con nu\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch duy nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m hoa tr\u00e1i c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u1edbn c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi in d\u1ea5u v\u00e0o x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, t\u00ecm ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n hoa tr\u00e1i m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd k\u00e9o d\u00e0i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u1ed1n n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 h\u1ecd. C\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00ean r\u1eb1ng \u201c\u0111\u1ee9c tin kh\u00f4ng t\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta kh\u1ecfi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ea9y ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0o s\u00e2u h\u01a1n trong \u0111\u00f3\u2026 Th\u1eadt v\u1eady, m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t vai tr\u00f2 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t trong vi\u1ec7c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho N\u01b0\u1edbc Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111\u1ebfn trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y\u201d.[28]<\/a> C\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean coi m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i t\u1ecb n\u1ea1n kh\u1ecfi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i n\u00ean b\u01b0\u1edbc ra kh\u1ecfi nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh trong m\u1ed9t tinh th\u1ea7n li\u00ean \u0111\u1edbi v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t trung t\u00e2m h\u1ed9i nh\u1eadp ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta v\u00e0o x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, v\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfp \u0111i\u1ec3m gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c c\u1ea3nh v\u1ef1c c\u00f4ng c\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 ri\u00eang t\u01b0. C\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ea7n \u00fd th\u1ee9c r\u00f5 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng suy gi\u1ea3m nh\u01b0ng s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ea7y tr\u00e0n v\u1edbi \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng m\u1edbi. Nh\u01b0 c\u00f3 nh\u00e0 th\u01a1 n\u00f3i:<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                \u201c\u0110\u00f4i b\u00e0n tay em cho anh s\u1ef1 \u00e2u y\u1ebfm,<\/em><\/p>\n

                                s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a \u0111i\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ed5 \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1eddi anh.<\/em><\/p>\n

                                Anh y\u00eau em v\u00ec \u0111\u00f4i b\u00e0n tay em<\/em><\/p>\n

                                l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ee5ng s\u1ef1 cho c\u00f4ng l\u00fd.<\/em><\/p>\n

                                Anh y\u00eau em, v\u00ec em l\u00e0 <\/em><\/p>\n

                                t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a anh, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a anh, v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a anh.<\/em><\/p>\n

                                V\u00e0 tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ed1, vai chen vai, <\/em><\/p>\n

                                ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 hai<\/em>\u201d.[29]<\/a><\/p>\n

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                                1. Kh\u00f4ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 sinh hoa tr\u00e1i n\u1ebfu xem ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 qu\u00e1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t hay \u201c\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi ra\u201d. \u0110\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh nguy c\u01a1 n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu, \u0111\u1ea7y \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4n ngoan, \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ecf ra kh\u00e1c th\u01b0\u1eddng hay kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00e1c. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f3 nh\u1eadn ra s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4n ngoan c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu: \u201cB\u1edfi \u0111\u00e2u m\u00e0 \u00f4ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady? \u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 anh th\u1ee3 m\u1ed9c, con c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 Maria sao?\u201d (Mc 6,23). \u201c\u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 con b\u00e1c th\u1ee3 m\u1ed9c sao?\u201d (Mt 13,55). Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y cho th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c ng\u00e0i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00e1c, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng trong c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng. \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan kh\u00e9p k\u00edn ng\u1ed9t ng\u1ea1t v\u1edbi \u0110\u1ee9c Maria v\u00e0 Th\u00e1nh Giuse, nh\u01b0ng Ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn h\u01a1n, v\u1edbi b\u00e0 con v\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 Ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch t\u1ea1i sao tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 t\u1eeb Gi\u00earusalem, \u0110\u1ee9c Maria v\u00e0 Th\u00e1nh Giuse c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng, trong c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y \u1ea5y, c\u1eadu b\u00e9 Gi\u00easu m\u01b0\u1eddi hai tu\u1ed5i ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 trong \u0111o\u00e0n ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e0nh h\u01b0\u01a1ng, l\u1eafng nghe nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd: \u201cSau m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, \u00f4ng b\u00e0 c\u1ee9 t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0 c\u1eadu v\u1ec1 chung v\u1edbi \u0111o\u00e0n l\u1eef h\u00e0nh\u201d (Lc 2,44). Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 do ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef h\u1ecd d\u00f9ng, do c\u00e1ch h\u1ecd h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ho\u1eb7c \u1ee9ng x\u1eed v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, hay do h\u1ecd c\u1ee9 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i v\u00e0i ba chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 th\u00f4i, r\u1ed1t c\u1ee5c h\u1ecd b\u1ecb coi l\u00e0 xa r\u1eddi v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng. Ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb h\u1ecd coi th\u01b0\u1eddng hay x\u00e9t \u0111o\u00e1n.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                  1. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ec3 b\u0103ng b\u00f3 c\u00e1c v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh, c\u1ed5 v\u00f5 m\u1ed9t n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 v\u00e0 chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5u cho c\u00f4ng l\u00fd. Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 trao cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00e1i c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c bi\u1ebfn th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y th\u00e0nh \u201cgia \u0111\u00ecnh\u201d[30]<\/a> v\u00e0 gi\u00fap m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 anh ch\u1ecb em c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u201cM\u1ed9t c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn \u0111\u1ea7y l\u01b0u t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam n\u1eef th\u1eddi nay ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y nhu c\u1ea7u \u1edf kh\u1eafp m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m th\u1ea5m nhi\u1ec5m c\u00e1ch l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh m\u1ed9t tinh th\u1ea7n gia \u0111\u00ecnh\u2026 Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y b\u1ecb ng\u00e1ng tr\u1edf ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng h\u01a1n b\u1edfi m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 quan li\u00eau ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n xa l\u1ea1 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng, m\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng t\u1eadp t\u1ee5c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb c\u0169ng cho th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 xu\u1ed1ng c\u1ea5p\u201d.[31]<\/a> V\u1ec1 ph\u1ea7n m\u00ecnh, c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7y quan t\u00e2m s\u1ebd t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed7 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o, v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i d\u00e2y th\u00e2n h\u1eefu v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u00e9m may m\u1eafn h\u01a1n m\u00ecnh. Trong nh\u1eefng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng theo Tin M\u1eebng, h\u1ecd \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu: \u201cNh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u01a1i l\u00e0m cho m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng anh em b\u00e9 m\u1ecdn nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ta \u0111\u00e2y, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u01a1i l\u00e0m cho ch\u00ednh ta (Mt 25,40)\u201d. M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u1ea5t th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u1ed1n \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta: \u201cKhi ng\u01b0\u01a1i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t b\u1eefa \u0103n hay b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c, \u0111\u1eebng m\u1eddi b\u1ea1n h\u1eefu, hay anh em, hay b\u00e0 con, hay nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1 gi\u1ea3, k\u1ebbo h\u1ecd s\u1ebd m\u1eddi l\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u01a1i, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u01a1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u0111\u1ec1n. Nh\u01b0ng khi \u0111\u00e3i ti\u1ec7c, h\u00e3y m\u1eddi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o, ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00e0n t\u1eadt, ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u00e8, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00f9, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u01a1i s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fac ph\u00fac\u201d (Lc 14,12-14). Ng\u01b0\u01a1i s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fac ph\u00fac! \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 b\u00ed quy\u1ebft c\u1ee7a h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                    1. B\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng t\u00e1 v\u00e0 l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u1ec1 \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu. H\u1ecd chuy\u1ec3n th\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee9c tin, kh\u01a1i l\u00ean kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, v\u00e0 h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3n \u1ea3nh v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a Tin M\u1eebng v\u00e0 l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng theo Tin M\u1eebng. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o l\u00e0m sinh \u0111\u1ed9ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng t\u00e1 t\u00ecnh huynh \u0111\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00ean ti\u1ebfng th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn nh\u00e2n danh nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5p c\u1ed5 b\u00e9 mi\u1ec7ng, b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ee9c tin s\u00e1ng ng\u1eddi v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m hy v\u1ecdng n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Hoa tr\u00e1i c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng ra, v\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng v\u00f4 v\u00e0n c\u00e1ch th\u1ebf n\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                      Ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 [c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa]<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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                                      1. C\u0169ng trong chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y nghi\u00eam t\u00fac xem x\u00e9t m\u1ed9t b\u1ea3n v\u0103n Th\u00e1nh Kinh v\u1ed1n th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecb di\u1ec5n d\u1ecbch \u1edf ngo\u00e0i v\u0103n m\u1ea1ch hay theo m\u1ed9t ngh\u0129a chung chung, v\u1edbi nguy c\u01a1 l\u00e0 b\u1ecf qua \u00fd ngh\u0129a tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, m\u1ed9t \u00fd ngh\u0129a in \u0111\u1eadm d\u1ea5u x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. T\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 \u0111o\u1ea1n v\u0103n 1Cr 11,17-34, trong \u0111\u00f3 Th\u00e1nh Phaol\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e1ng x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 trong c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n. C\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean kh\u00e1 gi\u1ea3 h\u01a1n c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng k\u1ef3 th\u1ecb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 ngay c\u1ea3 t\u1ea1i b\u1eefa \u0103n agape<\/em> ti\u1ebfp theo sau c\u1eed h\u00e0nh Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ec3. Trong khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u h\u01b0\u1edfng d\u00f9ng th\u1ee9c \u0103n ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o \u0111\u1ee9ng nh\u00ecn v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u00f3i: \u201cK\u1ebb th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec say s\u01b0a. Anh em kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0103n u\u1ed1ng sao? Hay anh em khinh th\u1ecb H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 s\u1ec9 nh\u1ee5c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u1ee7a?\u201d (c\u00e2u 21-22).<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                        1. Th\u00e1nh L\u1ec5 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh. Nh\u1eefng ai \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi M\u00ecnh v\u00e0 M\u00e1u \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00edch cho ch\u00ednh Th\u00e2n Th\u1ec3 \u1ea5y b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 chia r\u1ebd \u0111\u1ea7y tai ti\u1ebfng gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c \u201cph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh\u201d th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa, nh\u1eadn ra th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 \u1ea5y v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9c tin v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9c \u00e1i, c\u1ea3 trong nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u b\u00ed t\u00edch l\u1eabn trong c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n; nh\u1eefng ai kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u0111ang \u0103n v\u00e0 u\u1ed1ng s\u1ef1 l\u00ean \u00e1n ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh (x. c\u00e2u 29). C\u1eed h\u00e0nh Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ec3, v\u00ec th\u1ebf, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi hi\u1ec7u tri\u1ec7u th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u201ckh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh\u201d (c\u00e2u 28), m\u1edf c\u1eeda gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7p nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e8n m\u1ecdn, v\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta l\u00e3nh nh\u1eadn b\u00ed t\u00edch t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u1ea5y, b\u00ed t\u00edch l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang ta th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t th\u00e2n th\u1ec3. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00ean r\u1eb1ng \u201c\u2018huy\u1ec1n nhi\u1ec7m\u2019 c\u1ee7a b\u00ed t\u00edch n\u00e0y c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i\u201d.[32]<\/a> Khi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e3nh nh\u1eadn b\u00ed t\u00edch n\u00e0y d\u1eedng d\u01b0ng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111au kh\u1ed5, hay h\u00f9a theo nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c kh\u00e1c nhau c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 chia r\u1ebd, khinh mi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng, th\u00ec Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e3nh nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng. \u0110\u00e0ng kh\u00e1c, c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng v\u00e0 l\u00e3nh nh\u1eadn Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ec3 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean s\u1ebd c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng t\u00ecnh huynh \u0111\u1ec7, \u00fd th\u1ee9c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00fang thi\u1ebfu.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                          \u0110\u1edcI S\u1ed0NG TRONG GIA \u0110\u00ccNH R\u1ed8NG L\u1edaN<\/p>\n

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                                          1. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ea1t nh\u00e2n (gia \u0111\u00ecnh nh\u1ecf) c\u1ea7n t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn h\u01a1n, bao g\u1ed3m cha m\u1eb9, c\u00f4 d\u00ec ch\u00fa b\u00e1c, anh ch\u1ecb em h\u1ecd v\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 l\u00e1ng gi\u1ec1ng. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u1edbn n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, hay \u00edt nh\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, hay s\u1ef1 an \u1ee7i trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh \u0111au kh\u1ed5.[33]<\/a> Ch\u1ee7 ngh\u0129a c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n qu\u00e1 lan tr\u00e0n ng\u00e0y nay c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i t\u1ed5 nh\u1ecf an to\u00e0n, trong \u0111\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5y l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 qu\u1ea5y r\u1ea7y hay s\u1ef1 \u0111e d\u1ecda. Tuy nhi\u00ean, t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng c\u00f4 l\u1eadp nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i b\u00ecnh an hay h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u1edbn lao \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c; thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, n\u00f3 l\u00e0m ch\u1eadt h\u1eb9p tr\u00e1i tim c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh tr\u1edf n\u00ean ngh\u00e8o n\u00e0n h\u01a1n.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                            Ph\u1eadn l\u00e0m con<\/em><\/strong>
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                                            1. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00fang ta. \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu b\u1ea3o nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi Pharis\u00eau r\u1eb1ng b\u1ecf b\u00ea cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i lu\u1eadt c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa (x. Mc 7,8-13). Ch\u00fang ta nh\u1edb r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi con, con trai hay con g\u00e1i. \u201cD\u00f9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u00e3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, hay \u0111\u00e3 cao ni\u00ean, ngay c\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh cha hay m\u1eb9, hay \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng vai tr\u00f2 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, th\u00ec \u0111\u00e0ng sau t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u1ea5y v\u1eabn l\u00e0 c\u0103n t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi con. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi con. V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0a ch\u00fang ta tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 trao cho m\u00ecnh s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn l\u00e3nh n\u00f3. M\u00f3n qu\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn l\u00e3nh\u201d.[34]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                              1. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, \u201c\u0111i\u1ec1u r\u0103n th\u1ee9 t\u01b0 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u con c\u00e1i\u2026 t\u00f4n k\u00ednh cha m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh (x. Xh 20,12). \u0110i\u1ec1u r\u0103n n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ebfn li\u1ec1n sau nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u0103n li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi ch\u00ednh Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. Th\u1eadt v\u1eady, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 li\u00ean h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 th\u00e1nh thi\u00eang, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ea7n linh, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eb1m \u1edf n\u1ec1n m\u00f3ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi lo\u1ea1i t\u00f4n k\u00ednh kh\u00e1c d\u00e0nh cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u c\u1ee7a Th\u00e1nh Kinh v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u0103n th\u1ee9 t\u01b0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c n\u00f3i: \u2018\u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u01a1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e2u tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ea5t m\u00e0 Ch\u00faa l\u00e0 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa ng\u01b0\u01a1i ban cho ng\u01b0\u01a1i\u2019. M\u1ed1i r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m cho m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 nh\u00e2n v\u0103n. M\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i trong \u0111\u00f3 con c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng t\u00f4n k\u00ednh cha m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 danh d\u1ef1\u2026 \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i s\u1ebd g\u1ed3m to\u00e0n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb g\u1eaft g\u1ecfng v\u00e0 tham lam\u201d.[35]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                1. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00f2n m\u1eb7t kia c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed3ng ti\u1ec1n. Nh\u01b0 l\u1eddi Ch\u00faa n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta: \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng r\u1eddi b\u1ecf cha m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh\u201d (St 2,24). \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n x\u1ea3y ra, v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n b\u1ecb v\u01b0\u1edbng m\u1eafc b\u1edfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 hy sinh v\u00e0 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft n\u00e0y. Cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb b\u1ecf b\u00ea hay th\u1edd \u01a1, nh\u01b0ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n trong b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi r\u1eb1ng cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecb \u201cr\u1eddi b\u1ecf\u201d, \u0111\u1ec3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u1edbi s\u1ebd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1ed5 \u1ea5m, m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 an to\u00e0n, c\u1ee7a hy v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u201cm\u1ed9t x\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ed9t th\u1ecbt\u201d (ibid.<\/em>). Trong m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu gi\u1eef nh\u1eefng b\u00ed m\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebft l\u1ed9 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i gi\u00e3i b\u00e0y cho cha m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0, quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3 hay ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh. T\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c d\u00e0i l\u00e2u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, v\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 d\u00f9 c\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian, c\u1ea3 hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ea7n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 li\u00ean l\u1ea1c v\u1edbi nhau. H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 v\u1ee3 t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1c c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c m\u1edbi m\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m con c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh.
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                                                  Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao tu\u1ed5i<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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                                                  1. \u201cXin ch\u1edb v\u1ee9t t\u00f4i \u0111i, l\u00fac tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0, khi s\u1ee9c l\u1ef1c \u0111\u00e3 t\u00e0n, xin ch\u1edb b\u1ecf t\u00f4i!\u201d (Tv 71,9). \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u1eddi c\u1ea7u xin c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0, h\u1ecd s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb qu\u00ean l\u00e3ng v\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf. C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa y\u00eau c\u1ea7u ch\u00fang ta tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eafng nghe ti\u1ebfng k\u00eau c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o, th\u00ec Ng\u00e0i c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n ch\u00fang ta nghe ti\u1ebfng k\u00eau c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0.[36]<\/a> \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 cho c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u00e1c c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng, v\u00ec \u201cGi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n nh\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ed9 m\u1ed9t t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c b\u1ea5t nh\u1eabn, ch\u01b0a n\u00f3i l\u00e0 d\u1eedng d\u01b0ng hay khinh mi\u1ec7t, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0. Ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1nh th\u1ee9c l\u1ea1i c\u00e1i \u00fd th\u1ee9c t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n, v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng, l\u00f2ng t\u1eed t\u1ebf, l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 n\u1eef, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00fang ta tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ta \u0111i, trong ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 ta \u1edf, trong cu\u1ed9c chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5u h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng h\u01a1n\u201d.[37]<\/a> Th\u1eadt v\u1eady, \u201ct\u00f4i mong mu\u1ed1n m\u1ed9t Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a v\u1ee9t b\u1ecf<\/em> b\u1eb1ng ni\u1ec1m vui tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn m\u1edbi m\u1ebb gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0!\u201d[38]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                    1. Th\u00e1nh Gioan Phaol\u00f4 II m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi ch\u00fang ta l\u01b0u \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 trong c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u00ec c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a m\u00e0 \u2013 \u201cnh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 theo sau s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u00f4 th\u1ecb v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng nghi\u1ec7p l\u1ed9n x\u1ed9n \u2013 c\u1ea3 trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 v\u00e0 trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7t ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 qua m\u1ed9t b\u00ean b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c\u201d.[39]<\/a> Ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng \u201ct\u00ednh n\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c th\u1ebf h\u1ec7\u201d, nh\u1edd \u201c\u0111\u1eb7c s\u1ee7ng l\u00e0m c\u1ea7u n\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd\u201d.[40]<\/a> R\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng, ch\u00ednh c\u00e1c b\u1eadc \u00f4ng b\u00e0 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chuy\u1ec3n th\u00f4ng cho c\u00e1c ch\u00e1u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 \u201cnhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee9ng r\u1eb1ng ch\u00ednh nh\u1edd \u00f4ng b\u00e0 m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 b\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc khai t\u00e2m v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o\u201d.[41]<\/a> L\u1eddi n\u00f3i, t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau, hay \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 gi\u00fap con c\u00e1i nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng l\u1ecbch s\u1eed kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh, r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh h\u00f4m nay ch\u1ec9 tham d\u1ef1 v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh h\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1eeb mu\u00f4n thu\u1edf tr\u01b0\u1edbc, v\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n t\u00f4n k\u00ednh t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ai \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u00ecnh. Nh\u1eefng ai ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1 m\u1ecdi m\u1ed1i d\u00e2y r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c v\u1edbi qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh, v\u00e0 s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i th\u00ec l\u1edbn h\u01a1n ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. \u201cS\u1ef1 l\u01b0u t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i n\u00ean kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. M\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i (c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3) c\u00f3 d\u00e0nh quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng? N\u00f3 c\u00f3 d\u00e0nh ch\u1ed7 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng? M\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfn l\u00ean n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4n ngoan c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0\u201d.[42]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                      1. Thi\u1ebfu k\u00fd \u1ee9c l\u1ecbch s\u1eed l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ch\u00fang ta. M\u1ed9t n\u00e3o tr\u1ea1ng m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i \u201cH\u1ed3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n h\u1ed3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc, c\u00f2n b\u00e2y gi\u1edd l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n b\u00e2y gi\u1edd\u201d th\u00ec – n\u00f3i cho c\u00f9ng – l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u00e3o tr\u1ea1ng \u1ea5u tr\u0129. Hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 th\u1ea9m x\u00e9t nh\u1eefng bi\u1ebfn c\u1ed1 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch duy nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a. K\u00fd \u1ee9c c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1edbn l\u00ean: \u201cH\u00e3y nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng th\u1eddi x\u01b0a c\u0169\u201d (Dt 10,32). L\u1eafng nghe ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 k\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t cho con c\u00e1i v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb; nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed1i k\u1ebft v\u1edbi l\u1ecbch s\u1eed s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00ecnh, l\u00e0ng x\u00f3m v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u00f4n k\u00ednh v\u00e0 qu\u00ed y\u00eau \u00f4ng b\u00e0 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, l\u00e0 k\u00fd \u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh, th\u00ec gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u1ea5y \u0111ang suy b\u1ea1i; c\u00f2n m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 th\u00ec s\u1ebd c\u00f3 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. \u201cM\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ed7 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 ho\u1eb7c lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf h\u1ecd v\u00ec h\u1ecd t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, th\u00ec x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 nhi\u1ec5m m\u1ed9t vi r\u00fat ch\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u201d;[43]<\/a> \u201cn\u00f3 b\u1ecb x\u00e9 n\u00e1t t\u1eeb g\u1ed1c r\u1ec5\u201d.[44]<\/a> Kinh nghi\u1ec7m th\u1eddi nay c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng m\u1ed3 c\u00f4i nh\u01b0 h\u1ec7 qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1n \u0111o\u1ea1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a, s\u1ef1 nh\u1ed5 r\u1ec5 v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ee5p \u0111\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn v\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng ch\u00fang ta, kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u00f3 th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00ecnh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u01a1i ch\u1ed1n m\u00e0 con c\u00e1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1eafm r\u1ec5 trong m\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ea5t m\u00e0u m\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t l\u1ecbch s\u1eed chung.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                                        L\u00e0 anh ch\u1ecb em<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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                                                        1. Nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan gi\u1eefa anh ch\u1ecb em \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e0o s\u00e2u theo v\u1edbi th\u1eddi gian, v\u00e0 \u201cm\u1ed1i r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c huynh \u0111\u1ec7 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c con c\u00e1i, n\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 b\u1edfi m\u1ed9t b\u1ea7u kh\u00ed c\u00f3 t\u00ednh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 t\u1ef1 do v\u00e0 h\u00f2a b\u00ecnh. Trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang ta h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng h\u1ee3p nh\u1ea5t. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00ednh gia \u0111\u00ecnh gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u t\u00ecnh huynh \u0111\u1ec7 cho th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. T\u1eeb kinh nghi\u1ec7m ban \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00e0y v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh huynh \u0111\u1ec7, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng b\u1edfi t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c d\u01b0\u1edbi m\u00e1i nh\u00e0, phong c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh huynh \u0111\u1ec7 s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t t\u1ecfa nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t tri\u1ec3n v\u1ecdng cho to\u00e0n x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i\u201d.[45]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                          1. Vi\u1ec7c l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u1edbi anh ch\u1ecb em \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta m\u1ed9t kinh nghi\u1ec7m r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eb9p v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 l\u1eabn nhau. V\u00ec \u201ct\u00ecnh huynh \u0111\u1ec7 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh s\u1ebd t\u1ecfa s\u00e1ng \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t khi ch\u00fang ta nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 s\u0103n s\u00f3c, s\u1ef1 nh\u1eabn n\u1ea1i, t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ebfn bao quanh ng\u01b0\u1eddi em trai hay em g\u00e1i nh\u1ecf \u0111ang \u1ed1m b\u1ec7nh hay b\u1ecb khuy\u1ebft t\u1eadt\u201d.[46]<\/a> Ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng \u201cc\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi anh em hay ch\u1ecb em y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kinh nghi\u1ec7m th\u00e2m s\u00e2u, qu\u00ed gi\u00e1 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o\u201d.[47]<\/a> Con c\u00e1i c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn d\u1ea1y cho bi\u1ebft c\u01b0 x\u1eed v\u1edbi nhau nh\u01b0 anh ch\u1ecb em. Vi\u1ec7c d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 n\u00e0y, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac r\u1ea5t v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. T\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 n\u01b0\u1edbc, n\u01a1i m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh xu h\u01b0\u1edbng chung vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t con, th\u00ec kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 anh ch\u1ecb em ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng hi\u1ebfm hoi h\u01a1n. Khi th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t con, th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ee9a con \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng l\u1edbn l\u00ean l\u1ebb loi hay b\u1ecb c\u00f4 l\u1eadp.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                                            M\u1ed9t tr\u00e1i tim l\u1edbn<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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                                                            1. B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh kh\u00f4ng gian nh\u1ecf c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, c\u00f3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i gia \u0111\u00ecnh r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn h\u01a1n m\u00e0 ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf qua. Th\u1eadt v\u1eady, \u201ct\u00ecnh y\u00eau gi\u1eefa v\u1ee3 v\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0, kh\u00e1i qu\u00e1t h\u01a1n, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u2013 gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i, gi\u1eefa anh ch\u1ecb em, b\u00e0 con, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng s\u1ed1ng d\u01b0\u1edbi m\u00e1i nh\u00e0 \u2013 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao cho s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 nh\u1edd m\u1ed9t n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9ng li\u00ean l\u1ec9 b\u00ean trong d\u1eabn gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u1edbi m\u1ed1i hi\u1ec7p th\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng \u0111\u00e0o s\u00e2u h\u01a1n v\u00e0 m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t h\u01a1n, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng v\u00e0 linh h\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh\u201d.[48]<\/a> C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n h\u1eefu v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn n\u00e0y, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c nh\u00f3m gia \u0111\u00ecnh n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 nhau trong c\u00e1c ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, trong nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, v\u00e0 trong \u0111\u1ee9c tin.<\/li>\n
                                                            2. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn n\u00e0y c\u1ea7n cung \u1ee9ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 cho c\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u00f2n non tu\u1ed5i, c\u00e1c tr\u1ebb em kh\u00f4ng cha m\u1eb9, c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01a1n th\u00e2n ph\u1ea3i nu\u00f4i con, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi khuy\u1ebft t\u1eadt c\u1ea7n t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb v\u1eadt l\u1ed9n v\u1edbi ch\u1ee9ng nghi\u1ec7n ng\u1eadp, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n, ly th\u00e2n hay g\u00f3a b\u1ee5a neo \u0111\u01a1n, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 y\u1ebfu thi\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh. C\u0169ng c\u1ea7n bao h\u00e0m \u201cc\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ee5p \u0111\u1ed5 trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh\u201d.[49]<\/a> Gia \u0111\u00ecnh r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp nh\u1eefng thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 cho bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh trong \u0111\u00f3 con c\u00e1i c\u00f3 nguy c\u01a1 ch\u1ecbu b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed b\u1ecb l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng, v\u00e0 cung \u1ee9ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5y l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng cung \u1ee9ng.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                              1. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00ean r\u1eb1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u1edbn n\u00e0y bao g\u1ed3m b\u1ed1 v\u1ee3, b\u1ed1 ch\u1ed3ng, m\u1eb9 v\u1ee3, m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng, v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00e0 con c\u1ee7a hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng. M\u1ed9t kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n n\u00e0y nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ee7 c\u1ea1nh tranh, nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i \u0111e d\u1ecda hay nh\u1eefng v\u1eadt c\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed1i k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00f2i s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng c\u00e1c truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 c\u00e1c t\u1eadp t\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ed9t c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh, bi\u1ebft ch\u0103m s\u00f3c v\u00e0 tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng h\u1ecd trong khi v\u1eabn gi\u1eef t\u00ednh ri\u00eang t\u01b0 v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng. Vi\u1ec7c s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 tinh t\u1ebf t\u00ecnh y\u00eau qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi v\u1ee3 hay ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                                                M\u1ed8T S\u1ed0 NH\u00c3N GI\u1edaI M\u1ee4C V\u1ee4<\/strong><\/p>\n

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                                                                1. Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i di\u1ec5n ra t\u1ea1i Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng H\u1ed9i \u0110\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00e3 n\u00eau nhu c\u1ea7u ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 m\u1edbi. T\u00f4i s\u1ebd c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p nh\u01b0 v\u1eady m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1i qu\u00e1t. C\u00e1c c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n kh\u00e1c nhau s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i ngh\u0129 ra nh\u1eefng s\u00e1ng ki\u1ebfn h\u1eefu hi\u1ec7u v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c ti\u1ec5n h\u01a1n, v\u1eeba t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i v\u1eeba t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ecba ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y m\u1ed9t k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh, gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n suy t\u01b0 v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 c\u00f3 t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                                                  LOAN B\u00c1O TIN M\u1eeaNG V\u1ec0 GIA \u0110\u00ccNH H\u00d4M NAY<\/p>\n

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                                                                  1. C\u00e1c Ngh\u1ecb Ph\u1ee5 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng H\u1ed9i \u0110\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu, nh\u1edd \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng c\u1ee7a B\u00ed t\u00edch H\u00f4n Ph\u1ed1i, l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c nh\u00e2n ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a c\u00f4ng cu\u1ed9c t\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft xuy\u00ean qua \u201cch\u1ee9ng t\u00e1 \u0111\u1ea7y ni\u1ec1m vui c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd trong t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i gia\u201d.[50]<\/a> Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, \u201cth\u1eadt quan tr\u1ecdng vi\u1ec7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kinh nghi\u1ec7m Tin M\u1eebng v\u1ec1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ni\u1ec1m vui \u2018\u0111ong \u0111\u1ea7y tr\u00e1i tim v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng\u2019, b\u1edfi v\u00ec trong \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u2018gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i, bu\u1ed3n phi\u1ec1n, tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m v\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n\u2019 (Evangelii Gaudium<\/em>, 1). Nh\u01b0 trong d\u1ee5 ng\u00f4n v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi gieo gi\u1ed1ng (x. Mt 13,3-9), ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap gieo v\u00e3i c\u00e1c h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng; ph\u1ea7n c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. Ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00ean r\u1eb1ng, trong gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh, th\u00ec Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea5u m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn\u201d.[51]<\/a> C\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng vui m\u1eebng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n v\u00ec c\u00e1c m\u1ee5c t\u1eed c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh g\u00ecn gi\u1eef l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng cao c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn, b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 h\u1ecd v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1eed th\u00e1ch n\u00e0o m\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t. Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i ao \u01b0\u1edbc, trong khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea3m, h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u201cgi\u00fap m\u1ed7i gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i n\u00e0o g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i\u201d.[52]<\/a> S\u1ebd l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t c\u1eadp vi\u1ec7c b\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m chung chung \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh trong k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5. Vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c nh\u00e2n ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a c\u00f4ng cu\u1ed9c t\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi \u201cn\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c Ph\u00fac \u00c2m h\u00f3a v\u00e0 d\u1ea1y gi\u00e1o l\u00fd b\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh\u201d.[53]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                    1. \u201cN\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c n\u00e0y y\u00eau c\u1ea7u m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ho\u00e1n c\u1ea3i trong s\u1ee9 m\u1ea1ng, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c rao gi\u1ea3ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec7p duy ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u1ed1i k\u1ebft g\u00ec v\u1edbi c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta\u201d.[54]<\/a> Vi\u1ec7c s\u0103n s\u00f3c m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 cho c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u201cc\u1ea7n cho th\u1ea5y s\u00e1ng t\u1ecf r\u1eb1ng Tin M\u1eebng v\u1ec1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng nh\u1eefng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng s\u00e2u xa nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n v\u1ecb: m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3 cho ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u01b0\u1ee3ng, hi\u1ec7p th\u00f4ng, v\u00e0 sinh hoa tr\u00e1i. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y h\u1ec7 t\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u1edf vi\u1ec7c tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 qui t\u1eafc, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 \u1edf vi\u1ec7c n\u00eau ra nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft h\u00f4m nay, ngay c\u1ea3 t\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng qu\u1ed1c gia th\u1ebf t\u1ee5c h\u00f3a nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t\u201d.[55]<\/a> C\u00e1c Ngh\u1ecb Ph\u1ee5 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng H\u1ed9i \u0110\u1ed3ng c\u0169ng \u201cn\u00eau b\u1eadt r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c Ph\u00fac \u00c2m h\u00f3a d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t c\u1ea7n t\u1ed1 gi\u00e1c nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 v\u0103n h\u00f3a, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 kinh t\u1ebf \u2013 ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng th\u00e1i qu\u00e1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00e1n cho qui lu\u1eadt th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u2013 v\u1ed1n ng\u0103n tr\u1edf \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 d\u1eabn t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed, t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng ngh\u00e8o \u0111\u00f3i, s\u1ef1 lo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb v\u00e0 b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c. Do \u0111\u00f3, c\u1ea7n th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i v\u00e0 h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c, v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 c\u1ea5u x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n v\u1ed1n d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n – trong t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu – v\u00e0o c\u00e1c l\u00e3nh v\u1ef1c v\u0103n h\u00f3a v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i\u201d.[56]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                      1. S\u1ef1 \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu cho vi\u1ec7c s\u0103n s\u00f3c m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cung \u1ee9ng b\u1edfi gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9, l\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh, n\u01a1i m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n nh\u1ecf, nh\u1eefng phong tr\u00e0o Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i v\u00e0 c\u00e1c hi\u1ec7p h\u1ed9i s\u1ed1ng h\u00f2a \u0111i\u1ec7u v\u1edbi nhau\u201d.[57]<\/a> C\u00f9ng v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 v\u01b0\u01a1n ra nh\u1eafm \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00f3i tr\u00ean cho th\u1ea5y nhu c\u1ea7u ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 \u201cm\u1ed9t n\u1ec1n \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o th\u00edch h\u1ee3p h\u01a1n cho c\u00e1c \u2026 linh m\u1ee5c, ph\u00f3 t\u1ebf, nam n\u1eef tu s\u0129, gi\u1ea3ng vi\u00ean gi\u00e1o l\u00fd v\u00e0 c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 kh\u00e1c\u201d.[58]<\/a> Trong c\u00e1c c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi cho cu\u1ed9c tham v\u1ea5n tr\u00ean to\u00e0n th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c th\u1eeba t\u00e1c vi\u00ean ch\u1ee9c th\u00e1nh th\u01b0\u1eddng thi\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 x\u1eed l\u00fd nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p m\u00e0 ng\u00e0y nay c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111ang \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t. Kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng \u0110\u00f4ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u1ed5 qu\u00e1t v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0ng gi\u00e1o s\u0129 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tham kh\u1ea3o.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                        1. C\u00e1c ch\u1ee7ng sinh c\u1ea7n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t n\u1ec1n \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o li\u00ean ng\u00e0nh bao qu\u00e1t h\u01a1n, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1o thuy\u1ebft, trong c\u00e1c l\u00e3nh v\u1ef1c ti\u1ec1n h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n gi\u00fap h\u1ecd kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 t\u00e2m c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u1ed9n x\u1ed9n, v\u1eafng m\u1eb7t cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u00e2m c\u1ea3m. C\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m sao cho ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 qu\u00e2n b\u00ecnh t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft cho s\u1ee9 v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. Nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c gia \u0111\u00ecnh th\u1eadt thi\u1ebft y\u1ebfu cho vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh. Th\u1eadt quan tr\u1ecdng vi\u1ec7c c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 gi\u1eef vai tr\u00f2 trong ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh ch\u1ee7ng vi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng linh m\u1ee5c, v\u00ec c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh gi\u00fap x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00e0 gi\u1eef cho ch\u00fang c\u1eafm r\u1ec5 trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf. S\u1ebd h\u1eefu \u00edch vi\u1ec7c c\u00e1c ch\u1ee7ng sinh k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p th\u1eddi gian trong ch\u1ee7ng vi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian \u1edf gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9. \u1ede \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n v\u1edbi c\u00e1c th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u00ec trong s\u1ee9 v\u1ee5 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, n\u00f3i chung, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1edbi c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh. \u201cS\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n, c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o linh m\u1ee5c s\u1ebd th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00ednh \u0111a d\u1ea1ng v\u00e0 t\u00ednh b\u1ed5 sung c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c \u01a1n g\u1ecdi kh\u00e1c nhau trong Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i\u201d.[59]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                          1. Nh\u1eefng ph\u00fac \u0111\u00e1p cho cu\u1ed9c tham v\u1ea5n c\u0169ng nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o c\u00e1c c\u00e1n b\u1ed9 gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 trong vi\u1ec7c s\u0103n s\u00f3c m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c gi\u1ea3ng vi\u00ean v\u00e0 c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n, c\u00e1c \u00fd s\u0129 c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u1ee7a c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng, c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, c\u00e1c lu\u1eadt s\u01b0 c\u1ee7a thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i h\u1ecdc, tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u v\u00e0 t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. C\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m th\u1ef1c ti\u1ec5n, gi\u00fap cho nh\u1eefng s\u00e1ng ki\u1ebfn m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1eafm r\u1ec5 trong c\u00e1c ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh. \u201cC\u00e1c kh\u00f3a h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 c\u00e1c ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u1ea1ch \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch h\u1ed9i nh\u1eadp ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0o trong \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn h\u01a1n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i\u201d.[60]<\/a> Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 t\u1ed1t c\u00f3 t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng \u201c\u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u1ea9n tr\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang do nh\u1eefng v\u1ee5 b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 l\u00e0m d\u1ee5ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c\u201d.[61]<\/a> T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 l\u00e0m suy gi\u1ea3m, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ebd c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c linh h\u01b0\u1edbng, c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c kho t\u00e0ng thi\u00eang li\u00eang c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i, v\u00e0 B\u00ed t\u00edch H\u00f2a Gi\u1ea3i.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                                                            CHU\u1ea8N B\u1eca H\u00d4N NH\u00c2N<\/p>\n

                                                                            CHO C\u00c1C \u0110\u00d4I B\u1ea0N \u0110\u00cdNH H\u00d4N<\/p>\n

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                                                                            1. B\u1eb1ng nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c nhau, c\u00e1c Ngh\u1ecb Ph\u1ee5 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng H\u1ed9i \u0110\u1ed3ng tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n gi\u00fap c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 v\u00e0 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n.[62]<\/a> C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c th\u0103ng hoa v\u00e0 l\u00e0m ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n chi\u1ec1u k\u00edch x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a hi\u1ec7n sinh, trao cho t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c \u00fd ngh\u0129a s\u00e2u xa nh\u1ea5t, v\u00e0 \u0111em l\u1ea1i \u00edch l\u1ee3i cho con c\u00e1i qua vi\u1ec7c cung c\u1ea5p b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                              1. \u201cT\u00ednh ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i h\u00f4m nay v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 m\u00e0 c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi m\u1ed9t n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c l\u1edbn h\u01a1n n\u01a1i to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu trong vi\u1ec7c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eafp k\u1ebft h\u00f4n. T\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao g\u1ed3m. Trong s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ee9c khi\u1ebft t\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 v\u00f4 gi\u00e1, gi\u00fap cho s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi. V\u1ec1 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n n\u00e0y, c\u00e1c Ngh\u1ecb Ph\u1ee5 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng H\u1ed9i \u0110\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ed v\u1ec1 nhu c\u1ea7u huy \u0111\u1ed9ng to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u1ed9ng r\u00e3i h\u01a1n, b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh ch\u1ee9ng t\u00e1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1eb7t n\u1ec1n cho vi\u1ec7c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh khai t\u00e2m Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o, qua vi\u1ec7c n\u00eau b\u1eadt m\u1ed1i n\u1ed1i k\u1ebft gi\u1eefa H\u00f4n Ph\u1ed1i, Ph\u00e9p R\u1eeda v\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u00ed t\u00edch kh\u00e1c. C\u00e1c Ngh\u1ecb Ph\u1ee5 c\u0169ng n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh chuy\u00ean bi\u1ec7t chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n nh\u1eafm \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap cho c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n kinh nghi\u1ec7m th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c tham d\u1ef1 v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i, v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh \u0111a d\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh\u201d.[63]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                1. T\u00f4i kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 c\u00e1c c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft \u00edch l\u1ee3i l\u1edbn lao m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00ednh h\u00f4n khi c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c gi\u00e1m m\u1ee5c \u00dd ghi nh\u1eadn, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u201cm\u1ed9t ngu\u1ed3n v\u00f4 gi\u00e1, v\u00ec khi h\u1ecd ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 hi\u1ebfn, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap canh t\u00e2n to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 c\u01a1 c\u1ea5u Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i. H\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c lan t\u1ecfa v\u00e0 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y s\u1ef1 tri\u1ec3n n\u1edf c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh huynh \u0111\u1ec7 trong c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu\u201d.[64]<\/a> C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch th\u00edch \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 k\u1ebft c\u1ea5u c\u00e1c ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, v\u00e0 m\u1ed7i Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ecba ph\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ebd c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc xem c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 cung c\u1ea5p m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb xa l\u1ea1 v\u1edbi b\u00ed t\u00edch \u1ea5y. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 gi\u00e1o l\u00fd ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1ed3i nh\u00e9t qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f4ng tin. \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng v\u1eady, \u201ckh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i nhi\u1ec1u ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ee5 s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt trong s\u00e2u xa m\u1edbi l\u00e0m cho linh h\u1ed3n vui th\u1ecfa\u201d.[65]<\/a> Ph\u1ea9m t\u00ednh quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n l\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u00ednh, v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c c\u00f4ng b\u1ed1 l\u1ea1i l\u1eddi rao gi\u1ea3ng ti\u00ean kh\u1edfi, m\u1ed1i \u01b0u ti\u00ean n\u00ean d\u00e0nh cho vi\u1ec7c tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y h\u1eefu hi\u1ec7u v\u00e0 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n s\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecdn \u0111\u1eddi v\u1edbi nhau \u201cv\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 can \u0111\u1ea3m v\u00e0 qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i\u201d.[66]<\/a> Chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i \u201ckhai t\u00e2m\u201d v\u00e0o B\u00ed t\u00edch H\u00f4n Ph\u1ed1i, cung c\u1ea5p cho c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn l\u00e3nh b\u00ed t\u00edch n\u00e0y c\u00e1ch x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc trong vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                  1. V\u1edbi s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh th\u1eeba sai, c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng nh\u00e2n s\u1ef1 m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 kh\u00e1c nhau, c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 cung \u1ee9ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb t\u1eeb xa, b\u1eb1ng g\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u00e1ng v\u00e0 l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh, \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n tri\u1ec3n n\u1edf v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. C\u00e1c nh\u00f3m th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u1ea5t h\u1eefu \u00edch. C\u0169ng v\u1eady, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n v\u1eabn l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u1ebft y\u1ebfu, v\u00ec m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0 gi\u00fap m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 n\u00e0y m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 d\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh chia s\u1ebb \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi. Vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng, n\u00f3 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y trong m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o ch\u1ec9 di\u1ec5n ra ngay tr\u01b0\u1edbc vi\u1ec7c c\u1eed h\u00e0nh h\u00f4n l\u1ec5. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed7i \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n, vi\u1ec7c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb l\u00fac ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi. Nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t cam k\u1ebft tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n v\u00e0 d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t cho h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n h\u1ea7u ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh cha m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh, n\u01a1i vi\u1ec7c cha m\u1eb9 h\u1ecd ch\u1ecdn nhau m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n v\u00e0 v\u1eabn l\u00e0m m\u1edbi l\u1ea1i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0y h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y. Theo ngh\u0129a n\u00e0y, nh\u1eefng s\u00e1ng ki\u1ebfn m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eafm gi\u00fap c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 trong Tin M\u1eebng v\u1ec1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u0169ng gi\u00fap c\u1ea3 con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd n\u1eefa, b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb ch\u00fang cho \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. Ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 th\u1ea5p gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n l\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t v\u00ed d\u1ee5: t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn Ng\u00e0y Saint Valentine; t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 n\u01b0\u1edbc, nh\u1eefng quan t\u00e2m th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ea1i t\u1ecf ra nhanh nh\u1ea1y h\u01a1n Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i trong kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a l\u1ec5 m\u1eebng n\u00e0y.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                    1. Vi\u1ec7c c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb k\u1ecbp th\u1eddi cho c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00ednh h\u00f4n c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i gi\u00fap h\u1ecd nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng nguy c\u01a1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra. Nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ebd kh\u00f4n c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c c\u1eaft \u0111\u1ee9t m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 m\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00e0 h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 nh\u1ee9c nh\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5y tr\u01b0\u1edbc. Trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n say m\u00ea nhau l\u00fac ban \u0111\u1ea7u, c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ed1 che gi\u1ea5u hay t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i h\u00f3a m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111i\u1ec1u, v\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u1ed1 tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng; ch\u1ec9 v\u1ec1 sau th\u00ec c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u1edbi n\u1ed5i l\u00ean. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong h\u1ecd k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng t\u1eeb h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch h\u1ecd hi\u1ec3u t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 cam k\u1ebft nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y mu\u1ed1n \u1edf ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia, v\u00e0 v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n c\u00f9ng nhau x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng. Nh\u1eefng th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf s\u1ebd gi\u00fap h\u1ecd nh\u1eadn ra ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec3m chung, v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ec9 s\u1ef1 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn l\u1eabn nhau m\u00e0 th\u00f4i th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef h\u1ecd v\u1edbi nhau. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec h\u1eddi h\u1ee3t, mong manh v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t quy\u1ebft cho b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 khao kh\u00e1t. \u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh k\u1ebft h\u00f4n tr\u1eeb phi \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do s\u00e2u xa c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m cho m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                      1. Trong b\u1ea5t lu\u1eadn t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0o, n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia, th\u00ec c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ef1c ti\u1ec5n v\u00e0o kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng gi\u00fap ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng, v\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y gi\u00fap th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng hy sinh, nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng xung \u0111\u1ed9t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra; c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. C\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u nguy hi\u1ec3m trong m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ra, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch th\u1ebf h\u1eefu hi\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ec3 \u1ee9ng ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi c\u00e1c nguy hi\u1ec3m \u1ea5y. Th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n k\u1ebft h\u00f4n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 nhau. H\u1ecd vui v\u1ebb qu\u1ea5n qu\u00edt nhau v\u00e0 l\u00e0m c\u00e1c vi\u1ec7c c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi nhau, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn hi\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 ai.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                        1. Vi\u1ec7c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, c\u1ea3 ng\u1eafn h\u1ea1n l\u1eabn d\u00e0i h\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m sao cho \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn l\u1ec5 c\u01b0\u1edbi nh\u01b0 k\u1ebft th\u00fac c\u1ee7a con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, m\u00e0 tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfng g\u1ecdi su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi, \u0111\u1eb7t n\u1ec1n tr\u00ean m\u1ed9t quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c ti\u1ec5n, s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi nhau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi th\u1eed th\u00e1ch v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u1eddi kh\u1eafc kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. Vi\u1ec7c s\u0103n s\u00f3c m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00ednh h\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o m\u1ed1i d\u00e2y h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i, gi\u00fap c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u00e0o s\u00e2u t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd m\u00e0 c\u00f2n v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. \u0110i\u1ec1u nay bao g\u1ed3m kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap h\u1ecd \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ngu\u1ed3n tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap qu\u00ed gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n bao g\u1ed3m vi\u1ec7c cung \u1ee9ng nh\u1eefng ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh thi\u1ebft th\u1ef1c, nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p, nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i b\u1ea3n h\u1eefu hi\u1ec7u v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t khoa s\u01b0 ph\u1ea1m y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, th\u00edch h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng gi\u00fap h\u1ecd tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m. Vi\u1ec7c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i cung c\u1ea5p th\u00f4ng tin cho c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng d\u1ecbch v\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 khi c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n. C\u0169ng quan tr\u1ecdng vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eafc h\u1ecd nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng B\u00ed t\u00edch H\u00f2a Gi\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng cho h\u1ecd, cho ph\u00e9p h\u1ecd mang \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t Ch\u00faa nh\u1eefng t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 c\u00e1c sai l\u1ea7m trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd n\u1eefa, \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn l\u00e3nh \u01a1n tha th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ea7y l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t v\u00e0 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh ch\u1eefa tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                                                                          1. Nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb ng\u1eafn h\u1ea1n cho h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 thi\u1ec7p m\u1eddi, trang ph\u1ee5c, ti\u1ec7c m\u1eebng, v\u00e0 v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng chi ti\u1ebft d\u1ec5 l\u00e0m c\u1ea1n ki\u1ec7t kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 t\u00fai ti\u1ec1n m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 s\u1ee9c l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui n\u1eefa. C\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c c\u1eed h\u00e0nh l\u1ec5 c\u01b0\u1edbi trong t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7y \u1eafp n\u1ed7i lo, thay v\u00ec l\u1eafng \u0111\u1ecdng v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng cho b\u01b0\u1edbc quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u00e0 h\u1ecd s\u1eafp th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n. C\u0169ng ch\u00ednh m\u1ed1i b\u1eadn t\u00e2m v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t h\u00f4n l\u1ec5 ho\u00e0nh tr\u00e1ng \u0111\u00e3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 cu\u1ed9c k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p de facto<\/em>; v\u00ec ng\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng chi ph\u00ed cao, \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n thay v\u00ec t\u1eadp trung tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u1eed h\u00e0nh t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u1ea5y trong s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, l\u1ea1i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u1eed h\u00e0nh h\u00f4n l\u1ec5. Cho ph\u00e9p t\u00f4i n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y v\u1edbi c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a c\u01b0\u1edbi. C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y c\u00f3 can \u0111\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00e1m kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb nu\u1ed1t ch\u1eedng b\u1edfi m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ti\u00eau th\u1ee5 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ph\u00f4 tr\u01b0\u01a1ng r\u1ed7ng tu\u1ebfch. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n chia s\u1ebb, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e1nh h\u00f3a b\u1edfi \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng. C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e1m c\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u01a1n s\u01a1 b\u00ecnh d\u1ecb h\u01a1n, trong \u0111\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u01b0u ti\u00ean h\u01a1n b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 g\u00ec kh\u00e1c. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 v\u00e0 to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap l\u00e0m cho m\u1ed1i \u01b0u ti\u00ean n\u00e0y tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n thay v\u00ec m\u1ed9t ngo\u1ea1i l\u1ec7.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                            1. Trong vi\u1ec7c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho c\u1eed h\u00e0nh ph\u1ee5ng v\u1ee5 n\u00e0y tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n th\u00e2m s\u00e2u v\u00e0 tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u trong \u0111\u00f3. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e3nh Ph\u00e9p R\u1eeda, s\u1ef1 cam k\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u01b0ng thu\u1eadn – v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p th\u00e2n x\u00e1c c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a ho\u00e0n h\u1ee3p cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i – nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00ecn nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p c\u00f3 t\u00ednh giao \u01b0\u1edbc gi\u1eefa Con Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa Nh\u1eadp th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh c\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi. N\u01a1i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e3nh Ph\u00e9p R\u1eeda, c\u00e1c l\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef h\u00f9ng h\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9c tin. Th\u00e2n x\u00e1c, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ef1ng n\u00ean v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u00fd ngh\u0129a do Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa ban, \u201ctr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c th\u1eeba t\u00e1c vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u00ed t\u00edch n\u00e0y, \u00fd th\u1ee9c r\u1eb1ng trong kh\u1ebf \u01b0\u1edbc v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u1ea5y, m\u1ea7u nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ed1n b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n\u201d.[67]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                              1. Nhi\u1ec1u khi \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u1eafm b\u1eaft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e0m \u00fd thi\u00eang li\u00eang v\u00e0 th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u01b0ng thu\u1eadn, \u0111i\u1ec1u soi s\u00e1ng \u00fd ngh\u0129a cho m\u1ecdi d\u1ea5u ch\u1ec9 ti\u1ebfp sau \u0111\u00f3. C\u1ea7n nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb gi\u1ea3m tr\u1eeb \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i m\u00e0 th\u00f4i; ch\u00fang li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 t\u00ednh bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai: \u201ccho \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi ng\u00e0y su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi\u201d. N\u1ed9i dung c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u01b0ng thu\u1eadn cho th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng \u201ct\u1ef1 do v\u00e0 trung th\u00e0nh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c nhau; \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n, ch\u00fang h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 nhau, c\u1ea3 trong c\u00e1c t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan li\u00ean v\u1ecb l\u1eabn c\u00e1c t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Th\u1eadt v\u1eady, trong n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a th\u00f4ng tin to\u00e0n c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y xem x\u00e9t s\u1ef1 t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i g\u00e2y ra b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 leo thang c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i l\u1eddi h\u1ee9a\u2026 T\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, trung th\u00e0nh v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh h\u1ee9a: \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 mua hay b\u00e1n. Ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c b\u1eb1ng s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 hy sinh\u201d.[68]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                1. C\u00e1c gi\u00e1m m\u1ee5c Kenya ghi nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng \u201cnhi\u1ec1u [ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb] t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o ng\u00e0y c\u01b0\u1edbi v\u00e0 qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t s\u1ef1 cam k\u1ebft su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi m\u00e0 h\u1ecd s\u1eafp b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o\u201d.[69]<\/a> H\u1ecd c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn b\u00ed t\u00edch n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i l\u00f9i v\u00e0o qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 v\u00e0 thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 k\u00fd \u1ee9c, \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i m\u00e3i m\u00e3i c\u00f2n \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n.[70]<\/a> \u00dd ngh\u0129a sinh s\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a th\u00e2n x\u00e1c, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e0y t\u1ecf trong su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t \u201cs\u1ef1 n\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfp kh\u00f4ng gi\u00e1n \u0111o\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef ph\u1ee5ng v\u1ee5\u201d v\u00e0 \u201ctheo m\u1ed9t ngh\u0129a n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ph\u1ee5ng v\u1ee5\u201d.[71]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                  1. \u0110\u00f4i b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 suy ni\u1ec7m c\u00e1c b\u00e0i \u0111\u1ecdc Th\u00e1nh Kinh v\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng chi\u1ebfc nh\u1eabn m\u00e0 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi trao cho nhau, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u kh\u00e1c trong nghi th\u1ee9c. Th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t ch\u00fat n\u00e0o khi hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1ec5 c\u01b0\u1edbi m\u00e0 ch\u01b0a h\u1ec1 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nhau v\u00e0 cho nhau, \u0111\u1ec3 xin Ch\u00faa gi\u00fap m\u00ecnh gi\u1eef trung th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng nhau xin Ch\u00faa cho bi\u1ebft Ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec n\u01a1i m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00e2ng hi\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh cho \u0110\u1ee9c Trinh N\u1eef Maria. Nh\u1eefng ai gi\u00fap \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n n\u00ean gi\u00fap h\u1ecd kinh nghi\u1ec7m nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y, l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc r\u1ea5t h\u1eefu \u00edch. \u201cPh\u1ee5ng v\u1ee5 l\u1ec5 c\u01b0\u1edbi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1eed h\u00e0nh v\u1eeba c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1eeba c\u1ee7a c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n. Nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i ti\u1ec7c c\u01b0\u1edbi Cana. R\u01b0\u1ee3u ngon, \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb ph\u00e9p l\u1ea1 c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 \u0111em l\u1ea1i ni\u1ec1m vui cho s\u1ef1 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u1edbi, l\u00e0 r\u01b0\u1ee3u m\u1edbi c\u1ee7a giao \u01b0\u1edbc \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4 v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam n\u1eef thu\u1ed9c m\u1ecdi th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i\u2026 R\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1eed h\u00e0nh n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n bao g\u1ed3m nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00edt khi tham d\u1ef1 v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i, hay nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o hay c\u00e1c c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o kh\u00e1c. V\u00ec th\u1ebf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i qu\u00ed b\u00e1u \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f4ng b\u1ed1 Tin M\u1eebng c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4\u201d.[72]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                                                                                    1. C\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i xem h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0 chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eefng ai t\u1ef1 do ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a v\u00e0 y\u00eau nhau th\u00ec m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n. Khi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u1ec9 h\u1ec7 t\u1ea1i \u1edf n\u00e9t h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn th\u1ec3 l\u00fd hay \u1edf t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m m\u01a1 h\u1ed3, \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean r\u1ea5t ch\u00eanh v\u00eanh m\u1ed9t khi t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u1ea5y suy gi\u1ea3m hay n\u00e9t h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn th\u1ec3 l\u00fd \u1ea5y t\u00e0n l\u1ee5i. Trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng x\u1ea3y ra, n\u00ean c\u00e0ng thi\u1ebft y\u1ebfu vi\u1ec7c c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 trong su\u1ed1t nh\u1eefng n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m phong ph\u00fa v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0o s\u00e2u c\u00e1i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1ef1 do v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7y \u00fd th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, trong \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd ch\u1ecdn c\u00f3 nhau, gi\u1eef nhau v\u00e0 y\u00eau nhau su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi. Th\u01b0\u1eddng giai \u0111o\u1ea1n \u0111\u00ednh h\u00f4n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 d\u00e0i, v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u1ea5y h\u01a1i v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng v\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fd do, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng ng\u1ea1i h\u01a1n n\u1eefa, ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn. V\u00ec th\u1ebf \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng m\u1edbi c\u01b0\u1edbi c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh c\u00e1i ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e1ng l\u1ebd \u0111\u00e3 di\u1ec5n ra trong th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u00ednh h\u00f4n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                      1. M\u1ed9t th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 l\u1edbn kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa cho vi\u1ec7c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n thay cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3. S\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 h\u1ee7y b\u1ecf, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e1nh hi\u1ebfn nh\u1edd B\u00ed t\u00edch H\u00f4n Ph\u1ed1i. V\u00e0 khi k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau, \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t vai tr\u00f2 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o trong m\u1ed9t d\u1ef1 \u00e1n su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi. C\u00e1i nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y ph\u1ea3i h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai m\u00e0 h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap c\u1ee7a \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. V\u00ec ch\u00ednh l\u00fd do n\u00e0y, kh\u00f4ng ai trong \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia ph\u1ea3i ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i g\u1ea1t qua m\u1ed9t b\u00ean nh\u1eefng \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y: \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m ch\u01b0a ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh, c\u1ea7n tri\u1ec3n n\u1edf, m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng tr\u00ecnh c\u00f2n \u0111ang ti\u1ebfp di\u1ec5n. M\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u01b0 kh\u01b0 ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u cho th\u1ea5y cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1edfi \u0111i nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ef1 \u00e1n ph\u1ea3i x\u00fac ti\u1ebfn c\u00f9ng nhau, v\u1edbi l\u00f2ng ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn, c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng, ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng v\u00e0 qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i. M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1eeb t\u1eeb nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau s\u1ebd nh\u01b0\u1eddng b\u01b0\u1edbc cho s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5t v\u1ea5n v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch nhau th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean, day \u0111i day l\u1ea1i c\u00e1i t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u c\u1ee7a nhau, \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng t\u1ed1i h\u1eadu th\u01b0, v\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 tranh ch\u1ea5p h\u01a1n thua, v\u00e0 b\u00e0o ch\u1eefa cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n cho th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng gi\u00fap nhau x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf n\u00e0y c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn cho c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng m\u1edbi c\u01b0\u1edbi ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u, \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u1eafm hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e1m c\u01b0\u1edbi \u201cch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u\u201d. Qua vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i l\u00ean l\u1eddi \u01b0ng thu\u1eadn, h\u1ecd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i, \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00f4i t\u00e2n h\u00f4n nh\u1eadn l\u00e3nh s\u1ef1 ch\u00fac l\u00e0nh, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eadn l\u00e3nh m\u1ed9t \u01a1n hu\u1ec7 v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y cho h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y. H\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch ng\u1ed3i xu\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi nhau v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch th\u1ebf c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 m\u00e0 h\u1ecd ho\u1ea1ch \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.
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                                                                                                        1. T\u00f4i nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u n\u00f3i x\u01b0a: n\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ee9ng y\u00ean l\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc t\u00f9 \u0111\u1ecdng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t cho c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u1ea3<\/em>. N\u1ebfu trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, kinh nghi\u1ec7m y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u00f9 \u0111\u1ecdng l\u1ea1i, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t \u0111i s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea5n kh\u00edch \u0111\u00e1ng l\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ea9y cho n\u00f3. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau non tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u0111i\u1ec7u nh\u1ea3y v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai v\u1edbi ni\u1ec1m hy v\u1ecdng ng\u1eadp tr\u00e0n. Hy v\u1ecdng l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 men m\u00e0 trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00ednh h\u00f4n v\u00e0 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n n\u00f3 gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta nh\u00ecn qu\u00e1 nh\u1eefng tranh c\u00e3i, nh\u1eefng xung \u0111\u1ed9t v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft nh\u00ecn m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 trong m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn h\u01a1n. N\u00f3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t quy\u1ebft v\u00e0 lo l\u1eafng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1edbn l\u00ean. Hy v\u1ecdng c\u0169ng gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta s\u1ed1ng h\u1ebft m\u00ecnh trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, d\u00e0nh m\u1ecdi quan t\u00e2m cho \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u00ec c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb m\u1ed9t t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng t\u1eadn l\u1ef1c trong ch\u00ednh hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i n\u00e0y.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                          1. Ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra \u1edf nh\u1eefng giai \u0111o\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c nhau v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng hy sinh. Nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t ban \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn nh\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ed7 cho vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia b\u00e2y gi\u1edd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. Ni\u1ec1m hoan l\u1ea1c thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 nhau d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c nh\u00ecn \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ef1 \u00e1n chung, \u0111\u1eb7t h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia \u01b0u ti\u00ean h\u01a1n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 vui m\u1eebng nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m phong ph\u00fa cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Khi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01a1n, n\u00f3 c\u0169ng h\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft \u201cth\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng\u201d. Ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u00edch k\u1ef7 hay t\u00ednh to\u00e1n, s\u1ef1 th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau, m\u1ed9t t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a cho v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn, v\u00ec \u00edch l\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh. \u1ede m\u1ed7i giai \u0111o\u1ea1n m\u1edbi c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t nhu c\u1ea7u ph\u1ea3i ng\u1ed3i xu\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 trao \u0111\u1ed5i l\u1ea1i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng thu\u1eadn, \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eafng k\u1ebb thua, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u th\u1eafng. Trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, c\u00e1c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01a1n ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, v\u00ec m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u1ee3 v\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng, \u0111\u1ec1u chia s\u1ebb tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh; tuy nhi\u00ean, m\u1ed7i t\u1ed5 \u1ea5m \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o v\u00e0 m\u1ed7i cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n s\u1ebd t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t cho m\u00ecnh.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                            1. 221<\/strong>. Trong s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng cao qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng. M\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u00e3 r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf th\u00ec gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n v\u00e0 th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 h\u01a1n m\u00ecnh t\u01b0\u1edfng, th\u00ec gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng v\u1ed9i ngh\u0129 qu\u00e1 nhanh v\u00e0 qu\u00e1 v\u00f4 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 chia tay, nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh l\u1edbn l\u00ean, trong \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. S\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i, s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n, s\u1ef1 b\u1eebng n\u1edf nh\u1eefng t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t c\u00f3 trong m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u2013 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. M\u1ed7i cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i \u201cl\u1ecbch s\u1eed c\u1ee9u \u0111\u1ed9\u201d, trong \u0111\u00f3, t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u1eadp ch\u1eefng \u2013 nh\u1edd \u01a1n Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 nh\u1edd s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3 qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7y s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o v\u1ec1 ph\u1ea7n ch\u00fang ta \u2013 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u1edbn l\u00ean qua th\u1eddi gian, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 qu\u00ed gi\u00e1 v\u00e0 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng. Ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng s\u1ee9 m\u1ea1ng l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau nhau l\u00e0 gi\u00fap nhau tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c h\u01a1n? Th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y s\u1ef1 l\u1edbn l\u00ean c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 gi\u00fap m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh c\u0103n t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i tay ngh\u1ec1 tinh x\u1ea3o. Khi ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ecdc trong Th\u00e1nh Kinh v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef, ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft l\u00e0m ra A\u0111am (x. St 2,7); Ng\u00e0i nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft y\u1ebfu nh\u01b0ng b\u1ecb thi\u1ebfu, v\u00e0 v\u00ec th\u1ebf Ng\u00e0i t\u1ea1o ra Eva, v\u00e0 Ng\u00e0i nghe ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean th\u1ed1t l\u00ean: \u201cV\u00e2ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y x\u1ee9ng h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi t\u00f4i!\u201d D\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nghe cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ea7y ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean \u1ea5y, cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n x\u1ea3y ra khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean g\u1eb7p nhau. Trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, ngay c\u1ea3 v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng th\u1eddi kh\u1eafc kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1edf ra cho m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan gi\u1eefa h\u1ecd, nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecd \u0111ang g\u1eb7p nhau l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u. \u1ede m\u1ed7i giai \u0111o\u1ea1n m\u1edbi, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u201ch\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh\u201d nhau. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee3 th\u1ee7 c\u00f4ng tinh x\u1ea3o, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                              1. S\u0103n s\u00f3c m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng m\u1edbi c\u01b0\u1edbi c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i bao g\u1ed3m vi\u1ec7c kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 h\u1ecd qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i trao ban s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng. \u201cPh\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh ri\u00eang v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, vi\u1ec7c k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch h\u00f3a gia \u0111\u00ecnh x\u1ea3y ra c\u00e1ch th\u00edch h\u1ee3p nh\u01b0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed3ng thu\u1eadn gi\u1eefa hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ecbp \u0111\u1ed9 th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 l\u01b0u t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu. Trong \u00fd ngh\u0129a n\u00e0y, gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a Th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p Humanae Vitae<\/em> (x. 1014) v\u00e0 T\u00f4ng hu\u1ea5n Familiaris Consortio<\/em> (x. 14; 2835) ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn, \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t n\u00e3o tr\u1ea1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00f9 \u0111\u1ecbch v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng\u2026 Nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c sinh s\u1ea3n c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m gi\u1ea3 thi\u1ebft s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m, v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 \u2018t\u00e2m \u0111i\u1ec3m b\u00ed m\u1eadt nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 l\u00e0 cung th\u00e1nh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u1ede \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, v\u1edbi ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa vang v\u1ecdng trong s\u00e2u th\u1eb3m t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n\u2019 (Gaudium et Spes<\/em>, 16). \u0110\u00f4i b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u1eafng nghe ti\u1ebfng Ch\u00faa trong l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m m\u00ecnh, th\u00ec quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng t\u1ef1 do c\u00e1ch th\u00e2m s\u00e2u h\u01a1n, t\u1ef1 do kh\u1ecfi t\u00ednh th\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ee7 quan v\u00e0 kh\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 l\u00f4i k\u00e9o c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng l\u1ec1 th\u00f3i lan tr\u00e0n trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i\u201d.[73]<\/a> Gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a C\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng Vatican II r\u1ea5t r\u00f5: \u201c[\u0110\u00f4i b\u1ea1n] s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c b\u00e0n b\u1ea1c v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng chung. H\u1ecd h\u00e3y l\u01b0u t\u00e2m x\u00e9t \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3 thi\u1ec7n \u00edch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u1eabn c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u01b0a con \u0111\u00e3 sinh ra \u0111\u1eddi v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con m\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111em \u0111\u1ebfn. V\u1ec1 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n n\u00e0y h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t l\u1eabn tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, h\u1ecd n\u00ean t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a nh\u00f3m gia \u0111\u00ecnh, c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i v\u00e0 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i. C\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ai kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng \u0111\u01b0a ra ph\u00e1n quy\u1ebft tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t Ch\u00faa\u201d.[74]<\/a> H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, \u201cvi\u1ec7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean \u2018lu\u1eadt t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 chu k\u1ef3 r\u1ee5ng tr\u1ee9ng\u2019 (Humanae Vitae<\/em>, 11) ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ed5 v\u00f5, v\u00ec \u2018nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng th\u00e2n x\u00e1c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu, kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 s\u1ef1 d\u1ecbu d\u00e0ng \u00e2u y\u1ebfm gi\u1eefa h\u1ecd v\u00e0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 cho vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c\u2019 (Gi\u00e1o L\u00fd c\u1ee7a H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh C\u00f4ng Gi\u00e1o<\/em>, 2370). C\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n n\u1eefa s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt r\u1eb1ng con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 k\u1ef3 di\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui cho cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 cho Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i. Xuy\u00ean qua ch\u00fang, Ch\u00faa \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y\u201d.[75]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                                                                                                C\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ebf<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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                                                                                                                1. C\u00e1c Ngh\u1ecb Ph\u1ee5 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng H\u1ed9i \u0110\u1ed3ng ghi nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng \u201cnh\u1eefng n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1eddi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t giai \u0111o\u1ea1n nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng, trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u00fd th\u1ee9c h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 v\u00e0 v\u1ec1 \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. Do \u0111\u00f3, s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111i xa h\u01a1n vi\u1ec7c c\u1eed h\u00e0nh b\u00ed t\u00edch (Familiaris Consortio<\/em>, Ph\u1ea7n III). V\u1ec1 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n n\u00e0y, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3ng m\u1ed9t vai tr\u00f2 quan tr\u1ecdng. Gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u00e1c v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng tr\u1ebb, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 c\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c \u0111o\u00e0n th\u1ec3, c\u00e1c phong tr\u00e0o Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i v\u00e0 c\u00e1c c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n m\u1edbi. C\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1edfi m\u1edf m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u0103n b\u1ea3n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng l\u1edbn lao l\u00e0 con c\u00e1i. S\u1ef1 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i g\u00e1n cho t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a linh \u0111\u1ea1o gia \u0111\u00ecnh, vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 tham d\u1ef1 Th\u00e1nh L\u1ec5 Ch\u00faa Nh\u1eadt, v\u00e0 c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7n \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y s\u1ef1 l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng thi\u00eang li\u00eang, v\u00e0 li\u00ean \u0111\u1edbi trong nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng. Ph\u1ee5ng v\u1ee5, c\u00e1c th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c v\u00e0 Th\u00e1nh L\u1ec5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1eed h\u00e0nh cho c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 v\u00e0o d\u1ecbp k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng trong vi\u1ec7c th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y Ph\u00fac \u00c2m h\u00f3a xuy\u00ean qua gia \u0111\u00ecnh\u201d.[76]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                  1. Ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau lu\u00f4n c\u1ea7n th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng gian; m\u1ecdi c\u00e1i kh\u00e1c ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c. C\u1ea7n th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 trao \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n, \u0111\u1ec3 \u00f4m nhau m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ung dung thong th\u1ea3, \u0111\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb c\u00e1c k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch, \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eafng nghe nhau v\u00e0 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o m\u1eaft nhau, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng nhau v\u00e0 th\u1eaft ch\u1eb7t h\u01a1n n\u1eefa m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan. \u0110\u00f4i khi nh\u1ecbp s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed3ng nhi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u00e1p l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a n\u01a1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p kh\u00e1c, v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u1eb1m \u1edf ch\u1ed7 thi\u1ebfu th\u1eddi gian ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng cho nhau, hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf chung ph\u00f2ng m\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng nh\u00f3m v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng n\u00ean t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb trong t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng ch\u00eanh v\u00eanh bi\u1ebft t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u1ea5y, \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nhau, ngay c\u1ea3 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc thinh l\u1eb7ng \u0111\u1ea7y \u00fd ngh\u0129a.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                    1. C\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00f3i tr\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb th\u1ef1c ti\u1ec5n m\u00e0 h\u1ecd th\u1ea5y l\u00e0 h\u1eefu \u00edch: l\u00ean k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch th\u1eddi gian r\u1ea3nh v\u1edbi nhau, nh\u1eefng l\u00fac gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i, nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c kh\u00e1c nhau \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1eebng c\u00e1c s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n quan tr\u1ecdng, vi\u1ec7c chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh t\u00e2m linh. H\u1ecd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cung c\u1ea5p c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ebf gi\u00fap c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m cho nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u1ea5y tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7y \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7y y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, v\u00e0 nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 li\u00ean l\u1ea1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quan tr\u1ecdng khi \u0111\u1ebfn giai \u0111o\u1ea1n m\u00e0 t\u00ednh m\u1edbi l\u1ea1 c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 m\u00f2n m\u1ecfi \u0111i. Khi m\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n bi\u1ebft d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho nhau n\u1eefa, th\u00ec m\u1ed9t ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd t\u1ecb n\u1ea1n trong c\u00e1c th\u1ee9 thi\u1ebft b\u1ecb \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed, ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ec9 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh s\u1ef1 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                      1. C\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng m\u1edbi c\u01b0\u1edbi c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ed9t th\u00f3i quen \u0111em l\u1ea1i \u00fd ngh\u0129a l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh cho s\u1ef1 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh, xuy\u00ean qua vi\u1ec7c chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng nghi ti\u1ebft h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y. \u0110\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u1ee5 h\u00f4n bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng, m\u1ed9t ch\u00fac l\u00e0nh bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i, s\u1ef1 ch\u1edd \u0111\u00f3n \u1edf c\u1eeda \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00e0o nhau khi v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ebfn \u0111i c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi nhau, v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi nhau trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0. Nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng h\u1eefu \u00edch vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u01a1n \u0111i\u1ec7u b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c, v\u00e0 t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c c\u00e1c l\u1ec5 m\u1eebng c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0o c\u00e1c d\u1ecbp k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m v\u00e0 c\u00e1c bi\u1ebfn c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00e2ng niu nh\u1eefng qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 l\u00e0m m\u1edbi l\u1ea1i ni\u1ec1m vui s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Bao l\u00e2u ch\u00fang ta c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0103n m\u1eebng, th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1eafp l\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng n\u00f3 kh\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 \u0111\u01a1n \u0111i\u1ec7u, v\u00e0 l\u00e0m sinh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1ecbp s\u1ed1ng h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u1edbi ni\u1ec1m hy v\u1ecdng.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                        1. C\u00e1c m\u1ee5c t\u1eed ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong \u0111\u1ee9c tin. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y bao h\u00e0m s\u1ef1 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 vi\u1ec7c th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean x\u01b0ng t\u1ed9i, vi\u1ec7c th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh linh h\u01b0\u1edbng, v\u00e0 th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng k\u1ef3 t\u0129nh t\u00e2m. N\u00f3 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh kinh nguy\u1ec7n gia \u0111\u00ecnh trong tu\u1ea7n, v\u00ec \u201cgia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f9ng nhau c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n s\u1ebd g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u1edbi nhau\u201d. Khi th\u0103m nh\u00e0 d\u00e2n ch\u00fang, ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean qui t\u1ee5 m\u1ecdi th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n v\u1eafn t\u1eaft v\u1edbi nhau, d\u00e2ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh trong tay Ch\u00faa. C\u0169ng r\u1ea5t h\u1eefu \u00edch vi\u1ec7c kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng t\u00ecm th\u1eddi gi\u1edd c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa, v\u00ec m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u1eadp gi\u00e1 ri\u00eang ph\u1ea3i v\u00e1c. T\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng lo l\u1eafng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, xin Ng\u00e0i ban s\u1ef1 ch\u1eefa tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 trung th\u00e0nh? C\u00e1c Ngh\u1ecb Ph\u1ee5 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng H\u1ed9i \u0110\u1ed3ng ghi nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng \u201cl\u1eddi Ch\u00faa l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 linh \u0111\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 nh\u00e2n danh gia \u0111\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i gi\u00fap \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta trong t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i gia, xuy\u00ean qua vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ecdc Th\u00e1nh Kinh trong b\u1ea7u kh\u00ed c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n. L\u1eddi Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 tin vui trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng ri\u00eang t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 v\u00e0 l\u00e0 \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng gi\u00fap ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c nhau m\u00e0 c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t\u201d.[77]<\/a><\/li>\n
                                                                                                                        2. Trong m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng ch\u01b0a l\u00e3nh Ph\u00e9p R\u1eeda hay kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ee9c tin. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia mu\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 tri\u1ec3n n\u1edf trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi r\u1ea5t kh\u1ed5 s\u1edf. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb chung \u0111\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn v\u1edbi nhau. Trong b\u1ea5t lu\u1eadn tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0o, vi\u1ec7c b\u00e0y t\u1ecf y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00edn h\u1eefu, vi\u1ec7c ban t\u1eb7ng ni\u1ec1m vui, xoa d\u1ecbu nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i \u0111au v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00e1nh h\u00f3a \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 n\u01a1i \u0111\u00e2u t\u00ecnh y\u00eau tu\u00f4n ch\u1ea3y, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ea7y s\u1ee9c bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch k\u1ef3 di\u1ec7u, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c \u201cm\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng ngo\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e1nh h\u00f3a nh\u1edd v\u1ee3, v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 ngo\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e1nh h\u00f3a nh\u1edd ch\u1ed3ng\u201d (1Cr 7,14).<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                          1. C\u00e1c gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9, c\u00e1c phong tr\u00e0o, tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 ch\u1ebf kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap b\u1eb1ng nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch, \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 v\u00e0 gi\u00fap c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bao g\u1ed3m: c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng s\u1ed1ng trong c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t khu v\u1ef1c, nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c t\u0129nh t\u00e2m ng\u1eafn cho c\u00e1c v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng; nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean vi\u00ean v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 m\u00e0 c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t, vi\u1ec7c t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, c\u00e1c th\u1eeba sai gia \u0111\u00ecnh gi\u00fap c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng, c\u00e1c d\u1ecbch v\u1ee5 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i x\u1eed l\u00fd nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 nghi\u1ec7n ng\u1eadp, b\u1ea5t trung v\u00e0 b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, c\u00e1c ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh t\u00e2m linh, c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o d\u00e0nh cho cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 con c\u00e1i b\u1ecb r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp m\u1eb7t gia \u0111\u00ecnh. V\u0103n ph\u00f2ng gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nh\u1ea1y b\u00e9n v\u00e0 h\u1eefu hi\u1ec7u nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m trung gian \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u, khi c\u1ea7n, \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1. C\u0169ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p do c\u00e1c nh\u00f3m v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng cung c\u1ea5p s\u1ef1 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap x\u00e9t nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5, c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n, \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o v\u00e0 n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 nhau. Nh\u1eefng nh\u00f3m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb \u0111\u1ee9c tin; \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi h\u1ecd c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 v\u00e0 gi\u00fap c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n tri\u1ec3n n\u1edf.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                            1. Trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n sau khi c\u01b0\u1edbi nhau th\u00ec c\u0169ng xa r\u1eddi c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng d\u1ecbp h\u1ecd quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o, v\u00e0 v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 m\u00e0 c\u00e1c gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cung \u1ee9ng cho h\u1ecd. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn d\u1ecbp R\u1eeda T\u1ed9i v\u00e0 R\u01b0\u1edbc L\u1ec5 L\u1ea7n \u0110\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd, hay l\u1ec5 tang ho\u1eb7c l\u1ec5 c\u01b0\u1edbi c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 con hay th\u00e2n h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. H\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ec1u t\u00e1i xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng d\u1ecbp n\u00e0y, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t \u1ea5y. M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn g\u1ea7n h\u01a1n, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng d\u1ecbp l\u00e0m ph\u00e9p nh\u00e0 hay nh\u1eefng d\u1ecbp ki\u1ec7u \u1ea3nh t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0110\u1ee9c M\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eebng nh\u00e0 trong khu x\u00f3m; \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 trao \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh. C\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u1ea5t h\u1eefu \u00edch vi\u1ec7c m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng l\u1edbn tu\u1ed5i gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb trong khu x\u00f3m qua vi\u1ec7c th\u0103m vi\u1ebfng h\u1ecd v\u00e0 cung c\u1ea5p s\u1ef1 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. Do nh\u1ecbp s\u1ed1ng g\u1ea5p r\u00fat ng\u00e0y nay, \u0111a s\u1ed1 c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tham d\u1ef1 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean; tuy nhi\u00ean, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thu h\u1eb9p ph\u1ea1m vi m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 n\u01a1i nh\u1eefng nh\u00f3m nh\u1ecf c\u00f3 t\u00ednh tuy\u1ec3n ch\u1ecdn. Ng\u00e0y nay, vi\u1ec7c s\u0103n s\u00f3c m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 cho c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 t\u00ednh th\u1eeba sai m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u0103n b\u1ea3n, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 \u0111i ra g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 m\u00e1y, s\u1ea3n xu\u1ea5t ra c\u00e1c kh\u00f3a h\u1ecdc m\u00e0 n\u00f3i chung ch\u1eb3ng m\u1ea5y ai \u0111\u1ebfn d\u1ef1.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                                                                                                              1. C\u0169ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 r\u01b0\u1ee3u ngon, \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111\u1eadm \u0111\u00e0. C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 r\u01b0\u1ee3u ngon b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u201c\u0111\u1ea1t h\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ecb\u201d qua th\u1eddi gian, th\u00ec kinh nghi\u1ec7m trung t\u00edn qua \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y c\u0169ng l\u00e0m cho h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n phong ph\u00fa v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u201ch\u00ecnh h\u00e0i\u201d c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3. Trung t\u00edn c\u00f3 li\u00ean h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 mong \u0111\u1ee3i. Nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng hy sinh c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 tr\u1ed5 sinh hoa tr\u00e1i khi tr\u1ea3i qua n\u0103m th\u00e1ng, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng vui m\u1eebng nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y con ch\u00e1u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh r\u00f5 h\u01a1n, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 ch\u00edn mu\u1ed3i khi \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 l\u1ea1i nhau ng\u00e0y n\u00e0y qua ng\u00e0y kh\u00e1c, n\u0103m n\u00e0y qua n\u0103m kh\u00e1c. Th\u00e1nh Gioan Th\u00e1nh Gi\u00e1 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta r\u1eb1ng \u201cnh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau l\u00e2u n\u0103m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1eed luy\u1ec7n v\u00e0, do \u0111\u00f3, l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c\u201d. H\u1ecd \u201ckh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ch\u00e1y b\u1eebng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 xung n\u0103ng m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t \u1edf m\u1eb7t ngo\u00e0i n\u1eefa, nh\u01b0ng b\u00e2y gi\u1edd h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m n\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ecb ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o c\u1ee7a r\u01b0\u1ee3u t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, th\u1ee9 r\u01b0\u1ee3u \u1ee7 l\u00e2u n\u0103m v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1eef trong \u0111\u00e1y s\u00e2u t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n h\u1ecd\u201d.[78]<\/a> Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua bao kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng tr\u00e1nh n\u00e9 c\u00e1c th\u1eed th\u00e1ch hay che l\u1ea5p c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                                                                                                                Th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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                                                                                                                                1. \u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh d\u1ea5u b\u1edfi \u0111\u1ee7 lo\u1ea1i kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng thi\u1ebfu v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ea7y c\u1ea3m k\u00edch c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. C\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c th\u1eafng v\u01b0\u1ee3t m\u1ed9t kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft l\u00e0m suy y\u1ebfu m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh; thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n, l\u00e0m \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho \u0111\u1eadm \u0111\u00e0 m\u1ed1i k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. \u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m suy gi\u1ea3m m\u00e0 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i gia t\u0103ng ni\u1ec1m vui th\u1ecfa c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh; m\u1ed7i b\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1edbi tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n t\u00ecm ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. M\u1ed7i kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c th\u1ef1c t\u1eadp \u0111\u1ec3 gia t\u0103ng s\u1ef1 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i nhau hay hi\u1ec3u th\u00eam v\u1ec1 \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. C\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean cam ch\u1ecbu m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 t\u1eeb t\u1eeb bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, hay ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng xo\u00e0ng x\u0129nh. Tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i, khi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 c\u00f3 bao g\u1ed3m vi\u1ec7c v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua c\u00e1c tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i, th\u00ec m\u1ed7i kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 cho ph\u00e9p r\u01b0\u1ee3u c\u1ee7a m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u00e2m ni\u00ean h\u01a1n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eadm \u0111\u00e0 h\u01a1n. C\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng s\u1ebd v\u01b0\u1ee3t th\u1eafng nh\u1edd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 khi \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi c\u00e1c kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng, \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3 c\u00e1c th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u ra r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i n\u00ean s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng cung \u1ee9ng s\u1ef1 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng \u1ea5y, ho\u1eb7c b\u1ecb c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00f4ng n\u1ed5i. M\u1ed7i kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc cho ch\u00fang ta; ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft l\u1eafng nghe n\u00f3 v\u1edbi l\u1ed7 tai c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                  1. \u0110\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng t\u1ef1 v\u1ec7, v\u00ec ta ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111ang m\u1ea5t quy\u1ec1n ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t, hay c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 m\u00ecnh \u0111ang m\u1ea5t h\u01b0\u1edbng, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0m ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu. Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, che gi\u1ea5u hay gi\u1ea3m nh\u1eb9 n\u00f3, v\u00e0 hy v\u1ecdng r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 s\u1ebd tr\u00f4i qua. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ebfn hi\u1ec7u; n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m cho t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh n\u00ean t\u1ec7 h\u1ea1i h\u01a1n, l\u00e0m phung ph\u00ed s\u1ee9c l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 l\u00e0m ch\u1eadm tr\u1ec5 vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft. V\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean xa r\u1eddi nhau v\u00e0 m\u1ea5t kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng li\u00ean l\u1ea1c. Khi c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft, th\u00ec s\u1ef1 li\u00ean l\u1ea1c l\u00e0 c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean s\u1ebd ra \u0111i. D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4i y\u00eau\u201d s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u201cb\u1ea1n t\u00f4i\u201d, r\u1ed3i ti\u1ebfn t\u1edbi ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 \u201cb\u1ed1 hay m\u1eb9 l\u0169 tr\u1ebb\u201d, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng th\u00ec tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                    1. C\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f9ng nhau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00e1c kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f3, v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng tho\u00e1i lui \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh n\u00f3i ra \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m ngh\u0129; h\u1ecd n\u1ea5p v\u00e0o trong m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 im l\u1eb7ng h\u00e8n nh\u00e1t. Nh\u1eefng l\u00fac nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, c\u00e0ng quan tr\u1ecdng vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3i l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi nhau. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m th\u1ebf, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng kh\u00f3 h\u01a1n n\u1eefa theo v\u1edbi th\u1eddi gian tr\u00f4i qua. Giao ti\u1ebfp l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc khi h\u00f2a thu\u1eadn \u0111\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng l\u00fac kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. V\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m ngh\u0129 s\u00e2u xa nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ea1t ch\u00fang. Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 sinh \u0111\u1ebb, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn nh\u01b0ng \u0111em l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t kho t\u00e0ng m\u1edbi. Nh\u1eefng ph\u00fac \u0111\u00e1p cho cu\u1ed9c tham v\u1ea5n ti\u1ec1n Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng H\u1ed9i \u0110\u1ed3ng cho th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta khi g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n hay c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5, v\u00ec h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng g\u1eb7p th\u1ea5y \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m, t\u00ednh th\u1ef1c ti\u1ec5n hay s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y n\u00ean th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y ch\u00fang ta c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn nh\u1eefng kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng do s\u1ef1 t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 lo l\u1eafng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                      1. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 cu\u1ed9c kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c tr\u01b0ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. C\u00e1c v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft t\u00e1ch ra kh\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9. S\u1ef1 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a con s\u1ebd k\u00e9o theo nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 m\u1edbi v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac. Vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf \u0111\u00f2i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i trong l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng, trong khi giai \u0111o\u1ea1n con c\u00e1i b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i thanh ni\u00ean s\u1ebd g\u00e2y ra \u00e1p l\u1ef1c, m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9. M\u1ed9t \u201ct\u1ed5 tr\u1ed1ng tr\u01a1n\u201d bu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng ph\u1ea3i x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u1ea1i m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, trong khi nhu c\u1ea7u s\u0103n s\u00f3c c\u00e1c cha m\u1eb9 gi\u00e0 \u0111\u00f2i ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi c\u00e1c v\u1ecb. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh gay go c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra lo s\u1ee3, m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i, suy s\u1ee5p tinh th\u1ea7n v\u00e0 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng tr\u00ean m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                        1. R\u1ed3i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, th\u01b0\u1eddng li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u1edf s\u1edf l\u00e0m, nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m c\u1ea3m, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 t\u00e2m linh. Nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd x\u1ea3y ra, ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f2i m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh tha th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i. Trong khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh tha th\u1ee9 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia, th\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea7m l\u1eafng v\u00e0 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n t\u1ef1 v\u1ea5n r\u1eb1ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng, c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o ra c\u00e1c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh s\u1ee5p \u0111\u1ed5 khi v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng m\u1ea3i m\u00ea bu\u1ed9c t\u1ed9i nhau, nh\u01b0ng \u201ckinh nghi\u1ec7m cho th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn v\u00e0 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i, nh\u1edd \u01a1n s\u1ee7ng, r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n chao \u0111\u1ea3o \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft th\u1ecfa \u0111\u00e1ng. Bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch tha th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tha th\u1ee9, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u0103n b\u1ea3n trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh\u201d.[79]<\/a> \u201cNgh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt ki\u00ean tr\u00ec h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i, v\u1ed1n c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng, c\u0169ng \u0111\u00f2i s\u1ef1 c\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 con v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi ngay c\u1ea3 s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n\u201d.[80]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                          1. C\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng khi m\u1ed9t hay c\u1ea3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n, hay khi m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng di\u1ec5n ra nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh mong mu\u1ed1n, th\u00ec nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 l\u00fd do \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. N\u1ebfu v\u1eady, th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng. Nhi\u1ec1u khi, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 l\u00fd do \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 v\u00ec m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ec7n b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia \u0111\u00e3 v\u1eafng m\u1eb7t khi c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t nh\u1ea5t, v\u00ec l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng, hay v\u00ec m\u1ed9t n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 m\u01a1 h\u1ed3. R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, c\u00e1c ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh s\u1ebd hi\u1ec7n l\u1ed9 ra li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 b\u1ed9c ph\u00e1t c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3m x\u00fac. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7, hay c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n b\u1edfi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c. S\u1ef1 ghen tu\u00f4ng v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u1ed5i l\u00ean, hay nh\u1eefng quan t\u00e2m m\u1edbi chi\u1ebfm l\u1ea5y th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia. Nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u1ec3 l\u00fd x\u1ea3y ra c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean n\u01a1i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa, thay v\u00ec \u0111e d\u1ecda t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, th\u00ec ch\u00fang l\u00e0 v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1edbi v\u00e0 l\u00e0m s\u1ed1ng ho\u1ea1t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                            1. Trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u1ecdn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi m\u00e3i m\u00e3i, b\u1ea5t ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eefng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan. H\u1ecd ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn c\u00e1ch th\u1ef1c ti\u1ec5n r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ea7y m\u1ecdi gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u00f4m \u1ea5p. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf s\u1ebd tr\u00e1nh ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb tu\u1eabn \u0111\u1ea1o; h\u1ecd s\u1ebd t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng m\u1ecdi kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng m\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh trao cho, v\u00e0 h\u1ecd ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 m\u1ed1i d\u00e2y h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. N\u00f3i cho c\u00f9ng, h\u1ecd nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u201cl\u1eddi \u01b0ng thu\u1eadn\u201d m\u1edbi, l\u00e0m cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1edbi, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e0o s\u00e2u v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong. Khi c\u00e1c kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ebfn, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 truy t\u00ecm g\u1ed1c r\u1ec5 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang, b\u00e0n th\u1ea3o l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u0103n b\u1ea3n, \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng m\u1edbi, v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng nhau ti\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc. V\u1edbi th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1edfi m\u1edf th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean n\u00e0y, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. B\u1ea5t lu\u1eadn ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0o, trong khi nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c r\u1eb1ng h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng \u201c\u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u1ea9n thi\u1ebft c\u1ea7n h\u00f4m nay l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ee9 v\u1ee5 s\u0103n s\u00f3c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng\u201d.[81]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                                                                                                                              Nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u0169<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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                                                                                                                                              1. D\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u, c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 khi m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m c\u1ea3m, b\u1edfi v\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ef1 v\u1eabn mang nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u1eb9o c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c kinh nghi\u1ec7m tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y. M\u1ed9t tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1 hay tu\u1ed5i thanh ni\u00ean b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 sinh ra nh\u1eefng kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, g\u00e2y \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ef1. N\u1ebfu m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng s\u1ebd \u00edt x\u1ea3y ra h\u01a1n v\u00e0 \u00edt g\u00e2y \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn h\u01a1n. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf cho th\u1ea5y, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 khi \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i ngo\u00e0i b\u1ed1n m\u01b0\u01a1i m\u1edbi c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee9c tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh m\u00e0 l\u1ebd ra h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00f4i m\u01b0\u01a1i. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau v\u1edbi th\u1ee9 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u00edch k\u1ef7, th\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng, qui h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb: \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau tham lam, s\u1ebd th\u00e9t r\u00e9 l\u00ean khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh mong mu\u1ed1n. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c y\u00eau v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a tu\u1ed5i thanh ni\u00ean, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh d\u1ea5u b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 g\u00e2y h\u1ea5n, s\u1ef1 ph\u00ea ph\u00e1n n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 v\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c; b\u1ecb m\u1eafc k\u1eb9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf ch\u1edd mong k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c l\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ea7y s\u1ef1 tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng v\u00e0 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n m\u1ecdi khao kh\u00e1t c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/li>\n
                                                                                                                                              2. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u01b0\u1edbc qua th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd trong vi\u1ec7c tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 c\u1edfi m\u1edf \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. M\u1ed9t t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan th\u1ea3m h\u1ea1i v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 anh ch\u1ecb em, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1eefa tr\u1ecb, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i ngoi l\u00ean v\u00e0 l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. Nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u1eed l\u00fd v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng ph\u1ea3i di\u1ec5n ra. Khi c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u1ed5i l\u00ean trong m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh quan tr\u1ecdng, c\u1ea7n b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 n\u1eafm hi\u1ec3u l\u1ecbch s\u1eed \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y bao g\u1ed3m vi\u1ec7c nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn nhu c\u1ea7u ch\u1eefa tr\u1ecb, vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n th\u00e2m s\u00e2u xin \u01a1n tha th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tha th\u1ee9, m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea7u h\u00e0ng nh\u01b0ng s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng. S\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta nh\u1eadn ra c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u1ea5u tr\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan. Ngay c\u1ea3 d\u00f9 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 th\u1eadt r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia sai l\u1ed7i, th\u00ec m\u1ed9t kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua duy ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n hay ch\u1eefa tr\u1ecb n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 xung \u0111\u1ed9t.
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                                                                                                                                                \u0110\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh sau khi \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 v\u00e0 ly d\u1ecb<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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                                                                                                                                                1. Trong m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 thi\u1ec7n \u00edch c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i y\u00eau c\u1ea7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu khu\u1ea5t ph\u1ee5c tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi qu\u00e1 \u0111\u00e1ng, hay kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c trong vi\u1ec7c ng\u0103n ch\u1eb7n m\u1ed9t b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng, b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c hay t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean b\u1ecb x\u1eed t\u1ec7. Trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, \u201cly th\u00e2n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Nhi\u1ec1u khi \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft lu\u00e2n l\u00fd, t\u1ee9c khi m\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu d\u1ec5 t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u01a1n hay nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con nh\u1ecf kh\u1ecfi b\u1ecb th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00edch nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng do s\u1ef1 l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0 b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c, s\u1ef1 l\u00e0m nh\u1ee5c v\u00e0 b\u00f3c l\u1ed9t, s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 th\u1edd \u01a1\u201d.[82]<\/a> Ngay c\u1ea3 trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u0111\u00f3, \u201cly th\u00e2n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, sau khi m\u1ecdi c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u1ee3p l\u00fd kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ecf ra v\u00f4 hi\u1ec7u\u201d.[83]<\/a><\/li>\n
                                                                                                                                                2. C\u00e1c Ngh\u1ecb Ph\u1ee5 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng H\u1ed9i \u0110\u1ed3ng ghi nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng \u201cthi\u1ebft y\u1ebfu ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t trong vi\u1ec7c s\u0103n s\u00f3c m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ly th\u00e2n, ly d\u1ecb hay b\u1ecb ru\u1ed3ng b\u1ecf. C\u1ea7n b\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 l\u01b0u t\u00e2m \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111au kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu ly th\u00e2n, ly d\u1ecb hay b\u1ecb ru\u1ed3ng b\u1ecf c\u00e1ch b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng, hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i c\u1eaft \u0111\u1ee9t \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng chung do s\u1ef1 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e3i t\u1eeb ch\u1ed3ng hay v\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh. Tha th\u1ee9 cho m\u1ed9t b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng g\u00e2y \u0111au kh\u1ed5 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng, nh\u01b0ng \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. Vi\u1ec7c s\u0103n s\u00f3c m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i bao g\u1ed3m nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c l\u00e0m trung gian v\u00e0 h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i, xuy\u00ean qua vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp nh\u1eefng trung t\u00e2m t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t trong gi\u00e1o ph\u1eadn\u201d.[84]<\/a> \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, \u201cnh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ly d\u1ecb m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u00e1i h\u00f4n, v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m ch\u1ee9ng cho s\u1ef1 trung t\u00edn v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y trong Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ec3 s\u1ef1 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u1eefng trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. C\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n \u0111\u1ecba ph\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 c\u00e1c m\u1ee5c t\u1eed ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u00e2n c\u1ea7n, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c con c\u00e1i hay khi h\u1ecd g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n t\u00e0i ch\u00e1nh nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng\u201d.[85]<\/a> S\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00e0ng ch\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o, v\u00ec h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau ngu\u1ed3n l\u1ef1c trong t\u1ea7m tay \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o, khi b\u1ecb t\u00e1ch ly kh\u1ecfi m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng gia \u0111\u00ecnh an \u1ed5n, th\u00ec c\u00e0ng ch\u00eanh v\u00eanh g\u1ea5p b\u1ed9i tr\u01b0\u1edbc nguy c\u01a1 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ch\u01a1 v\u01a1 v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                  1. Th\u1eadt quan tr\u1ecdng vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ly d\u1ecb \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p m\u1edbi ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i. \u201cH\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb tuy\u1ec7t th\u00f4ng\u201d, v\u00e0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, v\u00ec h\u1ecd v\u1eabn l\u00e0 th\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i.[86]<\/a> Nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0y \u201c\u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh k\u1ef9 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea7y t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng. C\u1ea7n tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef hay h\u00e0nh vi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb k\u1ef3 th\u1ecb, v\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 tham gia v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n. S\u1ef1 s\u0103n s\u00f3c c\u1ee7a c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m suy y\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ee9c tin v\u00e0 suy y\u1ebfu ch\u1ee9ng t\u1eeb v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh b\u1ea5t kh\u1ea3 ph\u00e2n ly c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n; \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n, s\u1ef1 s\u0103n s\u00f3c \u1ea5y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9c \u00e1i\u201d.[87]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                    1. Nhi\u1ec1u Ngh\u1ecb Ph\u1ee5 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng H\u1ed9i \u0110\u1ed3ng c\u0169ng \u201cnh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh r\u1eb1ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m cho th\u1ee7 t\u1ee5c trong c\u00e1c v\u1ee5 \u00e1n ti\u00eau h\u00f4n tr\u1edf n\u00ean d\u1ec5 ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn h\u01a1n v\u00e0 b\u1edbt t\u1ed1n th\u1eddi gian h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u1ec3, n\u00ean mi\u1ec5n ph\u00ed\u201d.[88]<\/a> S\u1ef1 ch\u1eadm ch\u1ea1p c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh g\u00e2y n\u1ea3n l\u00f2ng v\u00e0 \u1ee9c ch\u1ebf cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi li\u00ean h\u1ec7. Hai v\u0103n ki\u1ec7n g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y[89]<\/a> \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n h\u00f3a c\u00e1c th\u1ee7 t\u1ee5c ti\u1ebfn t\u1edbi tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 ti\u00eau h\u00f4n. Theo \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n \u201cl\u00e0m r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng ch\u00ednh v\u1ecb gi\u00e1m m\u1ee5c, trong Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i thu\u1ed9c tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m m\u1ee5c t\u1eed v\u00e0 l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a ng\u00e0i, l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u00e1n quy\u1ebft v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c t\u00edn h\u1eefu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1ee7y th\u00e1c cho s\u1ef1 s\u0103n s\u00f3c c\u1ee7a ng\u00e0i\u201d.[90]<\/a> \u201cVi\u1ec7c th\u1ef1c thi nh\u1eefng v\u0103n ki\u1ec7n n\u00e0y, do \u0111\u00f3, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c B\u1ea3n Quy\u1ec1n t\u1ea1i c\u00e1c gi\u00e1o ph\u1eadn, c\u00e1c v\u1ecb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi \u0111\u00edch th\u00e2n th\u1ea9m x\u00e9t m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, v\u00e0 trong m\u1ecdi tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, c\u00e1c v\u1ecb b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m sao cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00edn h\u1eefu \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng l\u00fd c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y gi\u1ea3 thi\u1ebft vi\u1ec7c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ee7 nh\u00e2n s\u1ef1, g\u1ed3m c\u00f3 c\u00e1c gi\u00e1o s\u0129 v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1ee7y nhi\u1ec7m ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu lo\u1ea1i c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c n\u00e0y trong Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i. C\u00e1c th\u00f4ng tin, c\u00e1c d\u1ecbch v\u1ee5 t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n v\u00e0 gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u n\u1ed1i k\u1ebft v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c t\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n cho nh\u1eefng ai \u0111\u00e3 ly th\u00e2n hay c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng g\u1eb7p kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng. Nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c n\u00e0y c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bao g\u1ed3m vi\u1ec7c g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 c\u00e1c c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n nh\u1eb1m \u0111i\u1ec1u tra s\u01a1 b\u1ed9 v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i (x. Mitis Iudex<\/em>, kho\u1ea3n 2-3)\u201d.[91]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                      1. C\u00e1c Ngh\u1ecb Ph\u1ee5 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng H\u1ed9i \u0110\u1ed3ng c\u0169ng l\u01b0u \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn \u201cnh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ly th\u00e2n hay ly d\u1ecb tr\u00ean con c\u00e1i, trong m\u1ecdi tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n v\u00f4 t\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh\u201d.[92]<\/a> B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh m\u1ecdi xem x\u00e9t kh\u00e1c, thi\u1ec7n \u00edch c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ecb che l\u1ea5p b\u1edfi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m hay m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau \u1ea9n gi\u1ea5u n\u00e0o. T\u00f4i kh\u1ea9n thi\u1ebft k\u00eau g\u1ecdi c\u00e1c cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 ly th\u00e2n: \u201c\u0110\u1eebng, \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ee9a con l\u00e0m con tin! B\u1ea1n ly th\u00e2n v\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fd do. \u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e3 trao cho b\u1ea1n th\u1eed th\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng con c\u00e1i b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean b\u1ecb b\u1eaft mang l\u1ea5y g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ly th\u00e2n \u1ea5y, hay b\u1ecb d\u00f9ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng con tin \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu kia. Ch\u00fang c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong khi nghe ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i t\u1ed1t v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha n\u00f3i t\u1ed1t v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, cho d\u00f9 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau\u201d.[93]<\/a> Th\u1eadt l\u00e0 v\u00f4 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i x\u1ea5u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 tranh th\u1ee7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a con, hay do h\u1eadn th\u00f9, hay do mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ec7n minh cho m\u00ecnh. L\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 y\u00ean \u1ed5n b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a con v\u00e0 g\u00e2y ra nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f3 ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                        1. Trong khi hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh xung \u0111\u1ed9t v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00ean ti\u1ebfng nh\u00e2n danh nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ec5 t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u1ea5t: \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con th\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ea3i \u00e2m th\u1ea7m ch\u1ecbu kh\u1ed5 s\u1edf. Ng\u00e0y nay, \u201cb\u1ea5t ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m th\u1ee9c c\u00f3 v\u1ebb ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ph\u00e2n t\u00edch t\u00e2m l\u00fd r\u1ea5t tinh t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111ang tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh tr\u01a1 l\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ef1 t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb em\u2026 Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd to l\u1edbn m\u00e0 c\u00e1c tr\u1ebb em ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu trong c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh n\u01a1i m\u00e0 c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean x\u1eed t\u1ec7 v\u00e0 l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau, \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i d\u00e2y trung t\u00edn v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng?\u201d[94]<\/a> Nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m tai h\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap cho tr\u1ebb em l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, c\u00e1c c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ecf r\u01a1i c\u00e1c cha m\u1eb9 ly d\u1ecb v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p m\u1edbi, nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3i bao g\u1ed3m v\u00e0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 h\u1ecd trong nh\u1eefng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i. \u201cL\u00e0m sao ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 nh\u1eefng cha m\u1eb9 \u1ea5y l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i trong \u0111\u1ee9c tin Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o, \u0111\u1ec3 trao cho ch\u00fang m\u1ed9t g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eabu v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9c tin th\u1ef1c ti\u1ec5n v\u00e0 d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n, n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta h\u1ea5t h\u1ee7i h\u1ecd kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n, nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd b\u1ecb tuy\u1ec7t th\u00f4ng v\u1eady? Ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i tr\u00e1nh h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng theo c\u00e1ch c\u00e0ng b\u1ed3i th\u00eam g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng m\u00e0 con c\u00e1i trong nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0y v\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu!\u201d[95]<\/a> Vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap ch\u1eefa tr\u1ecb c\u00e1c v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t thi\u00eang li\u00eang c\u0169ng th\u1eadt c\u00f3 \u00edch cho con c\u00e1i, ch\u00fang c\u1ea7n khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t th\u00e2n thu\u1ed9c c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y ch\u00fang xuy\u00ean qua kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ea7y th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ed5n n\u00e0y. Ly d\u1ecb l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 d\u1eef v\u00e0 con s\u1ed1 ly d\u1ecb ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng t\u0103ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u1eadt r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng \u01b0u t\u01b0. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 gi\u00fap c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, gi\u00fap h\u1ecd ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh c\u00e1c th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00edch, v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ng\u0103n ch\u1eb7n s\u1ef1 lan tr\u00e0n c\u1ee7a bi k\u1ecbch n\u00e0y trong th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i ch\u00fang ta.
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                                                                                                                                                          M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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                                                                                                                                                          1. \u201cNh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n h\u1ed7n h\u1ee3p \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t. H\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi C\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e3nh Ph\u00e9p R\u1eeda \u2018c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 ch\u1ee9a nhi\u1ec1u y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, v\u1eeba do gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, v\u1eeba do s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p m\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho phong tr\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1i k\u1ebft\u2019. V\u00ec m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch n\u00e0y, \u2018c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp s\u1ef1 c\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c th\u1eeba t\u00e1c vi\u00ean C\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng C\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o, t\u1eeb th\u1eddi gian b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 l\u1ec5 c\u01b0\u1edbi\u2019 (Familiaris Consortio<\/em>, 78). Li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c chia s\u1ebb Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ec3, \u2018v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ph\u00eda kh\u00f4ng C\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn r\u01b0\u1edbc Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ec3 hay kh\u00f4ng, s\u1ef1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a ra d\u1ef1a theo nh\u1eefng ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n t\u1ed5ng qu\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n h\u00e0nh, c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu \u0110\u00f4ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u1eabn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu kh\u00e1c, c\u00f3 x\u00e9t \u0111\u1ebfn ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c l\u00e3nh nh\u1eadn B\u00ed t\u00edch H\u00f4n Ph\u1ed1i do hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecbu Ph\u00e9p R\u1eeda. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i ng\u1eabu trong m\u1ed9t h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i h\u1ed7n h\u1ee3p chia s\u1ebb B\u00ed t\u00edch Ph\u00e9p R\u1eeda v\u00e0 H\u00f4n Ph\u1ed1i, vi\u1ec7c chia s\u1ebb Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i l\u1ec7 v\u00e0 trong m\u1ed7i tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ph\u1ea3i theo c\u00e1c ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 (H\u1ed9i \u0110\u1ed3ng Gi\u00e1o Ho\u00e0ng v\u1ec1 Th\u0103ng Ti\u1ebfn S\u1ef1 Hi\u1ec7p Nh\u1ea5t Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu, Hu\u1ea5n th\u1ecb v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c \u00c1p d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c Nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc v\u00e0 c\u00e1c Ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n \u0110\u1ea1i k\u1ebft,<\/em> 25 th\u00e1ng 3, 1993, 159-160)\u201d.[96]<\/a><\/li>\n
                                                                                                                                                          2. \u201cNh\u1eefng h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ea1o th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t cho cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y\u2026 Nh\u1eefng h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i n\u00e0y c\u0169ng bao g\u1ed3m c\u00e1c kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3 c\u0103n t\u00ednh gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o l\u1eabn vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o cho con c\u00e1i\u2026 Con s\u1ed1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1edbi v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ea1o, \u0111ang gia t\u0103ng trong nh\u1eefng v\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ea5t s\u1ee9 m\u1ea1ng th\u1eeba sai v\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 t\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng n\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f3 truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o l\u00e2u \u0111\u1eddi, kh\u1ea9n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 cung \u1ee9ng s\u0103n s\u00f3c m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh v\u0103n h\u00f3a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i kh\u00e1c nhau. T\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 n\u01b0\u1edbc n\u01a1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u1ef1 do t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, ng\u01b0\u1eddi Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu b\u1ecb bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea1o theo t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, v\u00e0 do \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u1eed h\u00e0nh h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ea1o theo gi\u00e1o lu\u1eadt hay r\u1eeda t\u1ed9i cho con c\u00e1i. Do \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u1ebft y\u1ebfu r\u1eb1ng t\u1ef1 do t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng\u201d.[97]<\/a> \u201cC\u1ea7n ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc l\u1ec5 c\u01b0\u1edbi. Nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 \u0111\u1eb7c lo\u1ea1i \u0111\u1eb7t ra cho c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh trong \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 C\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o c\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng tin. Trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m ch\u1ee9ng cho kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng Tin M\u1eebng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i trong \u0111\u1ee9c tin Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o\u201d.[98]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                            1. \u201cC\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u1ed5i l\u00ean khi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf trong t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p \u01b0\u1edbc ao l\u00e3nh Ph\u00e9p R\u1eeda. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y k\u00fd k\u1ebft m\u1ed9t h\u00f4n \u01b0\u1edbc \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0o l\u00fac m\u00e0 \u00edt nh\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t trong hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ee9c tin Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o. Trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, c\u00e1c gi\u00e1m m\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 th\u00edch \u0111\u00e1ng v\u1edbi \u00edch l\u1ee3i thi\u00eang li\u00eang c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd\u201d.[99]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                              1. Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i l\u1ea5y t\u00e2m t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu l\u00e0m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, Ch\u00faa trao ban t\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n cho m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng tr\u1eeb ai.[100]<\/a> Trong su\u1ed1t Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng H\u1ed9i \u0110\u1ed3ng, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean bao g\u1ed3m nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kinh nghi\u1ec7m khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ed3ng gi\u1edbi, m\u1ed9t ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng cho cha m\u1eb9 hay cho con c\u00e1i. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft t\u00e1i kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c, ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng trong ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng, trong khi ph\u1ea3i l\u01b0u \u00fd tr\u00e1nh \u2018m\u1ecdi d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u k\u1ef3 th\u1ecb b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng\u2019,[101]<\/a> nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 m\u1ecdi h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c g\u00e2y h\u1ea5n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c. Nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e2n c\u1ea7n trao cho s\u1ef1 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5, \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n, h\u1ea7u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 thi h\u00e0nh tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n th\u00e1nh \u00fd Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa tr\u00ean cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh.[102]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                1. Trong khi th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 v\u00e0 s\u1ee9 m\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh, c\u00e1c Ngh\u1ecb Ph\u1ee5 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng H\u1ed9i \u0110\u1ed3ng ghi nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng \u201cv\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb \u0111\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh tr\u00ean c\u00f9ng b\u00ecnh di\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1 s\u1edf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 xem nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh l\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 hay th\u1eadm ch\u00ed gi\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch xa xa v\u1edbi k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u1ec1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh\u201d. Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u201cr\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ecba ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu thua s\u1ee9c \u00e9p trong v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y v\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c c\u01a1 ch\u1ebf qu\u1ed1c t\u1ebf ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap t\u00e0i ch\u00e1nh cho c\u00e1c n\u01b0\u1edbc ngh\u00e8o t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c ban h\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng lu\u1eadt thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp \u2018h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n\u2019 gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh\u201d.[103]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                  1. Nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 cha hay m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01a1n th\u00e2n th\u01b0\u1eddng x\u1ea3y ra t\u1eeb \u201ctr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 sinh h\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh; nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c, trong \u0111\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha hay m\u1eb9 b\u1ecb bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ed1n tho\u00e1t v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i; c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9; ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 b\u1ecf r\u01a1i gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa. D\u00f9 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0o \u0111i n\u1eefa, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha hay m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01a1n th\u00e2n c\u1ea7n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 v\u00e0 n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 t\u1eeb c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00e1c trong c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu, v\u00e0 t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o x\u1ee9. Nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu c\u00e1c tru\u00e2n chuy\u00ean kh\u00e1c, nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u1ec1 kinh t\u1ebf, nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec5n \u1ea3nh c\u00f4ng \u0103n vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn, nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c con c\u00e1i, v\u00e0 v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 \u1edf\u201d.[104]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                                                                                                                                                    1. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ecb th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 b\u1edfi c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng cung c\u1ea5p \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ee9c tin nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 cho c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh n\u1ebfm tr\u1ea3i kinh nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0y.[105]<\/a> Vi\u1ec7c d\u1eedng d\u01b0ng v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t tang gia \u0111ang bu\u1ed3n \u0111au s\u1ebd cho th\u1ea5y thi\u1ebfu l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t, c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3ng c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda ch\u1eb7n \u0111\u1ee9ng c\u00e1c n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c loan b\u00e1o Tin M\u1eebng.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                      1. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u n\u1ed7i \u0111au c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eeba m\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t th\u00e2n y\u00eau, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 chia s\u1ebb bao ng\u1ecdt b\u00f9i. Ch\u00ednh \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu \u0111\u00e3 x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u00e0 kh\u00f3c th\u1ed5n th\u1ee9c tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n (x. Ga 11,33.35). V\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u n\u1ed7i \u0111au th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha m\u1eb9 m\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ee9a con c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh? \u201cTh\u1eddi gian nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 ng\u1eebng l\u1ea1i: m\u1ed9t v\u1ef1c th\u1eb3m m\u1edf ra nh\u1eadn ch\u00ecm c\u1ea3 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai\u201d, v\u00e0 \u201cnhi\u1ec1u khi ch\u00fang ta th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111i xa \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c o\u00e1n tr\u00e1ch Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. Bi\u1ebft bao ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed5i gi\u1eadn v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa \u2013 v\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi h\u1ecd\u201d.[106]<\/a> M\u1ea5t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n\u2026 K\u1ec3 t\u1eeb kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng n\u1ed7i m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 cho th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 hi\u1ebfn th\u00e2n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n cho con ch\u00e1u, h\u1ecd t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y trong kinh nghi\u1ec7m y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m th\u1ee9c s\u1ee9 m\u1ea1ng m\u1edbi trong vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i\u2026 Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap b\u1edfi c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu, v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00e0 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o\u201d.[107]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                        1.  Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, s\u1ef1 th\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ebfc ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh di\u1ec5n ra trong m\u1ed9t qu\u00e3ng th\u1eddi gian, v\u00e0 khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ee5c t\u1eed ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh v\u1edbi ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh \u1ea5y, ng\u00e0i ph\u1ea3i th\u00edch \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ch\u1eb7ng trong \u0111\u00f3. To\u00e0n th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111ong \u0111\u1ea7y b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n n\u1ea1n: v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau \u0111\u00f3, v\u1ec1 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec l\u1ebd ra \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m, v\u1ec1 kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ea1i kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc t\u1eeb tr\u1ea7n. V\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng b\u00ean trong, b\u00ecnh an s\u1ebd tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang th\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ebfc \u1ea5y nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng sau s\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau, ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ee9 m\u1ea1ng \u0111\u1ec3 thi h\u00e0nh, v\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng \u00edch g\u00ec vi\u1ec7c k\u00e9o d\u00e0i n\u1ed7i \u0111au kh\u1ed5, nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c c\u1ed1ng n\u1ea1p. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau qu\u00e1 c\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ch\u00fang ta \u0111au kh\u1ed5, h\u1ecd c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng vui khi ch\u00fang ta t\u00e0n ph\u00e1 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 c\u00e1ch di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u1ed1 b\u00e1m ch\u1eb7t l\u1ea5y h\u1ecd v\u00e0 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ean h\u1ecd, b\u1edfi v\u00ec nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0 l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u1ecd trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i khi h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 khu\u1ea5t. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n h\u1eefu h\u00ecnh v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta n\u1eefa, nh\u01b0ng d\u00f9 s\u1ef1 ch\u1ebft m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ea5y th\u00ec \u201ct\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u1eabn m\u1ea1nh kh\u00f4ng k\u00e9m s\u1ef1 ch\u1ebft\u201d (Di\u1ec5m ca 8,6). T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t tr\u1ef1c gi\u00e1c gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta nghe c\u00e1i v\u00f4 thanh v\u00e0 th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau qu\u00e1 c\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 h\u1ecd tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd hi\u1ec7n nay. H\u00e3y xem \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu ph\u1ee5c sinh, khi Maria, b\u1ea1n Ng\u01b0\u1eddi, mu\u1ed1n \u00f4m l\u1ea5y Ng\u01b0\u1eddi, Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ea3o ch\u1ecb \u1ea5y \u0111\u1eebng c\u1ea7m gi\u1eef Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i (x. Ga 20,17), \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1edf ra cho ch\u1ecb \u1ea5y m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 kh\u00e1c.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                          1. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c an \u1ee7i khi bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n tr\u00f4i qua m\u1ea5t, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9c tin b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta r\u1eb1ng Ch\u00faa Ph\u1ee5c sinh s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd b\u1ecf r\u01a1i ch\u00fang ta. V\u00ec th\u1ebf ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u201cng\u0103n kh\u00f4ng cho c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft l\u00e0m nhi\u1ec5m \u0111\u1ed9c s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, l\u00e0m cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ta th\u00e0nh tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng, hay x\u00f4 \u0111\u1ea9y ta xu\u1ed1ng v\u1ef1c th\u1eb3m t\u0103m t\u1ed1i nh\u1ea5t\u201d.[108]<\/a> Th\u00e1nh Kinh b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o ch\u00fang ta do t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, v\u00e0 Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta theo m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c m\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t v\u1edbi c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft (x. Kn 3,2-3). Th\u00e1nh Phaol\u00f4 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u1ea1nh ng\u1ed9 v\u1edbi \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4 ngay sau c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft: \u201cMong \u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ra \u0111i \u0111\u1ec3 \u1edf v\u1edbi \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4\u201d (Pl 1,23). V\u1edbi \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4, sau c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3n \u0111\u1ee3i ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 \u201cnh\u1eefng g\u00ec Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eeda so\u1ea1n cho nh\u1eefng ai y\u00eau m\u1ebfn Ng\u00e0i\u201d (1Cr 2,9). Kinh Ti\u1ec1n T\u1ee5ng c\u1ee7a Ph\u1ee5ng v\u1ee5 C\u1ea7u cho c\u00e1c t\u00edn h\u1eefu \u0111\u00e3 qua \u0111\u1eddi<\/em> di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 r\u1ea5t hay: \u201cD\u00f9 bu\u1ed3n s\u1ea7u v\u00ec s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ebft, ch\u00fang con v\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1ee7i an, b\u1edfi Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ee9a ban ph\u00fac tr\u01b0\u1eddng sinh b\u1ea5t di\u1ec7t. V\u00ec l\u1ea1y Ch\u00faa, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang con l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng t\u00edn h\u1eefu, s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5t \u0111i\u201d. Th\u1eadt v\u1eady, \u201cnh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5t h\u00fat trong b\u00f3ng h\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng; \u0111\u1ee9c c\u1eady b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd \u1edf trong b\u00e0n tay t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh v\u00e0 m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa\u201d.[109]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                            1. M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec t\u00ecnh th\u00e2n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau qu\u00e1 c\u1ed1, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n cho h\u1ecd.[110]<\/a> Th\u00e1nh Kinh d\u1ea1y r\u1eb1ng \u201cvi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u00e1 c\u1ed1\u201d l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c \u201cth\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c\u201d (2Mcb 12,44-45). \u201cL\u1eddi c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta cho h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c gi\u00fap h\u1ecd, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0m cho s\u1ef1 chuy\u1ec3n c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd cho ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1eefu hi\u1ec7u\u201d.[111]<\/a> S\u00e1ch Kh\u1ea3i Huy\u1ec1n m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 c\u00e1c v\u1ecb tu\u1eabn \u0111\u1ea1o chuy\u1ec3n c\u1ea7u cho nh\u1eefng ai ch\u1ecbu \u0111au kh\u1ed5 v\u00ec b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng tr\u00ean tr\u1ea7n gian (x. Kh 6,9-11), trong s\u1ef1 li\u00ean \u0111\u1edbi v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u00e0 l\u1ecbch s\u1eed n\u00e0y. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 v\u1ecb th\u00e1nh, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi t\u1eeb tr\u1ea7n, \u0111\u00e3 an \u1ee7i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch h\u1ee9a v\u1edbi h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c v\u1ecb s\u1ebd \u1edf g\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd. Th\u00e1nh T\u00ear\u00easa Lisieux \u01b0\u1edbc ao ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh t\u1eeb thi\u00ean \u0111\u00e0ng.[112]<\/a> Th\u00e1nh \u0110a-minh tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 r\u1eb1ng \u201cng\u00e0i s\u1ebd gi\u00fap \u00edch nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n sau khi qua \u0111\u1eddi\u2026 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng\u201d.[113]<\/a> \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u201cnh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i d\u00e2y y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng\u201d \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c,[114]<\/a> v\u00ec \u201cs\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n \u0111ang l\u1eef h\u00e0nh v\u1edbi anh ch\u1ecb em \u0111\u00e3 y\u00ean ngh\u1ec9 trong Ch\u00faa ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb c\u1eaft \u0111\u1ee9t\u2026 [nh\u01b0ng] \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 b\u1edfi m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 trao \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1c thi\u1ec7n \u00edch thi\u00eang li\u00eang\u201d.[115]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                              1. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eeda so\u1ea1n cho n\u00f3. C\u00e1ch s\u1eeda so\u1ea1n l\u00e0 l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i b\u00ean m\u00ecnh, cho t\u1edbi ng\u00e0y m\u00e0 \u201ckh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n s\u1ef1 ch\u1ebft, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n than kh\u00f3c v\u00e0 \u0111au kh\u1ed5 n\u1eefa\u201d (Kh 21,4). Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ed9i ng\u1ed9 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 qua \u0111\u1eddi. Nh\u01b0 \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu \u0111\u00e3 \u201ctrao l\u1ea1i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9\u201d (x. Lc 7,15) \u0111\u1ee9a con tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft, th\u00ec v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng th\u1ebf. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1eebng ph\u00ed s\u1ee9c v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c c\u1ed1 n\u00edu b\u00e1m c\u00e1i qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e3 qua. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00e0ng s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n \u1edf \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y, th\u00ec c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u1edbn lao h\u01a1n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh tr\u00ean thi\u00ean qu\u1ed1c. C\u00e0ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 tri\u1ec3n n\u1edf tr\u00ean tr\u1ea7n gian n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang nhi\u1ec1u m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 h\u01a1n v\u00e0o b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c tr\u00ean tr\u1eddi.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                                                                                                                                                                \u0110\u1ec2 GI\u00c1O D\u1ee4C CON C\u00c1I T\u1ed0T H\u01a0N<\/strong><\/p>\n

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                                                                                                                                                                                1. Cha m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n lu\u00e2n l\u00fd c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh, theo h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c hay ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. V\u00ec th\u1ebf h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn vai tr\u00f2 thi\u1ebft y\u1ebfu v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c thi vai tr\u00f2 \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u00fd th\u1ee9c, nhi\u1ec7t th\u00e0nh, c\u00f3 l\u00fd v\u00e0 c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh. V\u00ec vai tr\u00f2 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng, v\u00e0 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p h\u01a1n, n\u00ean t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y c\u00e1ch chi ti\u1ebft.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                  CON C\u00c1I C\u1ee6A CH\u00daNG TA \u0110ANG \u1ede \u0110\u00c2U?<\/p>\n

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                                                                                                                                                                                  1. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 n\u01a1i n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1, h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn v\u00e0 d\u1ea1y b\u1ea3o, d\u00f9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u1ea3i xem x\u00e9t l\u1ea1i c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 c\u00e1c ngu\u1ed3n l\u1ef1c m\u1edbi. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n suy ngh\u0129 xem m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n con c\u00e1i ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn nh\u1eefng g\u00ec, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd xem ai \u0111ang cung c\u1ea5p s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed cho ch\u00fang, ai \u0111ang b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang xuy\u00ean qua ti-vi v\u00e0 c\u00e1c thi\u1ebft b\u1ecb \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang \u0111ang d\u00f9ng th\u1eddi gi\u1edd r\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi ai. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n ch\u00fang ta d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho con c\u00e1i, n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7y quan t\u00e2m, v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ra nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng th\u1eddi gian, th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 ch\u00fang kh\u1ecfi b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i. C\u1ea3nh gi\u00e1c l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, c\u00f2n th\u1edd \u01a1 th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u hay. Cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i gi\u00fap chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho con c\u00e1i, tr\u1ebb em v\u00e0 thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean, gi\u00e1p m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng nguy c\u01a1, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, s\u1ef1 x\u00e2m h\u1ea1i, l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng hay n\u1ea1n nghi\u1ec7n ma t\u00fay.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                    1.  Tuy nhi\u00ean, lo l\u1eafng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c \u00e1m \u1ea3nh th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t m\u1ecdi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m. \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y, v\u1eabn \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u00fang nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc \u201cth\u1eddi gian quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n kh\u00f4ng gian\u201d.[116]<\/a> N\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, kh\u1edfi s\u1ef1 nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh th\u00ec quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n l\u00e0 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t c\u00e1c n\u01a1i ch\u1ed1n. N\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n b\u1ecb \u00e1m \u1ea3nh v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh \u0111ang \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t m\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00e1i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang, th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 c\u1ed1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t v\u1ec1 n\u01a1i ch\u1ed1n. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 v\u00e0 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho con c\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi c\u00e1c th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u00e2n c\u1ea7n gi\u00fap ch\u00fang l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong t\u1ef1 do, tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, trong tinh th\u1ea7n k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt v\u00e0 trong s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecb th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1. Ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y con c\u00e1i m\u1edbi ti\u1ebfn t\u1edbi s\u1edf h\u1eefu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ed1n li\u1ebfng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 lo li\u1ec7u cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u00f4ng minh v\u00e0 kh\u00f4n ngoan b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o ch\u00fang g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi th\u1ef1c, v\u00ec th\u1ebf, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh \u0111ang \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u theo ngh\u0129a th\u1ec3 l\u00fd, hay ch\u00fang \u0111ang \u1edf v\u1edbi ai v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng l\u00fac nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi ch\u00fang \u0111ang \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u theo ngh\u0129a hi\u1ec7n sinh, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 ch\u00fang \u0111ang \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u x\u00e9t v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c x\u00e1c t\u00edn c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang, nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch, nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y cho c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9: \u201cCh\u00fang ta c\u00f3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u2018\u1edf \u0111\u00e2u\u2019 trong h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang hay kh\u00f4ng? Linh h\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang \u0111ang \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng? V\u00e0 tr\u00ean h\u1ebft, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng?\u201d.[117]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                      1.  N\u1ebfu tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u1ed1n c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n r\u1ed3i trong m\u00e3 di truy\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, th\u00ec s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m. Nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4n ngoan, s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 l\u01b0\u01a1ng tri th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o duy ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n theo l\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u00ednh, m\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n ch\u00fang t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 c\u00e1c y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 t\u1eadp h\u1ee3p l\u1ea1i \u1edf trong th\u00e2m s\u00e2u m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi, hay n\u00f3i \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n, \u1edf ch\u00ednh c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd l\u00e0m ch\u00fang ta ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng d\u1ef1 \u00e1n ph\u00e1t sinh t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do \u1ea5y, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 ch\u00fang ta xem x\u00e9t l\u1ea1i c\u00e1c \u00fd ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t. Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c bao g\u1ed3m s\u1ef1 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 vi\u1ec7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng t\u1ef1 do c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, v\u1edbi l\u01b0\u01a1ng tri v\u00e0 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7. N\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n, l\u00e0 do m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111o\u1ea1t, v\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                        D\u1ea0Y \u0110\u1ea0O \u0110\u1ee8C CHO CON C\u00c1I<\/p>\n

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                                                                                                                                                                                        1.  Cha m\u1eb9 c\u1eady d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m n\u1ec1n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u0103n b\u1ea3n cho con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00f3 th\u00e1c ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n n\u01a1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c cho con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh. S\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00e2m c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi, n\u00f3i cho c\u00f9ng, \u0111\u1eb7t n\u1ec1n tr\u00ean m\u1ed9t kinh nghi\u1ec7m ri\u00eang, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0, kinh nghi\u1ec7m r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng cha m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a r\u1eb1ng cha m\u1eb9, x\u00e9t nh\u01b0 nh\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m \u2013 b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 g\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u00e1ng \u2013 truy\u1ec1n v\u00e0o trong con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 k\u00ednh m\u1ebfn. Khi \u0111\u1ee9a con, d\u00f9 do l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9, ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn n\u00f3, th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. S\u1ef1 v\u1eafng m\u1eb7t v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 l\u00fd hay v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m c\u1ea3m n\u00e0y t\u1ea1o ra th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ed5n l\u1edbn h\u01a1n b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 s\u1ef1 tr\u00e1ch m\u1eafng n\u00e0o m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn do l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 sai tr\u00e1i.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                          1.  Cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o \u00fd ch\u00ed cho con c\u00e1i, th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 h\u01b0\u1edbng thi\u1ec7n c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y gi\u1ea3 thi\u1ebft vi\u1ec7c tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e1ch ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m \u0111\u00e1ng gi\u00e1 v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng mong \u01b0\u1edbc, nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh ti\u1ec7m ti\u1ebfn. Mong \u01b0\u1edbc th\u00edch nghi v\u1edbi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, hay th\u00f3i quen t\u1eeb kh\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t th\u00fa vui tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef m\u1ed9t l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 n\u1ec1 n\u1ebfp h\u01a1n chi\u1ebfu theo c\u1ea3m th\u1ee9c chung, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y t\u1ef1 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb, v\u00e0 r\u1ed3i n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y s\u1ef1 m\u1edf ra \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb l\u1edbn h\u01a1n. Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n di\u1ec5n ra v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n, nh\u1edd s\u1ef1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 nh\u1edd s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. N\u00f3 c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i di\u1ec5n ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u1ea3m \u1ee9ng, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb, nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc v\u00e0 ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n, thay v\u00ec t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u1ea5y nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ch\u00e2n l\u00fd tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t v\u1ea5n.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                            1. L\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00fang kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u201cph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n xem c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u00f3 v\u1ebb l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t\u201d, hay bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m, d\u00f9 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng. Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ecf ra kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n trong ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng x\u00e1c t\u00edn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, d\u00f9 ch\u00fang v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ea5y \u0111i n\u1eefa; ngay c\u1ea3 khi l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, th\u00ec nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i khi l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5y l\u00e0 m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u00e0 c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n h\u01a1n. Ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi ch\u1ed7 m\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ef1 thi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00ed n\u0103ng n\u1eafm hi\u1ec3u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1eafm r\u1ec5 trong m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t thi\u00ean h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m th\u00e2m s\u00e2u, nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng h\u01b0\u1edbng thi\u1ec7n m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n kh\u00e1c, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh xem l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1ch quan th\u00ec c\u0169ng t\u1ed1t \u201ccho m\u00ecnh\u201d \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y v\u00e0 l\u00fac n\u00e0y. M\u1ed9t n\u1ec1n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p bao g\u1ed3m vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00fang. Ng\u00e0y nay, ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng \u00edt hi\u1ec7u nghi\u1ec7m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec1 ra m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 hy sinh, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng cho th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 nh\u1eefng \u00edch l\u1ee3i m\u00e0 n\u00f3 mang l\u1ea1i.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                              1. C\u00e1c th\u00f3i quen t\u1ed1t c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. Ngay c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c th\u00f3i quen trong th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap chuy\u1ec3n nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m h\u00f3a th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng n\u1ebfp h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu qua m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian l\u00e2u n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn d\u1ea1y n\u00f3i \u201cL\u00e0m \u01a1n \u2026\u201d, \u201cC\u00e1m \u01a1n\u201d, v\u00e0 \u201cXin l\u1ed7i\u201d, th\u00ec th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9. S\u1ef1 c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 \u00fd ch\u00ed v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng vi\u00ean g\u1ea1ch x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng n\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c; kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u00fd th\u1ee9c, t\u1ef1 do v\u00e0 tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 m\u1eabu \u1ee9ng x\u1eed t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p, th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra. Ch\u1ec9 \u01b0\u1edbc ao su\u00f4ng, hay ch\u1ec9 v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ch\u1eebng \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m th\u1ea5m nhu\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y c\u00e1ch th\u00edch h\u1ee3p.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                1. T\u1ef1 do l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec r\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 v\u0129, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb l\u00e0m tan bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c ph\u1ea3i bao g\u1ed3m vi\u1ec7c vun x\u1edbi s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do qua c\u00e1c \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng, c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1, nh\u1eefng \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng th\u1ef1c ti\u1ec5n, nh\u1eefng kh\u01a1i g\u1ee3i, ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng, g\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u00e1ng, ki\u1ec3u m\u1eabu, bi\u1ec3u t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t, kh\u00edch l\u1ec7, \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i, v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 xem x\u00e9t l\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta; t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc b\u00ean trong h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u1ec7n. Nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t x\u00e1c t\u00edn \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc b\u00ean trong cho h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c s\u1ebd x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng, c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do, nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 cho c\u00e1c xu h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00f4 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ea1o v\u00e0 ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. V\u00ec ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 n\u00f3 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i \u201ch\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a t\u1ef1 do v\u00e0 \u00fd th\u1ee9c, nh\u01b0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang t\u01b0 t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong\u201d.[118]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                                                                                                                                                                                  1.  C\u0169ng r\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft y\u1ebfu vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb em v\u00e0 thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u01b0 x\u1eed sai tr\u00e1i c\u00f3 c\u00e1c h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Ch\u00fang c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o v\u1ecb tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn hi\u1ec3u s\u1ef1 t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh g\u00e2y ra. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng hung h\u0103ng, ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 cho m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch n\u00e0y. R\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb em lu\u00f4n bi\u1ebft xin l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa nh\u1eefng thi\u1ec7t h\u1ea1i g\u00e2y ra cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Khi ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ph\u00e1t huy k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 n\u01a1i s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a t\u1ef1 do c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, tr\u1ebb em s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng th\u1eadt qu\u00ed h\u00f3a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ch\u00fang s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi m\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1eb7t ra.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                    1.  S\u1eeda sai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a kh\u00edch l\u1ec7, b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o nh\u1eefng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn d\u00e0nh cho ch\u00fang. Nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e2n c\u1ea7n s\u1eeda sai s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u0103n s\u00f3c; ch\u00fang c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi c\u00e1c ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o, m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi cha m\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn c\u00e1c gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc n\u01a1i cha m\u1eb9, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 cho c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn cu\u1ed1n m\u00ecnh \u0111i. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 sai tr\u00e1i ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eeda sai, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd c\u01b0 x\u1eed v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9 hay nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh tr\u00fat s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 lo\u1ea1i \u1ee9ng x\u1eed sai tr\u00e1i c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 non y\u1ebfu v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb7c tr\u01b0ng c\u1ee7a tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb. Vi\u1ec7c th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t s\u1ebd c\u00f3 h\u1ea1i, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb nh\u1eadn hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00ec nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00e1c. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00e3 l\u00f2ng v\u00e0 ph\u1eabn u\u1ea5t: \u201cH\u1ee1i c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9, \u0111\u1eebng l\u00e0m con c\u00e1i b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c\u201d (Ep 6,4; x. Cl 3,21).<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                      1.  Th\u1eadt quan tr\u1ecdng vi\u1ec7c li\u1ec7u sao \u0111\u1ec3 k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y n\u1ea3n l\u00f2ng, nh\u01b0ng tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. L\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m h\u00f3a t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t? B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o ch\u00fang ta b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m r\u1eb1ng k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf c\u00f3 t\u00ednh x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t ra cho c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u01b0\u1eddng r\u00e0o ng\u0103n ch\u1eb7n con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh? M\u1ed9t m\u1ee9c c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecm ra gi\u1eefa hai th\u00e1i c\u1ef1c tai h\u1ea1i ngang nhau. M\u1ed9t th\u00e1i c\u1ef1c l\u00e0 c\u1ed1 l\u00e0m cho m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 xoay v\u1ea7n xung quanh nh\u1eefng \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb; nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0 v\u1eady s\u1ebd l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u1edbi c\u1ea3m th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 quy\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ee9c tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m. Th\u00e1i c\u1ef1c kia l\u00e0 t\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, v\u1ec1 c\u0103n t\u00ednh ri\u00eang v\u00e0 c\u00e1c quy\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a n\u00f3; nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y r\u1ed1t c\u1ee5c b\u1ecb ng\u1ed9p b\u1edfi c\u00e1c b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn v\u00e0 b\u1edfi nhu c\u1ea7u ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n c\u00e1c mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                                                                                                                                                                                        1.  Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c bao h\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c y\u00eau c\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb hay m\u1ed9t thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2i m\u1ed9t hy sinh b\u1ea5t t\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u1ee9ng, v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng sao cho kh\u00f4ng d\u1eabn t\u1edbi ph\u1eabn u\u1ea5t hay nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng qu\u00e1 b\u1ecb \u00e1p l\u1ef1c. Th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec1 ra nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1ecf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng, trong khi c\u00f3 bao g\u1ed3m m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 hy sinh h\u1ee3p l\u00fd. N\u1ebfu ch\u1eb3ng v\u1eady, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u, th\u00ec s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec c\u1ea3. M\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ef1 do kh\u1ecfi quy\u1ec1n b\u00ednh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u1eebng l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t.<\/li>\n
                                                                                                                                                                                                        2. Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c nhi\u1ec1u khi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng \u1ee9ng, do b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 th\u1edd \u01a1, th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, thi\u1ebfu t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng hay nh\u1eefng cung c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y con thi\u1ebfu m\u1eabu m\u1ef1c. C\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c li\u00ean k\u1ebft v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 hay nh\u1eefng khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. V\u00ec v\u1eady, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ec3 r\u00fat ra nh\u1eefng lo\u1ea1i suy: nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t n\u01a1i m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eabu m\u1ef1c, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o v\u00e0 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00e1c nhau n\u01a1i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, v\u00ec s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n v\u00e2n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 do \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m x\u1ea5u, h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 trong ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh ch\u1eefa tr\u1ecb n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m, v\u00e0 nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 v\u1edbi c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn h\u01a1n.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                          1.  Trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec1 ra c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb, ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m t\u1eeb t\u1eeb, c\u00f3 x\u00e9t \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 c\u00e1c kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1eeba b\u00e3i \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p c\u1ee9ng nh\u1eafc v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu uy\u1ec3n chuy\u1ec3n. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a khoa t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 c\u00e1c khoa gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u00e3 cho th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c thay \u0111\u1ed5i cung c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb gi\u1ea3 thi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ti\u1ec7m ti\u1ebfn, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng l\u01b0u \u00fd r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f4ng truy\u1ec1n v\u00e0 kh\u01a1i \u0111\u1ed9ng, v\u00ec t\u1ef1 n\u00f3 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. S\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh, t\u1ee9c s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, th\u00ec gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u1ecb \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ch\u1ecdn \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t c\u00e1ch th\u00edch \u0111\u00e1ng gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi \u201ct\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n\u201d v\u00e0 \u201ct\u1ef1 do\u201d. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 \u00fd ao \u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea5u, nh\u01b0ng s\u1edf d\u0129 th\u1ebf v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111am m\u00ea b\u1ea5t kh\u1ea3 kh\u00e1ng hay m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c k\u00e9m c\u1ecfi. Trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, trong khi c\u00e1i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n, trong ch\u1eebng m\u1ef1c n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i xu h\u01b0\u1edbng khao kh\u00e1t c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 do, v\u00ec trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecdn \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea5u \u1ea5y. Ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghi\u1ec7n ma t\u00fay do \u00e1p l\u1ef1c. Khi h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh, h\u1ecd ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n mu\u1ed1n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd b\u1ecb \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i l\u00fac \u1ea5y h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c. Quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 do. Th\u1eadt v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a vi\u1ec7c \u201ccho ph\u00e9p h\u1ecd t\u1ef1 do l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn\u201d, v\u00ec th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn, v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecf m\u1eb7c h\u1ecd cho ma t\u00fay ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m gia t\u0103ng s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7n ng\u1eadp c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh ph\u1ee5c h\u1ed3i.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                                                                                                                                                                                            1.  Gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n, \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang ta h\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft d\u00f9ng s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4n ngoan. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh \u1edf th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u v\u00e0 b\u00e1m r\u1ec5 s\u00e2u \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i ch\u00fang v\u1eabn c\u00f2n su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, ho\u1eb7c nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng h\u1ea5p l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, hay nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 d\u1ecb \u1ee9ng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e1ch h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng theo m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 b\u1edfi v\u00ec h\u1ecd cho r\u1eb1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang, d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean c\u01a1 s\u1edf nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc, d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch th\u1ea9m th\u1ea5u, t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1eddi: \u201cT\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf\u201d. \u201c\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc\u201d. Trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft ph\u00ea ph\u00e1n m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p do c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng \u0111em l\u1ea1i. \u0110\u00e1ng bu\u1ed3n \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh hay nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c qu\u1ea3ng c\u00e1o th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u00e2y \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 h\u1ea1 gi\u00e1 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi kh\u1eafc trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/li>\n
                                                                                                                                                                                                            2. Trong th\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta, b\u1ecb th\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecb b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 nhanh ch\u00f3ng, m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 d\u1ea1y cho tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ng\u0103n ch\u1eb7n kh\u00f4ng cho tr\u1ebb em ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng thi\u1ebft b\u1ecb \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00ecm nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng t\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9 k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt s\u1ed1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng cho m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng. Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00ecnh ho\u00e3n c\u00e1c \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn ch\u00fang nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 ho\u00e3n l\u1ea1i vi\u1ec7c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n ch\u00fang. Khi tr\u1ebb em hay thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111i\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i, ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ecb \u00e1m \u1ea3nh v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft, v\u00e0 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u \u201cmu\u1ed1n t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c\u201d. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1edbn, kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap cho s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do m\u00e0 l\u00e0m suy y\u1ebfu n\u00f3. M\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c, khi ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y ho\u00e3n l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111i\u1ec1u cho t\u1edbi l\u00fac th\u00edch h\u1ee3p, ch\u00fang ta h\u1ecdc l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng xung n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Khi tr\u1ebb nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang, l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t huy. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, \u0111\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3t n\u00f3, s\u1ebd d\u1ea1y cho ch\u00fang bi\u1ebft t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 th\u1ea5p kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang trong vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m. Trong m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1eefng m\u1ea1nh, ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc n\u00e0y di\u1ec5n ra xuy\u00ean qua nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi do \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng chung \u0111\u1eb7t ra.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                              1.  Gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 khung c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ed9i nh\u1eadp x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u01a1i m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean h\u1ecdc li\u00ean h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb, ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 nhau, v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7p nh\u1ea5t. C\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u0169ng l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh; n\u00f3 d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang ta c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau trong ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 l\u1edbn n\u00e0y. Trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang ta h\u1ecdc s\u1ef1 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i, quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ch\u00fang ta b\u1ee9t ra kh\u1ecfi th\u00f3i loay hoay v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ea7y tai h\u1ea1i, v\u00e0 \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ta quan t\u00e2m, c\u01b0 x\u1eed t\u1eed t\u1ebf v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. S\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i g\u1eafn k\u1ebft x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 chi\u1ec1u k\u00edch \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y, xem ra r\u1ea5t nh\u1ecf: s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n s\u1ed1ng b\u00ean nhau, g\u1ea7n g\u0169i, g\u1eb7p nhau nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fac trong ng\u00e0y, quan t\u00e2m v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi m\u00ecnh, gi\u00fap nhau trong nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n l\u1eb7t v\u1eb7t \u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng. H\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y gia \u0111\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                1. C\u0169ng trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xem x\u00e9t l\u1ea1i c\u00e1c th\u00f3i quen ti\u00eau th\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edfng \u1ee9ng vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 c\u0103n nh\u00e0 chung c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. \u201cGia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 t\u00e1c nh\u00e2n ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t sinh th\u00e1i to\u00e0n v\u1eb9n, v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 th\u1ec3 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ef1ng trong m\u00ecnh hai nguy\u00ean l\u00fd n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a v\u0103n minh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ean tr\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea5t: nguy\u00ean l\u00fd hi\u1ec7p th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 nguy\u00ean l\u00fd sinh hoa qu\u1ea3\u201d.[119]<\/a> C\u0169ng v\u1eady, nh\u1eefng th\u1eddi kh\u1eafc kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00e0 lo l\u1eafng trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc quan tr\u1ecdng. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, khi \u1ed1m \u0111au b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt, v\u00ec \u201c\u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt, ngay c\u1ea3 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n s\u1ebd n\u1ed5i l\u00ean, do s\u1ef1 y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3i chung, nh\u1eefng th\u1eddi kh\u1eafc b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt gi\u00fap c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean ch\u1eb7t ch\u1ebd h\u01a1n\u2026 M\u1ed9t n\u1ec1n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 s\u1ef1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt con ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho tr\u00e1i tim tr\u1edf n\u00ean l\u1ea1nh l\u00f9ng; n\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb \u2018m\u1ea5t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c\u2019 tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng \u0111au kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi \u0111au kh\u1ed5 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng c\u00e1i kinh nghi\u1ec7m h\u1eefu h\u1ea1n\u201d.[120]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                  1. Ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c x\u1ea3y ra gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 – hay b\u1ecb c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf – b\u1edfi t\u00ednh ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p gia t\u0103ng c\u1ee7a truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed. Khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn, nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1eefu \u00edch cho vi\u1ec7c n\u1ed1i k\u1ebft c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean gia \u0111\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng xa c\u00e1ch nhau. S\u1ef1 li\u00ean l\u1ea1c th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean gi\u00fap v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua c\u00e1c kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n.[121]<\/a> Song th\u1eadt r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thay th\u1ebf nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i c\u00f3 t\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0 c\u00e1 v\u1ecb h\u01a1n, l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 hay \u00edt nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia. Ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f4i khi nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta thay v\u00ec n\u1ed1i k\u1ebft, nh\u01b0 khi \u1edf b\u00e0n \u0103n t\u1ed1i, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi loay hoay v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i di \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, hay khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 hay ch\u1ed3ng \u0111i ng\u1ee7 nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1edd ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia m\u1ea3i m\u00ea h\u00e0ng gi\u1edd v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t thi\u1ebft b\u1ecb \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft theo h\u01b0\u1edbng kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng c\u1ea5m \u0111o\u00e1n phi th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf. Trong b\u1ea5t lu\u1eadn t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0o, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ph\u1edbt l\u01a1 nguy c\u01a1 m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng m\u1edbi n\u00e0y \u0111\u1eb7t ra cho tr\u1ebb em v\u00e0 tu\u1ed5i thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean; nhi\u1ec1u khi ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m gia t\u0103ng s\u1ef1 th\u1edd \u01a1 v\u00e0 t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi th\u1ef1c. S\u1ef1 \u201cng\u1eaft m\u1ea1ch c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7\u201d n\u00e0y l\u00e0m cho tr\u1ebb d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb d\u1eabn d\u1ee5 b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb x\u00e2m l\u0103ng v\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng gian ri\u00eang t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang nh\u1eb1m \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i l\u1ee3i \u00edch k\u1ef7.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                    1.  C\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t n\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 t\u1ecf ra \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111o\u00e1n. Khi con c\u00e1i b\u1ecb nh\u1ed3i s\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng cha m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 th\u00f4i, th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh th\u00edch \u0111\u00e1ng gi\u00fap h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh t\u00e2m c\u1ea3m. \u0110\u1ec3 gi\u00fap m\u1edf m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn h\u01a1n, \u201cc\u00e1c c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi cung \u1ee9ng s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 cho s\u1ee9 m\u1ea1ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh\u201d,[122]<\/a> nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 xuy\u00ean qua ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng hu\u1ea5n gi\u00e1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c li\u00ean k\u1ebft v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c khai t\u00e2m Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o. \u0110\u1ec3 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y m\u1ed9t n\u1ec1n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c to\u00e0n v\u1eb9n, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n \u201cph\u1ee5c h\u1ed3i giao \u01b0\u1edbc gi\u1eefa gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu\u201d.[123]<\/a> Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng H\u1ed9i \u0110\u1ed3ng mu\u1ed1n nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng C\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o v\u1ed1n \u201c\u0111\u00f3ng m\u1ed9t vai tr\u00f2 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng trong vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap cha m\u1eb9 trong b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i\u2026 C\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng C\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y trong s\u1ee9 m\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap c\u00e1c h\u1ecdc sinh l\u1edbn l\u00ean th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfng g\u1ecdi ph\u1ee5ng s\u1ef1 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa\u201d.[124]<\/a> V\u00ec v\u1eady, \u201cGi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong vi\u1ec7c tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n, v\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i theo l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c\u201d.[125]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                      1.  C\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng Vatican II \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 \u201cm\u1ed9t n\u1ec1n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh kh\u00f4n ngoan v\u00e0 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c\u201d d\u00e0nh cho tr\u1ebb em v\u00e0 thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean \u201ckhi ch\u00fang l\u1edbn l\u00ean\u201d, v\u1edbi \u201cs\u1ef1 l\u01b0u t\u00e2m th\u00edch \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 trong c\u00e1c khoa t\u00e2m l\u00fd, s\u01b0 ph\u1ea1m v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c\u201d.[126]<\/a> Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng c\u00e1c c\u01a1 ch\u1ebf gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi cho th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 n\u00e0y. Th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh trong m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i m\u00e0 t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ecb t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u00f3a v\u00e0 b\u1ecb l\u00e0m cho kh\u00f4 ki\u1ec7t \u00fd ngh\u0129a. N\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y trong khu\u00f4n kh\u1ed5 r\u1ed9ng h\u01a1n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t n\u1ec1n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, v\u1ec1 t\u1ef1 hi\u1ebfn cho nhau. Theo c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3, ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb l\u00e0m ngh\u00e8o ki\u1ec7t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chi\u1ebfu s\u00e1ng v\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho phong ph\u00fa. B\u1ea3n n\u0103ng t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1eabn d\u1eaft xuy\u00ean qua m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng nh\u1eefng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng qu\u00ed gi\u00e1 l\u00e0 vui t\u01b0\u01a1i v\u00e0 g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 ch\u00e2n t\u00ecnh.<\/li>\n
                                                                                                                                                                                                                      2. Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh n\u00ean cung c\u1ea5p th\u00f4ng tin, trong khi l\u01b0u \u00fd r\u1eb1ng tr\u1ebb em v\u00e0 thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7. Th\u00f4ng tin ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac v\u00e0 theo c\u00e1ch th\u1ebf ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i. S\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u00edch l\u1ee3i vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ed3i nh\u00e9t \u0111\u1ea7y nh\u1eefng d\u1eef li\u1ec7u m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m th\u1ee9c ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh khi \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ef1 tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb m\u1edbi m\u1ebb, c\u1ee7a c\u01a1n l\u0169 khi\u00eau d\u00e2m v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 lan tr\u00e0n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng k\u00edch \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m m\u00e9o m\u00f3 t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd b\u1ecb oanh t\u1ea1c b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p kh\u00f4ng \u00edch l\u1ee3i cho s\u1ef1 tri\u1ec3n n\u1edf h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nh\u1eefng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, trong khi bi\u1ebft l\u1ea3ng xa nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 l\u00e0m qu\u00e8 qu\u1eb7t kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i \u00fd th\u1ee9c r\u1eb1ng c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 \u201cm\u1ed9t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef m\u1edbi v\u00e0 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p h\u01a1n\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 \u201cgi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c cho tr\u1ebb em v\u00e0 thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean\u201d.[127]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                        1.  M\u1ed9t n\u1ec1n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m th\u1ee9c l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ch\u1eebng m\u1ef1c s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb l\u1edbn lao, cho d\u00f9 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u00e0y nay xem t\u00ednh ch\u1eebng m\u1ef1c nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t t\u00e0n d\u01b0 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e3 qua. Ch\u1eebng m\u1ef1c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ebf t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang ta b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 s\u1ef1 ri\u00eang t\u01b0 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ph\u00f2ng tr\u00e1nh sa v\u00e0o ch\u1ed7 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ee9c ch\u1eebng m\u1ef1c, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb gi\u1ea3m tr\u1eeb \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u00e1m \u1ea3nh v\u1edbi nh\u1ee5c c\u1ea3m t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh l\u00e0m m\u00e9o m\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, v\u00e0 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c d\u1eabn t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 c\u01b0 x\u1eed phi nh\u00e2n t\u00ednh hay g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                          1. R\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng, gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh quan t\u00e2m ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c \u201cb\u1ea3o v\u1ec7\u201d xuy\u00ean qua th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh \u201ct\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c an to\u00e0n\u201d. Nh\u1eefng di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf ch\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u1ee9u c\u00e1nh truy\u1ec1n sinh t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee9a con l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb th\u00f9 ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecb ng\u0103n ch\u1eb7n. C\u00e1ch ngh\u0129 n\u00e0y c\u1ed5 s\u00fay t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 y\u00eau (narcissism) v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u00e1p ch\u1ebf thay v\u00ec ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn. Lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 v\u00f4 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m vi\u1ec7c m\u1eddi thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean \u0111\u00f9a ngh\u1ecbch v\u1edbi th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u00e8m kh\u00e1t c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang, nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb, s\u1ef1 cam k\u1ebft d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n cho nhau v\u00e0 c\u00e1c m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. R\u1ed1t c\u1ee5c v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ea7y c\u00e1c nhu c\u1ea7u hay nh\u1eefng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang bi\u1ebft nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 kh\u00e1c nhau c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 s\u0103n s\u00f3c nhau, s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng trong y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 li\u00ean l\u1ea1c h\u00e0m s\u00fac \u00fd ngh\u0129a. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y gi\u00fap ch\u00fang chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 d\u00e2ng hi\u1ebfn ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh to\u00e0n v\u1eb9n v\u00e0 qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i v\u1ed1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n, theo sau m\u1ed9t cam k\u1ebft c\u00f4ng khai, trong s\u1ef1 trao hi\u1ebfn th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. S\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 cam k\u1ebft d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m phong ph\u00fa b\u1edfi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111i tr\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00f3.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                            1.  Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m cho c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb l\u1ed9n x\u1ed9n v\u1ec1 hai c\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i: \u201cs\u1ef1 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c t\u1ea1o ra, trong nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi, m\u1ed9t \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, s\u1ef1 \u2018k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p\u2019 n\u00e0y r\u1ed1t c\u1ee5c v\u1eabn \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi xa l\u1ea1 nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc\u201d.[128]<\/a> Ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a th\u00e2n x\u00e1c m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 t\u1eadp t\u00e0nh ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft di\u1ec5n d\u1ecbch v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t nh\u1eefng khao kh\u00e1t nh\u1eafm \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 hi\u1ebfn \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c. Khi ch\u00fang ta t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh trao hi\u1ebfn t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c, th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng trao hi\u1ebfn g\u00ec h\u1ebft. Hi\u1ec3u s\u1ef1 mong manh v\u00e0 l\u00fang t\u00fang c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ec7n; c\u00f2n khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch h\u1ecd k\u00e9o d\u00e0i t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng \u1ea5u tr\u0129 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd trong c\u00e1ch di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c. Nh\u01b0ng ai s\u1ebd n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay? Ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 quan t\u00e2m th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb? Ai s\u1ebd gi\u00fap h\u1ecd chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nghi\u00eam t\u00fac cho m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i v\u00e0 cao th\u01b0\u1ee3ng? Nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i m\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y th\u00ec l\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn.<\/li>\n
                                                                                                                                                                                                                            2.  Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh c\u0169ng n\u00ean bao g\u1ed3m vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t, nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua s\u1ef1 m\u1ea3i m\u00ea t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft m\u1edf ra \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ngo\u00e0i nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e0 c\u00e1c c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m, ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o n\u00ean, v\u00ec \u201cvi\u1ec7c ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i tr\u00ean th\u00e2n x\u00e1c m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh trung chuy\u1ec3n sang c\u00e1ch ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i tr\u00ean c\u00f4ng tr\u00ecnh s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o\u2026 M\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi th\u00e2n x\u00e1c ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 nam hay n\u1eef c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh trong m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u1ea1nh ng\u1ed9 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u00ecnh. Nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 vui t\u01b0\u01a1i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam hay n\u1eef kh\u00e1c, l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng tr\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o, nh\u01b0 qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, v\u00e0 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 phong ph\u00fa \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho nhau\u201d.[129]<\/a> Ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch b\u1ecf \u0111i n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t, ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng kh\u1ecfi vi\u1ec7c qui h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh ph\u1ea3i gi\u00fap cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn th\u00e2n x\u00e1c m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 tr\u00e1nh c\u00e1i \u00fd mu\u1ed1n \u201ckh\u1ecfa l\u1ea5p s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh b\u1edfi v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n bi\u1ebft x\u1eed l\u00fd l\u00e0m sao v\u1edbi n\u00f3 n\u1eefa\u201d.[130]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                              1.  Ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ph\u1edbt l\u01a1 s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh c\u1ed1t c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 nam hay n\u1eef, th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 sinh h\u1ecdc hay di truy\u1ec1n, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 c\u00f3 li\u00ean h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ednh kh\u00ed, l\u1ecbch s\u1eed gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u0103n h\u00f3a, kinh nghi\u1ec7m, gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, t\u1eeb c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1ng k\u00ednh, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o kh\u00e1c. Qu\u1ea3 th\u1ef1c l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi nam t\u00ednh v\u00e0 n\u1eef t\u00ednh kh\u1ecfi c\u00f4ng tr\u00ecnh s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u1ed1n \u0111i tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ecdi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, v\u00e0 trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng c\u00e1c y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 sinh h\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb b\u1ecf qua. Nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng \u0111\u00fang r\u1eb1ng nam t\u00ednh v\u00e0 n\u1eef t\u00ednh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea1m tr\u00f9 c\u1ee9ng nh\u1eafc. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n nam t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c linh \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00edch nghi v\u1edbi th\u1eddi bi\u1ec3u l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3. \u0110\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c trong nh\u00e0 hay m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ph\u1ea7n vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 l\u00e0m cho anh ta b\u1edbt nam t\u00ednh h\u01a1n hay l\u00e0 h\u00e0m ngh\u0129a th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, thi\u1ebfu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, hay l\u00e0 l\u00fd do \u0111\u1ec3 x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5. Con c\u00e1i ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn l\u00e0 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eefng \u201ctrao \u0111\u1ed5i\u201d l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, v\u1ed1n ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ec1 l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha. M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn c\u1ee9ng nh\u1eafc s\u1ebd h\u00f3a th\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 nam t\u00ednh hay n\u1eef t\u00ednh, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb em v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng t\u00ednh t\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c g\u1eafn li\u1ec1n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. S\u1ef1 c\u1ee9ng nh\u1eafc nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, \u0111\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3t n\u00f3, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c d\u1eabn ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1ch ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u2013 ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n \u2013 t\u1ec9 m\u1ea9n ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt hay m\u00faa nh\u1ea3y th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng th\u1ef1c, ho\u1eb7c n\u1eafm vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u00fang ngh\u0129a l\u1eafm. Th\u1eadt may l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i, nh\u01b0ng t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 n\u01a1i nh\u1eefng quan ni\u1ec7m l\u1ec7ch l\u1ea1c v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng, v\u00e0 c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a c\u0103n t\u00ednh v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                1. Vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh chuy\u1ec3n th\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee9c tin c\u00e1ch m\u1ea1ch l\u1ea1c. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n do nh\u1eefng l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea1i, do th\u1eddi bi\u1ec3u c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, v\u00e0 do t\u00ednh ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ng\u00e0y nay, trong \u0111\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb cu\u1ed1n v\u00e0o nh\u1ecbp s\u1ed1ng h\u1ed1i h\u1ea3 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i.[131]<\/a> D\u00f9 sao, gia \u0111\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c l\u00e0 n\u01a1i m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta h\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u00e0 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9c tin, bi\u1ebft c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh m\u00ecnh. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi Ph\u00e9p R\u1eeda, trong \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0 Th\u00e1nh Augustin\u00f4 n\u00f3i, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh \u201cc\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c trong cu\u1ed9c sinh h\u1ea1 th\u00e1nh thi\u00eang\u201d.[132]<\/a> Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi \u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u. \u0110\u1ee9c tin l\u00e0 qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn l\u00e3nh trong Ph\u00e9p R\u1eeda, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00f4ng tr\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, tuy nhi\u00ean cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee9c tin l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. V\u00ec th\u1ebf \u201cth\u1eadt l\u00e0 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 d\u1ea1y \u0111\u1ee9a con nh\u1ecf c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 h\u00f4n Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu hay \u0110\u1ee9c M\u1eb9. C\u1eed ch\u1ec9 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m bi\u1ebft bao! L\u00fac \u1ea5y tr\u00e1i tim c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n\u201d.[133]<\/a> Vi\u1ec7c chuy\u1ec3n th\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee9c tin gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng ch\u00ednh cha m\u1eb9 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm Ng\u00e0i v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u1ea7n Ng\u00e0i, v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y th\u00ec m\u1edbi di\u1ec5n ra chuy\u1ec7n \u201c\u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y tuy\u00ean d\u01b0\u01a1ng cho \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa, v\u00e0 k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ea7y quy\u1ec1n n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i\u201d (Tv 144,4) v\u00e0 \u201cnh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i cho con c\u00e1i bi\u1ebft l\u00f2ng trung th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa\u201d (Is 38,19). \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n c\u1ea7u xin Ch\u00faa h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i, n\u01a1i m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. M\u1ed9t h\u1ea1t c\u1ea3i, r\u1ea5t b\u00e9 nh\u1ecf, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u00e2y l\u1edbn (x. Mt 13,31-32); \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eadn ra s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u1ee9ng gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c ta l\u00e0m v\u00e0 c\u00e1c hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c \u1ea5y. Ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00f3n qu\u00e0, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1ee7y th\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 s\u0103n s\u00f3c n\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ea7y s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta t\u1ef1 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 trao hi\u1ebfn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta c\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. V\u00ec v\u1eady, \u201cc\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 c\u00e1c cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c nh\u00e2n t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong vi\u1ec7c hu\u1ea5n gi\u00e1o\u2026 Vi\u1ec7c hu\u1ea5n gi\u00e1o v\u1ec1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 l\u1edbn lao x\u00e9t nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p h\u1eefu hi\u1ec7u gi\u00fap c\u00e1c cha m\u1eb9 tr\u1ebb \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 s\u1ee9 m\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c nh\u00e2n Ph\u00fac \u00c2m h\u00f3a gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00ecnh\u201d.[134]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  1. Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ee9c tin ph\u1ea3i th\u00edch nghi v\u1edbi m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, v\u00ec nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ebf v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1ec1 l\u1ed1i c\u0169 kh\u00f4ng lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n h\u1eefu hi\u1ec7u. Tr\u1ebb em c\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n. V\u00ec thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1edbi quy\u1ec1n b\u00ednh v\u00e0 c\u00e1c qui t\u1eafc, n\u00ean t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ee9c tin c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh c\u00e1c em v\u00e0 cung c\u1ea5p cho c\u00e1c em nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee9ng t\u1eeb c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n, c\u00e1c em s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chinh ph\u1ee5c b\u1edfi v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c ch\u1ee9ng t\u1eeb \u1ea5y. C\u00e1c cha m\u1eb9 mong \u01b0\u1edbc nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u0111\u1ee9c tin c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ki\u1ec3u th\u1ee9c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang, v\u00ec h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng kinh nghi\u1ec7m thi\u00eang li\u00eang th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 do. Th\u1eadt thi\u1ebft y\u1ebfu vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ebb em th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00fang, c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 quan tr\u1ecdng. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c Ph\u00fac \u00c2m h\u00f3a h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 l\u1edbp gi\u00e1o l\u00fd hay b\u00e0i thuy\u1ebft gi\u00e1o n\u00e0o. \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 s\u1ef1 tri \u00e2n c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n, nh\u01b0 Th\u00e1nh M\u00f4nica, cho nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u1ee1 \u0111i l\u1ea1c xa kh\u1ecfi \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    1.  C\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c chuy\u1ec3n th\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee9c tin cho con c\u00e1i, theo ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n cho s\u1ef1 di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ee9c tin, s\u1ebd h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 to\u00e0n gia \u0111\u00ecnh trong s\u1ee9 m\u1ea1ng Ph\u00fac \u00c2m h\u00f3a c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ee9c tin cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi chung quanh m\u00ecnh, c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i ph\u1ea1m vi gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Nh\u1eefng con c\u00e1i l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh nhi\u1ec7t t\u00e2m s\u1ee9 m\u1ea1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 th\u1eeba sai; l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 \u1ea5m c\u00fang, ch\u00fang h\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch li\u00ean h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi theo c\u00f9ng c\u00e1ch \u1ea5y, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u1eeb b\u1ecf \u0111\u1ee9c tin hay nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m x\u00e1c t\u00edn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu \u0111\u00e3 \u0103n u\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi c\u00e1c t\u1ed9i nh\u00e2n (x. Mc 2,16); Mt 11,19), n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef Samaria (x. Ga 4,7-26), ti\u1ebfp chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi Nic\u00f4\u0111\u00eam\u00f4 v\u00e0o ban \u0111\u00eam (x. Ga 3,1-21), cho ph\u00e9p m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i \u0111i\u1ebfm x\u1ee9c d\u1ea7u ch\u00e2n m\u00ecnh (Lc 7,36-50), v\u00e0 Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i \u0111\u1eb7t tay tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ec7nh (x. Mc 1,40-45; 7,33). C\u00e1c t\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa c\u0169ng v\u1eady, c\u00e1c \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng xem th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 x\u00fam ch\u1ee5m v\u1edbi nhau trong nh\u1eefng nh\u00f3m nh\u1ecf \u01b0u t\u00fa, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1eaft \u0111\u1ee9t kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a d\u00e2n ch\u00fang. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 b\u1ecb nh\u00e0 c\u1ea7m quy\u1ec1n s\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec5u, c\u00e1c t\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eabn nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 qu\u00ed m\u1ebfn \u201cc\u1ee7a to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 d\u00e2n ch\u00fang\u201d (Cv 2,47; x. 4,21.33; 5,13).<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      1.  \u201cGia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u00ec th\u1ebf, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00e1c nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 xuy\u00ean qua vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp loan b\u00e1o Tin M\u1eebng v\u00e0 qua kho t\u00e0ng c\u00e1c h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c ch\u1ee9ng t\u00e1 \u0111a d\u1ea1ng, nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 li\u00ean \u0111\u1edbi v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o, s\u1ef1 c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c nhau, s\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 c\u00f4ng tr\u00ecnh t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng, s\u1ef1 li\u00ean \u0111\u1edbi v\u1ec1 lu\u00e2n l\u00fd v\u00e0 v\u1ec1 v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t v\u1edbi c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00e1c, bao g\u1ed3m nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o t\u00fang nh\u1ea5t, s\u1ef1 d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n th\u0103ng ti\u1ebfn c\u00f4ng \u00edch, v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ecba ph\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u01a1i gia \u0111\u00ecnh sinh s\u1ed1ng, xuy\u00ean qua vi\u1ec7c th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi x\u00e1c v\u00e0 h\u1ed3n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta\u201d.[135]<\/a> T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 ni\u1ec1m tin Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o th\u00e2m s\u00e2u c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Cha, \u0110\u1ea5ng h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn v\u00e0 n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 ch\u00fang ta, m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n n\u01a1i s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 hi\u1ebfn ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu Kit\u00f4, \u0110\u1ea5ng m\u00e0 ngay trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i n\u00e0y c\u0169ng \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng gi\u1eefa ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng nhau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00e1c gi\u00f4ng t\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi \u1edf m\u1ecdi giai \u0111o\u1ea1n. Tin M\u1eebng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u00e2m vang trong t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh, khi vui c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 khi bu\u1ed3n, nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ngu\u1ed3n \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng soi d\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i. Nh\u1edd kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i: \u201cCh\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tin v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e0 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa d\u00e0nh cho ch\u00fang t\u00f4i\u201d (1Ga 4,16). Ch\u1ec9 tr\u00ean c\u01a1 s\u1edf kinh nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0y, s\u1ef1 s\u0103n s\u00f3c m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i cho c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u1eeba l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i gia v\u1eeba l\u00e0 men Ph\u00fac \u00c2m h\u00f3a trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        1.  C\u00e1c Ngh\u1ecb Ph\u1ee5 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng H\u1ed9i \u0110\u1ed3ng tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 r\u1eb1ng m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i \u00fd th\u1ee9c b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 s\u1ef1 c\u1eaft \u0111\u1ee9t n\u00e0o c\u1ee7a m\u1ed1i d\u00e2y h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i c\u0169ng \u201c\u0111\u1ec1u \u0111i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i th\u00e1nh \u00fd Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa\u201d, song Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i c\u0169ng \u201c\u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 m\u1ecfng d\u00f2n c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh\u201d.[136]<\/a> \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c soi s\u00e1ng b\u1edfi \u00e1nh nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu Kit\u00f4, \u201cv\u1edbi t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng, Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ai tham d\u1ef1 v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n, nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng \u01a1n s\u1ee7ng Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa c\u0169ng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch ban cho h\u1ecd \u01a1n can \u0111\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ec7n, ch\u0103m s\u00f3c nhau trong y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n n\u01a1i h\u1ecd s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c\u201d.[137]<\/a> S\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn n\u00e0y c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y b\u1edfi vi\u1ec7c ch\u00fang ta c\u1eed h\u00e0nh N\u0103m Th\u00e1nh L\u00f2ng Th\u01b0\u01a1ng X\u00f3t. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh ti\u1ebfng g\u1ecdi n\u00ean ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3 tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, \u201cGi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i \u00e2n c\u1ea7n quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng con c\u00e1i y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u2013 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho th\u1ea5y c\u00e1c d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau b\u1ecb th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00edch v\u00e0 r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n \u2013 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5c h\u1ed3i n\u01a1i h\u1ecd ni\u1ec1m hy v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng, gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ng\u1ecdn h\u1ea3i \u0111\u0103ng \u1edf c\u1ea3ng hay nh\u01b0 ng\u1ecdn \u0111u\u1ed1c gi\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00ean gi\u1eefa d\u00e2n ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap soi d\u1eabn nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb l\u1ea1c \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng hay nh\u1eefng ai \u0111ang b\u1ecb b\u1ee7a v\u00e2y trong b\u00e3o t\u1ed1\u201d.[138]<\/a> Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00ean r\u1eb1ng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i th\u01b0\u1eddng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t b\u1ec7nh vi\u1ec7n ti\u1ec1n ph\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          1.  H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o, nh\u01b0 ph\u1ea3n \u1ea3nh s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p gi\u1eefa \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4 v\u00e0 Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n trong s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p gi\u1eefa m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef trao hi\u1ebfn ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh cho nhau trong m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ed9c h\u1eefu, trung th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do, h\u1ecd thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 nhau cho \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ebft v\u00e0 h\u1ecd m\u1edf ra \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn vi\u1ec7c truy\u1ec1n sinh, h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e1nh hi\u1ebfn b\u1eb1ng b\u00ed t\u00edch c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c trao ban \u01a1n s\u1ee7ng \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh t\u1ea1i gia v\u00e0 tr\u1edf n\u00ean men s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p \u0111i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0y c\u00e1ch t\u1eadn c\u0103n, trong khi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c kh\u00e1c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0y \u00edt nh\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n v\u00e0 theo c\u00e1ch lo\u1ea1i suy. C\u00e1c Ngh\u1ecb Ph\u1ee5 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng H\u1ed9i \u0110\u1ed3ng tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 r\u1eb1ng Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng xem th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh ch\u01b0a hay kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n t\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i v\u1ec1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n.[139]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            1.  C\u00e1c Ngh\u1ecb Ph\u1ee5 c\u0169ng l\u01b0u \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i thu\u1ea7n t\u00fay d\u00e2n s\u1ef1 hay th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng chung, v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng gi\u1eefa hai tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u1ea5y, c\u00e1c ng\u00e0i ghi nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng \u201ckhi nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1p lu\u1eadt nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7c tr\u01b0ng b\u1edfi t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m th\u00e2m s\u00e2u \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i, v\u00e0 cho th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua c\u00e1c th\u1eed th\u00e1ch, th\u00ec nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cung \u1ee9ng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i cho vi\u1ec7c s\u0103n s\u00f3c m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5, v\u1edbi \u0111\u00edch ng\u1eafm l\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng d\u1eabn t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c c\u1eed h\u00e0nh b\u00ed t\u00edch h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n\u201d.[140]<\/a> M\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c, th\u1eadt r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng \u01b0u t\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb ng\u00e0y nay kh\u00f4ng tin v\u00e0o h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, h\u1ecd s\u1ed1ng chung v\u00e0 tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n v\u00f4 th\u1eddi h\u1ea1n vi\u1ec7c cam k\u1ebft h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, trong khi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00ec ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1 m\u1ed9t cam k\u1ebft \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a ra \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t cam k\u1ebft m\u1edbi. \u201cL\u00e0 th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i, h\u1ecd c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 s\u0103n s\u00f3c m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ea7y \u00fd ngh\u0129a th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t v\u00e0 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap\u201d.[141]<\/a> V\u00ec c\u00e1c m\u1ee5c t\u1eed c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m th\u0103ng ti\u1ebfn h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m \u201cbi\u1ec7n ph\u00e2n m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n s\u1ed1ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i \u1ea5y. C\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111i v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 c\u1edfi m\u1edf h\u01a1n n\u1eefa \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi Tin M\u1eebng v\u1ec1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u1edf m\u1ee9c tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n c\u1ee7a n\u00f3\u201d.[142]<\/a> Trong vi\u1ec7c bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e2n m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 n\u00e0y, c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u201cnh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y vi\u1ec7c Ph\u00fac \u00c2m h\u00f3a v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u00e2n b\u1ea3n c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 thi\u00eang li\u00eang\u201d.[143]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              1. \u201cS\u1ef1 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i d\u00e2n s\u1ef1, hay trong nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng chung, th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y b\u1edfi th\u00e0nh ki\u1ebfn hay b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p c\u00f3 t\u00ednh b\u00ed t\u00edch, nh\u01b0ng th\u01b0\u1eddng do nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 t\u00ednh v\u0103n h\u00f3a ho\u1eb7c ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean\u201d.[144]<\/a> Trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u1ea5y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e0, c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ph\u1ea3n \u1ea3nh ch\u00ednh t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa.[145]<\/a> Ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 \u201cm\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 gia t\u0103ng kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng con s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 sau khi s\u1ed1ng chung m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i, h\u1ecd xin \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft h\u00f4n trong Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i. Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n s\u1ed1ng chung th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 n\u00f3i chung ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 g\u00ec c\u00f3 t\u00ednh thi\u1ebft ch\u1ebf hay c\u00f3 t\u00ednh d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t; c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf trong khi ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i s\u1ef1 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01a1n trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng (ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t thu nh\u1eadp \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh). T\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 qu\u1ed1c gia, nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p de facto<\/em> (t\u1ee9c chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ed3i trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf) c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta t\u1ea9y chay c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu b\u1edfi v\u00ec vi\u1ec7c c\u1eed h\u00e0nh l\u1ec5 c\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5y l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 t\u1ed1n k\u00e9m trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng ngh\u00e8o n\u00e0n v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t k\u00e9o ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p de facto<\/em>\u201d.[146]<\/a> D\u00f9 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0o \u0111i n\u1eefa, \u201ct\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0y \u0111\u00f2i m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, t\u1ee9c t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a ch\u00fang th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn t\u1edbi th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi Tin M\u1eebng. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng n\u00e0y c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00f3n ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng\u201d.[147]<\/a> Th\u1eed xem c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu \u1ee9ng x\u1eed v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef Samari (x. Ga 4,1-26): Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb, \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t ch\u1ecb kh\u1ecfi b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ch\u1ecb v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ch\u1ecb \u0111\u1ebfn ni\u1ec1m vui tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n c\u1ee7a Tin M\u1eebng.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                1. Theo tinh th\u1ea7n \u1ea5y, Th\u00e1nh Phaol\u00f4 \u0111\u1ec1 ra c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201clu\u1eadt ti\u1ec7m ti\u1ebfn\u201d v\u1edbi nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c r\u1eb1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u201chi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft, y\u00eau m\u1ebfn v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 thi\u1ec7n lu\u00e2n l\u00fd theo nh\u1eefng giai \u0111o\u1ea1n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n kh\u00e1c nhau\u201d.[148]<\/a> \u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u201cs\u1ef1 ti\u1ec7m ti\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a lu\u1eadt\u201d nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ti\u1ec7m ti\u1ebfn trong vi\u1ec7c thi h\u00e0nh c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4n ngoan nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1ef1 do x\u00e9t v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee7 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng \u1edf trong m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb th\u1ebf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u, tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng, hay th\u1ef1c thi \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi kh\u00e1ch quan c\u1ee7a lu\u1eadt. V\u00ec lu\u1eadt t\u1ef1 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa gi\u00fap ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, m\u1ed9t qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng tr\u1eeb ai; n\u00ean n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tu\u00e2n theo v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap c\u1ee7a \u01a1n s\u1ee7ng, ngay c\u1ea3 d\u00f9 m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u201cti\u1ebfn t\u1edbi t\u1eeb t\u1eeb v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 h\u1ed9i nh\u1eadp kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng nh\u1eefng qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00e0 d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa trong to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh\u201d.[149]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  1. Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng H\u1ed9i \u0110\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c nhau. \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u00e0m s\u00e1ng t\u1ecf cho to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i, ph\u00f2ng tr\u00e1nh tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ch\u00fang ta \u0111i l\u1ea1c: \u201cC\u00f3 hai c\u00e1ch ngh\u0129 v\u1eabn th\u1ea5y di\u1ec5n ra trong l\u1ecbch s\u1eed Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i: \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0, lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5c h\u1ed3i. K\u1ec3 t\u1eeb th\u1eddi C\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng Gi\u00earusalem, con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu, con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5c h\u1ed3i\u2026 Con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00ean \u00e1n b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai v\u0129nh vi\u1ec5n; \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed5 d\u1ea7u th\u01a1m l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa tr\u00ean t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ai ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh k\u00eau xin\u2026 V\u00ec b\u00e1c \u00e1i \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u00f2i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng, n\u00f3 lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n v\u00e0 nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng\u201d.[151]<\/a> V\u00ec th\u1ebf, c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u201ctr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng ph\u00e1n quy\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 xem x\u00e9t \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ednh ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u00e1c nhau\u201d v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n \u201cl\u01b0u t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed1n kh\u1ed5 m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu do ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd\u201d.[152]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    1. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, gi\u00fap m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch th\u00edch \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 tham d\u1ef1 v\u00e0o c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i, v\u00e0 nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd kinh nghi\u1ec7m m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1edfi m\u1ed9t l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t \u201cnh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng, v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n b\u1ea5t x\u1ee9ng\u201d. Kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb l\u00ean \u00e1n v\u0129nh vi\u1ec5n, v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a Tin M\u1eebng! \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ly d\u1ecb v\u00e0 t\u00e1i h\u00f4n, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, trong b\u1ea5t lu\u1eadn ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0o. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 ph\u00f4 b\u00e0y m\u1ed9t t\u1ed9i kh\u00e1ch quan nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o, ho\u1eb7c mu\u1ed1n \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i gi\u1ea3ng d\u1ea1y, th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 m\u1ea1o nh\u1eadn danh ngh\u0129a gi\u1ea3ng d\u1ea1y cho k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c; \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p t\u1ef1 t\u00e1ch m\u00ecnh ra kh\u1ecfi c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n (x. Mt 18,17). Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u1eafng nghe l\u1ea1i s\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec7p Tin M\u1eebng v\u00e0 l\u1eddi m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi ho\u00e1n c\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a Tin M\u1eebng. Tuy nhi\u00ean, ngay c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 tham d\u1ef1 v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n, v\u00ed d\u1ee5, trong c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, trong c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp m\u1eb7t c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n, ho\u1eb7c b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 ra, v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a cha s\u1edf. Li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh \u201cb\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d, c\u00e1c Ngh\u1ecb Ph\u1ee5 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng H\u1ed9i \u0110\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng thu\u1eadn chung m\u00e0 t\u00f4i v\u1ed1n \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9: \u201cKhi xem x\u00e9t m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 k\u00fd k\u1ebft m\u1ed9t h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i d\u00e2n s\u1ef1, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ly d\u1ecb v\u00e0 t\u00e1i h\u00f4n, hay nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n s\u1ed1ng chung, Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m gi\u00fap h\u1ecd hi\u1ec3u khoa s\u01b0 ph\u1ea1m \u01a1n s\u1ee7ng c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi h\u1ecd, v\u00e0 cung \u1ee9ng cho h\u1ecd s\u1ef1 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa cho m\u00ecnh\u201d,[153]<\/a> \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3, nh\u1edd s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      1. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ly d\u1ecb \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p m\u1edbi, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thu\u1ed9c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u00e1c nhau, m\u00e0 ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1edbt l\u1edd hay \u00e9p v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch ph\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i qu\u00e1 c\u1ee9ng nh\u1eafc v\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f2n ch\u1eeba ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o cho m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n hay m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 th\u00edch h\u1ee3p. V\u00ed nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p th\u1ee9 hai \u0111\u00e3 v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc qua th\u1eddi gian, v\u1edbi c\u00e1c con c\u00e1i m\u1edbi, v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 trung th\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf, v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i t\u1ef1 hi\u1ebfn, v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec7t t\u00e2m s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea1o, v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng b\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n s\u1eebng s\u1eefng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m sao quay lui m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi trong l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd r\u01a1i v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng t\u1ed9i m\u1edbi. Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i \u00fd th\u1ee9c nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh \u201ctrong \u0111\u00f3, v\u00ec nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do h\u1ec7 tr\u1ecdng, nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f4i nam n\u1eef kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00f2i bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i chia tay\u201d.[154]<\/a> C\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p trong \u0111\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ee9u cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb ru\u1ed3ng b\u1ecf m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng, hay \u201cnh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p th\u1ee9 hai v\u00ec l\u1ee3i \u00edch c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi trong l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m h\u1ecd tin r\u1eb1ng cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 v\u00f4 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa \u1ea5y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh hi\u1ec7u\u201d.[155]<\/a> C\u00f2n v\u00ed nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p kh\u00e1c, m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p m\u1edbi x\u1ea3y ra t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c ly d\u1ecb ch\u01b0a l\u00e2u, v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 n\u1ed7i \u0111au kh\u1ed5 v\u00e0 hoang mang g\u00e2y ra cho con c\u00e1i v\u00e0 to\u00e0n gia \u0111\u00ecnh, hay tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 l\u00ec trong t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng b\u1ecf b\u00ea b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Ph\u1ea3i th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng m\u00e0 Tin M\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec1 ra cho h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh. C\u00e1c Ngh\u1ecb Ph\u1ee5 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng H\u1ed9i \u0110\u1ed3ng tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c m\u1ee5c t\u1eed ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m \u201cv\u1edbi s\u1ef1 bi\u1ec7n bi\u1ec7t th\u00edch \u0111\u00e1ng\u201d,[156]<\/a> v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn \u201cbi\u1ec7n ph\u00e2n k\u1ef9 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng c\u00e1c ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh\u201d.[157]<\/a> Ch\u00fang ta v\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng \u201cnh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch k\u00ea toa d\u1ec5 d\u00e3i\u201d kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i.[158]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        1.  T\u00f4i \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u Ngh\u1ecb Ph\u1ee5 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng H\u1ed9i \u0110\u1ed3ng trong ghi nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng \u201cnh\u1eefng t\u00edn h\u1eefu \u0111\u00e3 ly d\u1ecb v\u00e0 t\u00e1i h\u00f4n v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t d\u00e2n s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ed9i nh\u1eadp \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 h\u01a1n v\u00e0o c\u00e1c c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 th\u1ec3, trong khi ph\u00f2ng tr\u00e1nh b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec g\u00e2y g\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u1ea5u. L\u00f4-g\u00edc h\u1ed9i nh\u1eadp l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c s\u0103n s\u00f3c m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd, m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 s\u0103n s\u00f3c cho ph\u00e9p h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i l\u00e0 Th\u00e2n Th\u1ec3 \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ea7y hoa tr\u00e1i v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui trong \u0111\u00f3. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e3nh Ph\u00e9p R\u1eeda; h\u1ecd l\u00e0 anh ch\u1ecb em; Ch\u00faa Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ed5 v\u00e0o tr\u00e1i tim h\u1ecd nh\u1eefng \u01a1n s\u1ee7ng v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 cho thi\u1ec7n \u00edch chung. S\u1ef1 tham gia c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n trong nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 kh\u00e1c nhau trong Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh xem ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c n\u00e0o trong nhi\u1ec1u h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c c\u1ea5m c\u1ea3n kh\u00e1c nhau v\u1ed1n \u0111ang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng trong c\u01a1 c\u1ea5u ph\u1ee5ng v\u1ee5, m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5, gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y c\u1ea7n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean b\u1ecb tuy\u1ec7t th\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i, v\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn m\u00ecnh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u00e2n c\u1ea7n s\u0103n s\u00f3c v\u00e0 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 m\u00ecnh tr\u00ean n\u1ebbo \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 c\u1ee7a Tin M\u1eebng. S\u1ef1 h\u1ed9i nh\u1eadp n\u00e0y c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n trong vi\u1ec7c s\u0103n s\u00f3c v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o cho con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd, l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t\u201d.[159]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          1.  N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta xem x\u00e9t nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1ed7i \u0111a d\u1ea1ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp, th\u00ec d\u1ec5 nh\u1eadn hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng H\u1ed9i \u0110\u1ed3ng hay T\u00f4ng Hu\u1ea5n n\u00e0y cung c\u1ea5p m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 lu\u1eadt chung m\u1edbi, c\u00f3 t\u00ednh qui chu\u1ea9n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng cho m\u1ecdi tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p. \u0110i\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 m\u1edbi m\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ea7y tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3, m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh trong \u0111\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng v\u00ec \u201cm\u1ee9c tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 nhau trong m\u1ecdi tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p\u201d,[160]<\/a> n\u00ean nh\u1eefng h\u1ec7 qu\u1ea3 hay nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec7u \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t qui t\u1eafc kh\u00f4ng lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean gi\u1ed1ng nhau.[161]<\/a> C\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c c\u00f3 b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn \u201c\u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh [v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ly d\u1ecb v\u00e0 t\u00e1i h\u00f4n] \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd hi\u1ec3u ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1m m\u1ee5c. M\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m xuy\u00ean qua nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc h\u1ed3i t\u00e2m v\u00e0 th\u1ed1ng h\u1ed1i s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t h\u1eefu \u00edch cho ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ly d\u1ecb v\u00e0 t\u00e1i h\u00f4n c\u1ea7n t\u1ef1 v\u1ea5n: m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i khi m\u1ed1i k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111i v\u00e0o kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng; m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i hay kh\u00f4ng; ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb m\u00ecnh ru\u1ed3ng b\u1ecf \u0111\u00e3 ra sao; m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 m\u1edbi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u1ec7 qu\u1ea3 g\u00ec tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 trong c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n t\u00edn h\u1eefu; v\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111ang n\u00eau g\u01b0\u01a1ng g\u00ec cho c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb \u0111ang chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. M\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 h\u1ed3i t\u00e2m ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 ni\u1ec1m tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai\u201d.[162]<\/a> Ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh v\u00e0 ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u201cd\u1eabn d\u1eaft c\u00e1c t\u00edn h\u1eefu t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. Vi\u1ec7c trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1edbi linh m\u1ee5c, \u1edf t\u00f2a trong, s\u1ebd g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o m\u1ed9t ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111ang c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng cho m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 tham d\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 h\u01a1n v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i, v\u00e0 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u1ea5y v\u00e0 t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3. V\u00ec s\u1ef1 ti\u1ec7m ti\u1ebfn kh\u00f4ng n\u1eb1m trong lu\u1eadt (x. Familiaris Consortio<\/em>, 34), n\u00ean s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd b\u1ecf qua nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a Tin M\u1eebng v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt v\u00e0 b\u00e1c \u00e1i, nh\u01b0 Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i \u0111\u00e3 n\u00eau. \u0110\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh \u1ea5y, nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n sau \u0111\u00e2y: s\u1ef1 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n, s\u1ef1 th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng y\u00eau m\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i, l\u00f2ng ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm th\u00e1nh \u00fd Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ni\u1ec1m kh\u00e1t khao \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i th\u00e1nh \u00fd Ch\u00faa m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o h\u01a1n\u201d.[163]<\/a> Nh\u1eefng t\u00e2m th\u1ebf n\u00e0y l\u00e0 thi\u1ebft y\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh m\u1ed1i nguy l\u1edbn c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec3u sai l\u1ea7m, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n cho r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 linh m\u1ee5c n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nhanh ch\u00f3ng ban \u201cs\u1ef1 chu\u1ea9n ch\u01b0\u1edbc\u201d, hay cho r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c \u00e2n v\u1ec1 b\u00ed t\u00edch b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch mua chu\u1ed9c. Khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb v\u00e0 c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m \u2013 t\u1ee9c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh l\u00ean tr\u00ean thi\u1ec7n \u00edch chung c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i \u2013 g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t m\u1ee5c t\u1eed c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft t\u00ednh h\u1ec7 tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111ang \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n, th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 nguy c\u01a1 r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh ri\u00eang bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i \u0111ang d\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n k\u00e9p.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            1.  \u0110\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t nh\u1eadn hi\u1ec3u th\u00edch \u0111\u00e1ng v\u1ec1 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t trong m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh \u201cb\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i l\u01b0u \u00fd, nh\u1eb1m ph\u00f2ng tr\u00e1nh b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a Tin M\u1eebng \u0111ang b\u1ecb suy t\u1ed5n c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n m\u1ed9t kho t\u00e0ng suy t\u01b0 v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh gi\u1ea3m nh\u1eb9. V\u00ec th\u1ebf ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ai \u1edf trong b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh \u201cb\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng trong t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng t\u1ed9i nguy t\u1eed v\u00e0 b\u1ecb t\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ea5t \u01a1n th\u00e1nh h\u00f3a. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u li\u00ean quan \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng duy ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft lu\u1eadt. M\u1ed9t ch\u1ee7 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 lu\u1eadt \u1ea5y, nh\u01b0ng g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n l\u1edbn trong vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn hi\u1ec3u \u201cc\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ed1t y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a n\u00f3\u201d,[164]<\/a> ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ef1 \u1edf trong m\u1ed9t ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 v\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p m\u00ecnh h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c hay quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng v\u01b0\u1edbng th\u00eam t\u1ed9i. Nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c Ngh\u1ecb Ph\u1ee5 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng H\u1ed9i \u0110\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i: \u201cc\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u00e1c y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 l\u00e0m h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh\u201d.[165]<\/a> Th\u00e1nh T\u00f4ma Aquin\u00f4 nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1edf \u0111\u1eafc \u00e2n ph\u00fac v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng b\u00e1c \u00e1i, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c thi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c;[166]<\/a> n\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, d\u00f9 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1edf \u0111\u1eafc t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c lu\u00e2n l\u00fd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ban cho, anh ta v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng cho th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, b\u1edfi v\u00ec vi\u1ec7c th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c \u1ea5y g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n: \u201cKhi ta n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 v\u1ecb th\u00e1nh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, th\u00ec \u0111\u1ea5y l\u00e0 v\u00ec c\u00e1c ng\u00e0i g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c \u1ea5y, d\u00f9 c\u00e1c ng\u00e0i v\u1eabn c\u00f3 thi\u00ean n\u0103ng v\u1ec1 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c\u201d.[167]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              1. S\u00e1ch Gi\u00e1o L\u00fd H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh C\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 n\u00e0y: \u201ctr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3m thi\u1ec3u hay th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ee7y b\u1ecf do b\u1edfi ngu d\u1ed1t, v\u00f4 \u00fd, b\u1ecb c\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u00e9p, s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, th\u00f3i quen, nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebfn luy\u1ebfn th\u00e1i qu\u00e1, v\u00e0 do c\u00e1c y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa\u201d.[168]<\/a> Trong m\u1ed9t \u0111o\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c, S\u00e1ch Gi\u00e1o L\u00fd m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa qui chi\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m nh\u1eb9 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m lu\u00e2n l\u00fd, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp kh\u00e1 d\u00e0i v\u1ec1 \u201cs\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh t\u00e2m c\u1ea3m, \u00e1p l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a th\u00f3i quen th\u1ee7 \u0111\u1eafc, nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng b\u1ea5n lo\u1ea1n hay nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i kh\u00e1c l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m \u0111i m\u1ee9c t\u1ed9i lu\u00e2n l\u00fd\u201d.[169]<\/a> Do \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ed9t ph\u00e1n quy\u1ebft ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u00e1ch quan kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 h\u00e0m \u00fd m\u1ed9t ph\u00e1n quy\u1ebft v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 qui g\u00e1n tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m hay m\u1ee9c t\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi li\u00ean h\u1ec7.[170]<\/a> Tr\u00ean c\u01a1 s\u1edf nh\u1eefng x\u00e1c t\u00edn n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i cho l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u Ngh\u1ecb Ph\u1ee5 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng H\u1ed9i \u0110\u1ed3ng mu\u1ed1n kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh: \u201cTrong m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00e1c \u0111i. Do \u0111\u00f3, trong khi th\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u00f4n m\u1ed9t qui lu\u1eadt chung, c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng hay quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau trong m\u1ecdi tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p. S\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5, trong khi l\u01b0u \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o th\u00edch \u0111\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta, c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i xem x\u00e9t nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0y. Ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng h\u1ec7 qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft gi\u1ed1ng nhau trong m\u1ecdi tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p.\u201d[171]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                1.  Nh\u1eadn ra \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00eam r\u1eb1ng trong m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1ch quan nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u1ec1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, th\u00ec l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i x\u00e9t \u0111\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh nghi\u00eam t\u00fac v\u00e0 c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a v\u1ecb m\u1ee5c t\u1eed, v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 m\u1ed9t ni\u1ec1m tin m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n n\u1eefa v\u00e0o \u01a1n s\u1ee7ng c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. Tuy nhi\u00ean l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng duy ch\u1ec9 vi\u1ec7c nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1ch quan v\u1edbi c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a Tin M\u1eebng. N\u00f3 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 trung th\u1ef1c nh\u1eadn ra \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec b\u00e2y gi\u1edd l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3 qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00e2ng l\u00ean Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, v\u00e0 \u0111i t\u1edbi ch\u1ed7 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y \u2013 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn lu\u00e2n l\u00fd n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u2013 r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ea5y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111ang m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi gi\u1eefa c\u01a1 man nh\u1eefng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, trong khi v\u1eabn c\u00f2n b\u1ea5t c\u1eadp so v\u1edbi l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u00e1ch quan. D\u00f9 sao \u0111i n\u1eefa, ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0y c\u00f3 t\u00ednh n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9ng; n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n m\u1edf ra cho nh\u1eefng ch\u1eb7ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1edbi v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1edbi v\u1ed1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap cho c\u00e1i l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 h\u01a1n.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  1. Th\u1eadt l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t c\u1eadp vi\u1ec7c duy ch\u1ec9 x\u00e9t xem c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t lu\u1eadt hay qui t\u1eafc chung hay kh\u00f4ng, b\u1edfi v\u00ec nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0 ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m s\u1ef1 trung th\u00e0nh ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. T\u00f4i tha thi\u1ebft k\u00eau g\u1ecdi r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n nh\u1edb m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a Th\u00e1nh T\u00f4ma Aquin\u00f4 v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0o trong vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh: \u201c\u0110\u00e0nh r\u1eb1ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc chung, nh\u01b0ng khi ch\u00fang ta c\u00e0ng \u0111i v\u00e0o chi ti\u1ebft, ch\u00fang ta c\u00e0ng th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean g\u1eb7p c\u00e1c khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft\u2026 Trong l\u00e3nh v\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, ch\u00e2n l\u00fd hay s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau khi \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0o chi ti\u1ebft, m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u00fang cho c\u00e1c nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc chung th\u00f4i; v\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn gi\u1ed1ng nhau trong chi ti\u1ebft, th\u00ec n\u00f3 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft nh\u01b0 nhau \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u2026 Nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5y l\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, khi ch\u00fang ta \u0111i xa h\u01a1n v\u00e0o chi ti\u1ebft\u201d.[172]<\/a> Qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 c\u00e1c qui t\u1eafc chung cho th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 thi\u1ec7n h\u1ea3o m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem th\u01b0\u1eddng hay th\u1edd \u01a1, nh\u01b0ng trong c\u00f4ng th\u1ee9c di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang, ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i dung n\u1ea1p h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, ch\u00ednh v\u00ec l\u00fd do \u0111\u00f3, ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00e2ng l\u00ean h\u00e0ng qui t\u1eafc. B\u1edfi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0a t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ph\u00e1n quy\u1ebft nghi\u1ec7t ng\u00e3, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u0111e d\u1ecda ch\u00ednh c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u1ed1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t quan t\u00e2m gi\u1eef g\u00ecn.[173]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    1. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, v\u1ecb m\u1ee5c t\u1eed kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c lu\u1eadt lu\u00e2n l\u00fd cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng trong c\u00e1c ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh \u201cb\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d, c\u01a1 h\u1ed3 nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c lu\u1eadt \u1ea5y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng vi\u00ean \u0111\u00e1 \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh n\u00e9m v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 cho th\u1ea5y tr\u00e1i tim kh\u00e9p k\u00edn c\u1ee7a k\u1ebb quen \u1ea9n n\u1ea5p \u0111\u1eb1ng sau c\u00e1c gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i, \u201cng\u1ed3i tr\u00ean t\u00f2a M\u00f4s\u00ea v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi ph\u00e1n x\u1eed v\u1edbi th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 k\u1ebb c\u1ea3 v\u00e0 thi\u1ec3n c\u1eadn nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ecb th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00edch\u201d.[174]<\/a> Theo c\u00f9ng chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u00e0y, \u1ee6y Ban Th\u1ea7n H\u1ecdc Qu\u1ed1c T\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 ghi nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng \u201clu\u1eadt t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 qui t\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u00ean thi\u00ean \u00e1p v\u00e0o ch\u1ee7 th\u1ec3 lu\u00e2n l\u00fd; \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ngu\u1ed3n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng kh\u00e1ch quan cho ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1ea5t ri\u00eang t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta\u201d.[175]<\/a> Do b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n h\u00f3a v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 gi\u1ea3m nh\u1eb9, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u1eb1ng trong m\u1ed9t t\u1ed9i kh\u00e1ch quan n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u2013 v\u1ed1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y l\u00e0 t\u1ed9i hay ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n l\u00e0 t\u1ed9i, theo ch\u1ee7 quan \u2013 th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng trong \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng v\u00e0 b\u00e1c \u00e1i, trong khi nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i cho m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch n\u00e0y.[176]<\/a> Vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh ph\u1ea3i gi\u00fap t\u00ecm ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch kh\u1ea3 d\u0129 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i ti\u1ebfng Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1edbn l\u00ean ngay gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n. Khi suy ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ho\u1eb7c tr\u1eafng ho\u1eb7c \u0111en, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00f4i khi \u0111\u00f3ng ch\u1eb7t con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a \u01a1n s\u1ee7ng v\u00e0 c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 tri\u1ec3n n\u1edf, v\u00e0 c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf nh\u1eefng n\u1ebbo \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00e1nh h\u00f3a l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng n\u1ebbo \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00f4n vinh Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. Ta h\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng \u201cm\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1ecf, \u1edf gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n to l\u1edbn c\u1ee7a ph\u1eadn ng\u01b0\u1eddi, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u1eb9p l\u00f2ng Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa h\u01a1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng xem ch\u1eebng n\u1ec1 n\u1ebfp, nh\u01b0ng \u00eam ru \u0111i qua ng\u00e0y th\u00e1ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111\u00e1ng k\u1ec3 n\u00e0o\u201d.[177]<\/a> Vi\u1ec7c s\u0103n s\u00f3c m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c th\u1eeba t\u00e1c vi\u00ean v\u00e0 c\u00e1c c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ecf qua th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i n\u00e0y.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      1.  Trong m\u1ecdi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh, khi gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c s\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecdn lu\u1eadt Ch\u00faa, ph\u1ea3i gi\u00fap h\u1ecd nghe r\u00f5 l\u1eddi m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi theo \u0111u\u1ed5i con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ee9c \u00e1i (via caritatis<\/em>). B\u00e1c \u00e1i huynh \u0111\u1ec7 l\u00e0 lu\u1eadt th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu (x. Ga 15,12; Gal 5,14). Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00ean nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd c\u1ee7a Th\u00e1nh Kinh: \u201cH\u00e3y y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng, v\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau che l\u1ea5p mu\u00f4n v\u00e0n t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i\u201d (1Pr 4,8); \u201cH\u00e3y \u0111\u00e1i t\u1ed9i l\u1eadp c\u00f4ng, b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ngh\u0129a, l\u00e0 t\u1ecf l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb bi \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o, \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1eddi th\u1ecbnh v\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u2026 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00e9o d\u00e0i\u201d (\u0110n 4,24); \u201cN\u01b0\u1edbc d\u1eadp t\u1eaft l\u1eeda h\u1ed3ng, b\u1ed1 th\u00ed \u0111\u1ec1n b\u00f9 t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i\u201d (Hc 3,30). \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u Th\u00e1nh Augustin\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y: \u201cKhi x\u1ea3y ra h\u1ecfa ho\u1ea1n, ta ch\u1ea1y \u0111i t\u00ecm n\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1eadp l\u1eeda\u2026 th\u00ec c\u0169ng v\u1eady, n\u1ebfu ng\u1ecdn l\u1eeda t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i b\u00f9ng l\u00ean t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ed1ng r\u01a1m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 l\u00e0m ta lo l\u1eafng, th\u00ec n\u1ebfu g\u1eb7p c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c thi m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t, ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y vui m\u1eebng \u0111\u00f3n l\u1ea5y, nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ngu\u1ed3n n\u01b0\u1edbc gi\u00fap ta d\u1eadp t\u1eaft ng\u1ecdn l\u1eeda kia\u201d.[178]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        TRONG M\u1ee4C V\u1ee4<\/p>\n

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        1.  \u0110\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m, t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u1eebng vi\u1ec7c tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, t\u1ee9c k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa trong t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 t\u1ea7m v\u00f3c cao c\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3: \u201cNh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e3nh Ph\u00e9p R\u1eeda c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng B\u00ed t\u00edch H\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m phong ph\u00fa nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, v\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 nh\u1edd \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4 trong b\u00ed t\u00edch \u1ea5y v\u00e0 nh\u1edd kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng tham d\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i\u201d.[179]<\/a> Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 th\u1edd \u01a1, ch\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i thu\u1ed9c b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 lo\u1ea1i n\u00e0o, hay m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u1ea5m \u1edb trong vi\u1ec7c di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng \u1ea5y, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u cho th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu trung th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi Tin M\u1eebng, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u0169ng cho th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb. Vi\u1ec7c b\u00e0y t\u1ecf c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh ngo\u1ea1i l\u1ec7 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0m nh\u1ea1t m\u1edd \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n h\u01a1n, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1eaft x\u00e9n b\u1edbt nh\u1eefng g\u00ec Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu truy\u1ec1n cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ng\u00e0y nay, n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 qua \u0111\u00f3 ph\u00f2ng tr\u00e1nh h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n g\u00e3y \u0111\u1ed5 th\u00ec quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n vi\u1ec7c s\u0103n s\u00f3c m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i.<\/li>\n
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        2.  \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, t\u1eeb \u00fd th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u1ec1 t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p gi\u1ea3m nh\u1eb9 – thu\u1ed9c t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc, l\u1ecbch s\u1eed, v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed sinh v\u1eadt h\u1ecdc \u2013 ta th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng \u201ctrong khi kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m suy gi\u1ea3m l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng theo Tin M\u1eebng, v\u1eabn c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh trong l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t v\u00e0 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng giai \u0111o\u1ea1n tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c di\u1ec5n ra\u201d, d\u00e0nh ch\u1ed7 cho \u201cl\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa, l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y ch\u00fang ta n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c m\u00ecnh\u201d.[180]<\/a> T\u00f4i hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng ai thi\u00ean v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 s\u0103n s\u00f3c m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc h\u01a1n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ed7 cho s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu r\u1ea1ch r\u00f2i. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh tin r\u1eb1ng \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu mu\u1ed1n m\u1ed9t Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i l\u01b0u t\u00e2m t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh m\u00e0 Ch\u00faa Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n gieo v\u00e0o gi\u1eefa s\u1ef1 y\u1ebfu h\u00e8n c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, m\u1ed9t Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1eb9 – trong khi n\u00f3i r\u00f5 gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n kh\u00e1ch quan c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u2013 \u201cv\u1eabn lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 g\u00ec t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3, cho d\u00f9 tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u1ea5y, \u0111\u00f4i ch\u00e2n m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i l\u1ea5m lem b\u00f9n \u0111\u1ea5t\u201d.[181]<\/a> C\u00e1c m\u1ee5c t\u1eed c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i, trong khi n\u00eau r\u00f5 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00edn h\u1eefu l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n c\u1ee7a Tin M\u1eebng v\u00e0 c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i, c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i gi\u00fap h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft c\u1ea3m th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i, tr\u00e1nh th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 b\u1ee9c x\u00fac, gay g\u1eaft v\u00f4 l\u1ed1i hay nh\u1eefng ph\u00e1n quy\u1ebft b\u1ea5t nh\u1eabn. Ch\u00ednh Tin M\u1eebng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1eebng x\u00e9t \u0111o\u00e1n hay l\u00ean \u00e1n (x. Mt 7,1; Lc 6,37). \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu \u201cmong ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nh\u1eefng hang h\u1ed1c \u1ea9n n\u00e1u cho c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n hay t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c che ch\u1eafn kh\u1ecfi v\u00f9ng n\u01b0\u1edbc xo\u00e1y c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 Ng\u01b0\u1eddi mong ta \u0111i v\u00e0o trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng d\u00e2n ch\u00fang v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 d\u1ecbu hi\u1ec1n. B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m th\u1ebf, \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean x\u00e1o tr\u1ed9n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi\u201d.[182]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          1.  Th\u1eadt qu\u00ed h\u00f3a vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eefng suy t\u01b0 n\u00e0y di\u1ec5n ra trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh N\u0103m Th\u00e1nh L\u00f2ng Th\u01b0\u01a1ng X\u00f3t, b\u1edfi v\u00ec c\u0169ng trong v\u00f4 v\u00e0n ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh \u0111ang t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u201cGi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 loan b\u00e1o l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, l\u00e0 tr\u00e1i tim s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a Tin M\u1eebng, l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t \u1ea5y \u2013 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 \u2013 ph\u1ea3i xuy\u00ean th\u1ea5u v\u00e0o l\u00f2ng tr\u00ed m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. T\u00e2n N\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4 ph\u1ea3i noi g\u01b0\u01a1ng cung c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a Con Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, \u0110\u1ea5ng \u0111i ra \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng tr\u1eeb ai\u201d.[183]<\/a> Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c t\u1eed c\u1ee7a to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m con chi\u00ean \u1ea5y, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 c\u1ee7a ch\u00edn m\u01b0\u01a1i ch\u00edn con. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang. T\u1eeb nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y, ta th\u1ea5y \u201cd\u1ea7u th\u01a1m c\u1ee7a l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tin v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf xa, nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea5u cho th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng N\u01b0\u1edbc Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111ang hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n gi\u1eefa ch\u00fang ta\u201d.[184]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            1. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00ean r\u1eb1ng \u201cth\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Cha; n\u00f3 c\u0169ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft ai l\u00e0 con c\u00e1i \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i. N\u00f3i t\u1eaft, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi thi th\u1ed1 l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t b\u1edfi v\u00ec, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi th\u1ed1 cho ch\u00fang ta\u201d.[185]<\/a> \u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u00e0u m\u00e8 l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n hay l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ki\u1ec3u \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3 n\u1eeda v\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau lu\u00f4n ki\u1ebfm t\u00ecm \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t cho ch\u00fang ta, v\u00ec k\u1ef3 th\u1ef1c \u201cl\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i ph\u1ea3i in d\u1ea5u s\u1ef1 d\u1ecbu hi\u1ec1n m\u00e0 Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 cho c\u00e1c t\u00edn h\u1eefu; kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec trong l\u1eddi rao gi\u1ea3ng v\u00e0 trong ch\u1ee9ng t\u00e1 m\u00e0 Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i n\u00eau cho th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t\u201d.[186]<\/a> Qu\u1ea3 th\u1ef1c l\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac \u201cch\u00fang ta h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee7 nh\u00e2n \u00f4ng c\u1ee7a \u01a1n s\u1ee7ng h\u01a1n l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 n\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea1m thu thu\u1ebf; Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Cha, n\u01a1i c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 ch\u1ed7 cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd\u201d.[187]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              1. Vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ea3ng d\u1ea1y th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc lu\u00e2n l\u00fd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ecf qua nh\u1eefng l\u01b0u \u00fd n\u00e0y, v\u00ec cho d\u00f9 qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ednh to\u00e0n v\u1eb9n trong gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n lu\u00e2n l\u00fd c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i, nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i l\u01b0u t\u00e2m \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb cao nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 c\u1ed1t y\u1ebfu nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a Tin M\u1eebng,[188]<\/a> nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9c \u00e1i x\u00e9t nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 d\u00e0nh ch\u1ed7 cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa trong ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta.[189]<\/a> Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1eb7t ra qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n cho l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9 l\u00e0m n\u00f3 m\u1ea5t s\u1ea1ch \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch t\u1ec7 h\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m suy y\u1ebfu Tin M\u1eebng. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, qu\u1ea3 th\u1ef1c l\u00e0 l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t kh\u00f4ng lo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb c\u00f4ng l\u00fd v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt, nh\u01b0ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tr\u00f2n \u0111\u1ea7y c\u1ee7a c\u00f4ng l\u00fd, v\u00e0 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u00e1ng ng\u1eddi nh\u1ea5t s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i xem l\u00e0 \u201ckh\u00f4ng th\u1ecfa \u0111\u00e1ng b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 quan ni\u1ec7m th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc n\u00e0o r\u1ed1t c\u1ee5c nghi ng\u1edd s\u1ef1 to\u00e0n n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u00e0, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0, nghi ng\u1edd l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i\u201d.[190]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                1. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y cung \u1ee9ng cho ch\u00fang ta m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i khung v\u00e0 b\u1ea7u kh\u00ed gi\u00fap ta tr\u00e1nh m\u1ed9t n\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c l\u1ea1nh l\u00f9ng quan li\u00eau khi x\u1eed l\u00fd nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, n\u00f3 \u0111\u1eb7t ta trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ea7y \u1eafp t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ta lu\u00f4n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m, tha th\u1ee9, \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh, hy v\u1ecdng, v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ed9i nh\u1eadp. T\u00e2m th\u1ebf n\u00e0y c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i lan tr\u00e0n trong Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn ch\u00fang ta \u201cm\u1edf l\u00f2ng ra \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng ai \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng \u1edf nh\u1eefng b\u1edd r\u00eca xa nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i\u201d.[191]<\/a> T\u00f4i kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 c\u00e1c t\u00edn h\u1eefu n\u00e0o th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh \u0111ang \u1edf trong nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p h\u00e3y tin t\u01b0\u1edfng chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi c\u00e1c m\u1ee5c t\u1eed c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, hay v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng anh ch\u1ecb em gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n nhi\u1ec7t t\u00e2m d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n cho Ch\u00faa. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n g\u1eb7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u00fd ngh\u0129 hay mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn h\u1ecd s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd hi\u1ec3u h\u01a1n ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra m\u1ed9t n\u1ebbo \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng cho m\u00ecnh l\u1edbn l\u00ean. T\u00f4i c\u0169ng kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 c\u00e1c m\u1ee5c t\u1eed c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i l\u1eafng nghe nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 nh\u1ea1y b\u00e9n v\u00e0 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh, v\u1edbi ni\u1ec1m khao kh\u00e1t ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh mu\u1ed1n hi\u1ec3u c\u1ea3nh ng\u1ed9 v\u00e0 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ra ch\u1ed7 d\u00e0nh cho m\u00ecnh trong Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  LINH \u0110\u1ea0O H\u00d4N NH\u00c2N V\u00c0 GIA \u0110\u00ccNH<\/strong><\/p>\n

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  1. \u0110\u1ee9c \u00e1i mang nhi\u1ec1u s\u1eafc th\u00e1i kh\u00e1c nhau, t\u00f9y v\u00e0o b\u1eadc s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi. C\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e2y m\u1ea5y th\u1eadp ni\u00ean, khi n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c t\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3 gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n, C\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng Vatican II nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh lo\u1ea1i linh \u0111\u1ea1o ph\u00e1t sinh t\u1eeb \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh. C\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 r\u1eb1ng linh \u0111\u1ea1o gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n \u201cs\u1ebd mang \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 do nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a \u2026 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh\u201d,[192]<\/a> v\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng: \u201cvi\u1ec7c s\u0103n s\u00f3c c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean xa l\u1ea1\u201d v\u1edbi linh \u0111\u1ea1o \u1ea5y.[193]<\/a> Thi\u1ebft t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ea7n m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh c\u0103n b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a linh \u0111\u1ea1o chuy\u00ean bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0y, nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 ra trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    M\u1ed8T LINH \u0110\u1ea0O HI\u1ec6P TH\u00d4NG SI\u00caU NHI\u00caN<\/p>\n

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    1. Ch\u00fang ta v\u1ed1n th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa c\u01b0 ng\u1ee5 trong l\u00f2ng nh\u1eefng ai s\u1ed1ng trong \u01a1n s\u1ee7ng c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i. Ng\u00e0y nay ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00eam r\u1eb1ng Ch\u00faa Ba Ng\u00f4i hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n trong \u0111\u1ec1n th\u1edd c\u1ee7a m\u1ed1i hi\u1ec7p th\u00f4ng v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng. C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa ng\u1ef1 trong nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi t\u00e1n t\u1ee5ng c\u1ee7a d\u00e2n Ng\u00e0i (x. Tv 22,3), th\u00ec Ng\u00e0i c\u0169ng ng\u1ef1 c\u00e1ch m\u1eadt thi\u1ebft trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau t\u00f4n vinh Ng\u00e0i.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      1. Ch\u00faa hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n trong nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng lo toan, nh\u1eefng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng, nh\u1eefng vui m\u1eebng v\u00e0 hy v\u1ecdng h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. S\u1ed1ng trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd hay n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i; ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u1ea9n n\u1ea5p sau m\u1ed9t m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1. N\u1ebfu t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c \u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y b\u1edfi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, th\u00ec Ch\u00faa \u0111ang ng\u1ef1 tr\u1ecb \u1edf \u0111\u00f3, v\u1edbi ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 b\u00ecnh an c\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Linh \u0111\u1ea1o t\u00ecnh y\u00eau gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea5u th\u00e0nh t\u1eeb h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0n c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 nh\u01b0ng r\u1ea5t th\u1eadt. Trong c\u01a1 man nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 trao t\u1eb7ng v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c \u0111\u00e0o s\u00e2u s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7p th\u00f4ng \u1ea5y, Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa c\u00f3 ch\u1ed7 ng\u1ef1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i. S\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m l\u1eabn nhau \u201cs\u1ebd k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i v\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 th\u1ea7n linh\u201d,[194]<\/a> v\u00ec n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111ong \u0111\u1ea7y t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, linh \u0111\u1ea1o h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t linh \u0111\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a m\u1ed1i d\u00e2y r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c, trong \u0111\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa c\u01b0 ng\u1ee5.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        1.  Kinh nghi\u1ec7m t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7p th\u00f4ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh s\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u1ebbo \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c cho vi\u1ec7c th\u00e1nh h\u00f3a h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y v\u00e0 gi\u00fap l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong kinh nghi\u1ec7m th\u1ea7n b\u00ed, m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p s\u00e2u xa h\u01a1n v\u1edbi Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng chung v\u00e0 c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh huynh \u0111\u1ec7 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng m\u1edf l\u00f2ng ra th\u00eam n\u1eefa, v\u00e0 nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 Ch\u00faa ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n h\u01a1n. L\u1eddi Ch\u00faa n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta r\u1eb1ng \u201cai gh\u00e9t anh em m\u00ecnh th\u00ec \u1edf trong b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i, v\u00e0 k\u1ebb \u1ea5y b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i trong b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i\u201d (1Ga 2,11); ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y \u201c\u1edf l\u1ea1i trong s\u1ef1 ch\u1ebft\u201d (1Ga 3,14) v\u00e0 \u201ckh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa\u201d (1Ga 4,8). V\u1ecb ti\u1ec1n nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, \u0110\u1ee9c B\u00ean\u00ea\u0111ict\u00f4 XVI, \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng \u201cvi\u1ec7c ta nh\u1eafm m\u1eaft tr\u01b0\u1edbc tha nh\u00e2n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd l\u00e0m m\u1eaft ta m\u00f9 \u0111i tr\u01b0\u1edbc Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa\u201d,[195]<\/a> v\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng duy nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u201clu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n soi s\u00e1ng l\u1ea1i cho m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u1edf trong b\u00f3ng \u0111\u00eam\u201d.[196]<\/a> Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n ch\u00fang ta \u201cy\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau, th\u00ec Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u1edf trong ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i s\u1ebd n\u00ean ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o n\u01a1i ch\u00fang ta\u201d (1Ga 4,12). V\u00ec \u201cnh\u00e2n v\u1ecb g\u1eafn kh\u00f4ng r\u1eddi v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t chi\u1ec1u k\u00edch x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i\u201d,[197]<\/a> v\u00e0 \u201cs\u1ef1 di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 c\u0103n b\u1ea3n v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft c\u1ee7a chi\u1ec1u k\u00edch x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u1ea5y c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n v\u1ecb l\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh\u201d,[198]<\/a> n\u00ean linh \u0111\u1ea1o tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 b\u1eb1ng x\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1eb1ng th\u1ecbt trong m\u1ed1i hi\u1ec7p th\u00f4ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, nh\u1eefng ai c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng t\u00e2m linh s\u00e2u s\u1eafc kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0m h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf s\u1ef1 l\u1edbn l\u00ean c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n h\u00e3y xem \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t n\u1ebbo \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 Ch\u00faa \u0111ang d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1eabn m\u00ecnh t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng t\u1ea7m cao c\u1ee7a kinh nghi\u1ec7m k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p th\u1ea7n b\u00ed.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          TRONG \u00c1NH S\u00c1NG PH\u1ee4C SINH<\/p>\n

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          1.  N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb7t \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4 l\u00e0m trung t\u00e2m, Ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 soi s\u00e1ng to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u1ea5y. Nh\u1eefng th\u1eddi kh\u1eafc kh\u1ed5 \u0111au v\u00e0 ch\u00f4ng gai s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kinh nghi\u1ec7m trong s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi th\u1eadp gi\u00e1 Ch\u00faa, v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i c\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd gi\u00fap gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng th\u1eddi kh\u1eafc \u1ea5y. Trong nh\u1eefng gi\u1edd ph\u00fat \u0111en t\u1ed1i nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh, vi\u1ec7c k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu b\u1ecb b\u1ecf r\u01a1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u00e1nh s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1. D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, \u201cv\u1edbi \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n, [\u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng] l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong s\u1ef1 th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n xuy\u00ean qua \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c tham d\u1ef1 v\u00e0o m\u1ea7u nhi\u1ec7m th\u1eadp gi\u00e1 \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4, l\u00e0 m\u1ea7u nhi\u1ec7m c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00e0 \u0111au kh\u1ed5 th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t hi\u1ebfn l\u1ec5 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau\u201d.[199]<\/a> H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc c\u1ee7a ni\u1ec1m vui, th\u01b0 gi\u00e3n, nh\u1eefng d\u1ecbp m\u1eebng, v\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kinh nghi\u1ec7m nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 tham d\u1ef1 v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng ph\u1ee5c sinh vi\u00ean m\u00e3n. B\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 kh\u00e1c nhau trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y, c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng l\u00e0m n\u00ean m\u1ed9t \u201ckh\u00f4ng gian \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa chi\u1ebfu s\u00e1ng, trong \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd kinh nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n gi\u1ea5u \u1ea9n c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa ph\u1ee5c sinh\u201d.[200]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            1.  Vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ec3 di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 v\u00e0 c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ee9c tin \u2018v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua\u2019 \u1ea5y.[201]<\/a> C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra v\u00e0i ph\u00fat m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 qui t\u1ee5 v\u1edbi nhau tr\u01b0\u1edbc Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa h\u1eb1ng s\u1ed1ng, k\u1ec3 v\u1edbi Ng\u00e0i nh\u1eefng lo l\u1eafng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, xin Ng\u00e0i nh\u00ecn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh, c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n cho m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, xin Ng\u00e0i tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap ta di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, t\u1ea1 \u01a1n v\u1ec1 h\u1ed3ng \u00e2n s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 v\u1ec1 bao \u01a1n l\u00e0nh kh\u00e1c, v\u00e0 c\u1ea7u xin \u0110\u1ee9c M\u1eb9 che ch\u1edf ch\u00fang ta d\u01b0\u1edbi t\u00e0 \u00e1o M\u1eb9. Ch\u1ec9 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u00edt l\u1eddi \u0111\u01a1n s\u01a1 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh l\u1edbn lao cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u00fang ta. Nh\u1eefng di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 kh\u00e1c nhau c\u1ee7a l\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c b\u00ecnh d\u00e2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kho t\u00e0ng linh \u0111\u1ea1o cho nhi\u1ec1u gia \u0111\u00ecnh. H\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n chung c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec9nh \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u01a1i vi\u1ec7c c\u00f9ng nhau chia s\u1ebb Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ec3, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 trong khung c\u1ea3nh ng\u00e0y l\u1ec5 ngh\u1ec9 Ch\u00faa Nh\u1eadt. \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu g\u00f5 c\u1eeda c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh, chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi h\u1ecd b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ec3 (x. Kh 3,20). \u1ede \u0111\u00f3, v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u00fd k\u1ebft l\u1ea1i giao \u01b0\u1edbc V\u01b0\u1ee3t Qua, l\u00e0 giao \u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p h\u1ecd, v\u00e0 l\u00e0 giao \u01b0\u1edbc ph\u1ea3i ph\u1ea3n \u1ea3nh giao \u01b0\u1edbc m\u00e0 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa k\u00fd k\u1ebft v\u1edbi nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i tr\u00ean th\u1eadp gi\u00e1.[202]<\/a> Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 b\u00ed t\u00edch c\u1ee7a giao \u01b0\u1edbc m\u1edbi, \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f4ng tr\u00ecnh c\u1ee9u chu\u1ed9c c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n (x. Lc 22,20). M\u1ed1i li\u00ean k\u1ebft ch\u1eb7t ch\u1ebd gi\u1eefa \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ec3, v\u00ec th\u1ebf, tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u00e0ng r\u00f5 h\u01a1n.[203]<\/a> V\u00ec l\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ef1c Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ec3 cung c\u1ea5p cho \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng giao \u01b0\u1edbc h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u201cGi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i gia\u201d.[204]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              T\u00ccNH Y\u00caU T\u1ef0 DO V\u00c0 \u0110\u1ed8C H\u1eeeU<\/p>\n

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              1.  H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u0169ng l\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. V\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 v\u00e0 kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 nhau, s\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng nhau cho \u0111\u1ebfn r\u0103ng long \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ea1c, v\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3n \u1ea3nh l\u00f2ng trung th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. C\u00e1i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t \u1ea5y, v\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u201c\u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi th\u00e2m s\u00e2u c\u1ee7a giao \u01b0\u1edbc t\u00ecnh y\u00eau phu ph\u1ee5\u201d,[205]<\/a> v\u00ec \u201cm\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh y\u00eau m\u00e3i m\u00e3i th\u00ec kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00eau d\u00f9 ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y\u201d.[206]<\/a> \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, s\u1ef1 trung th\u00e0nh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a g\u00ec v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t thi\u00eang li\u00eang, n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 tu\u00e2n gi\u1eef lu\u1eadt v\u1edbi th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 cam ch\u1ecbu. \u0110\u00fang h\u01a1n, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a tr\u00e1i tim, m\u1ed9t tr\u00e1i tim ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5u (x. Mt 5,28). M\u1ed7i s\u00e1ng khi th\u1ee9c d\u1eady, ch\u00fang ta x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t Ch\u00faa quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh trung th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, d\u00f9 cho \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra trong ng\u00e0y \u0111i n\u1eefa. V\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta, m\u1ed7i t\u1ed1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ng\u1ee7, ta hy v\u1ecdng s\u1ebd th\u1ee9c d\u1eady v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c chuy\u1ebfn phi\u00eau l\u01b0u n\u00e0y, t\u00edn th\u00e1c v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, gi\u1eefa v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia s\u1ebd nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u v\u00e0 kh\u00ed c\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa, \u0110\u1ea5ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ru\u1ed3ng b\u1ecf ch\u00fang ta: \u201cN\u00e0y \u0111\u00e2y, Th\u1ea7y \u1edf v\u1edbi anh em m\u1ecdi ng\u00e0y cho \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eadn th\u1ebf\u201d (Mt 28,20).<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                1.  S\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t l\u00fac m\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec9nh cao c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u1ec1n m\u00f3ng cho m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecb l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia kh\u00f4ng thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh, m\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee7 nh\u00e2n quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 Ch\u00faa. Kh\u00f4ng ai ngo\u00e0i Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chi\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i trung t\u00e2m s\u00e2u th\u1eb3m nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 th\u1ea7m k\u00edn nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh y\u00eau; ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 Ch\u00faa m\u1edbi l\u00e0 t\u00e2m \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ed1i h\u1eadu c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c t\u00e2m linh y\u00eau c\u1ea7u r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u1eebng ngh\u0129 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n c\u00e1c nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. H\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh t\u00e2m linh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u2013 nh\u01b0 Dietrich Bonhoeffer \u0111\u00e3 di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 r\u1ea5t hay \u2013 c\u1ea7n gi\u00fap m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u201cv\u1ee1 m\u1ed9ng\u201d n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 trong li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia,[207]<\/a> \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u1eebng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u1ed1n thu\u1ed9c ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 thanh l\u00fd n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m. C\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng gian m\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng d\u00e0nh ri\u00eang cho m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan c\u00e1 v\u1ecb v\u1edbi Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh c\u00e1c t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng chung, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n gi\u00fap cho h\u1ecd t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa ngu\u1ed3n \u00fd ngh\u0129a s\u00e2u xa nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea7u xin s\u1ef1 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do b\u00ean trong n\u00e0y.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  1.  \u201cC\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng v\u00e0 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee9ng nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9c tin – cho nhau, cho con c\u00e1i, v\u00e0 cho b\u00e0 con h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng m\u00ecnh\u201d.[208]<\/a> Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi h\u1ecd trao t\u1eb7ng s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng. Do \u0111\u00f3, gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u201cbao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u2018b\u1ec7nh vi\u1ec7n\u2019 g\u1ea7n nh\u1ea5t\u201d.[209]<\/a> V\u00ec th\u1ebf, ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y quan t\u00e2m ch\u0103m s\u00f3c nhau, h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn v\u00e0 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 nhau, v\u00e0 h\u00e3y kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a linh \u0111\u1ea1o gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u00fang ta. \u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0m v\u1ee3 l\u00e0m ch\u1ed3ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 tham d\u1ef1 h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y v\u00e0o c\u00f4ng tr\u00ecnh s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, v\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u2013 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia \u2013 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 g\u1ee3i \u00fd th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean t\u1eeb Ch\u00faa Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng b\u1ed1 \u201cxuy\u00ean qua l\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau phu ph\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh\u201d.[210]<\/a> V\u00ec th\u1ebf hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3n \u1ea3nh cho nhau c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u1ea7n linh \u1ea5y, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c an \u1ee7i b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi n\u00f3i, m\u1ed9t \u00e1nh nh\u00ecn, m\u1ed9t b\u00e0n tay gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, m\u1ed9t vu\u1ed1t ve, m\u1ed9t \u00f4m si\u1ebft. Do \u0111\u00f3, \u201c\u00fd mu\u1ed1n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, l\u00e0 ch\u1ecdn m\u01a1 v\u1edbi Ng\u00e0i, l\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng v\u1edbi Ng\u00e0i, l\u00e0 tham gia v\u1edbi Ng\u00e0i trong c\u00f4ng cu\u1ed9c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi m\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ai c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n\u201d.[211]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    1.  T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u201cc\u00f4ng cu\u1ed9c ch\u0103n chi\u00ean\u201d trong l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t. M\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta, b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t d\u1ea5u v\u1ebft tr\u00ean cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c; c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi Th\u00e1nh Phaol\u00f4, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i: \u201cTh\u01b0 gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 anh em, th\u01b0 \u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ebft trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n anh em\u2026 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i vi\u1ebft b\u1eb1ng m\u1ef1c, nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ebft b\u1eb1ng Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa h\u1eb1ng s\u1ed1ng\u201d (2Cr 3,2-3). M\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u201cng\u01b0 ph\u1ee7 ch\u00e0i l\u01b0\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u201d (Lc 5,10), nh\u00e2n danh \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu ch\u00fang ta \u201cth\u1ea3 l\u01b0\u1edbi\u201d (x. Lc 5,5), hay l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f4ng d\u00e2n canh t\u00e1c m\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch \u0111em l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t trong h\u1ecd. Hoa tr\u00e1i c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n g\u1eafn v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, v\u00ec \u201cy\u00eau ai l\u00e0 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c; \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 – b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 – l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng s\u1ef1 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng n\u00e0y\u201d.[212]<\/a> \u0110\u00f3 \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1edd ph\u01b0\u1ee3ng Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, \u0110\u1ea5ng \u0111\u00e3 gieo r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh n\u01a1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c trong hy v\u1ecdng r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd gi\u00fap l\u00e0m cho tri\u1ec3n n\u1edf.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      1. Th\u1eadt l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kinh nghi\u1ec7m t\u00e2m linh th\u00e2m s\u00e2u vi\u1ec7c nh\u00ecn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ta y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1edbi \u0111\u00f4i m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4 n\u01a1i h\u1ecd. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 c\u1edfi m\u1edf c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch hi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u00e0 qu\u00ean \u0111i m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ta y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a ta. \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu l\u00e0 m\u1eabu g\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, v\u00ec b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u1ebfn n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi Ng\u01b0\u1eddi, Ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00ecn ch\u0103m ch\u00fa v\u00e0o m\u1eaft h\u1ecd, nh\u00ecn tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7y y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng (x. Mc 10,21). Kh\u00f4ng ai c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb th\u1edd \u01a1 trong s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00ec nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 c\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ea5t ch\u1ee9a c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y: \u201cB\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n t\u00f4i l\u00e0m g\u00ec cho b\u1ea1n?\u201d (Mc 10,51). \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta kinh nghi\u1ec7m trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng b\u00ean ta \u0111\u1ec1u x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ta l\u01b0u t\u00e2m c\u00e1ch t\u1eadn t\u00ecnh, v\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u00f3 ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n trong t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4n th\u1ea5u c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Cha. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 d\u1ecbu hi\u1ec1n v\u1ed1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u201ckh\u01a1i l\u00ean trong l\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ni\u1ec1m vui th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. S\u1ef1 d\u1ecbu hi\u1ec1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t qua vi\u1ec7c \u00e2n c\u1ea7n quan t\u00e2m khi \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng.\u201d[213]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        1.  \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn b\u1edfi Ch\u00faa Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n, gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 m\u1edf ra \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch sinh s\u1ea3n trong ph\u1ea1m vi gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f2n b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111i ra v\u00e0 lan t\u1ecfa s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng qua vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac cho h\u1ecd. S\u1ef1 m\u1edf ra n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u01a1i l\u00f2ng hi\u1ebfu kh\u00e1ch,[214]<\/a> nh\u01b0 L\u1eddi Ch\u00faa h\u00f9ng h\u1ed3n kh\u00edch l\u1ec7: \u201cAnh em \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00ean t\u1ecf l\u00f2ng hi\u1ebfu kh\u00e1ch, v\u00ec nh\u1edd v\u1eady, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u00f3n c\u00e1c thi\u00ean th\u1ea7n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft\u201d (Dt 13,2). Khi m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng r\u1ed9ng m\u1edf v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng ra t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb b\u1ecf r\u01a1i, th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u201cm\u1ed9t d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u, m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee9ng t\u00e1 v\u00e0 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tham d\u1ef1 v\u00e0o thi\u00ean ch\u1ee9c l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i\u201d.[215]<\/a> T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng, nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea3n \u1ea3nh v\u1ec1 Ch\u00faa Ba Ng\u00f4i, l\u00e0 c\u00e1i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 h\u1ee3p nh\u1ea5t \u00fd ngh\u0129a thi\u00eang li\u00eang c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 s\u1ee9 m\u1ea1ng h\u01b0\u1edbng ra ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, v\u00ec n\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho b\u00e0i gi\u1ea3ng ti\u00ean kh\u1edfi (kerygma) c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t, trong t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi mang t\u00ednh c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng linh \u0111\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh qua vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi v\u1eeba l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i gia, v\u1eeba l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1ebf b\u00e0o s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng gi\u00fap bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi.[216]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          1. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecnh c\u1edd m\u00e0 l\u1eddi d\u1ea1y c\u1ee7a T\u00f4n s\u01b0 Gi\u00easu (x. Mt 22,30) v\u00e0 c\u1ee7a Th\u00e1nh Phaol\u00f4 (x. 1Cr 7,29-31) v\u1ec1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh chi\u1ec1u k\u00edch t\u1ed1i h\u1eadu v\u00e0 d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t c\u1ee7a hi\u1ec7n sinh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 phong ph\u00fa c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n n\u00e0y. Ch\u0103m ch\u00fa l\u1eafng nghe gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n \u1ea5y, c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00fd ngh\u0129a s\u00e2u xa h\u01a1n c\u1ee7a h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0 T\u00f4ng Hu\u1ea5n n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 th\u01b0\u1eddng ghi nh\u1eadn, kh\u00f4ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh n\u00e0o ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 t\u1eeb tr\u00ean tr\u1eddi r\u1edbt xu\u1ed1ng; c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh trong kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u01a1n g\u1ecdi kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ho\u00e0n t\u1ea5t, ph\u00e1t xu\u1ea5t t\u1eeb m\u1ed1i hi\u1ec7p th\u00f4ng tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Ba Ng\u00f4i, t\u1eeb m\u1ed1i k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p th\u00e2m s\u00e2u gi\u1eefa \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4 v\u00e0 Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i, t\u1eeb c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 Th\u00e1nh Gia Nadar\u00e9t, v\u00e0 t\u1eeb m\u1ed1i hi\u1ec7p th\u00f4ng tinh thu\u1ea7n gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c th\u00e1nh tr\u00ean thi\u00ean qu\u1ed1c. Vi\u1ec7c chi\u00eam ng\u1eafm s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh to\u00e0n m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi c\u0169ng gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft nh\u00ecn – v\u1edbi c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn – cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh l\u1ecbch s\u1eed m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n trong t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan li\u00ean v\u1ecb c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n, ph\u1ea3i tinh thu\u1ea7n trong c\u00e1c \u00fd h\u01b0\u1edbng, v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n \u2013 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 ta ch\u1ec9 g\u1eb7p th\u1ea5y trong N\u01b0\u1edbc Tr\u1eddi mai sau. Ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3nh gi\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng kh\u1eafc nghi\u1ec7t x\u00e9t \u0111o\u00e1n nh\u1eefng ai s\u1ed1ng trong c\u00e1c ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh ch\u00eanh v\u00eanh. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u1edbn lao h\u01a1n ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u00fang ta, v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi gia \u0111\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y n\u00e0y. Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y trong t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y ti\u1ebfn b\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi nhau. \u0110i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ee9a th\u00ec cao tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. \u01af\u1edbc g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ng\u00e3 l\u00f2ng v\u00ec nh\u1eefng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ng\u1eebng t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 vi\u00ean m\u00e3n c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7p th\u00f4ng m\u00e0 Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi ch\u00fang ta.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            L\u1eddi c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi Th\u00e1nh Gia, Gi\u00easu, Maria v\u00e0 Giuse<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            L\u1ea1y Th\u00e1nh Gia,<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            n\u01a1i c\u00e1c Ng\u00e0i ch\u00fang con chi\u00eam ng\u1eafm<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            v\u1ebb r\u1ea1ng ng\u1eddi c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c;<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            ch\u00fang con tin t\u01b0\u1edfng h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c Ng\u00e0i.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            L\u1ea1y Th\u00e1nh Gia Nadar\u00e9t,<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            xin l\u00e0m cho c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u00fang con<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            c\u0169ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u01a1i ch\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a hi\u1ec7p th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n,<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a Tin M\u1eebng<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh t\u1ea1i gia nh\u1ecf b\u00e9.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            L\u1ea1y Th\u00e1nh Gia Nadar\u00e9t,<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            xin cho c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eebng x\u1ea3y ra b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c,<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            \u0111\u1eebng lo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb v\u00e0 chia r\u1ebd n\u1eefa;<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            xin cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ai b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng hay b\u1ecb x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 an \u1ee7i v\u00e0 ch\u1eefa tr\u1ecb.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            L\u1ea1y Th\u00e1nh Gia Nadar\u00e9t,<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            xin l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang con<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            bi\u1ebft \u00fd th\u1ee9c l\u1ea1i v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh thi\u00eang th\u00e1nh<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            v\u00e0 t\u00ednh b\u1ea5t kh\u1ea3 x\u00e2m ph\u1ea1m c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh,<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            trong ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            L\u1ea1y Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu, M\u1eb9 Maria v\u00e0 Th\u00e1nh Giuse,<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            xin th\u01b0\u01a1ng nghe l\u1eddi ch\u00fang con kh\u1ea9n c\u1ea7u. Amen.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            T\u1ea1i R\u00f4ma, \u0110\u1ec1n th\u1edd Th\u00e1nh Ph\u00ear\u00f4, trong N\u0103m Th\u00e1nh L\u00f2ng Th\u01b0\u01a1ng X\u00f3t, <\/em><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            ng\u00e0y 19 th\u00e1ng 3, l\u1ec5 tr\u1ecdng Th\u00e1nh Giuse, n\u0103m 2016, <\/em><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            n\u0103m th\u1ee9 t\u01b0 tri\u1ec1u gi\u00e1o ho\u00e0ng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i<\/em>.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            PHANXIC\u00d4<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            M\u1ee4C L\u1ee4C<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            D\u1eabn nh\u1eadp [1-7]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            CH\u01af\u01a0NG M\u1ed8T: TRONG \u00c1NH S\u00c1NG C\u1ee6A L\u1edcI CH\u00daA [8-30]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             <\/strong>– NG\u01af\u01a0I V\u00c0 V\u1ee2 NG\u01af\u01a0I [9-13]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – CON C\u00c1I B\u1ea0N NH\u01af NH\u1eeeNG CH\u1ed2I \u00d4-LIU [14-18]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – M\u1ed8T N\u1ebaO \u0110\u01af\u1edcNG \u0110AU KH\u1ed4 V\u00c0 \u0110\u1eaaM M\u00c1U [19-22]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – C\u00d4NG KH\u00d3 TAY B\u1ea0N L\u00c0M RA [23-26]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – S\u1ef0 D\u1ecaU HI\u1ec0N C\u1ee6A V\u00d2NG TAY \u00d4M [27-30]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            CH\u01af\u01a0NG HAI: NH\u1eeeNG KINH NGHI\u1ec6M V\u00c0 NH\u1eeeNG TH\u00c1CH \u0110\u1ed0 C\u1ee6A GIA \u0110\u00ccNH [31-57]
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            \n<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – TH\u1ef0C T\u1ebe HI\u1ec6N NAY C\u1ee6A GIA \u0110\u00ccNH [32-<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – M\u1ed8T S\u1ed0 TH\u00c1CH \u0110\u1ed0 [50-57]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            CH\u01af\u01a0NG BA: H\u01af\u1edaNG NH\u00ccN \u0110\u1ee8C GI\u00caSU: \u01a0N G\u1eccI C\u1ee6A GIA \u0110\u00ccNH [58-88]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             <\/strong>– \u0110\u1ee8C GI\u00caSU KH\u00d4I PH\u1ee4C V\u00c0 HO\u00c0N TH\u00c0NH<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            CH\u01af\u01a0NG TR\u00ccNH C\u1ee6A THI\u00caN CH\u00daA [61-66]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – GIA \u0110\u00ccNH TRONG C\u00c1C V\u0102N KI\u1ec6N C\u1ee6A GI\u00c1O H\u1ed8I [67-70]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – B\u00cd T\u00cdCH H\u00d4N PH\u1ed0I [71-75]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – H\u1ea0T GI\u1ed0NG C\u1ee6A L\u1edcI V\u00c0 NH\u1eeeNG HO\u00c0N C\u1ea2NH B\u1ea4T TO\u00c0N [76-79]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – TH\u00d4NG TRUY\u1ec0N S\u1ef0 S\u1ed0NG V\u00c0 NU\u00d4I D\u1ea0Y CON C\u00c1I [80-85]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – GIA \u0110\u00ccNH V\u00c0 GI\u00c1O H\u1ed8I [86-88]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            CH\u01af\u01a0NG B\u1ed0N: T\u00ccNH Y\u00caU TRONG H\u00d4N NH\u00c2N [89-164]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             <\/strong>– T\u00ccNH Y\u00caU H\u1eb0NG NG\u00c0Y C\u1ee6A CH\u00daNG TA [90-119]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Y\u00eau th\u00ec nh\u1eabn nh\u1ee5c<\/em> [91-92]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Y\u00eau l\u00e0 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/em> [93-94]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Y\u00eau th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ghen t\u01b0\u01a1ng <\/em>[95-96]   <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Y\u00eau th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng v\u00eanh vang <\/em>[97-98]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Y\u00eau th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u00f4 l\u1ed7<\/em> [99-100]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Y\u00eau th\u00ec qu\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1i<\/em> [101-102]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Y\u00eau th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn, kh\u00f4ng nu\u00f4i h\u1eadn th\u00f9 <\/em>[103-104]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            T\u00ecnh y\u00eau tha th\u1ee9<\/em> [105-108]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Y\u00eau th\u00ec vui v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c <\/em>[109-110]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            T\u00ecnh y\u00eau bao dung t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 <\/em>[111-113]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            T\u00ecnh y\u00eau tin t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 <\/em>[114-115]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            T\u00ecnh y\u00eau hy v\u1ecdng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 <\/em>[116-117]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            T\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 <\/em>[118-119]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – L\u1edaN L\u00caN TRONG T\u00ccNH Y\u00caU PHU PH\u1ee4 [120-162]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Chia s\u1ebb su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi<\/em> [123-125]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p<\/em> [126-130]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            K\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau <\/em>[131-132]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            M\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau t\u1ef1 bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 v\u00e0 t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng<\/em> [133-135]   <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            \u0110\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i<\/em> [136-141]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            T\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111am m\u00ea<\/em> [142]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi x\u00fac c\u1ea3m<\/em> [143-146]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa y\u00eau th\u00edch ni\u1ec1m vui c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i Ng\u00e0i<\/em> [147-149]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Chi\u1ec1u k\u00edch nh\u1ee5c c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau<\/em> [150-152] <\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            B\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 l\u1ec7ch l\u1ea1c<\/em> [153-157]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 trinh khi\u1ebft<\/em> [158-162]   <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – S\u1ef0 CHUY\u1ec2N H\u00d3A C\u1ee6A T\u00ccNH Y\u00caU [163-164]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            CH\u01af\u01a0NG N\u0102M: L\u00c0M CHO T\u00ccNH Y\u00caU SINH HOA K\u1ebeT QU\u1ea2 [165-198]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             <\/strong>– \u0110\u00d3N NH\u1eacN M\u1ed8T S\u1ef0 S\u1ed0NG M\u1edaI [166-186]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            T\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c mang thai<\/em> [168-171]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha<\/em> [172-184]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 [c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa]<\/em> [185-186]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – \u0110\u1edcI S\u1ed0NG TRONG GIA \u0110\u00ccNH R\u1ed8NG L\u1edaN [187-198]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Ph\u1eadn l\u00e0m con <\/em>[188-190]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao tu\u1ed5i<\/em> [191-193]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            L\u00e0 anh ch\u1ecb em<\/em> [194-195] <\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            M\u1ed9t tr\u00e1i tim l\u1edbn<\/em> [196-198]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            CH\u01af\u01a0NG S\u00c1U: M\u1ed8T S\u1ed0 NH\u00c3N GI\u1edaI M\u1ee4C V\u1ee4 [199-258]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – LOAN B\u00c1O TIN M\u1eeaNG V\u1ec0 GIA \u0110\u00ccNH H\u00d4M NAY [200-204]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – CHU\u1ea8N B\u1eca H\u00d4N NH\u00c2N CHO C\u00c1C \u0110\u00d4I B\u1ea0N \u0110\u00cdNH H\u00d4N [205-216]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb c\u1eed h\u00e0nh h\u00f4n l\u1ec5 <\/em>[212-216]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – \u0110\u1ed2NG H\u00c0NH V\u1edaI NH\u1eeeNG N\u0102M \u0110\u1ea6U C\u1ee6A \u0110\u1edcI<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            S\u1ed0NG H\u00d4N NH\u00c2N [217-230]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            C\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ebf <\/em>[223-230]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – SOI S\u00c1NG NH\u1eeeNG KH\u1ee6NG HO\u1ea2NG, LO L\u1eaeNG<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            V\u00c0 KH\u00d3 KH\u0102N [231-252]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng<\/em> [232-238]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u0169<\/em> [239-240]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            \u0110\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh sau khi \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 v\u00e0 ly d\u1ecb <\/em>[241-246]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p<\/em> [247-252]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – KHI C\u00c1I CH\u1ebeT L\u00c0M CH\u00daNG TA C\u1ea2M NH\u1eacN N\u1ed6I \u0110AU [253-258]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            CH\u01af\u01a0NG B\u1ea2Y: \u0110\u1ec2 GI\u00c1O D\u1ee4C CON C\u00c1I T\u1ed0T H\u01a0N [259-290]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – CON C\u00c1I C\u1ee6A CH\u00daNG TA \u0110ANG \u1ede \u0110\u00c2U? [260-262]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – D\u1ea0Y \u0110\u1ea0O \u0110\u1ee8C CHO CON C\u00c1I [263-267]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – GI\u00c1 TR\u1eca C\u1ee6A S\u1ef0 S\u1eecA SAI NH\u01af M\u1ed8T C\u00c1CH KH\u00cdCH L\u1ec6 [268-270]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – TH\u1ef0C TI\u1ec4N M\u1ed8T C\u00c1CH KI\u00caN NH\u1eaaN [271-273]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – \u0110\u1edcI S\u1ed0NG GIA \u0110\u00ccNH NH\u01af M\u1ed8T KHUNG C\u1ea2NH GI\u00c1O D\u1ee4C [274-279]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – C\u1ea6N C\u00d3 GI\u00c1O D\u1ee4C GI\u1edaI T\u00cdNH [280-286]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – CHUY\u1ec2N TH\u00d4NG \u0110\u1ee8C TIN [287-290]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            CH\u01af\u01a0NG T\u00c1M: \u0110\u1ed2NG H\u00c0NH, PH\u00c2N \u0110\u1ecaNH, V\u00c0 H\u1ed8I NH\u1eacP S\u1ef0 Y\u1ebeU \u0110U\u1ed0I [291-312]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – T\u00cdNH TI\u1ec6M TI\u1ebeN TRONG S\u0102N S\u00d3C M\u1ee4C V\u1ee4 [293-295]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – PH\u00c2N \u0110\u1ecaNH NH\u1eeeNG HO\u00c0N C\u1ea2NH \u201cB\u1ea4T TH\u01af\u1edcNG\u201d [296-300]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – NH\u1eeeNG Y\u1ebeU T\u1ed0 GI\u1ea2M NH\u1eb8 TRONG PH\u00c2N \u0110\u1ecaNH M\u1ee4C V\u1ee4 [301-303]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – C\u00c1C QUI T\u1eaeC V\u00c0 S\u1ef0 PH\u00c2N \u0110\u1ecaNH [304-306]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – L\u00d4-G\u00cdC C\u1ee6A L\u00d2NG TH\u01af\u01a0NG X\u00d3T TRONG M\u1ee4C V\u1ee4 [307-312]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            CH\u01af\u01a0NG CH\u00cdN: LINH \u0110\u1ea0O H\u00d4N NH\u00c2N V\u00c0 GIA \u0110\u00ccNH [313-325]<\/strong><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – M\u1ed8T LINH \u0110\u1ea0O HI\u1ec6P TH\u00d4NG SI\u00caU NHI\u00caN [314-316]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – SUM H\u1eccP C\u1ea6U NGUY\u1ec6N TRONG \u00c1NH S\u00c1NG PH\u1ee4C SINH [317-318]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – M\u1ed8T LINH \u0110\u1ea0O C\u1ee6A T\u00ccNH Y\u00caU T\u1ef0 DO V\u00c0 \u0110\u1ed8C H\u1eeeU [319-320]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – M\u1ed8T LINH \u0110\u1ea0O QUAN T\u00c2M, AN \u1ee6I V\u00c0 KH\u00cdCH L\u1ec6 [321-324]<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            ———————————————<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [1]<\/a> GIOAN PHAOL\u00d4 II, T\u00f4ng Hu\u1ea5n Familiaris Consortio<\/em> (22.11.1981), 14: AAS 74 (1982), 96.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [2]<\/a> B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (11.02.2015): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 12.02.2015, tr. 8.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [3]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [4]<\/a> B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (8.4.2015): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 9.4.2015, tr. 8.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [5]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [6]<\/a> Cf. VATICAN II, Hi\u1ebfn Ch\u1ebf M\u1ee5c V\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i Trong Th\u1ebf Gi\u1edbi Ng\u00e0y Nay Gaudium et Spes<\/em>, 51: \u201cT\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y x\u00e1c t\u00edn r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 chuy\u1ec3n th\u00f4ng n\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i m\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng ch\u00e2n tr\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y: gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u trong qui chi\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1eadn m\u1ec7nh v\u0129nh c\u1eedu c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta\u201d.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [7]<\/a> Th\u01b0 g\u1eedi T\u1ed5ng Th\u01b0 K\u00fd Li\u00ean Hi\u1ec7p Qu\u1ed1c v\u1ec1 D\u00e2n S\u1ed1 v\u00e0 Ph\u00e1t Tri\u1ec3n <\/em>(18 March 1994): Insegnamenti<\/em> XVII\/1 (1994), 750-751.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [8]<\/a> GIOAN PHAOL\u00d4 II, B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (12.3.1980), 3: Insegnamenti<\/em> III\/1 (1980), 543.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [9]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [10]<\/a> Di\u1ec5n t\u1eeb t\u1ea1i Cu\u1ed9c G\u1eb7p G\u1ee1 c\u00e1c Gia \u0110\u00ecnh \u1edf Manila<\/em> (16.01.2015): AAS 107 (2015), 176.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [11]<\/a> B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (11.02.2015): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 12.02.2015, tr. 8.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [12]<\/a> B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (14.10.2015): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 15.10.2015, tr. 8.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [13]<\/a> H\u1ed8I \u0110\u1ed2NG GI\u00c1M M\u1ee4C AUSTRALIA, Th\u01b0 M\u1ee5c V\u1ee5 \u0110\u1eebng L\u1ed9n X\u1ed9n v\u1edbi H\u00f4n Nh\u00e2n<\/em> (24.11.2015), 13.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [14]<\/a> VATICAN II, Hi\u1ebfn Ch\u1ebf M\u1ee5c V\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i Trong Th\u1ebf Gi\u1edbi Ng\u00e0y Nay Gaudium et Spes<\/em>, 50.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [15]<\/a> GIOAN PHAOL\u00d4 II, B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (12.3.1980), 2: Insegnamenti<\/em> III\/1 (1980), 542.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [16]<\/a> Cf. id., T\u00f4ng Th\u01b0 Mulieris Dignitatem<\/em> (15.8.1988), 30-31: AAS 80 (1988), 1726-1729.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [17]<\/a> B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (7.01.2015): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 7-8.01.2015, tr. 8.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [18]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [19]<\/a> B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (28.01.2015): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 29.01.2015, tr. 8.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [20]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [21]<\/a> Cf. Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh chung k\u1ebft<\/em> 2015, 28.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [22]<\/a> B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (4.02.2015), L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 5.02.2015, tr. 8.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [23]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [24]<\/a> VATICAN II, Hi\u1ebfn Ch\u1ebf M\u1ee5c V\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i Trong Th\u1ebf Gi\u1edbi Ng\u00e0y Nay Gaudium et Spes<\/em>, 50.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [25]<\/a> H\u1ed8I NGH\u1eca KHO\u00c1NG \u0110\u1ea0I L\u1ea6N TH\u1ee8 N\u0102M H\u1ed8I \u0110\u1ed2NG GI\u00c1M M\u1ee4C M\u1ef8 LA TINH V\u00c0 V\u00d9NG CA-RI-B\u00ca, Aparecida Document<\/em> (29.6.2007), No. 457.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [26]<\/a> Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh chung k\u1ebft<\/em> 2015, 65.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [27]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [28]<\/a> Di\u1ec5n t\u1eeb t\u1ea1i Cu\u1ed9c G\u1eb7p G\u1ee1 C\u00e1c Gia \u0110\u00ecnh \u1edf Manila<\/em> (16.01.2015): AAS 107 (2015), 178.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [29]<\/a> MARIO BENEDETTI, \u201cTe Quiero\u201d, trong Poemas de otros<\/em>, Buenos Aires 1993, 316: \u201c\u201cTus manos son mi caricia \/ mis acordes cotidianos \/ te quiero porque tus manos \/ trabajan por la justicia. \/\/ Si te quiero es porque sos \/ mi amor mi c\u00f3mplice y todo \/ y en la calle codo a codo \/ somos mucho m\u00e1s que dos.<\/em><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [30]<\/a> Cf. B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (16.9.2015): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 17.9.2015, tr. 8.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [31]<\/a> B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (7.10.2015): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 9.10.2015, tr. 8.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [32]<\/a> B\u00caN\u00ca\u0110ICT\u00d4 XVI, Th\u00f4ng \u0110i\u1ec7p Deus Caritas Est<\/em> (25.12.2005), 14: AAS 98 (2006), 228.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [33]<\/a> Cf. Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh chung k\u1ebft<\/em> 2015, 11.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [34]<\/a> B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (18.3.2015): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 19.3.2015, tr. 8.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [35]<\/a> B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (11.01.2015): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 12.02.2015, tr. 8.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [36]<\/a> Cf. Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh chung k\u1ebft<\/em> 2015, 17-18.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [37]<\/a> B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (4.3.2015): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 5.3.2015, tr. 8.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [38]<\/a> B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (11.3.2015): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 12 .3.2015, tr. 8.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [39]<\/a> GIOAN PHAOL\u00d4 II, T\u00f4ng Hu\u1ea5n Familiaris Consortio<\/em> (22.11.1981), AAS 74 (1982), 113.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [40]<\/a> ID., Di\u1ec5n t\u1eeb cho c\u00e1c Tham D\u1ef1 Vi\u00ean t\u1ea1i \u201cDi\u1ec5n \u0111\u00e0n Qu\u1ed1c t\u1ebf v\u1ec1 Tu\u1ed5i Gi\u00e0 N\u0103ng \u0110\u1ed9ng\u201d<\/em> (5.9.1980), 5: Insegnamenti<\/em> III\/2 (1980), 539.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [41]<\/a> Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh chung k\u1ebft<\/em> 2015, 18.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [42]<\/a> B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (4.3.2015): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 5.3.2015, tr. 8.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [43]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [44]<\/a> Di\u1ec5n t\u1eeb t\u1ea1i \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ed9i Ng\u01b0\u1eddi Cao Tu\u1ed5i<\/em> (28.9.2014): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 29-30.9.2014, tr. 7.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [45]<\/a> B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (18.02.2015): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 19.01.2015, tr. 8.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [46]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [47]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [48]<\/a> GIOAN PHAOL\u00d4 II, T\u00f4ng Hu\u1ea5n Familiaris Consortio<\/em> (22.11.1981), 18: AAS 74 (1982), 101.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [49]<\/a> B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (7.10.2015): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 8.10.2015), tr. 8.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [50]<\/a> Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh TH\u0110.<\/em> 2014, 30.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [51]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>., 31.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [52]<\/a> Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh chung k\u1ebft<\/em> 2015, 56.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [53]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>., 89.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [54]<\/a> Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh TH\u0110.<\/em> 2014, 32.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [55]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>., 33.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [56]<\/a> Ibid.<\/em>, 38.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [57]<\/a> Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh chung k\u1ebft<\/em> 2015, 77.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [58]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>., 61.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [59]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [60]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [61]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [62]<\/a> Cf. Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh TH\u0110.<\/em> 2014, 26.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [63]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>., 39.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [64]<\/a> H\u1ed8I \u0110\u1ed2NG GI\u00c1M M\u1ee4C ITALIA, \u1ee6y Ban Gi\u00e1m M\u1ee5c v\u1ec1 Gia \u0110\u00ecnh v\u00e0 S\u1ef1 S\u1ed1ng, Orientamenti pastorali sulla preparazione al matrimonio e alla famiglia <\/em>(22.10.2012), 1.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [65]<\/a> INHAXI\u00d4 L\u00d4Y\u00d4LA, Linh Thao<\/em>, Ch\u00fa th\u00edch 2.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [66]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>., Ch\u00fa th\u00edch 5.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [67]<\/a> GIOAN PHAOL\u00d4 II, B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (27.6.1984), 4: Insegnamenti<\/em> VII\/1 (1984), 1941.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [68]<\/a> B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (21.10.2015): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 22.10.2015, tr. 12.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [69]<\/a> H\u1ed8I \u0110\u1ed2NG GI\u00c1M M\u1ee4C C\u00d4NG GI\u00c1O K\u00caNYA, S\u1ee9 \u0110i\u1ec7p M\u00f9a Chay <\/em>(18.02.2015).<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [70]<\/a> Cf. PI\u00d4 XI, Th\u00f4ng \u0110i\u1ec7p Casti Connubii<\/em> (31.12.1930): AAS 22 (1930), 583.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [71]<\/a> GIOAN PHAOL\u00d4 II, B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (4.7.1984), 3, 6: Insegnamenti<\/em> VII\/2 (1984), tr. 9, 10.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [72]<\/a> Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh chung k\u1ebft<\/em> 2015, 59.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [73]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>., 63.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [74]<\/a> VATICAN II, Hi\u1ebfn Ch\u1ebf M\u1ee5c V\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i Trong Th\u1ebf Gi\u1edbi Ng\u00e0y Nay Gaudium et Spes<\/em>, 50.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [75]<\/a> Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh chung k\u1ebft<\/em> 2015, 63.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [76]<\/a> Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh TH\u0110.<\/em> 2014, 40.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [77]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>., 34.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [78]<\/a> Kh\u00fac Linh Ca<\/em> B<\/em>, XXV, 11.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [79]<\/a> Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh TH\u0110.<\/em> 2014, 44.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [80]<\/a> Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh chung k\u1ebft<\/em> 2015, 81.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [81]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>., 78.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [82]<\/a> B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (24.6.2015): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 25.6.2015, tr. 8.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [83]<\/a> GIOAN PHAOL\u00d4 II, T\u00f4ng Hu\u1ea5n Familiaris Consortio<\/em> (22.11.1981), 83: AAS 74 (1982), 184.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [84]<\/a> Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh TH\u0110.<\/em> 2014, 47.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [85]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>., 50.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [86]<\/a> B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (5.8.2015): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 6.8.2015, tr. 7.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [87]<\/a> Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh TH\u0110.<\/em> 2014, 51; cf. Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh chung k\u1ebft<\/em> 2015, 84.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [88]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>., 48.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [89]<\/a> T\u1ef1 S\u1eafc Mitis Iudex<\/em> Dominus Iesus<\/em> (15.8.2015): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 9.9.2015, tr. 3-4; cf. T\u1ef1 S\u1eafc Mitis et Misericors Iesus<\/em> (15.8.2015): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 9.9.2015, tr. 5-6.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [90]<\/a> T\u1ef1 S\u1eafc Mitis Iudex Dominus Iesus<\/em> (15.8.2015), L\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ea7u, III: L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 9.9.2015, tr. 3.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [91]<\/a> Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh chung k\u1ebft<\/em> 2015, 82.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [92]<\/a> Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh TH\u0110<\/em>. 2014, 47.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [93]<\/a> B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (20.5.2015): L\u2018Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 21.5.2015, tr. 8.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [94]<\/a> B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (24.6.2015): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 25.6.2015, tr. 8.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [95]<\/a> B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (5.8.2015): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 6.8.2015, tr. 7.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [96]<\/a> Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh chung k\u1ebft<\/em> 2015, 72.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [97]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>., 73.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [98]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>., 74.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [99]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>., 75.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [100]<\/a> Cf. T\u00f4ng S\u1eafc Misericordiae Vultus<\/em>, 12: AAS 107 (2015), 407.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [101]<\/a> Gi\u00e1o l\u00fd H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh C\u00f4ng Gi\u00e1o<\/em>, 2358; cf. Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh chung k\u1ebft<\/em> 2015, 76.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [102]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [103]<\/a> Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh chung k\u1ebft<\/em> 2015, 76; cf. TH\u00c1NH B\u1ed8 GI\u00c1O L\u00dd \u0110\u1ee8C TIN, Nh\u1eefng xem x\u00e9t li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb trao s\u1ef1 nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn h\u1ee3p ph\u00e1p cho nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh <\/em>(3.6.2003), 4.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [104]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>., 80.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [105]<\/a> Cf. ibid<\/em>., 20.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [106]<\/a> B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (17.6.2015): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 18.6.2015, tr. 8.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [107]<\/a> Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh chung k\u1ebft<\/em> 2015, 19.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [108]<\/a> B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (17.6.2015): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 18.6.2015, tr. 8.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [109]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [110]<\/a> Cf. Gi\u00e1o l\u00fd H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh C\u00f4ng Gi\u00e1o<\/em>, 958.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [111]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [112]<\/a> Cf. T\u00caR\u00caSA LISIEUX, Nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c chuy\u1ec7n cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng: Cu\u1ed1n \u201cs\u1ed5 m\u00e0u v\u00e0ng\u201d c\u1ee7a M\u1eb9 Agn\u00e8s<\/em>, 17.7.1897, trong To\u00e0n T\u1eadp<\/em>, Paris, 1996, 1050. C\u00e1c ch\u1ecb em C\u00e1t minh c\u1ee7a Th\u00e1nh n\u1eef n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi h\u1ee9a c\u1ee7a T\u00ear\u00easa r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n t\u1eeb tr\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a ng\u00e0i \u201cgi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 c\u01a1n m\u01b0a hoa h\u1ed3ng\u201d (ibid<\/em>., 9.6.1897, 1013).<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [113]<\/a> JORDAN OF SAXONY, Libellus de principiis Ordinis Praedicatorum<\/em>, 93: Monumenta Historica Sancti Patris Nostri Dominici<\/em>, XVI, Rome, 1935, p. 69.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [114]<\/a> Cf. Gi\u00e1o l\u00fd H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh C\u00f4ng Gi\u00e1o<\/em>, 957.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [115]<\/a> VATICAN II, Hi\u1ebfn Ch\u1ebf T\u00edn l\u00fd v\u1ec1 Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i Lumen Gentium<\/em>, 49.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [116]<\/a> T\u00f4ng Hu\u1ea5n Evangelii Gaudium<\/em> (24.11.2013), 222: AAS 105 (2013), 1111.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [117]<\/a> B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (20.5.2015): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 21.5.2015, tr. 8.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [118]<\/a> VATICAN II, Hi\u1ebfn Ch\u1ebf M\u1ee5c V\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i Trong Th\u1ebf Gi\u1edbi Ng\u00e0y Nay Gaudium et Spes<\/em>, 17.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [119]<\/a> B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (30.9.2015): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 1.10.2015, tr. 8.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [120]<\/a> B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (10.6.2015): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 11.6.2015, tr. 8.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [121]<\/a> Cf. Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh chung k\u1ebft<\/em> 2015, 67.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [122]<\/a> B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd <\/em>(20.5.2015): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 21.5.2015, tr. 8.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [123]<\/a> B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (9.9.2015): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 10.9.2015, tr. 8.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [124]<\/a> Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh chung k\u1ebft<\/em> 2015, 68.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [125]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>., 58.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [126]<\/a> VATICAN II, Tuy\u00ean Ng\u00f4n v\u1ec1 Gi\u00e1o D\u1ee5c C\u00f4ng Gi\u00e1o Gravissimum Educationis<\/em>, 1.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [127]<\/a> Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh chung k\u1ebft<\/em> 2015, 56.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [128]<\/a> ERICH FROMM, Ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt Y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/em>, New York, 1956, tr. 54.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [129]<\/a> Th\u00f4ng \u0110i\u1ec7p Laudato Si\u2019<\/em> (24.5.2015), 155.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [130]<\/a> B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (15.4.2015): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 16.4.2015, tr. 8.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [131]<\/a> Cf. Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh chung k\u1ebft<\/em> 2015, 13-14.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [132]<\/a> AUGUSTIN\u00d4, De sancta virginitate<\/em> 7,7: PL 40, 400.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [133]<\/a> B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (26.8.2015): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 27.8.2015, tr. 8.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [134]<\/a> Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh chung k\u1ebft<\/em> 2015, 89.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [135]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>., 93.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [136]<\/a> Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh TH\u0110.<\/em> 2014, 24.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [137]<\/a> Ibid.,<\/em> 25.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [138]<\/a> Ibid.<\/em>, 28.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [139]<\/a> Cf. ibid.<\/em>, 41, 43; Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh chung k\u1ebft<\/em> 2015, 70.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [140]<\/a> Ibid.<\/em>, 27.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [141]<\/a> Ibid.<\/em>, 26.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [142]<\/a> Ibid.<\/em>, 41.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [143]<\/a> Ibid.<\/em><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [144]<\/a> Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh chung k\u1ebft<\/em> 2015, 71.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [145]<\/a> Cf. ibid.<\/em><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [146]<\/a> Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh TH\u0110<\/em>. 2014, 42.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [147]<\/a> Ibid.<\/em>, 43.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [148]<\/a> T\u00f4ng Hu\u1ea5n Familiaris Consortio<\/em> (22.11.1981) ), 34: AAS 74 (1982), 123.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [149]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>., 9: AAS 74 (1982), 90.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [150]<\/a> Cf. B\u00e0i gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (24.6.2015): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 25.6.2015, tr. 8.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [151]<\/a> B\u00e0i gi\u1ea3ng Th\u00e1nh L\u1ec5 c\u1eed h\u00e0nh v\u1edbi c\u00e1c H\u1ed3ng y m\u1edbi<\/em> (15.2.2015): AAS 107 (2015), 257.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [152]<\/a> Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh chung k\u1ebft<\/em> 2015, 51.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [153]<\/a> Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh TH\u0110<\/em>. 2014, 25.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [154]<\/a> GIOAN PHAOL\u00d4 II, T\u00f4ng Hu\u1ea5n Familiaris Consortio<\/em> (22.11.1981), 84: AAS 74 (1982), 186. Trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi, bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng s\u1ed1ng \u201cnh\u01b0 anh ch\u1ecb em\u201d m\u00e0 Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb, ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu thi\u1ebfu \u0111i m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 s\u1ef1 di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 m\u1eadt thi\u1ebft, \u201cth\u00ec s\u1ef1 trung th\u00e0nh th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecb l\u00e2m nguy v\u00e0 thi\u1ec7n \u00edch c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng\u201d (VATICAN II, Hi\u1ebfn Ch\u1ebf M\u1ee5c V\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i Trong Th\u1ebf Gi\u1edbi H\u00f4m Nay Gaudium et Spes<\/em>, 51).<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [155]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [156]<\/a> Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh TH\u0110.<\/em> 2014, 26.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [157]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>., 45.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [158]<\/a> B\u00caN\u00ca\u0110ICT\u00d4 XVI, Di\u1ec5n t\u1eeb t\u1ea1i \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ed9i C\u00e1c Gia \u0110\u00ecnh Th\u1ebf Gi\u1edbi L\u1ea7n Th\u1ee9 B\u1ea3y \u1edf Milan<\/em> (2.6.2012), C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi s\u1ed1 5: Insegnamenti VIII\/1 (2012), 691.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [159]<\/a> Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh chung k\u1ebft<\/em> 2015, 84.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [160]<\/a> Ibid.<\/em>, 51.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [161]<\/a> \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt b\u00ed t\u00edch, v\u00ec s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng trong m\u1ed9t ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh ri\u00eang, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i l\u1ed7i ph\u1ea1m n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 n\u00e0o. Trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, s\u1ebd \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i trong m\u1ed9t v\u0103n ki\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c: cf. Evangelii Gaudium<\/em> (24.11.2013), 44 v\u00e0 47: AAS 105 (2013), 1038-1040.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [162]<\/a> Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh chung k\u1ebft<\/em> 2015, 85.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [163]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>., 86.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [164]<\/a> GIOAN PHAOL\u00d4 II, T\u00f4ng Hu\u1ea5n Familiaris Consortio<\/em> (22.11.1981), 33: AAS 74 (1982), 121.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [165]<\/a> Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh chung k\u1ebft<\/em> 2015, 51.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [166]<\/a> Cf. Summa Theologiae<\/em> I-II, q. 65, art. 3 ad 2; De Malo, q. 2, art. 2.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [167]<\/a> Ibid.<\/em>, ad 3.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [168]<\/a> S\u1ed1 1735.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [169]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>., 2352; TH\u00c1NH B\u1ed8 GI\u00c1O L\u00dd \u0110\u1ee8C TIN, Tuy\u00ean Ng\u00f4n v\u1ec1 C\u00e1i Ch\u1ebft \u00cam D\u1ecbu (5.5.1980), II: AAS 72 (1980), 546; Gioan Phaol\u00f4 II, khi ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 ph\u1ea1m tr\u00f9 \u201cs\u1ef1 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng\u201d, \u0111\u00e3 nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng \u201cch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p r\u1ea5t ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p v\u00e0 m\u1eadp m\u1edd t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t quan \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u1ea5y c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng tr\u00ean m\u1ee9c t\u1ed9i ch\u1ee7 quan c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta\u201d (T\u00f4ng Hu\u1ea5n Reconciliatio et Paenitentia<\/em> [2.12.1984], 17: AAS 77 [1985], 223).<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [170]<\/a> X. H\u1ed8I \u0110\u1ed2NG GI\u00c1O HO\u00c0NG V\u1ec0 C\u00c1C B\u1ea2N V\u0102N LU\u1eacT, Tuy\u00ean B\u1ed1 v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c \u0110\u00f3n nh\u1eadn c\u00e1c t\u00edn h\u1eefu ly d\u1ecb v\u00e0 t\u00e1i h\u00f4n v\u00e0o r\u01b0\u1edbc l\u1ec5 (24.6.2000), 2.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [171]<\/a> Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh chung k\u1ebft<\/em> 2015, 85.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [172]<\/a> Summa Theologiae<\/em>, I-II, q. 94, art. 4.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [173]<\/a> Trong m\u1ed9t b\u1ea3n v\u0103n kh\u00e1c, qui chi\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft t\u1ed5ng qu\u00e1t v\u1ec1 qui t\u1eafc v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, Th\u00e1nh T\u00f4ma tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 r\u1eb1ng \u201c\u01b0\u1edbc g\u00ec c\u00f3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t trong hai s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft \u1ea5y, v\u00e0 s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n n\u1ebfu \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3, b\u1edfi n\u00f3 g\u1ea7n v\u1edbi th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf\u201d: Sententia libri Ethicorum, VI, 6 (ed. Leonina, t. XLVII, 354.)<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [174]<\/a> Di\u1ec5n t\u1eeb B\u1ebf m\u1ea1c Phi\u00ean H\u1ecdp Kho\u00e1ng \u0110\u1ea1i Th\u01b0\u1eddng K\u1ef3 Th\u1ee9 M\u01b0\u1eddi B\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a Th\u01b0\u01a1ng H\u1ed9i \u0110\u1ed3ng Gi\u00e1m M\u1ee5c<\/em> (24.10.2015): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 26-27.10.2015, tr. 13.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [175]<\/a> \u1ee6Y BAN TH\u1ea6N H\u1eccC QU\u1ed0C T\u1ebe, T\u00ecm Ki\u1ebfm M\u1ed9t N\u1ec1n \u0110\u1ea1o \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1ed5 Qu\u00e1t: M\u1ed9t C\u00e1i Nh\u00ecn M\u1edbi V\u1ec1 Lu\u1eadt T\u1ef1 Nhi\u00ean<\/em> (2009), 59.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [176]<\/a> Trong m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bao g\u1ed3m s\u1ef1 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c b\u00ed t\u00edch. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, \u201ct\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eafc c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c r\u1eb1ng t\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i t\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed3ng tra t\u1ea5n, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 v\u1edbi l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa\u201d (T\u00f4ng Hu\u1ea5n Evangelii Gaudium <\/em>[24.11.2013], 44: AAS 105 [2013], 1038). T\u00f4i c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng B\u00ed t\u00edch Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n thu\u1edfng cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng d\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea7y hi\u1ec7u n\u0103ng v\u00e0 l\u00e0 d\u01b0\u1ee1ng ch\u1ea5t cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i\u201d (ibid., 47: 1039).<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [177]<\/a> T\u00f4ng Hu\u1ea5n Evangelii Gaudium<\/em> (24.11.2013), 44: AAS 105 (2013), 1038-1039.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [178]<\/a> De Catechizandis Rudibus<\/em>, I, 14, 22: PL 40, 327; cf. T\u00f4ng Hu\u1ea5n Evangelii Gaudium<\/em> (24.11.2013), 194: AAS 105 (2013), 1101.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [179]<\/a> Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh TH\u0110<\/em>. 2014, 26.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [180]<\/a> T\u00f4ng Hu\u1ea5n Evangelii Gaudium<\/em> (24.11.2013), 44: AAS 105 (2013), 1038.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [181]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>., 45.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [182]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>., 270.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [183]<\/a> T\u00f4ng S\u1eafc Misericordiae Vultus<\/em> (11.4.2015), 12: AAS 107 (2015): 407.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [184]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>., 5: 402.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [185]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>., 9: 405.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [186]<\/a> Ibid<\/em>., 10: 406.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [187]<\/a> T\u00f4ng Hu\u1ea5n Evangelii Gaudium<\/em> (24.11.2013), 47: AAS 105 (2013), 1040.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [188]<\/a> Cf. ibid<\/em>., 36-37: AAS 105 (2013), 1035.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [189]<\/a> C\u00f3 l\u1ebd do m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c che \u0111\u1eady b\u1edfi nhi\u1ec7t t\u00e2m trung th\u00e0nh v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 linh m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi c\u00e1c h\u1ed1i nh\u00e2n m\u1ed9t quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa r\u1ea5t thi\u1ebfu t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb, \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i l\u00e0m cho l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t b\u1ecb che m\u1edd b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 theo \u0111u\u1ed5i m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng l\u00fd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 thu\u1ea7n t\u00fay. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, s\u1ebd h\u1eefu \u00edch vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a Th\u00e1nh Gi\u00e1o ho\u00e0ng Gioan Phaol\u00f4 II, khi ng\u00e0i tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 r\u1eb1ng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 sa ng\u00e3 m\u1edbi \u201ckh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta nghi ng\u1edd s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a l\u00f2ng quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m\u201d (Th\u01b0 g\u1eedi H\u1ed3ng y William W. Baum d\u1ecbp t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c kh\u00f3a v\u1ec1 T\u00f2a Trong<\/em> [22.3.1996], 5: Insegnamenti <\/em>XIX\/1 [1996], 589).<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [190]<\/a> \u1ee6Y BAN TH\u1ea6N H\u1eccC QU\u1ed0C T\u1ebe, Hy V\u1ecdng \u01a0n C\u1ee9u \u0110\u1ed9 Cho Nh\u1eefng Tr\u1ebb Em Ch\u1ebft M\u00e0 Ch\u01b0a L\u00e3nh Ph\u00e9p R\u1eeda<\/em> (19.4.2007), 2.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [191]<\/a> T\u00f4ng S\u1eafc Misericordiae Vultus<\/em> (11.4.2015), 15: AAS 107 (2015), 409.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [192]<\/a> S\u1eafc L\u1ec7nh v\u1ec1 T\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3 Gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n Apostolicam Actuositatem<\/em>, 4.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [193]<\/a> X. ibid<\/em>.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [194]<\/a> VATICAN II, Hi\u1ebfn Ch\u1ebf M\u1ee5c V\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i Trong Th\u1ebf Gi\u1edbi H\u00f4m Nay, Gaudium et Spes<\/em>, 49.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [195]<\/a> Th\u00f4ng \u0110i\u1ec7p Deus Caritas Est<\/em> (25.12.2005), 16: AAS 98 (2006), 230.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [196]<\/a> Ibid.<\/em>, 39: AAS 98 (2006), 250.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [197]<\/a> GIOAN PHAOL\u00d4 II, T\u00f4ng Hu\u1ea5n Christifideles Laici<\/em> (30.12.1988), 40: AAS 81 (1989), 468.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [198]<\/a> Ibid.<\/em><\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [199]<\/a> Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh chung k\u1ebft<\/em> 2015, 87.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [200]<\/a> GIOAN PHAOL\u00d4 II, T\u00f4ng Hu\u1ea5n Vita Consecrata<\/em> (25.3.1996), 42: AAS 88 (1996), 416.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [201]<\/a> Cf. Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh chung k\u1ebft<\/em> 2015, 87.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [202]<\/a> Cf. GIOAN PHAOL\u00d4 II, T\u00f4ng Hu\u1ea5n Familiaris Consortio<\/em> (22.11.1981), 57: AAS 74 (1982), 150.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [203]<\/a> Ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00ean r\u1eb1ng giao \u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u1edbi d\u00e2n Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t h\u00f4n \u01b0\u1edbc (cf. Ed 16,8. 60; Is 62,5; Hs 2,21-22), v\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng giao \u01b0\u1edbc m\u1edbi c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00ednh h\u00f4n (x. Kh 19,7; 21,2; Ep 5,25).<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [204]<\/a> VATICAN II, Hi\u1ebfn Ch\u1ebf T\u00edn L\u00fd v\u1ec1 Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i, Lumen Gentium<\/em>, 11.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [205]<\/a> GIOAN PHAOL\u00d4 II, T\u00f4ng Hu\u1ea5n Familiaris Consortio<\/em> (22.11.1981), 11: AAS 74 (1982), 93.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [206]<\/a> Id., B\u00e0i gi\u1ea3ng trong Th\u00e1nh L\u1ec5 v\u1edbi C\u00e1c Gia \u0110\u00ecnh<\/em>, Cordoba, Argentina (8.4.1987), 4: Insegnamenti X\/1 (1987), 1161-1162.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [207]<\/a> Cf. Gemeinsames Leben<\/em>, Munich, 1973, tr. 18. Anh ng\u1eef: S\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau<\/em>, New York, 1954, tr. 27.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [208]<\/a> VATICAN II, S\u1eafc L\u1ec7nh v\u1ec1 T\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3 Gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n Apostolicam Actuositatem<\/em>, 11.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [209]<\/a> B\u00e0i Gi\u00e1o l\u00fd<\/em> (10.6.2015): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 11.6.2015, tr. 8.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [210]<\/a> GIOAN PHAOL\u00d4 II, T\u00f4ng Hu\u1ea5n Familiaris Consortio<\/em> (22.11.1981), 12: AAS 74 (1982), 93.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [211]<\/a> Di\u1ec5n t\u1eeb t\u1ea1i bu\u1ed5i Canh Th\u1ee9c \u0110\u1ea1i H\u1ed9i C\u00e1c Gia \u0110\u00ecnh<\/em>, Philadelphia (26.9.2015): L\u2019Osservatore Romano<\/em>, 28-29.9.2015, tr. 6.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [212]<\/a> GABRIEL MARCEL, Homo Viator: prol\u00e9gom\u00e8nes \u00e0 une m\u00e9taphysique de l\u2019esp\u00e9rance<\/em>, Paris, 1944, tr. 66. Anh ng\u1eef: Homo Viator. D\u1eabn nh\u1eadp v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t Si\u00eau h\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 Hy V\u1ecdng<\/em>, London, 1951, tr. 49.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [213]<\/a> Ph\u00fac tr\u00ecnh chung k\u1ebft<\/em> 2015, 88.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [214]<\/a> Cf. GIOAN PHAOL\u00d4 II, T\u00f4ng Hu\u1ea5n Familiaris Consortio<\/em> (22.11.1981), 44: AAS 74 (1982), 136.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [215]<\/a> Ibid.<\/em>, 49: AAS 74 (1982), 141.<\/p>\n

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            [216]<\/a> V\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh, x. H\u1ed8I \u0110\u1ed2NG GI\u00c1O HO\u00c0NG V\u1ec0 C\u00d4NG L\u00dd V\u00c0 H\u00d2A B\u00ccNH, H\u1ee3p tuy\u1ec3n Gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i<\/em>, 248-254.<\/p>\n

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